April 14, 2015
I wish to thank all the women who’ve shared their experiences with Depo-Provera in the three years since this blog post was published. Comments are now closed. You can find more information here: Stopping Depo-Provera: Why and what to do about adverse experiences
Those concerned about Depo-Provera and bone density may want to read Depo-Provera Use and Bone Health recently posted at the Centre for Menstrual Cycle and Ovulation Research.
Laura Wershler
Need proof that women are sometimes desperate for information and support when it comes to quitting hormonal contraception? You need look no further than the 100 plus comments in reply to an old blog posting at Our Bodies Ourselves: Questions About Side Effects of Stopping Contraceptive Injections. The comment stream – a litany of woes concerning women’s discontinuation of Depo-Provera – has been active since Nov. 2, 2009.
On March 29, 2012, Rachel, author of the post, wrote a follow-up piece in which she laments: “Although a quick internet search finds many women complaining of or asking about post-Depo symptoms, there isn’t much published scientific evidence on the topic.” Beyond research about bone density and length of time to return to fertility, little is known about the withdrawal symptoms women have been commenting about.
Depo-Provera is the 4-times-a-year birth control injection that carries an FDA “black box” warning that long-term use is associated with significant bone mineral density loss. Never a fan, I made a case against this contraceptive in a paper for Canadian Woman Studies, published in 2005. The comments on the OBOS post indicate that many women took Depo-Provera without full knowledge of the potential for serious side effects while taking it, or of what to expect while coming off the drug.
Considering that Depo-Provera completely suppresses normal reproductive endocrine function, it is not surprising that many women experience extreme or confusing symptoms once stopping it. Take Lissa’s comment for example, posted on February 21, 2011:
Omg I thought I was tripping. I have been on depo for a year and stopped in jan. My breasts constantly hurt, I put on weight, have hot flashes, and sleeping problems. I pray everyday my cycle returns and stops playing with me. I only spot lightly.
Two and a half years after publication, the original article continues to garner monthly comments. I’ve read most of them and have yet to see one that offers concrete advice or a referral to resources that provide information and support to women looking for both. One such resource is Coming Off The Pill, the Patch, the Shot and Other Hormonal Contraceptives, a comprehensive, clinical-based guide to assist women transition back to menstruation and fertility, written by Megan Lalonde and Geraldine Matus.
Lalonde, a Holistic Reproductive Health Practitioner, and Certified Professional Midwife, helps women establish healthy, ovulatory cycles after using hormonal contraception. She says that women who’ve used Depo-Provera generally experience the most obvious symptoms and have the hardest time returning to fertility. She finds that every client’s experience is different and will be affected by the status of their cycles before taking the drug, and their overall health. “It can take time to regain normal menstrual cycles, from a few months to 18 months, in my experience,” says Lalonde. “Some women have minimal symptoms while their own cycles resume, while others might have significant symptoms, including mood changes, unusual spotting and breast tenderness.”
The comments to the Our Bodies Ourselves blog post demonstrate that many women are not finding the acknowledgement and support they need to understand and manage the post-Depo transition. Some are disheartening to read, like this comment by Judy from April 12, 2011, and this recent one posted by Melani on March 21, 2012.
In my last re: Cycling post, I asked for input on the Coming Off the Pill Mind Map I created. I’ll be making a few revisions thanks to the thoughtful feedback readers have provided. I had assumed that this guide would be applicable to all methods of hormonal birth control but, after reading these women’s comments about their Depo-Provera experiences, it appears this contraceptive may require its own branch on the mind map.
Women are not aware that Depo Provera is used as a castration drug for chronic sex offenders in Delaware, Texas and other states according to data provided by the National Conference of State Legislatures.
“In Delaware, some convicted offenders have entered programs in which they are treated with medroxy progesterone acetate —- popularly called Depo-Provera. The drug is supposed to reduce both sex drive and sexual fantasies in men who take it. It is the drug that States such as California use for chemical castration.”
https://holyhormones.com/birth-control/sussex-lawmaker-proposes-chemical-castration/
If Depo was marketed as a chemical castration drug for chronic sex offenders would women be lining up to get the injection for birth control? I think not.
No wonder women feel like they are ‘tripping’ when coming off the drug – or are having a hard time with their fertility.
Was where the informed consent on this medical experiment?
Thanks for posting this Laura. It is amazing to me how often the repercussions of coming OFF hormonal drugs is overlooked by women’s doctors and how rarely women are forewarned of these issues. While this issue is ubiquitous in my work helping women come off hormonal contraception – so much so that I barely think about it anymore, it was actually driven home for me a few months ago when it impacted my mother. Now 58, she recently passed her five year mark post breast cancer treatment. She was taken off Tamoxifen, which is used to treat estrogen-dependent breast cancer, and within a few days started experiencing unusual symptoms, including extreme fatigue, spotting (she hadn’t had a period in at least two years) and more. She was getting quite frightened until I pointed out the likely connection between the two events – coming off the drug which is both an agonist and antagonist to estrogen-receptors – and experiencing these side effects. She was never warned by a doctor about these potential side effects and she may never have put the two issues together if I hadn’t mentioned it. All this points to the importance of educating women on the natural function of a woman’s reproductive system so that when a woman chooses to start or stop a course of medication that interferes with these functions, she does so with a full understanding of the physiological impacts of doing so.
Good to see more talk coming out of this.
If you’re interested in why canadian drug regulation fell through re: Depo-provera, here’s a good read by Women and Health Protection, a now de-funded group that was one of the Centres of Excellence in Women’s Health.
https://www.whp-apsf.ca/pdf/reflectionsOnDepoProvera.pdf
Tons of good material on their website as well about women and anti-depressants.
Please help me to understand what my body is going through. I was on the depo for 6 months. I have been off of it for about a month and a half now. I still have no period. I have extreme weight gain and just recently started having nipple soreness and nausea. I am sooo afraid I am pregnant that I have taken 4 home pregnancy tests and all of them have come out negative. I have headaches so bad I think they are migranes. I don’t know what to do. I’m so stressed out about all of it. I just want my body back!!!
Thanks, Amy. It’s interesting how little attention is paid to the “coming off” of medication considering it affects so many people on so many drugs. I’ve heard of the problems people encounter coming off anti-depressants, too. I guess it should be expected that quitting any drug will have repercussions. And we may have to get through some bad times to get to the other side of these drug withdrawals.
Victoria, I am so sorry that you are in such distress. You don’t mention if you have the support of a healthcare professional while going through this tough time. Unfortunately, I am not such a professional. As hard as it is to believe, time will help ease these symptoms. Please be sure to use another method of birth control while your body is getting back to normal. If you were experiencing serious menstrual cycle problems before taking Depo-Provera, you can find information on how to ease many such problems without using hormonal contraception at http://www.cemcor.ubc.ca. Please take care of yourself.
The various responses women are reporting about stopping Depo-Provera are all saying that the upswing (from suppressed) in estrogen levels is causing sore breasts, bloating, weight gain and mood issues. What is happening is that the body needs to “learn how to” get into its cyclic, balanced mode again. That means estrogen levels that are under control because progesterone is there for the last half of the cycle.
I would ask your family doctor for a prescription for cyclic oral micronized progesterone (Prometrium is the brand name) and take it in a natural way: 300 mg at bedtime starting 14 days after you stop Depo-Provera and then every two weeks until you start to feel back to normal. See the CeMCOR article called “Cyclic Progesterone Therapy” that tells you how and why to do this: https://www.cemcor.ubc.ca/help_yourself/articles/cyclic_progesterone_therapy
Hope this is helpful,
Jerilynn
I have been on depo provera for 12 years straight, I just recently decided to get off it for good because for the last 5 years I have noticed a dwindling in my sex drive, which is hurting my relationship. I have only been off of it for 2 months and the side effects are scary. I have had a non stop menstrual cycle, which gets REALLY old. I had very heavy periods, which is why I decided to get on this in the first place. Also, the tenderness of my breasts are insane. I’ve also gained weight, and I thought you were supposed to lose weight after getting off depo. I was warned about the bone loss, but my healthcare providers did not go much into detail about it until they lost their funding and recently switched to a different name. Then when I went in there, the nurse practitioner does not allow women to stay on depo for any long term and really stressed the dangers of staying on it long term. This was the first time I had really gotten the whole story about depo, and it scared me. I know that eventually this will be out of my system, I am just tiring of all the non stop bleeding, breast soreness and headaches. I also hope that my sex drive will return to normal. I have NO desire AT ALL for sex, so I can see where they would use it on men to suppress their urges when it came to rapists/child molesters. I want to be able to have a normal relationship with my fiance.
Sorry to hear of your problems coming off Depo. Thanks for sharing your story. I met a woman recently who had been on Depo for almost 20 years. Not sure how this keeps happening that health care providers keep giving women this shot for more than a couple of years. Good luck with your recovery.
Hello Cari – I took the liberty of re-posting Laura’s great article to my blog in April of this year – and over 70 women have now commented on the horrible experience of coming off Depo. Thought you you would like to know you are not alone – and that many are struggling. https://holyhormones.com/womens-health/reproductive-system/infertility/depo-provera-withdrawal-a-womans-worst-nightmare/. Please feel free to add your story. I am also aware that Depo is used for male sex offenders. Am so sorry you are going through this experience.
I have been on depo before and in the past a substitute Dr came in one day and asked me how long I was on it. I told him 2 years and he seemed concerned and told me about osteoperosis after long time on it. I got off it. My period came back not too long after. So forward to after giving birth in 2010 my Dr said the best thing is to go back on depo. I had no plans on staying on it for more then 2 years so in June (1 and a half years) I decided to get off the shot. I might want baby #2 so I knew to get off it.. Well I got a period in August. Seemed normal. Then nothing in Sept.. Took preg test negative.. October… nothing… blood test neg… Based on when I got that ONE period at the end of the month it SHOULD be coming back end of the month.. if it doesn’t, it will be 3 MONTHS no period.. What I find odd is that even though I have read about people not getting it for months, mine came and then disappeared!! All PT negative!! So what the hell is going on? The last time I was on depo this never happened.. I cant try to concieve if I don’t have a regular period.. this sucks..
I was on depo for 17 months and it was a mistake cause my body constantly hurt so i went off two months ago and still no period
My doctor put me on depo when I was 13 because the dismenorrhea I was suffering from the age of 11 was causing me to miss school and I just wanted to die for two weeks every month. I have been on it for 12 years. Was off it for about 6 months because I wanted to lose weight and it has been impossible to lose weight while on depo. Then I started dating a long time friend and went back on depo. I had one hell of a sex drive from the ages of 13-17, by definition I was a nympho, but it’s pretty well been non-existant for 8 years. My boyfriend hates condoms, which is why I went back on it, he hated having to put on the condom, so I felt it would just be easier not to have to argue everytime we wanted to have sex and just go on depo. Now that I’m back on it I never want sex, and it’s hurting my relationship and my psyche, I’ve always been more productive after having the endorphines of a good orgasm coursing through my system but it’s not working anymore. Been doing some research for the last 4 hours on “how to get sex drive back when on depo” and have read COUNTLESS other women’s stories about how awful depo has been to them all this time!!! Needless to say I will never have an injection again in my life. I want to go back to being crazy about making love to the love of my life! I’ve had a crush on him for just as long as I’ve been on depo and now that we finally have a chance to be together I have no desire to make love with him!! It’s so horrible!! I want to have that desire to be close to him again! I’ve actually been feeling really down, and to put it bluntly, suicidal. Can’t even get out of bed, quit my job before I got fired for missing so many days and have been seeing a psychologist every week. I cry every day. The antidepressant I have been on for a year has stopped working, and now nothing my doctor puts me on works! It was just a couple weeks ago that I got the shot again after being off it for 6 months, and my nipples(basically my ON buttons) are SO SORE it is like you are burying a needle in them every time they are touched! I am going to try a holistic approach to get my hormones and system back on track in 3 months, I think that would be the healthiest way. Trojan has just come out with their thinnest condoms ever, my boyfriend and I agree it feels like there’s nothing there, which is good enough for him and so once my sex-drive comes back sky’s the limit!! Good luck to all you other women suffering from this debilitating drug.
After readainf many of these stories I’m more afraid. I’ve been on Depo for 13+ years and recently decided to go off ( husband has had vasectomy) and get a true reading on my hormones ( (48 yrs old) It’s been a NIGHTMARE !! A month ago I went thru a severe depression, anxiety, tears, cranky…..now for the last 3 weeks ..I’ve had non stop cramping and sweats……WHAT is the answer for us poor women? I am currently wating for blood tests to return.but am frustrted beyond belief !
Hi tootsie,
It sounds like you may now be in perimenopause. To learn more about perimenopause take a look at: https://www.cemcor.ubc.ca/help_yourself/articles/perimenopause_ovarys_grand_finale
If you’re having difficult cramps, take ibuprofen 200 mg to stay ahead of the pain (even if you have to take it every hour for a while). It likely means that a period is coming.
The sweating is hot flushes and night sweats and may well improve. However, if night sweats continue to wake you twice or more often a week, I’d suggest that you ask your family doctor for a prescription for Prometrium (oral micronized progesterone) 300 mg at bedtime daily. The Centre for Menstrual Cycle and Ovulation Research study showed that Prometrium is effective and safe for hot flushes in women who are menopausal (Hitchcock, Menopause 2012). We’re currently doing a Canada-wide trial of this treatment for perimenopausal hot flushes and night sweats.
Hope this is helpful for you,
All the best,
Jerilynn
I’m so glad I found this website! I was on the shot for a little over a year and went off this April 2012, but just got a period this past October. I haven’t felt like myself since I started the shot and wish I would’ve realized that was the source sooner. Nothing like having no sex drive and being dry down there for your honeymoon. I just hope my body regulates quickly. I’ve only had one week where I wasn’t on a heavy period since October. I’m so over it. I was wondering for women that have been on the pill…are the side effects this bad coming off? And is there anything besides contraceptives that lighten up bleeding?
Thanks ladies for sharing!
I started using Seasonale over 9 years ago continuously. I take them so I do not get a period. Is this ok? I read that a woman does not need to menstruate if she is not planning on having children.
Katie, thanks for commenting. I’ve always thought it ironic that the effectiveness of Depo-Provera comes at the cost of women’s desire for sex.
For information on how to manage heavy bleeding check out http://www.cemcor.ubc.ca, the website for The Centre for Menstrual Cycle and Ovulation Research. Search for articles on heavy bleeding.
No woman needs to take hormonal contraceptives to treat any of the menstrual cycle issues they are so often prescribed for. There are other ways – better ways IMO – to treat menstrual cycle problems. CeMCOR offers alternative treatment protocols.
The idea that women don’t need to menstruate if they are not planning to have children is based on the false assumption that ovulation and menstruation serve no other purpose to women’s health than for reproduction. Much research suggests the contrary, that healthy ovulatory menstruation contributes to breast, heart and bone health, (both during our reproductive years and into menopause) and supports libido and general well-being.
You can read about the benefits of ovulation, and the hormone released post-ovulation – progesterone, in a series of articles you can access here:
https://www.cemcor.ubc.ca/help_yourself/articles/Ovulation_series
Ultimately, each woman must decide for herself whether or not she wants to menstruate. As a women’s health advocate, my opinion is that an informed decision cannot be made without knowing both what you gain AND what you give up by choosing to suppress menstruation.
I’ve been on a regular birth control pill since i was 18 (now 25), never had a problem with them. But this year, decided to go on Depo-Provera, after a friend said she loved it. So i got the shot when i had my pap smear, the beginning of june 2012. It was like a day or two afterwards i could just feel a difference, i was very on edge and angry/bitter, plus, the no period thing made me very bloated and pent up. I actually missed my periods! haha. Anyways, i only did one shot, and decided to go back to my regular birth control pill. Was supposed to get 2nd Depo shot in August 20th-early Sept, but got back on pill instead. The transition was fine…but noticed that the entire month of this month (November) I’ve had slight nausea, loss of appetite, some acid re flux….started freaking myself out, because i never get nauseous….it hit me, the shot takes months to work its way out of your system. I thought i would’ve had withdrawal symptoms right away, but no, they’re coming 3 months after stopping the shot. Which seems right, right? Anyways, i’m having my period now, which had no problem coming back…but I am going off birth control entirely to help my body get my body get back to normal, i have no bf, so pregnancy wont be an issue. Is this pretty normal to have these kind of withdrawal symptoms after quitting depo, even though I went back to birth control pill (which is a combination pill)? The only thing that bugs me is the slight nausea…which i heard Chasteberry helps. So i went down to my local health store and asked about it, referred to as the Womans Herb…helps with so many things for women…helps balance hormones. Anyways, started taking one a day, and it’s really helped with nausea. I’m sure i will just have to let Depo work its way out of me. Wouldn’t recommend the shot to anyone, its like poison! Any information you have would be great. Thank you.
Hi Lesley – and others who are experiencing menstrual issues with Depo. What most women do not understand is that synthetic hormones ‘suppress’ or shut down the body’s natural hormone production. Depo is made mostly from a synthetic progesterone so when the body senses there is progesterone present – its natural production of the hormone ceases.
Another little known fact is that women do not have a ‘period’ on their menstrual cycle. They are experiencing what is known as a ‘chemical bleed’. There is a big difference.
For some women it is an easy transition back into their natural menstrual cycle. For others it is an arduous process. A woman’s endocrine and immune health have a lot to do with how quickly the body bounces back into its natural rhythm. Other women need to stimulate hormone production with natural progesterone as Dr. Prior mentioned.
Hormone balancing and nutrition have become key elements to women’s health and well being. We are all being exposed to excess estrogen in our environment through plastics, synthetic birth control, household cleaners and hormones in our foods.
Anxiety and depression (in part due to excess estrogen) are not ‘normal’ states of mind. No one should accept that these moods – or mood swings are just the way it is.
There is a lot that can be done in healing the body so that menstruation can once again be a normal, natural cycle. And so that women can go back to being their vibrant selves instead of living in a shadow of doom and gloom.
depo is definitely different for every woman. i had a single shot this summer. the only noticeable side effects were a slight depression, spotting after one month into the shot and some bleeding during sex. coming off it was not that bad either. for about a week i had some pregnancy-like symptoms, including cramps, bloating, dizziness and breast tenderness but everything to a lesser extent than during pregnancy. three weeks after the next shot was due i had my period and it’s been regular ever since. also my periods are shorter than before the shot. i hope this helps.
just had 2 shots over last year to help with what I thought was hormone triggered epilepsy (catamenial) this not the case I stopped taking the shots. my periods returned as regular with very light brown spotting, however being regular, so I was hopeful my body was not effected too badly or long term by the 2 shots I had had. however, the light spotting returned as regular last month and has continued into a full on heavy bleed which has not stopped ever since, this has now running into its 3rd week and I am feeling exhausted and confused – The doctors and specialists dont have the answers, only a bill to pay on the way out of the door which just makes me feel even more sick!
Researching and networking is the only way forward now and I thank you for website.
I found this while trying to determine what is going on with my body. I started Depo in May 2011 and had a horrible experience in December 2011 where I bled HEAVILY for nearly 3 1/2 weeks, with fist sized clots and running through a regular tampon in less than 2 hours. Dr. thought maybe I had gotten pregnant and miscarried. July came (2012) and had the same thing, this time for only 2 weeks, decided I was done with this shot and this issue as I had random spotting all the time as well, not enough for a slim tampon so I had to wear a panty liner and if I didn’t it was just enough to ruin my underwear. I was supposed to get the next shot in September and decided against it. this year I’ve gained at least 20lbs, unexplicably so. I’m not exercising like I used to – but I’m not eating as much either. I’ve never been this big before. My breasts hurt all the time – and extreme nipple sorenes as well. I had convinced myself that it was either thyroid or something cancerous – did blood work, biopsy of my cervix and a vaginal ultrasound – all came back normal. I had the light daily spotting for nearly 3 weeks in October and then got a “normal” period in early November. I got a second one the week of Thanksgiving. I’m now on my third period that just started yesterday and of course I’m now worried about other health issues and don’t even know where to begin. I wondered if what I’m experiencing is because of the Depo? Not sure where to turn or what my next steps should be – any guidance is greatly appreciated.
Dear sira and Cicely,
Thank you for sharing your stories of heavy flow on coming off Depo-Provera. This high dose progestin injection suppresses your hypothalamus and pituitary thus leading to low estrogen levels (which is why, in the short term this shot causes bone loss). However, when you stop the shot, as your body tries to recover there is an inappropriate over-production of estrogen. And yet things are not yet recovered enough to make enough progesterone. That’s the cause for your heavy bleeding.
The good news is that there is a simple, accessible and cheap solution in the short term–ibuprofen every 4 hours while you are awak will decrease heavy flow by almost half–and in the long term your menstrual cycle hormones will come into balance again. See this CeMCOR article: https://www.cemcor.ubc.ca/help_yourself/articles/very_heavy_menstrual_flow
If you continue to have heavy flow, access, copy and take this CeMCOR article for health care providers to your physician to get a prescription for progesterone:
https://www.cemcor.ubc.ca/help_yourself/articles/managing_menorrhagia
Just believe that your body is doing its best to get into balance again.
Hope this is helpful for you,
Jerilynn
Its been over 5yrs now when i went off depo, and i only took 3shots,i havent seen my periods and am panicking and i am very woried that there might be something wrong, my doctor put me on provera10,and still have not seen my periods.he took my blood test and the results showed that my hormones are very low, i just dont know what to do right now,my friend suggested i go for pap smear and all will be well, i just dont know.
I have been going through the change of life. I had two periods two months apart and have had two periods in the same month. Should I be worried? I have been very tired and have been sleeping heaps. I am also type 2 diabetic and am wondering if it has affected that as well? I have had a cold for over a month now and it shows no signs of leaving. Is all this related? I am so confused. A little help would be awesome.
I was on the shot for two years and have been trying to concieve and it hasn’t happened. Is this a coiencidence or deposit related?
Not deposit lol.. DEPO ***
I was on Depo for 13 yrs and got my last shot one year ago today. I got married 3 months ago and we have been TTC since out wedding night. My periods returned within 6 weeks of missing my Feb injection and the cycles have been fairly normal and about 27 days long. I had a really bad month in May and took a day from work for the PMS/Menstrual pain. The PROBLEM is that I should be super happy and excited and I am NOT. For 2 months I have been SO stressed and anxious I cannot even control myself. I am irritable, anxious, frustrated, and crying all the time. I have a stressful job but I have been doing it for 5 yrs. I also was diagnosed with TMJ due t stress. I am in pain, not happy, and cannot get out of this funk. The funny thing is…I was NEVER this way….and I am wondering if the sudden stopping of the DEPO and the overurge of Estrogen is causing these feelings? It has been volatile and people know something is wrong with me! Can anyone relate?
I have been on drop since Feb. Of 2011 I had my last injection in June of 2011. I decided not to get my injection in Sept. Bc I was having terrible side effects while being on drop. I gained weight. Which wasn’t a a problem at first I’ve always been tiny so at first the weight gain was nice until I started to gain it in my mid section. Not ok. Then came the hot flashes I feel like I’m going through menopause. My breast ache I actually thought I had been pregnant at first. I took 3 test the first one was a faint positive but it was def. Positive then the last two were negative. Not sure what was up w that.Then the tie breaker for me was when my hair started coming out. One always had long very thick hair. Now its so thin I can’t stand doing my hair any more. My hair is one of my favorite things about me. I had gotten on odrop after my second child turned a year bc since being a teenager I have never been able to fine a birth control that my body reacts well too. I’ve been on everything from all diff. Forms of the piltl, paragaurd to depo. I do eventually want another child perhaps in the next year of so so I’m not looking to get pregnant right at this moment. But I would like to feel normal n like a woman again. I have not had a period n over a year( I went from the paragaurd straight to drop) actually there was 3 months between the two. I just want my body back I’m so frustrated and depressed. My doctor wants me to get back on it to stop these withdraw symptoms or get on the mirana which is basically the paragaurd. I don’t know what to do. Please help!!!
Return to fertility post-Depo can take a long time. Your trouble conceiving is probably linked to having taking Depo-Provera. Have you any symptoms you would care to share? Have you had a menstrual period since you stopped taking the drug?
SMCR member and commenter on this post, Dr. Jerilynn Prior, is going to write about coming off this drug for the Centre for Menstrual Cycle and Ovulation Research website http://www.cemcor.ubc.ca. When it is available we will post a link to this post. Please check back periodically.
Hi Shauna, Thanks for sharing your story. I can imagine your frustration at having such problems with these various methods of birth control. Unfortunately, it seems many doctors have no idea how to help women come off Depo-Provera, other than to suggest you take it again, or as your doctor suggested, try the Mirena, which is an IUD that delivers the same drug, in smaller amounts, directly to the uterus. Hair loss is identified as a side effect of Mirena, BTW.
If you want to get your body back to normal, and have another child, I would suggest not taking your doctor’s advice about going back on Depo or having a Mirena. They will just delay the transition back to regular menstruation and fertility. It saddens me that sexual heath care providers are so inept at helping women in your situation access and use barrier and fertility awareness methods effectively and confidently. They can be very effective, and prevent the side effects you’ve experienced. I’d like to see more imaginative approaches to helping women use non-hormonal methods.
Are you open to a new way of thinking about contraception? There really is no magic pill. I’ll be happy to carry on this conversation with you about where you might go from here.
All the best.
Thanks so much for reply back. I’ll try any thing that’s non hormonal and can help get my body back on track so that eventuallu my husband and I are able to successfully try to start ttc in the future. Is there any way I can force this stuff out of my system faster. I’m only 24 and I feel like this shot has sent my body through pre menopause. I just want this poison out of my body. Any suggestions?
I started my depo 3 months ago during my period. As soon as I got the injection, the next day my period turned to spotting. I was kinda happy it worked so fast at first ….but it was all a lie :/ …. 2 days later I started a period again. I didn’t sweat it until a couple months go by and it’s still here as I’m typing. I only took one injection in my life and that’s the first and last time. I skipped my appt last week. The following months after the depo I thought I thought I went mental. Me and my bf were arguing and i slammed my hand on the window and my hand went right through, i gashed both my arms and wrist. My boyfriend said I’m crazy and weird, I told him its the evil depo. A week after skipping appt I’m going through:
Hot flashes
Mood swings
Joints crack when I move
Extreme anger and violence
Hunger increased
Slightly depressed
Can’t sleep
I’m a student and I can only take so much.
I wish I found this site before I started depo. It’s unbelievable how this chemical junk is put on the market like this . They need to really warn these ladies before injecting them with this stuff.
Liz, Do read Dr. Prior’s comment #14. The site she founded for the Centre for Menstrual Cycle and Ovulation Research has information about every aspect of perimenopause. Here again is the link she posted to learn more about perimenopause: https://www.cemcor.ubc.ca/help_yourself/articles/perimenopause_ovarys_grand_finale
Please let us know here at re:Cycling if this information is helpful. Thanks.
Shauna,
One thing you might consider is connecting with a Holistic Reproductive Health Practitioner who can help you with post-Depo recovery of your health and cycle, and teach you how to use the Justisse Method of Fertility Awareness. Although there may not be an HRHP in your city, you can connect via Skype from anywhere. You can find a list of practitioners here:https://www.justisse.ca/PractitionerDirectory.htm
I’ve written extensively about the efficacy and value of fertility awareness and body literacy on re:Cycling. You may find some information of value in some of these articles. You can find my archive of articles here: https://menstruationresearch.org/author/laura/
Although the hormonal methods of birth control available work well for many women, for many others they do not. A combination of FAM and barrier methods is not just an adequate solution, but for some the best solution.
I was on depo for 4 years because I had periods backwards (on for 3 off for 1) started with pill but I was 14. When I was 18 I was steady with my long time boyfriend and engaged we decided since we had heard it took awhile I would get off and if it happened sooner then planned so be it. 1 year later I got back on it for about 4 shots (a year) everything changed my mood, sex drive, just want to do anything, relationship was getting hit hard. Got off of it and blead for 3 months on and off. Now 3 years later my periods have returned to “normal” I’m starting to pass clots again (not as big as before I went on anything) and acne has returned and for the last 2 months my breast just kill all month long some days worse then others and ill get a day or so relief after my period. Oh and at age 22 I am also starting to get hairs on my chin! My now husband really wants to start a family as do I and my doctors are in disbelief that I haven’t gotten pregnant yet.
All in all this was the worst experience in my entire life I wish I could ban this for all use for “birth control” I wish all woman could stand together and raise a hand to how many this has had a negative effect on. I’ve read and read and read about it and it just makes me sick. My neices and nephews are in middle school, friends and other family having babies here and there. It just honestly hurts to see. And then to be asked “why haven’t you had any yet” I just want to scream! And honestly its affecting my relationship once again as we attended my youngest nephew graduating from pre school my husband stated “oh wow if we had a kid right now I would be 30 when he graduated pre school”
I have been on the Depo shot for 2 years and 3 months. I stopped having a period completely after my second shot. Not a once since then, not even light spotting. I switch from the patch which I had been on for 3 years previous to the Depo. Last year I noticed a dramatic decrease in my sex drive. Hearing comments from my husband “I just don’t do it for you anymore,” are completely heart breaking and have been making me feel as though there was something wrong with me. I am so glad to know this is not a “just me” issue.I want, to WANT, to have sex, but the ignition source seems to be out of fuel! We have recently been researching the issue of lost sex drives while on the Depo. I believe my husband understands now that it’s not him. I am happy to say that Dec. 22nd (my due date for my next shot) I will not be getting another shot! I have decided to get on the pill. Not only to hopefully gain back some of the deep down passion for sex, I had only a year ago, but to hopefully gain my fertility back so we can start a family. I am a little worried about the side effects I have been reading about. However, I will take the challenge. I will deal with my side effects symptomatically and hope for the best. Wish me luck!
Hi, so I had my son and about 3 months later got the depo shot. I only got one shot and haven’t had one for the next two months I was scheduled to. I have had a non-stop bleeding (ranging from a light period to spotting). Continueous for 3 months now including the month I got the shot. Will the bleeding ever stop? Is it just the depo working its way out of my body? Why is this occuring and will regular birth control daily pills help regulate the bleeding? I soooo hat this form of birth control. No blood clots, weight gain or any other weird thing going on…PLEASE HELP!
I was on the shot for just under one year. I stopped it in July 2012. In the last 6 years, I have (had) dropped 110 lbs. As of this morning, since Oct. 2011, I have gained 45 lbs. I am also a runner and was training for a half marathon and triathlons up until this fall. So, it’s not like I have been lazy.
I made an appt. with a new Dr. (Internal Med.) to see what she thinks my next step is. I have no desire to date or be in a relationship, mostly due to weight gain and my breasts are swollen and hurt a lot. It is more difficult for me to run and be active. I am also tired all the time. Any advice on what I should ask her to do?
Jamie, Just be aware that decreased sex drive is also a problem experienced by many women who take the pill. If you are interested in regaining your fertility, you may want to consider coming off hormonal birth control completely and learning to chart your menstrual cycles to confirm return of ovulation. You can use fertility awareness to both prevent and achieve pregnancy. It is not uncommon for women to wait more than a year post-Depo for a return to fertility.
Continual bleeding at the beginning of taking Depo-Provera is common. Only by continuing the shots will the bleeding go away. But it will stop eventually. See comment #20 from Dr. Prior for information about this.
You may want to return to normal ovulatory cycles before choosing another method. Have you considered a combination of fertility awareness and condoms? If you are planning another child, this may be a good choice without side effects.
Ashley, Depo-Provera is a powerful drug and the variety of negative experiences women are sharing about coming off the drug attest to how bio-individual we are in our responses to it. Most health-care professionals do not have the skill or the interest to help women restore healthy ovulatory menstrual cycles when they stop Depo-Provera, despite the serious health concerns women are having. They are usually focused on getting you on some other hormonal method. Next, they will be recommending the Mirena IUD that delivers small doses of a different progestin than what is in Depo-Provera. You didn’t mention if you have resumed menstruating, are having heavy periods, or what other issues may be in play. Do read comment #20 for some helpful information. Excess estrogen may be causing your sore breasts and should abate in time.
My only recommendation is to wait out the transition back to normal ovulatory menstruation. See comment #27 where I shared information about finding a Holistic Reproductive Health Practitioner.
I am very interested in learning what your doctor does suggest when you see her. Was it helpful? Respectful of your concerns? Was she supportive in your wanting to get your health back? Did she urge you to try another hormonal contraceptive? Did she offer any assistance in getting back a healthy, ovulatory menstrual cycle?
That there is no practical, effective protocol for restoring menstrual cycle and overall health post-Depo is a deficit of service and information that must be addressed. These stories make me mad and sad at the same time.
Thanks for sharing your story.
Hi, this site is very interesting, but didn’t really answer my question or concern:
I am 49, on Depo for about 13 years and want to stop having the Depo, as I don’t want more chemicals than necessary in my body. No need for contraception as I don’t have a partner and not planning to have one. I believe that I’m not that far from menopause, so my question really is, will the stopping of Depo will have an impact other than described by the other women? Could it trigger Menopause? What about all the different “…strogen” levels? I told my GP that I want to stop which she recommended a few time, because of the bone density issue (I had a scan 5 yrs ago, and it was ok), so shw will probably support me, but I don’t want to take any other chemicals instead. Any ideas? Thanks so much in advance!
I have been off the depo provera for 5 months and am 16 years old. Was on it for a year. Going on this was my worst mistake. I have had a period everyday for the last 2 months, I have also gained about 6lbs and have really bad acne and self confidence now!! Can anyone please tell me how long this takes to go please as it’s like torture. Thank you x
Well…instead of seeing the Dr. I got the NP. Normally I wouldn’t mind, however, she was a little short with me. So I forgot to mention some of my symptoms. I told her I was there because I am concerned with how much weight I have put on. I did get a normal period in Oct. and am spotting (I guess) this week. I’ve always been irregular so my real concern is the weight gain.
When she looked at my weight and saw why I was there, she didn’t want any background info, she just suggested the lap band. I told her that I wasn’t there for weight loss surgery suggestions but rather why I had out so much on in such a short time. Then she asked if my family has a history of thyroid issues. I explained about my history with the Depo. Then she mentioned about the Dr. enrolling me into her weight loss management program. It’s not covered by my insurance so I doubt I’d be able to do it. She did do blood work but I won’t go back until next month. I need to find something wrong…there is just no way that I could’ve done this much damage with just food—not again!
I was on depo injection for 5 years, I stopped my injections about a year and a half ago, I had a very heavy period for 5 months straight without a break, I was sent to a specialist who put me on a pill called marvelon, hasn’t really helped with my periods, I have 2 a month sometimes, Iv just had an hysterscopy and biopsys and I’m currently waiting for my results, I am absolutely petrified that my partner and me will not be able to have children, we always seem to start a period through any sexual activities even if it doesn’t involve actual intercourse, so being able to carry a baby for 9 months seems like a very unlikely option for me, I’m 23 and want my body to return to normal, the only good thing for me was losing all of my weight, but I suffer with depression anyway and it’s worse now my body is so messed up and having the thought of never becoming a mum, I’m lucky my boyfriend is very understanding about it all, but any help would be much appreciated 🙂
I was on the depo short for 4 years with my 1st child and cycles went back to normalafter coming off, then I was on the depo for 3 Years with my last child and and when I came off this time I didnt have a cycle for 6 months and when I did have a cycle it would last for about 5 days go off for about a week or two and come back every month since. Through out this entire time I have had mood swings, nausea, headaches, backaches, and cravings however have not been pregnant neither time. Here it 15 months later since the last depo that my body has not been regular since. I want to conceive another child but can’t cause I have a cycle twice a month. This is very disturbing that more research was not put into this drug before administering it to patients and if it was doctors and practioners need to provide more education about so people will no what they are getting into, cause it breaks my heart that I can conceive a child right now and I don’t want to put any more medications into my body due to the many side effects at this point. Any comments or suggestions greatly appreciated.
I was on the depo shot for 4 years with my 1st child and my cycles went back to normal after coming off the shot. Then I was on the depo for 3 Years with my last child and and when I came off this time I didnt have a cycle for 6 months.When I did have a cycle it would last for about 5 days and go off for about a week or two and come back on every month since. Through out this entire time I have had mood swings, nausea, headaches, backaches, and cravings, however have not been pregnant neither time. Here it is 15 months later since I had my last depo shot that my body has not been regular since. I want to conceive another child but can’t cause I have a cycle twice a month. This is very disturbing that more research was not put into this drug before administering it to patients. If research was done then doctors and practioners need to provide more education about it so people will know what they are getting into. It breaks my heart that I can’t conceive a child right now and I don’t want to put any more medications into my body due to the many side effects at this point. Any comments or suggestions greatly appreciated.
I have been on the shot for four months now and have been experiencing the same side effects as most women here: depression, getting angry, no patience, moody, sensitive to comments, no desire to do anything. I just realized it was the Depo after researching online. I plan on switching to the pills for my next appointment. I have had horrible irregular periods, right now I have been on my period for two months now and it stopped for maybe two days. I read that if you take progesterone it should help. Does anyone have any suggestions for this? I wish I had done more research before taking this shot, it seems to impact many women negatively even after they get off the shot. Im 19 if that makes a difference and I’m scared my body won’t go back to the way it used to be.
I have been on Depo for 4 years now. I have never had the problems that these ladies mentioned on here. My gyno gave me the info about Depo the side effects what need to do to make sure I don’t lose my bone density and I have never had mood swings my breast are never sore and my sex drive is still there.
I just recently skipped my last depo injection that was due on August 26 2012. I have not yet started my period. I was receiving my shot at a local clinic and at the time decided against any other form of birth control as I would like to have another child soon. I just turned twenty eight and my first daughter is already seven. I was a young mom when I had her and my obgyn recommended the depo shot. I agreed without researching it much and at the time I had no desire to have any more children any time soon. I had issues remembering the pill and I thought this sounded like a wonderful option. I went off the shot after a few years for a few months and then switched back to depo. I honestly had no noticeable side effects either time other than no periods and that wasnt so bad (: I also haven’t noticed any negative side effects coming off of depo either other than I have yet to start a period and I would like to establish a regular cycle and try to conceive soon. Should I consider taking a birth control pill or will this regulate my cycle at all?
I started the depo injection Sept 15 of 2012 while I was on my cycle. I believe two days into it. I haven’t stopped since. I was due to have my 3 month inj. Dec.13. but decided not to receive it because of the bleeding. I wanted it to stop. Still bleeding today and as gross as this sounds I don’t just bleed, I “shed”. It seems like any new lining that forms is immediately shed. I did call my clinic and all i can do it go in an tell an ARNP my symptoms. Which are normal.(per the info sheet like weight Gain and my hair seems to break easier. No breast tenderness)
Just wish this bleeding would end. It hate being asked by my partner, “when are you going to stop?” Should I wait a little longer before making an appt?
Hey there everyone
I am 24 yrs old and have had only one shoot of the depo, I was due again nov. 30 and decided not to go back. I hated the way it made me feel, but now I am almost having regrets of ever going off it. Since skipping the last injection I’ve had bloating, spotting and bleeding on and off, nausea, headache. Went to ob/gyn did a PT-negative, had ultrasound done at my job(because I’m totally Peroniod) and nothing was abnormal. I went again to my family doc and she told me that she does not give anyone the shot unless they have a certain condition or very heavy menstrual. I regret taking this shot and have been nothing but nervous p, Peroniod, and anxious ever since I got it ;(. I am looking into getting my body back the natural way. I am not ready for another baby and I am not sure if this is in my head since I really don’t want to be preg. And have a trip to see my fam in Peru this coming feb.
Please help
Thank you so much for making this post! I was on the Depo shot for 3 years. I have started to freak out a little bit because it has been 5 months since I stopped the shot and nothing! No spotting, no pregnancy, no moodiness, no irritation, no tenderness. It’s like I’m still on the shot without having to get a shot.
I was really beginning to get worried until I read it could take a few months to 18 month to get a period again. I will be getting married in a little over a year and we would love to have children. I started to feel I would never get my period, and be infertile. If I don’t get my period by the time 12 months rolls around I will go see a doctor. I’m just worried that if I wait too long I will never get my period again.
Hi could you help?..I was on the depo injection for just 6 months I was due my last one in August but decided it wasn’t a for me..the last few days I’ve been having pregnancy symptoms..tiredness bloating of stomach breasts are very tender and swollen and increased appetite,I’ve done 2 pregnancy tests in the last few weeks and both negative..I just want to know if anyone’s similar and received their period shortly after?..thank you x
Hi there. Just wondered if anyone could help? I was on drop injection for about 9 months I gained a lot of weight whilst on it. I was due my last injection feb 2012 that’s 11 months now. I still have not had any period/spotting I have had the pregnancy symptoms but all home tests come back negative. I would just like to feel normal again.
Hello, Jen, Zoe, Jenni, Jess, Char, Julie, Ky, KeKe, Vicky, and any others who’ve asked for help here in the last couple of weeks —
FIrst, let me say how sorry I am to hear about the misery you all are experiencing from Depo Provera, whether from using it or from trying to stop using it. Laura certainly gave this post an apt name.
Second, before I say much more, I’m compelled to repeat this statement from re:Cycling’s about page: re:Cycling is not designed to and does not provide medical advice, professional diagnosis, opinion, or treatment recommendations. Please check with your health care provider(s) regarding your personal health care decisions, and seek immediate care in emergencies. Our opinions do not substitute for medical or other professional care, and you should not use information read here or sites we link in place of a visit or consultation with your health care provider.
Third, having said that, I would like to direct your attention to two posts from earlier in this comment string by Jerilynn Prior, M.D., who is an endocrinologist who specializes in women’s reproductive health.
(1) In this post, of interest to Char and others, she offers advice for managing heavy flow in the short term and some recommendations that you can take to your physician or health care provider for a longer term solution.
(2) For those of you who have stopped Depo Provera and have not yet resumed menstruation, Dr. Prior explains “that the upswing (from suppressed) estrogen levels is causing sore breasts, bloating, weight gain and mood issues. What is happening is that the body needs to “learn how to” get into its cyclic, balanced mode again.” Please read her recommendations and additional links here.
Thank you for confiding in us, and we hope you find relief soon.
Hi Ashley, It will probably take a while for things to get back to normal. All I can suggest is to keep doing the things you were doing to lose weight the first time and as your hormones get back to normal you should see a change in your weight. What you want to try and achieve is regular, ovulatory cycles. Irregular or long cycles can be related to under-functioning thyroid. My colleague and I are making a list of issues women are having with Depo, mostly after stopping the drug, and will try to address the range of issues with suggestions. Keep watching this post.
Thanks to Elizabeth for this reminder that re:Cycling is not designed to provide medial advice, as well as directing readers to Dr. Prior’s previous posts on this comment string that do help explain some of what commenters are experiencing.
As I get back to work after the holidays, I continue to be amazed and, I’ll admit, disheartened by the personal stories so many readers are sharing about their mostly negative experiences with Depo-Provera. Dr. Prior and I intend to compile something that categorizes the different health issues women are experiencing and provide additional information that may be helpful in, at the very least, weathering the post-Depo storm.
I’m grateful that re-opening the comment stream on this post has provided an opportunity for women to share experiences and vent frustrations. That so many women are looking for information and assistance in coming off this hormonal contraception suggests an urgent unmet need for better health-care support in this area.
Thanks to all who are sharing their stories.
Thank you.
I have been on the Depo shot for two years this past July 2012 which I never had a period during the time I jutted it. My husband and I wanted to started a family. I have endometriosis so I figured it would be a long road, but its January 2013 and I still have not had a period. My doctor told me that it would be 2-3 months till I started my period and its been 6 months!!! I have been cramping and bloating like during a period but nothing!! During the Depo shot I would still cramp from the endometriosis I guess. What I’m looking as suggests with my problem with no period yet. I’m 28 and I know that I’m not getting any older!!! I’m ready to start my family. I have even thought about changing doctors too. Please help me. Thank you for time!
I was on Depo for three years and had my last injection in May 2012. I’m 31 now. My periods returned in October 2012. I’ve gained weight – NEVER an issue for me before – If I blink really hard, I lose a pound. I’ve been exercising formally every day (whereas before, I was UNDERWEIGHT without formal exercise). I cut out caffeine and have a caloric intake of 1000 per day, but my clothes don’t fit any better for it. My breasts have increased TWO cup sizes, and I’m not pregnant. Had I known that was a possible side effect, I would’ve refused Depo: I’m 5’2″ and was a D-cup before the Depo, so increased breast mass is the last thing I want. My nipples hurt very badly. I saw my PCP days ago. He did blood work – TSH, creatinine, cortisol, etc. – all normal, though cortisol was borderline low at 10 a.m. Anyway, the physician just says about my weight gain, “if you’re still gaining weight after two months, schedule another appointment.” WHAT?! It’s been three months with the weight gain and increasing breast enlargement and pain – how does he expect me to cope for another two months?
I am in your boat!!! I have taken numerous pregnancy test because of the same reason!! My doctor thought it was my iron, but when I took the iron pills i just felt worse. I cut out my caffeine in take and my breast are still tender!! I have been off the shot for 6 months and have still not had a period. I read today that it could take up till a year for some to have a period!! I wish my doctor would have told that to me!! He told me 2-3 months!!
Hi guys. Well this is whts goin on. I am 17 years old and I had been on the depo shot for about 9 months. I was planning to go get my next shot but complications with insurance and everything prevented that. Now I am constantly bleeding and I’m gaining weight like crazy! 15pounds in a month ? Ridiculous considering I excersize , and the extreme loss in appetite. The bleeding is horrible and I hate it. I’ve ruined just about every pair of underwear I had and have had to buy the three packs at walmart every week. 🙁 I am so embarrassed by it I don’t let my boyfriend see me get underessed or help me do laundry which sucks considering how tired I have been and just loss of motavation. Another interesting thing I have questions about is about a week after my second depo shot, I woke up in the middle of thenight in pain coming from my pelvic area more by the lower side of my left hip.
Hi guys. Well this is whts goin on. I am 17 years old and I had been on the depo shot for about 9 months. I was planning to go get my next shot but complications with insurance and everything prevented that. Now I am constantly bleeding and I’m gaining weight like crazy! 15pounds in a month ? Ridiculous considering I excersize , and the extreme loss in appetite. The bleeding is horrible and I hate it. I’ve ruined just about every pair of underwear I had and have had to buy the three packs at walmart every week. 🙁 I am so embarrassed by it I don’t let my boyfriend see me get underessed or help me do laundry which sucks considering how tired I have been and just loss of motavation. Another interesting thing I have questions about is about a week after my second depo shot, I woke up in the middle of thenight in pain coming from my pelvic area more by the lower side of my left hip. I went to my doctor and she had no idea what was happening. She made me get a pap which by the way was also very painful because the whole inside of me was very swollen and render it hurt so bad 🙁
This continued for another couple days until she could get me into a different doctor who gave me an ultrasound in the area and said I had a swollen lymph note. They prescribed me nothing I just had to deal with it for a few days more than it just dissappeared . Was this to blame on my depo ? I ruled out any std because my boyfriend and I used condoms anyways and the doctor said I had to just let it play out
why have I had so many issues on this ? My doctor gave me NO warnings along the lines of this /: and my boyfriend will be getting home within the next few days . He has been gone for two weeks and we were gunna have a little date and just spend the day to ourselves , but as of right now im so tired,my body is in pain, and no sort of sex drive whatsoever.. I’m just having a hard dealing with this and its making everyday that much more frustrating … /:
Hi Emily,
Check out the Centre for Menstrual Cycle and Ovulation Research website.
http://www.cemcor.ubc.ca
There are two articles by endocrinologist Dr. Jerilynn Prior that may be helpful and that you might consider sharing with your doctor.
Cyclic Progesterone Therapy can help restore regular ovulatory cycles.
https://www.cemcor.ubc.ca/help_yourself/articles/cyclic_progesterone_therapy
This one offers a treatment for endometriosis that supports fertility.
https://www.cemcor.ubc.ca/ask/endometriosis_progesterone
Good luck!
So glad you posted this. I thought I was going insane. I used depo for five years and I am 20 years old. Last shot was in July 2012 and I have had extreme weight gain and i have been so swollen down there, it’s unbearable. I had two full blown periods with a few days in between. I will never recommend depo to anyone.
So happy to have come by this.Im 19 years old and have been using depo for over a year now. I have just stopped taking the due to insurance problems. I lost about 5-10 pounds in the first 2 weeks due to no appettie but either than that its been hell. I got my period back about a week after and now going on my 3rd week and still have it and its extremely heavy. I would never recommend depo to anyone. Im considering using the Implano. If anyone knows of any problems with that reply please)
I am sixteen and am juat going off the depo it was horrible! I gained twenty pounds and mu diet/ exercise routine never changed and I constatly bleed I mean its like a never ending period but now that -four weeks ago- I decided and didnt take another shot how long is it going to take for my body too return to normal? I just want to be able to wear cute underwear again amd not have constant bloating and cramps 🙁
Cee, If you’ve read all the comments on this post you’ll know that you are experiencing similar concerns to other women coming off Depo. Continual and/or heavy bleeding is common. Consider reading this article on managing heavy bleeding at the Centre for Menstrual Cycle and Ovulation Research:
https://www.cemcor.ubc.ca/help_yourself/articles/cyclic_progesterone_therapy
Before you decide to switch to Implanon, you may want to read the patient information on this drug. It is just a variation of Depo-Provera, just a slightly different synthetic progestin that has many of the same side effects. It is inserted into your arm and not intended to be removed for 3 years. If you don’t like it, you’d need to go back to your doctor to have it removed.
https://www.merck.com/product/usa/pi_circulars/i/implanon/implanon_ppi.pdf
How long your body takes to get back to normal is difficult to determine. How long you were on the shot, how well-established your menstrual cycle was before you started on the drug, and other factors will impact this.
If you want to learn about how your menstrual cycle works and how you can learn to chart and understand your own cycles, perhaps before making a decision about your next birth control method, check out this book : Cycle Savvy: The Smart Teen’s Guide to the Mysteries of Her Body http://www.cyclesavvy.com You can order it from Amazon, download an e-book version or borrow it from the library.
It can be tough to weather the post-Depo storm that so many women experience. Hang in there. REad about how to manage heavy bleeding, if it continues, here: https://www.cemcor.ubc.ca/help_yourself/articles/cyclic_progesterone_therapy
So i’m 19 now. Just got off the depo in Dec. My run-out date was the 8th. I had been on it since march when i was 15. I bleed heavily on the 12th but filled one tampon then stopped. okay weird? i’m expecting heavy long period. Well The 3rd of Jan the same thing full tampon then done. And that was 22 days apart. I just started again this is 13 days. I wonder how long this one will this one be? So far the only time i had extreme mood swings was the first one on the 12th. My appetite has been up and down for a while i was hungry all the time and now i’m not. I’m hoping it won’t take years to get out of my system and for my period to be out of wack.
I was on the depo for 4 years and came off of it November of last year, I have had swollen and tender breast, no periods, nausea weight gain like crazy and have been told I look pregnant but every test says negative. If I would have know about all these symptoms I would have said no to the depo shot. This is crazy that I have symptoms like this. I understand about the periods part but not any of the other.
I was only on this horrible injection for 6 months but I gained a lot if weight quickly,I’ve gone from a petite size 8 to a curvy size 14..I was supposed to have another in August but I decided not to.on the 5th of jan 2013 I started having symptoms of what I thought were pregnancy I was hormonal,my breasts doubled in size were very tender n sore to touch,my stomach bloated.I did a pregnancy test and it was negative I also did a blood test at the doctor to make sure that was also negative,a week later I finally got my period..I’ve not had it bad as some women but this experience has put me off the depro for life!!..my mood swings have been awful..I’ve never felt this bad but finally looks like that awful injection is out of my system xx
Yay! I am not crazy! This is si incite full. I am 20 almost 21 I was on & off the depo for 2 & 1/2 years… At first it seamed great, now horrible I have officially been off it for oh around 4/5 months now. My life is he’ll, heavy weird leeding it has been this way since I got off it I am lucky if I get 1-3 days a week if it’s just minimal spotting to nothing. I have been in an emotional downward spiral for months I went from happy most of the time to on & off depression, getting pissed over dumb stuff, very anxious, onand off tender breasts, a small weight gain and I excersize daily, loss of apitite to eating tons randomly, and now over the past week I’ve stated having a nausea feeling day in and day out, sometimes dizziness, hot flashes. I would never recommend this drug to anyone ever! The stupid doctors don’t tell you what the real facts are and dangers are of this drug.
Don’t worry that’s exactly what I was like too,you’re right the doctors don’t make you aware of the horrible implications after..I’m so glad I came off the depro I’ve never been so excited to have a period before!..just so happy my body is getting bk to it’s normal self,I was expecting my period to be much worse but it’s quite calm I have been moody but that’s expected,my blood flow has also been quite light xx
I am going through the same things right now! You are not alone!
Okay so some new developments: Still have YET to see this new Dr. I should see her this coming Wednesday. I was experiencing chest pains on Wednesday (2 days ago), so I went to the ER. They did all kinds of testing, they believe I pulled a muscle in my chest which is due to stress. I have had a tightness in my throat for over a month now. My personal/family life is crazy (still)—its better than it was, but when I was on the shot I could manage my stress. I have had my period now for a month straight, with a 5 day break somewhere in there. I am depressed, my weight is spiraling out of control and I cry ALL the time over the silliest things. The things that would really tick someone off are amplified even more. I called my OB-GYN yesterday for an appt. The receptionist said I sounded very upset. I hope she has some answers for me. I just want my period to stop, and this depressing black cloud to go away. If I ever hear of someone wanting to go on the Depo shot I will mention how horrible the after effects are. This sucks!
Hi I am 21 and stopped using the depo in early Novemeber. I had a regular period once and now it has completely stopped. I took a pregnancy test and it was negative. Its now January and still no period. This is extremely frustrating because I have a blood condition so I can’t take any other contraceptives to get it back to a routine. None of these symptoms I have experienced were disclosed to me. I had no idea. I feel like I pray every day just to get back on a regular cycle. I have no insurance so going to the doctors is out of the question. It just makes me mad that they don’t warn you that you could be all messed up after you stop the injections. So hopefully another month won’t go by without a period…
Im 17 andI got on the depo shot on June 30 2011 and decided to get my last shot on September 26 2012 to try to get my body back to normal. The first 4-5 months I spotted non stop then i havent had a period since. then i started to get really bad mood swings that lasted the whole time. I stayed on it for so long because it was very convenient and I thought that the side effects would eventually go away. No. I gained atleast 20 pounds and my mood swings destroyed my relationship of 2 years. I got so easily mad at everything. And I also never had a pimple until I got on the shot and now I can’t get rid of them. But that was all nothing compared to how I feel since I haven’t went back for my shot. I’m having some pregnancy symptoms but I know I’m not pregnant. My boobs hurt, I have cramps, my back hurts sooooo bad, I’m so bloated I can barely fit my jeans anymore and I’m just completely miserable. I also still haven’t got my period. I just want my body back to normal. I would NEVER recommend this death shot to anyone.
Same as me 🙁 I wish that the doctors would have said something before they gave the injection. It is so infuriating.
Hi, I am 21 as well and my last depo shot wore off in July and I still have no period. I can’t afford to go to the doctor either and I am still extremely frustrated. To top it all off, recently I have been have terrible mood swings and keep getting upset about things I would not normally get upset about. Luckily I have the most understanding fiance and if I don’t have my period back by July of this year, we will go to the doctor and make payments so I can hopefully figure out what is happening exactly. I do know that there are some all natural herbal fertility medications that might help you, but you would have to talk to your doctor to see what they suggest. Hope you turn out better than I do.
Hi I’m 16 and I’ve been on the shot for over 2 years now and I recently stop taking it about a month ago, and I been experiencing lots of cramps, no bleeding just yet. I wanted to know when will I start to ovulate? or how long will it take for me to start my ovulation.
Hi shalon I was on the shot 6 months and stopped in August 2012 I then started cramping up n bloating 9th of jan..and just got my period back xx
Glad I found this information! I had been on Depo for over 4 years & JUST decided to stop. I was due for my shot the beginning of the month & thought it was time to give my body a break. I immediately started feeling uncomfortable, tender breasts, bloated & just plain miserable. Extremely stressed at work, so if/when I start feeling depressed (more than I already do) at least I know why 🙁
I loved the Depo Shot. To the people who are blaming the doctors, don’t. It is YOUR responsibility to get facts and ask questions before starting a treatment. I enjoy not having a period as I have endometriosis and this birth control shot helps tremendously. Depo is not for everyone, I wouldn’t discourage anyone from using it, not every female body is the same. Between the first and second shot, I did in fact bleed every day for those 3-4 months and after the second shot I did not have any bleeding at all. I have used DepoProvera for 5 years now. I do have breakthrough bleeding everyone once in awhile (always after heavy alcohol drinking). But it does the job, it does what it’s supposed to, so please don’t complain about the minor side effects, rejoice because you did not get pregnant when you didn’t want to be. <3 🙂
Steffe, Thanks for sharing your positive experience in using Depo-Provera. To be fair to the majority of women commenting here, please note that they are sharing their experiences about stopping the drug. In fact, that is the title of the post – Coming Off Depo-Provera…..
It is highly likely that all woman stopping this drug will have a long journey back to regular, ovulatory menstruation and the litany of issues women face are not minor: heavy ongoing bleeding, not having a period for months and months, intensely sore breast, weight gain, concern about being pregnant, mood disorders, etc. These are the things they wished they’d known to expect, not necessarily how they would feel on the drug. And the fact that most doctors have no idea how to help their patients balance their hormones and get their cycles back is not the patients’ fault. They have every right to complain.
I’m totally adverse to blaming women for not knowing more or asking more questions before making the choice to take a drug like Depo-Provera. Now that long-acting reversible contraceptives like this one are being recommended as the best birth control for teenagers, I expect even more will be agreeing to use them without fully informed consent. Please note also how young many commenters are on this post. Many started this drug in their teens.
But they are not recommending this birth control anymore. You have to request it and only at that, dr’s are only recommending it for two years only. I have had to jump through hoops to continue this form of birth control. And unfortunately if you read all the literature of all hormonal forms of birth control methods, they all share symptoms when coming off. Those symptoms decreas when you start another form of hormonal birth control.
I was never told the facts by my GP that it may take up to 2 years to become pregnant after coming off depot provera. As a nurse I would say that it most certailnly should have been the doctors responsibility to discuss this with me. I am now nearly 30 and have no children as I cannot even get my periods back after coming off depot last year.
Hello , I just got off depo , I have been on it four years , ever since I got off it my vagina has been really irritaded and itchy. , and. I’m just having random spotting is this normal
Hello, I was on the depo shot for over a year. I desided to go off of it because before I went on the shot my period was not regular at all. When I went on the shot I had one day out of over a year of spotting. I wanted to see if my cyle would be normal. When I was on the shot I was extremely depressed. I went off the shot in November of 2012, I have craqzy mood changes, weight loss, my body aches every day, my breasts hurt, I have a headache everyday. Before I went on this I asked my doctor about the symptoms and they never onced mentioned any of these. I have been constantly going into the doctor for irritation of my whole body and they are not finding anything supposidly.. I just want these to stop. I am so miserable..
I’m 27, mother of one (2008 baby). June 2012, I decided to get the Depo Shot after my periods started to come every 28-35 days, I wanted regularity without having to worry about being precisely on schedule. Running around with a full time job and toddler, regularity isn’t a luxury one would have. I didn’t bled at all.
August 2012, the shot must have worn off because I bled from the beginning of August til the end of August when I got my second shot. I also gained 12 lbs even with being active and eating well (I’m not allowed to ingest gluten containing products and prefer high veggie intake). I experienced a euphoric high (the world was beautiful and full of magic) 3 days before I started bleeding, when I started bleeding the depression was crushing. I didn’t even want to get out of bed.
I got the shot again, no bleeding, again, for 2 months. Early November 2012, bleeding started again. It was light to moderate again. I skipped getting the shot again end of November. After my doctor told me to add onto my exercise routine and change my eating habits. 26lbs in less that 6 months. I had to go up 2 sizes in pants because it seemed all the weight was gained from the waist down.
Since early November, I have not stopped bleeding. It’s a moderate flow. I get headaches, unable to sleep, cramps, fatigue and mood swings. My PCP actually said that such consistent bleeding is NORMAL after stopping the shot. I would not recommend this shot to anyone, the information provided with the injection is not represented fully. Weight gain was an effect, but it didn’t say it would be that much, that quickly.
Been there done that. Except I gained 100lbs in a month. This was about 10yrs ago and my story played out like yours, ins problems. Went to 5 docs nothing, they say its a hormonal imbalance. But here is the upside, after 18months of stopping the shot everything went back to normal. I was losing 30lbs a month til I got to my normal weight. As far as the bleeding, take your pain reliever and use a heating pad. There is no upside until the depo is completely out of your body. Sorry just know you are not alone.
Im 28 years old now, been on depo for 7 years. To be honest beening on the depo has changed my life for the better, yes i gain 2 stone more than i was and as all the weight is just at the front of my lower belly i look like i have been pregrant for 7 years! But i have had no bleeding at all and the occasional cramp, compared to what i was like for 11years before depo ( flooding, going through 60-70 nighttime towels in a week and being rushed into hospital with pain) it certainly better.
But saying all this i have recently found out that i was only displaying the symtoms of endo not actually been tested so i could have been taking the depo for a long time for no reason, which is a little scary. I have started looking at side effects of coming off depo and i never realised it was going to be that bad, everywhere i look there is bad news about coming off it none good (apart from losing weight and going back to normal size, but even then some ppl have stated they have gained) i no everyone is different but i have found no good news about it, my husband and i do not want children our cat is enough for us! And yes i run the risk of bone problems but i am starting to believe staying on depo now i have been on it for so long might be the best thing.
If there is anyone out there that has a good word to say about coming off the depo, please write about it, i’m all ears!
I started the depo when I was 15. Im now 30 and stopped the depo almost a year ago. I had severe cramps when on it and actually wished I was in labor instead of cramping. The cramps have calmed down since I stopped, but now Im extremely moody, I am nauseous the same time every day, Ive gained weight, and have horrible headaches. I actually feel pregnant again altho I have taken multiple tests and theyre all negative. Does anyone else have pregnancy like symptoms?
Yes renee I have the same too don’t worry,I thought I was bk to normal as I had my first period since stopping the depro and it lasted 7 days which is normal but I’ve started spotting again today exactly 7 days after my period ended I thought this week was meant to be my fertile window but looks like it’s not..it’s an awful injection xx
Mandi, i’m 19. I just had my shot run out in Dec. And i never gained weight in the almost 4 years being on the depo. I was 98 pound when i got on i dropped a couple pounds then stayed around 99 again. Not until i GOT OFF the depo did i gain some weight.About 104lbs And when i’m this tiny 5pounds is different. Ive bled three times once on 12-12 very LIGHT. 22 days later on 1-3 LIGHT. then 14 days later 1-17 i bleed about 3 1/2 days and stopped. So it’s been stressing on not know when i’m going to go. So far i haven’t had real tender boobs but after i was on i used tampons then i itched afterwards. i know my body isn’t used to them but i’m allgeric to pads so i can’t use those. I moody all the time and my husband asked me why i was tearing up the other day and thought i was still on my period or it came back and told him no i have know idea why i just been moody.
Hi I am 24 years old and only got one shot the day I had got the shot i had asked 3 times what the side effects were and they told me just weight gain after being on it for a year. Well the first week I got the shot the side effects started to happen my hair started to fall out like crazy and continued for the next 4 months, my period started light and then went heavy and i bled for almost 4 months,my breast started to get smaller, i had mood swings like crazy and no appetite at all. i didn’t go back and get another shot and now i am scared because i am having these god awful lower abdominal pain and my first thought was to check the side effects from the shot because mine was up the 9th of January, thank you for all your guys story’s they defiantly made me feel a little better knowing why i am having pain like this.
I took one ONR shot and it has been hell ever since. I took it Aug.16th 2012 and was due for another one Nov. 1-15th, 2012. I didnt go back because of the awful side effects while on it. I had hot flashes, couldnt sleep, sweating, head ache, spotting for almost 2 months (dark brown), bad dreams, shaking, panic attacks and just an over all “ill” feelings.I did gain maybe about 5 pounds or so but yes I did eat more. I felt like I was going through Menopause. Shortly after I was due to get another about 2 weeks after I started having stomach trouble. I lost my appetitte. I didnt want to eat or drink which cause me to get dehydrated. I have acid reflux and my stomach feels like its in knots. I have to make myself eat and I have lost about 10 pounds. Im a little women so I can tell the difference. I feel sick and certain smells makes it worse. I feel like when a person is coming off of this it makes your body feel pregnant which I KNOW IM NOT. I went to the ER twice and they ran blood work and test and nothing seems to be wrong with my stomach. They claim its acid reflux. Im very depressed and wish this would leave my system. Its been about 10 weeks since I was due for the 2nd shot. I see Im not alone. This shot is a bad idea.
It is anyone’s right to make or refuse to make a recommendation of anything based on their own experience.
I’ve been in the sexual health field for over 25 years. Nothing compares to what women experience when coming off this contraceptive.
Should you ever decide to quit this drug, or are refused continued use of it, know that there is another treatment for endometriosis. If you search the term at http://www.cemcor.ubc.ca you’ll find information about this.
Digestive problems are common on Depo-Provera. They should subside after a while.
Sounds like you made a wise choice not to have the second shot. Hang in there!
Are Digestive problems common when coming off depo? Thats when mine started right after I didnt go for my second shot
I am 49. I was on Depo for twenty years until in August when they told me I was too old for it and switched me to a birth control pill. While on Depo I did not have periods and gained about 20 pounds over the twenty years, which I might have gained anyhow.I now have nausea, and headaches on a daily basis, body aches, and irregular bleeding.
Hey everyone just a quick update I posted back on December while just getting off depo. Just this week I got a real menstral period and have never been happier. I was spotting any where from 2-3 weeks a month while on depo and coming off. I will tell you my anxiety is gone, nausea is not bad anymore, cramping is still there but not as bad, and overall I just feel much better. I do think this form of BC shouldnt be for everyone and I am completely convinced that this shot did this to me including acid reflux which I never had a problem
With before. FYI I only had 1 shot back in September 2012
I am going through the same thing. I had my last shot June 25th, 2012, and was due for another at the end September but never went. I had been on Depo for 8 years and decided it was time to cleanse my body if I want to have kids in the near future. The withdrawal symptoms only started for me at the beginning of January. The last few weeks have been HELL!!! Breasts are super sore/full and heavy, mood swings, crazy cravings/weight gain, and worst of all headaches for the last two weeks (everyday). I was just checked head to toe last week: physical, bone density test, pregnancy test, blood work, eye exam. I am trying to get to the root of these headaches but I have discovered nothing so far. Bones are as good as they were 8 years ago, eyes are good, not prego, and just waiting on my blood work now. I have come to the conclusion that I am simply experiencing withdrawal headaches. I can’t waiting for my body to get back to normal…it has been 7 months since my last shot and I just want my body to regulate itself so that I can think about having kids in the next year or two….keep me posted!!!
I got my 1st Jab of Depo in August wasnt due for next jab in November 2012, I spotted from Sep 20-Oct 20 ,Then I didnt get a period till January 11-19 2013 , now its been a week and 1 day and im nleeding again ,.,
Im 23 and ive been on depo for a year and 3 month. My last shot was due december 13th but I got off because at the beginning of december I was in so much pain to the point that I couldnt get out of bed and I had the worst attitude. I started bleeding which I thought was normal because that always happens when its almost time for my shot. I went to the bathroom and everytime I peed blood clots came out. It lasted 2days and I was in horrible pain for those 2days. I figured it was the shots that caused it so Didnt go back to the doctor. I blead until the day of my missed shot and havent blead since. I feel extremly pregnant and ive gained around 10lbs. The only reason I got on depo is because the nurse basically made me after I had my 4th child. Never again its beenthe worst 17 months of my life. and its ruinig my relationship because of my messed up attitude and no sex drive. I will never use depo
Im 23 and ive been on depo for a year and 3 month. My last shot was due december 13th but I got off because at the beginning of december I was in so much pain to the point that I couldnt get out of bed and I had the worst attitude. I started bleeding which I thought was normal because that always happens when its almost time for my shot. I went to the bathroom and everytime I peed blood clots came out. It lasted 2days and I was in horrible pain for those 2days. I figured it was the shots that caused it so Didnt go back to the doctor. I blead until the day of my missed shot and havent blead since. I feel extremly pregnant and ive gained around 10lbs. The only reason I got on depo is because the nurse basically made me after I had my 4th child. Never again its been the worst 17 months of my life. and its ruining my relationship because of my messed up attitude and no sex drive. I will never use depo
I am 27 I only had the 2 injections running out about July to August time, side effects have started kicking in properly and here it is, I’m gonna tell the truth and all the truth my breast are in so much pain it hurts to touch, but hey that I can deal with I’m a women…. BUT there’s the sweating from ur arm pits constantly not something a bath or some anti-persprant would solve cos there it is BAM! 10minutes later sweating all over again oh and not to menchion when I’m not on the very regular period I have quite an amount of discharge and no,not just off ovulating and no I don’t have an STI either this is a side effect of the lovley depo there to make my life easier ppphhhttt right!!! I do not think so!!!! where the hell is the drug or herbal remedy to take this away nah there is none to cure these problems. I am now a moody, emotional, sweaty girl with no confidence left now AND what’s that doctor 1yr plus to get my body back thanks ill just carry on my next year sweaty arm pits damp or bleeding down below a belly of a 6 month pregnant lady, no self confidence hurrendous dreams and oh not to menchion taking my mood out on everyone uncontrolably. thanks so much for looking after my body for me when I trusted you doctor!!!! And to every lady going threw any of this my heart goes out to you all because I feel your pain literally. X
I have been on the shot for 4 years and missed my last shot that was due on Dec. 6th. The second week of January I thought I was having kidney stones. I had severe back pain and nausea. Went to the doctor and there was nothing wrong. I’m now thinking the back pain was from the loss of bone density and hormone changes. The nausea was obviously a withdrawal symptom. I am now feeling really down and gaining weight. I currently run 4 miles a day and eat around 1200 calories a day, yet still gaining weight. Does anyone know of anything I can take to level all of these crazy hormones out?
Omg I came off my injection id been on for a year and a month later out of no where I got this intense pain. It was horrible I’d be screaming out in agony it kind of felt like I was constipated but I wasnt. I couldn’t sleep I’d just be in constant pain. It lasted a week and I thought that was it but it came again the next month it took me a while to realise it must be linked to my periods even though I wasn’t actually bleeding. I’ve never had any type of pain linked with period they’ve always been regular and light. The injection completely ruined that. I would wish the pain I went through on anyone yet they don’t research the after math of taking the injection!! Not to mention the 4 stone I put on while I was on it
I hear you! I went off the shot in July 2012, was training for a Triathlon at the end of the month. Had another in September and a half marathon in October. So you know I was active. Boom….gained 25 lbs. WTH?! Right? Hang in there. I am having my thyroid checked. ..did you? I also went on a very low dose of lexapro…the dark cloud is lifting. My mood is better. As for the sweating. ..that’s still happening.
I had my thyroid checked about a year ago while I was still on the Depo shot. I’m just trying to figure out what can at least level me out. I’m going to my doctor today to see what his suggestions are. I will try anything at this point…
Well another update really bad sickly feeling today not pregnant I’ve checked and these symptoms completely resemble being pregnant so tired and feel like I am gonna b sick any minute. Haven’t actually been sick yet thou. Going to holland and Barrett to get some Agnus castus today will update if that helps. Xx
Has anyone experienced stomach muscle cramping? Since I have been off the shot about 10 weeks something else happens. The only thing normal is that I did get my period in Dec. and Jan. but my stomach muscles ache so bad.
I was on the Depo for almost 2yrs…my last shot was in the end of July…was due to get again in Nov but never went to the Dr..on the 12th i got my period for 2 days…and it has been off and on since…my appetite has increased tremendously…i have the craziest mood swings…nd my breast are swollen but not tender…and im also nauseous….thinking about taking a test to be on the safe side…but my symptoms seem like everyone elses who came off the depo…
I recently got on the Depo injection the last week in October and was due for my second dose in mid January…needless to say, I did not go to get the shot on the 21st…my experience with the first shot was horrible. The day that my period was supposed to come on, there was Nothing..then BOOM! 3 days later it showed up with a vengeance, I had never felt so much pain in my life…I’m 22 y.o. With No kids but I imagine the pain was literally what early labor felt like. I bled sooo heavy with a pain so intense all I could do was sit on the toilet and cry, couldn’t even get to my phone smh…the pain decreased minimally for the next 2 days then, no pain at all. BUT, I bled for another 2 weeks then 2 weeks after that, spotted for Another 2 weeks. Now, it still happens randomly, and in between I’ve had hot flashes, major headaches, mood swings (& I’m not an emotional female) and my chest is always sore..I would like to say I’ve become an insomniac but during the day I’m extremely fatigued…I was Not told about all of these side affect after quitting, when I did indeed ask…but what’s done is done, I wish you ladies the best & hopefully we all get through this trivial phase soon. One Love ladies!
hey ladies,
I am 22 y.o, I was on the depo shot for about 6 years. During those 6 years I had a straight month of bleeding, then nothing. I am bi polar, but while on the shot my mood swings got to be really bad an often. Also, my ta-tas (boobs) were ALWAYS sore, an though i never got my period, right around the end of every month I got horrible cramps n my ta-tas got swollen a full size up (he loved it!) but it was hell for me. Another thing i had was my knees an hips, an joints were becoming stiff and crampy (especally before it would rain) and it would be worse at night too. I was due for my last shot Feb. 2012, but with all the negative signs I was seeing n feeling I thought it best to get off it. Little did I know the HELL was about to begin…the first week was okay for me , but once that second week came around I started to have really bad hot flashes, then it was night sweats, then it was full blown WITHDRAW…I am a recovering heroin addict…so I am very familiar with what withdraw feels like. This continued for atleast 4 to 5 MONTHS after stopping the depo shot. For the past month I just started to get a period, it has lasted two to four days the beginning n ending of the month…I’m still waiting for that to be normal…I did reading online about depo withdraw, it said their were not cases like that. Well guess what my case was like that. it’ll be a year this month (Feb 2013). Online said that it could take up to two years to get a normal “flow” back. I’m still waiting….I also read about the shot eating your bones…? I think that’s very true! I never had any hip or knee problems before the shot. Sometimes the pain is so bad I can’t even sleep, an before n during rain storms at night is the worst!! I DO NOT RECOMMEND THE DEPO SHOT FOR ANYONE…it’s deadly an will eat your bones…corse the doctors don’t tell you about the side affects, least mine didn’t. Or explain the little “black box” warning either…if I would have known this is the kinda hELL I was in for I would have never started it…please don’t do the depo, just dload the pill app reminder on ur phone n use the pills…they r safer
Good luck….
britt
Hi, I am 22 and I last had my jab in jul 12 I haven’t had a period yet and had no burning issues… To be honest I have had no problems at all or no weight gain ( possibly because I’m in the army and do fitness all the time) only now my stomach is rather bloated and I feel dizzy and have a bit nausea … Think my period might be coming. When I got my jab at the doctors they fully made me aware of the complications of the depo and also coming off. Can’t believe all you girls are having such a bad time. Hope it works out better for you all soon!
I think I am also having similar experiences. I have only had 2 shots with my last one wearing off in October 2012. I experienced some weight gain but I can’t be sure if it’s because of the shot or just eating more due to stress. After going off the shot I bled one day in November but have yet to bleed since. I have taken 3 pregnancy tests and all negative. I get really anxious not knowing when my periods are and know that it is going to drive me nuts till I do bleed again. I cannot believe that after only two shots I might experience such severe symptoms. Is what I’m going throu normal for depo withdrawal? Is there any way to control the weight gain and get my iPod back on track? I’m really worried.
Alex, as you can see by the many comments on this post, there are some similarities in women’s experiences, and some things that seem to be unique for each woman. There is no way to predict what may follow for anyone.
I can say it’s normal for women coming off Depo to not have an immediate return to normal, regular menstrual cycle functioning. Hang in there.
I’ve been on the shot for 3 years, decided not to continue and did not go for my scheduled shot in November. Ever since the withdrawal symptoms have been TERRIBLE. SEVERE anxiety, panic attacks, mood swings, feeling sick/nauseous – even gained 15 pounds (15!!!) without any changes in exercise and diet. In 2 months none of my pants fit, wth. I’ve had pain as well, however I had been a month late for a shot last year and the pain landed me in the ER — tests, scans, nothing was wrong – got the shot again and it went away, so I knew what it was this time around. I went to the doctor today and she doesn’t think it’s the depo, yet nothing else in my life has changed to bring on any of these symptoms. Made an appontment with an ND for this week to see if there is anything else that can be done to rebalance my hormones and body. I hate this 🙁
oh and unlike some of the other posts, still no period going on 2 months…
After reading this entire page of responses, all posted from Jan 4, 2013 to Feb. 4, 2013 (the span of just one month) I am kind of discouraged to hear that no one has experienced acne after stopping depo.
I am 26 years old, I had my first depo inj Jan 2012 and my last Oct. 2012. In other words, I was on it for a year. I was due for another Jan 19, but did not take it. My husband and I would like another baby.
I started depo to relieve frequent yeast infections caused by taking the birth control pill. I was having them approx. 3x/mo – life was absolute hell. After starting depo, I did not have a single infection for an entire year!
Following my 4th dose of Depo in October, I began breaking out in acne. I have NEVER had acne, not even in my teen years. It is rare to even have a single pimple. One day in November I woke up and there were these small bumps all around my chin and the sides of my mouth. Approx. 20-30 on each side. Crazy amounts of them. They are filled with long, long strands of pus. (Sorry to be gross). A few weeks after that, more painful, red, volcanic-style acne began in my T-zone and around my hairline. My chin is the worst.
I’ve been using every product I have in my arsenal, including prescription Epiduo. I give it a fair chance for a few weeks and if it doesnt work, I try something else. The only thing that has (I think) worked it using Neosporin. But it’s hard to tell because the breakouts go in waves. Intense, overnight breakout, then a few days later tame skin for another few days.
The only other sx I’ve experienced after stopping are weight gain (approx 7 lbs) and nausea the first week or so after I was due another shot. I’ve had brown-ish spotting the past few days, but today I’ve stopped. I am a nurse and a mom so I am always tired and can’t speak on energy level.
It would be really nice to know that the acne explosion is due to stopping depo/hormone inbalance and not me getting old or some other permanent kind of fun.
Mindy,
I have body acne mainly on my back and when I stopped the depo shot back in Nov. 2012 (its been about almost 11 weeks) yes Im counting. I noticed the acne on my back got worse. I noticed that stopping the shot is affecting all of us in many different ways. Im also struggling with digestive issues and my eating has changed I went from stuffing my face while on the shot to hardly eating at all. I have lost weight because of this. I only took one shot so I can only hope all will get better in time.
Hi Mindy,
I have also experienced a lot of weird acne since stopping. I’ve never really had any problems with it but for the last 6 weeks have been getting a lot on my lower back and sides — very strange for me. I’ve attributed it to the depo, as I’ve never ever gotten it in those places before. I’m hoping it goes away soon as I feel like a gross troll with the weird acne and weight gain!
I have been on the shot for the last 18 years. Of course I have had my breaks missed a shot or so. 2 years ago they thought I had cervical cancer. So I got the copo and the results where ok although they wanted me to get 4 paps a year. That year was a personal challenge. I had a lot dumped on my plate. I followed up with NOTHING. I got off depo for 6months and figured I would let my body attempt a normal cycle. This was the begining of my weight gain. I was at a very tight 7 ok more like a 9. I started out having what I called the reverse period, I was off for a week and had a period all the other days. And seeing how I started depo so young I had no idea what cramps where till last year. I was to the point of depo or fat and feeling like the next person looked at me wrong and I might be on my way to motherhood.Not to mention my personality was so different, and it wasn’t just myseld that could see this but my firends and family was questioning my changes. So I took the leep and got back on the shot. I feel more confident of myself, not so needy . NO MORE CRAMPS OR PERIODS ( I didn’t even know where the tampon isale was !) I haven’t been this skinny in 13 years.
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My last pap came up abnormal again. I’m not freaking out like last time but the stress is still here.and so are the questions
Is there reaserch done on depo still?
can I get involved to help others learn more about it ?
And is there something that can help with the chunky lazy feelings ?
OH YA I can CAN OFFER THIS ADVISE TAKE YOUR VITAMINS I CAN’T STRESS THIS ENOUGH
its kinda black and white if your body is being depleated of something …… give it back what it lacks!!
And the acne issue is true but I linked it to my eatting habits that have changed .
Hey Jen …wow, you’re a Pro with the Depo! I understand that women get on the shot for different reasons, if I were your case, I would probably love to be on the injection. Just wanted to throw this out there: I have been on Vitamins since the injection and they don’t seem to give me much energy (as I stated earlier I’m experiencing extreme fatigue..still) . I have been taking the Centrum Women’s vitamins, are these the ones that anyone would recommend? They don’t seem to be doing much for me, I’m usually anemic when I go to doc apps but after taking these vitamins, my body gets right back on track…but not these days
Tiffani,
not sure where the pro comes from but that’s ok. what method of vitamins are you taking ie capsils / pills / chewable , gummy ?
I called you a pro because you managed to stay on for 18 years and I could barely handle 3 months lol. I am currently taking the Centrum Women’s multivitamin/multimineral supplement pills
This message is for MINDY I also was getting really bad acne as a side effect but found a cream in super drug/boots called quinoderm it contains benzoyl peroxide you put a very small amount on the effected area before bed when you wake in the morning straight away you will see the results only use it before bed and a slight amount as it drys the effected area’s stopping the acne from braking out I promise you will get amazing results on the acne hope this helps. Xx
Leslie,
I was due for my next shot Nov. 2012 ( I only took one shot) and although my periods did return Dec. and Jan. and I just got another one the other day. Im having digestive issues. I went through the nasuea feeling and loss of appiettie which made me loose any weight that I might have gained. I can only hope this is out of my system sooner than later per this has really took a toll on my mental and physical health. I have stomach pains like my stomach muscles are streching. All kinds of bllod work and test and nothing is wrong. Doctors cant seem to understand the side effects of coming off this drug or they deny it.
I would just like to share that 2 years and 5 months after my last depo shop I have finally gotten a positive (5 to be exact I couldn’t believe it!!) HPTs
I honestly never thought this day would come. I don’t know if I am more excited about finally being pregnant or knowing that I still work. Its early yet and I know a lot can happen being my suspicious side talking since god only knows what this awful drug has really done to my body, I’m just very glad that there is some normalcy coming out of it.
For those of you who are battling the same, DON’T give up!! Take it as time to get yourself in order.
Jackie,
How long were you on the depo shot?
6 years
Jen, Thanks for sharing your story. I’m curious to know if you have ever been encouraged to stop Depo because of its connection to bone density loss. I’m actually surprised that any health-care provider would continue to provide the shot to you. The FDA black box warning for Depo-Provera suggests no one should take the drug for more than two years unless no other method of birth control is suitable, because of its detrimental effects on bone density.
One effect not often noted about Depo is its suppressive effect on a woman’s immune system. There is evidence to suggest that women on Depo are more susceptive to HIV and HPV infections. HPV infection is associated with cervical changes that can lead to cancer.
There is no doubt that coming off Depo after 18 years would result in hormonal confusion in your body. I’m sorry you felt you had no other choice but to go back on this drug. This is one of my main concerns, that health-care providers cannot offer a recovery treatment plan to women stopping the drug. Wait and see, or wait it out, is not acceptable in my opinion.
All the best.
For those who are receiving notice of new comments to this post, you may want to check out my new post called: Does Depo-Provera work like a charm or a curse?
https://menstruationresearch.org/2013/02/06/does-depo-provera-work-like-a-charm-or-a-curse/?preview=true&preview_id=9430&preview_nonce=79481003ee
Thanks to all for sharing your stories and keeping this comment thread going.
How long would you say it took your body to feel back to “normal”? And when you went off did you experience any type of stomach issues? Congrats on your soon to be new baby
Id say about a year in a half to two. Begining was literally hell. I had my period for months at a time. And really bleeding for so long really gets a person down in all aspects. I didnt have any stomach issues, my mood changed drastically and it felt good to actually be mad or happy. My body was pretty much a roller coaster the entire time coming off of it. Me, I did not gain weight at all while on and if by chance I got sick and lost a few pounds id keep it off. I am small as it is so no that was not a good thing. Oh what else.. my acne improved and isnt constant like it had been. There is just so much its hard to be specific. After dealing with this I am totally against the depo but not only that for them all. Afterall we are meant to bleed and bare children its what we are meant to do. We as women need to not mess with ourselves and just take responsibility for our actions. I am just very glad that I have finally overcome this.
Jackie,
How long were you on the depo shot. I only took it once and almost 3 months later I still have stomach issues. Can you tell me how long it took you to get back to “normal”? Im a small women as well so any weight that I lost wasnt good for me
I was on it for 6 years. About 2 years before I felt normal again. What stomach issues are you having I guess im unsure of what you mean
Thank you for responding Jackie. Well shortly after not getting the 2nd depo shot I start having digestive issues. No throwing up or anything but just acid reflux. At one point earlier on I lost my appittie. I been through HELL.
I can relate to loss of appetite. My advice is dont continue depo and have patience. And do not ever get discouraged about not feeling normal. I use to all the time.
I didnt go back in fact I only took ONE shot which last from Aug. 2012 – Nov. 2012. I never went back for the 2nd shot because of the side effects that I was having while on it for those 3 months. Little did I know I would still have lingering side effects. I have had all kinds of blood work done to rule out anything wrong along with ultra sounds, x-rays, you name it I might have done it and everything comes back NORMAL. Yet I still feel bad. Its been VERY discouraging and I get very depressed. Thank you for discussing this with me.
I am so frustrated, I was on depo for close to a year, I stopped it in December 12 when I was due I decided it wasnt worth it. Everytime I wanted to stop it due to bleeding all the time mood swings fatigue etc the doc would say oh just do it again these will go away. Now that I am off of it I havent had a period I have read it can take awhile but I am bloated, gaining weight, crampy all the time, breasts are tender. Pregnancy tests are negative I called the doc and was basically told they couldnt do anything unless I got an IUD. I dont think its up to them to decide my fate. Im frustrated, scared, mad Im afraid I have done damage to myself
Chloe,
The best thing you can do is NOT get another shot and wait for it to leave your system. I took the shot only one time and was due for another in Nov. 2012 and I still have some side effects. I understand your fustration. Im not sure getting the IUD will help with all the side effects or the withdrawl systems. Everyone is different and it may take a couple of months for your period to return. Mine did return the next month in Dec. 2012 BUT I only took one shot so that may be why. Your not alone
After giving birth in 2009 I started getting the depo shot. I was on it for a year and a half. I stopped at the end of 2010, it took me a year to return to my cycle. Its messing with my hormones I’m constantly getting excruciating period pains, its been over two years,I can’t conceive. There’s also a certain pain where it was administerd above my right butt. I’m sure depo was a huge mistake! Help because many young girls are unaware n receiving depo shots at public clinics across South Africa.
Yes hi, i came off the depo shot main reason was i couldnt handle the hormones in the shot, but anyway coming off the shot my breasts are really sore, and my face has broke out with acne i was wondering if those 2 things im experiencing normal, and how long after can i get pregnant after being off the shot?!
Hi girls…I too was on the depo, for 11years actually during this time I loved it…no periods, no PMS awsome…but we wanted to have children so something had to give..OBVIOUSLY.. My god what happened post depo I never ever thought I would go through…throbbing sore breasts to the point I couldn’t even touch them, night sweats (a year) anxiety, major bloating, nausea, withdrawal from social events, weight gain mid section and boobs…I hated life!!!! 2 years I went through this…so many times I was tempted to go back to depo just to feel normal again but I just couldn’t do it because if we wanted to try to have children again I would have to go through the withdrawals again!!! No way!!!…SO I did try accupuncture, low carb diet, excercising but it did take a long time for the depo to come out….maybe being on it for 11 years didn’t help!!!!…but it didnt eventually come off…now I’m dealing with PMS great!!!!!.
I was on the depo from Dec. 09 until March of last year, so I was due for a new shot in June of 2012. I was a hormonal mess, I would crack under the slightest pressure and go off acting like a crazy person! After getting off of it emotionally I feel wonderful. My relationship with my husband is finally restored, since I have returned to normal. However, physically I am not okay! I still haven’t gotten a period. I’ve gained more weight off of it then I did on, My breasts hurt and have gotten bigger. Pregnancy tests come back negative, and I don’t think I am ovulating. I am not trying to get pregnant but I would really like to have cycles unstead of wondering if I could be pregnant all the time! If I had known all this before I would have never had the shot.
I hate the depo shot. I bled for 3 weeks after I had it done, I would get pains in my womb or even in other areas of my abdomen. I haven’t gotten my second shot and I’m not going to!! Now that I’m getting off of it I have CRAZY mood swings, weird discharge, still pains in my womb, and now I’ve gotten at least 6 ulcers in my mouth at once. I am so not having fun and I think depo provera is the cruelest thing your doctor will convince you to do. 😐 Hate hate hate hate hate. Curse it to hell. I’d rather be pregnant 6 times over that go through this again.
Just wanted to update I had posted nearly month back with my withdrawal sysptoms coming off the depo only this month when I did a pregnancy test I got a positive I’ve got 3 positive’s in total now so Iam definantly pregnant so although the depo does give pregnancy symptoms always check incase u are pregnant. Also to anyone who has came off because they are planing to have a baby it took me 5 month from the date my depo ran out a soon as my periods where back I was able to get pregnant. Hope this helps some people
Susie,
Since you last shot was 5 months ago; What month did you get your periods back and how many times did you get the shot. I took the shot only once will it running out in Nov. 2012. My periods came right back in Dec. 2012 and going forward but I sweat under my arm pits like you mentioned in your earlier post. Does your body feel back to normal after 5 months? Sorry for all the questions
Hey, I was on depo for 3 years. HORRIBLE mistake. It made me act crazy, I gained weight(30 PDs!!!!!) didn’t have a period the entire time. My hair started falling out it got very thin and even kinda greasy. I started getting acne. Moody, cramps, sore breasts, blurry vision, headaches, forgetfulness, mind won’t focus leg/ muscle cramps , hands/legs/feet arms everything always falling asleep back always hurting, stomach always bloated, fatigue, sore joints/ bones, fractued 2 bones by barely hitting them(finger and ankle) back is also starting to curve. It took my sex drive away completley. So many symptoms I can’t list them all!!!!! I got my first shot when I was 16/17 and took my last when I was 19. Started taing because of irregularity and them everything stopped completely . I am now 20 and it took an entire year for my period to start back, and when it finally did it lasted 60 days heavy with quarter sized clots the entire time . Oh I forgot to add about how I got blood clots in my uterus a year prior to this that couldn’t come out because I could not bleed them out ! Veryyyyy painful. I may now have had early per menopause( also had the hot flashes sweats etc) showing signs of early osteoporosis andddd multiple sclerosis. I am only 20 years old! I don’t know what to do I feel like I won’t be able to enjoy life it is now screwed. I still can’t get rid of the extra 10-15 PDs even with excercising and eating better. I beg anyone ready this, please! Do not ever take depo. I am begging you for your own sake you will regret it. Thanks for reading.
Ok, so this makes me feel SO MUCH BETTER. I was on the shot for a year, but the only way I stopped bleeding during the shot was to wear the vivelle patch which got too expensive! Plus the entire to do was heavy fatigued, heavy heavy acne, and gained!!! And now, it’s been a couple months since I was due for the shot and I decided it wasn’t worth it anymore. However now I haven’t had my period, I’m bloated, and still fatigued! (I might’ve relapsed into depression, but I still feel the shot and the hormones being off balance has something to do with these symptoms. Oh and I’m not pregnant.
I’m so happy I found this website.. I started Depo August 2011 and took it for a year.. This October when I was due for my next round I decided to stop taking it.. I had a few months of depression, gained 15 pounds, and was just having a hard time.. I loved not having a period but I just didn’t feel like me anymore and wasn’t comfortable in my own skin.. Its been 4 1/2 months now and I still haven’t gotten a period.. I wish I did so I wasn’t paranoid about pregnancy but at least I’ve lost some of the weight and feel a lot better inside and out… This may be a very silly question, but if I’m not getting a period, can I get pregnant? It feels good to get back to me and even though I did in the beginning, I don’t recommend Depo anymore.
I was on the injection for 4 years after my doctor thought it would be wise as I was forgetful with the pill. I decided to take myself off of the injection because I had been spotting the month before, and had no period throughout the whole 4 years. I spoke to my doctor about it and she said that she didn’t know what it was and it was best I just continue to take the shot. I didn’t go back when I was due, but thanks to no one explaining what would happen I have been having the worst time! About 2 weeks after I was due my next shot, I was experiencing all kinds, sore breasts which have swelled, stomach cramps, I cannot sleep, nausea, occasional throwing up, mood swings, bleeding which led me to believe I had miscarried due to the pregnancy symptoms, and anxiety lapses when leaving the house. I have never EVER felt like this, and being 21 and having panic attacks when I leave the house is really not great. My doctors is back home as I live away for university and my local walk in centre sent me away and told me to see my GP. I don’t know how much more of this I can take because its affecting my work and my life. I just want to know when I will be back to normal, and finally feel better. Oh, and since I was due for the shot almost 2 months ago and haven’t had a period, it’s like a horrible waiting game. Never again will I go near Depo Provera, never ever ever.
OMG I am really glad to hear all of this cause I honestly thougth I was going crazy. Right now as I am typing this I am on day two of excrutiating abdominal pain. The only other time I felt like this was while I was in labour or miscarrying. I was on it for 5 years and had my final shot in June of 2013. I have the sweats to the point where my shirts are staining, the abdominal pains have only just started and the sore and swollen breast started when I first went off. I just want this to be over. I always thought the shot was great up until this point. I also always thought I would convince my daughter to go on it when she was old enough, but I have definitely changed my mind. Oh and I have had issues with calcium deposits, hip injuries, wrist issues and ankle issues all since I started this damn shot. I am very glad to hear though that I am not the only one going through this and that I am not alone in my suffering. My husband just doesn’t understand, it’s nice to know someone out there does.
Hi ladies, ive just turned 30 and had been on depo for about 10years. The 24th of Jan 2013 was meant to be my next shot but i missed it due to moving countries. Its now been 18weeks since my last shot and ive been ok up until this week, im getting hot flashes at bedtime, tender breasts but not too painful and random cramping spasms, i keep thinking that my period is coming back but still no sign of it. Has anyone else been on it for this long then gone off, how long did it take to get back to your normal cycle etc
Hello, a few months ago i was thinking about coming off the depo and asked for info here as my nurses are a little relaxed with their answers, saying that everything will be alright in the end and i will just have to wait and see, with the bonus statement of saying everyone is different. Which i didnt feel that was at all helpful but after reading a few of your comments i at least feel like i know more about the possible side effects of coming of this injection.
I went on this injection for no other reason but the amount of blood i was losing and the pain i was in, going through 60/70 towels a week and being rushed into hospital for pain relief injections. After a while the depo sorted this out and i in fact do not have a period at all.
I have already been on this injection for seven years, hence why i was thinking about coming off it, but after reading your comments i found that i am really quite a lucky person for i dont have any bad side effects being on this and the fact i do not bleed at all now means im saving money on towels!!! I am 28 and have no plans to have children, my cat is enough for anyone!!! If you like moaning little teenagers you will love my cat!!!
So i will stay on this injection, but i wanted to thank all of you for help and let you know your comments really do help
Hiya sorry for the late reply my injection ran out at the end of July and my periods started a couple of weeks before Christmas then I had a 2 week gap and had another period at the beginning of January which I fell pregnant just after unfortunately my sweating hadnt stopped at all and the side effects were there that was why I didn’t realise that this time I was pregnant because it was exactly the same feeling of coming off the depo the only difference this time was the horrendous fatigue I also had a huge belly all the time which was a side effect of the depo I am not sweating badly at present but I don’t know if that’s because I’m pregnant I did go to holland and Barrett and purchase some evening primrose oil and Agnus castus and they are supposed to help but then I found out I was pregnant so couldn’t take them also perspirex can be used before bed its purchased from savers or boots that stops you sweatin the next day completely. Hope something in there helps. Xx
My depo was due by 1/25/13 and I decided to let it lapse. I got a period 1/26- 2/09? But now its 3/09 and still nothing further. I had I took a PT on 2/26 and it was negative. I teasted because I was late and had many symptoms that would lead me to think it was possible, everything but tender breast. I am TCC myself. I have had tender breast for 3 days now. Has anyone else had such issues with coming off of depo? How long should I wait before I retest?
Hello Rachel Ann – one of the side effects in coming off of Depo can be breast tenderness and feeling like you are pregnant. The literature also states that it may take up to 18 months before normal periods resume.
Not sure what to suggest regarding pregnancy retesting. Just make sure to use another form of birth control method. You may just want to test once a month for your piece of mind.
One of the problems with coming off of synthetic hormones is that you do not know when you are going to start ovulating again. It could be in a matter of days – or even in a matter of weeks or months. So it it very important to always use another method of birth control when you are having sex.
Hope this helps.
Hi ladies. I’m 31 years of age and had been on Depo since I was 17 as I am allergic to all other birth control. I got my last shot in April 2012. By August I was so very very sick. Bloated to point that I looked like I was six months pregnant, boobs huge and so sore, feeling sick all the time, mood swings, very emotional and depressed, acne on my face back and chest among other horrible things!!! I got my first period in September 2012 and have been getting them every month since but only for about three day and can be very light! While on the depo I didn’t have any periods so I’m not sure if this is normal for me. I’m terrified that I have done damage that will stop me having children! At 17 I wasn’t thinking of children or the future but regret it so much now.
So glad I found this – I too thought I was going crazy. Had depo September 2011 after my son was born. Doctor told me how wonderful it was meant to be, so I didn’t think twice. Had been on the pill previously, with no problems. After two shots I absolutely refused to have any more. – I refer to myself as a zombie during that time. I was emotionless, could hardly think straight it was horrible!! Depo ran out march 2012, period finally came back in December 2012, but we have been trying to fall pregnant and still no luck :'( fell first cycle with my son, I feel pregnant all the time but tests negative and erratic cycles – so worried I’ve done permanent damage 🙁 🙁
Just thought I’d give an update. I did not go in for my shot in December when I was due. I did experience some side effects. My heart would flutter often. Sometimes so badly it would make me cough. My breast seems to double in size and were very sore. Those side effects lasted about a month. Other than that everything has been O.K. I started my period yesterday March 10, 2013. So it only took me about 3 months to get it back. I’m excited and hoping this means I can get pregnant. We are anxious to start our family.
Hey Everyone! Im soooooo glad i found this page! Ive been searching the web for days looking for answers, and this is the closest ive came to getting one yet! Im 19 years old. I started using depo when was 15, and was due for my last shot in September 2012. I didnt go because i didnt feel it was doing me any good, and my doctor said he wouldnt keep me on it longer than two years. Yet i was on it for three and a half years, and everytime i mentioned getting off of it like he had said…he wanted to act like he didnt know what i was talking about. He insisted i stayed on it because of the teen pregnancy rate increase. (I go to a low budget doctor.) I gained weight (45 lbs) and just did not feel like myself. Since ive been off the shot ive had even worse symptoms! Im depressed, moody, and in pain! My back has been killing me causing shortness of breath when i move a certain way. I went to the doctor, and for some reason they thought it was my ribs? Even though i knew my ribs were out of the question. They said everything was normal, even though something is terribly wrong! My bones aching makes me feel like im 70 not 19! I got my first actual period in November, and for the most part it was quite normal. Along with the next one. My third period was when i started worrying because i was bleeding heavy, clotting really bad, and had severe pain on the left side of my uterus before, during, and after my cycle. I thought maybe i was pregnant, and miscarried but the test was negative. My last period was February 28th, and was normal. I just started again today though, making me a lil over two weeks EARLY! Im still having those pains too! Thirteen days between cycles after ive had normal ones…isnt right! Should i take another pregnancy test?
I only took the shot two times and i knew by the third shot i definitley was stopping because it was messing up my system!! anyways i was just wondering if anyone has experienced having sore knees? I never had problems with my knees before but within the 6 months i was on depo my knees have been aching!! i was exercising and i had to stop because my knees were so sore afterwards i thought maybe i was doing something wrong but i dont think that was the case because ive always been athletic. Another thing is that I read somewhere but I don’t know if its true or not that it may cause excessive or thick hair growth???
Hi all, just wanted to know whats happening with me. I was on Depo Provera for 11 years. Decided to stop taking the shot cause we ttc. My next shot was due on 23rd February 2013, but I did not go. After have intercourse I started bleeding (light pink). It’s not 3 weeks since I have stopped. Now after intercourse it’s a lot of red blood and the next day it’s gone. Can anyone please tell me if this is normal.
Is it really just me thinking this or are there other people thinking the same? That although i hate it when doctors use ‘everyone is different’ line but in this case im starting to believe that is true. Every comment i read i find out a symtom someone is having that i had before i took the depo. It comes across almost scary to come off it but most people seem to have a reason to come off i.e making them ill or having a baby, but for me, yes i have gained 2 stone that i cant get rid off but that is it, i have no bleeding although the problems i had before the depo will probably cover a lifetime full of periods! I not saying depo is right for everyone and i do make sure i take things for my bones, but the doctors do say that any damage to bones happens within the first three years and then stops so as i have been on it for 7 years i do not have to worry. After reading all your comments i really do think ‘everyone IS different’.
I been off depo for almost two years and i been trying to have a baby..i have been having periods but except this last period was really really heavy where i had to wear a sanitary napkin and a tampons..does this men i wont get pregnant
Hi Rachel, i have had many symptoms from using depo and i have been trying to get pregnant but with all the tender breast and the funny movements in your stomach i guess its all apart of comin off depo..i been off for 1 year and 8 months and still not pregnant so it may feel like you could be but thats just how the shot makes u feel and have you think.
I got the depo shot dec 18th 2012 and ever since then, I’ve had the worst abdominal pains. They come and go. Recently the abdominal pain has been getting worse. I also feel it to be tender and bloated in my abdominal area. To scared to wear tight jeans or it will hurt like crazy!I had felt the pain mostly on my lower right side and rarely/sometimes on my left. I pray my ovaries are doing okay ever since the depo messed me up. I also feel joint pain and I’ve actually lost weight on depo (maybe due to stress). I keep losing weight and i’ve never been so skinny in my life. I’ve had tender breast and my back was hurting. And not just my back but even my ribs started to hurt. I always felt tired too. Also, I feel like i’ve developed a UTI. While the depo is ruining the body, drinking coffee a lot was not the best thing to do. So recently, I’ve been taking many vitamins and that really helped with the muscle/joint pains. i drink lots of water now too! My 3 month is about to end and I just want this horrible infection out of me! I wish I knew what I know now. I’m a mess!
Hi Jolene. I too experience bleeding (light pink)after intercourse but not all the time. However never heavy bleeding. Maybe this is normal for some women. Might be a good idea to have a chat with doctor to put your mind at ease??
Hi guys I got on the shot in Nov 2012 n I was suppose to get my second shot Jan 28,2013,the day after my 21st bday btw :), but i didnt go. My cycle came on on the 29th n stayed on for like a week and a half. Once it went off me n my husband had sex before he left for deployment and now my cycle is almost two months late. I took 4 pt and they were all negative. Im thinking I might be pregnant because the time I had sex but i keep getting negative results. If it dnt come one next week im thinking about getting a blood pt.
Need some help. Been on the depo for 8 or 9 nine years because i had a bad time with cramps. I have put on weight and struggled to get it off. Have now made the decision i want to start a family, and i have let my due date pass. It was this friday just gone. I suffered with horrible cramps all night so bad i thought i was either hallucinating it or dreaming it. The comments i have read i’m worried i wont be able to concieve, which i will be getting a donor. I’m turning 27 soon and i have wanted a child now for so long. I’m worried i wont be able to become pregnant. Does the time scale vary from each woman for the depo to go out the system? I am currently having the tender nipples (sorry for the over share) and got a bit worried. Also what signs will let me know that i am ovulating? Please help.
I have been on Depo for three years after a doctor offered it to me when I didn’t want to be on the pill any longer. While I was on it I thought it was great, however I came off it due to heavy break through bleeding and one major mood change that left me feeling crazy and suicidal. I didn’t go back for my next shot after that and since then have had extreme mood changes (I don’t feel in control of my thoughts or body at the moment, my breasts are extremely tender to the point that I find it uncomfortable lying on my front. I have resumed periods, but so far it has been very very heavy and has continued for eight days now with no sign of stopping. I feel like Im going through a second adolescence at 26 years of age and I feel completely sorry for my boyfriend who is trying to deal with my out of character behavior (crying, depression, anger). The physical feelings would not be so bad if it were not accompanied by these feelings. I’m very temped to go back onto it just so I can function normally again. Has anyone else experienced extreme mood changes such as this?
I have been on the depo shot for 9 or 10 months. I am on my 3rd injection. Shortly after receiving the 3rd injection in beginning or middle of Feb I have been feeling horrible. It started one night out of the blue, I had hot flashes, and soon became very nauseated. I thought i had the stomach flu for a while. As time went on some days were ok and some days were horrible. As of a few days ago i lost my appetite, i have to force myself to eat, i get nauseated, i cannot sleep right ( fall asleep around midnight and wake up at 2am and go back to sleep around 230am and wake back up at 6am and stay up), if i do try and eat something i take a bit and dont want it because of the nausea,fast and irregular heartbeat at times, lower stomach menstrual like cramps, blood or brown discharge that has an odor to it, dark yellow urine (i drink water throughout the day), dry lips, my stomach is so bloated, and i do not have any interest in my daily activities at all. I called the place where i go get the shot and the nurse told me that my body should be use to the injection by now, so that through my mind all over the place. I began to think it was something else then. SO, i googled every symptom of mine possible which lead to other illness and had me in fear. I know it has to be this shot because after my last dose in Feb i have not been myself at all. I was wondering if any one is going through this or has been through this on the depo? Are my symptoms from the depo shot even though i have been on the shot for 9 or 10 months?
I was on Depo for about a year and a half and absolutely loved it. No periods, my fiance and I didn’t have to worry about condoms breaking or a pill being forgotten. Life was sweet.. (until I just about completely lost my sex drive.) This is sort of a side note but I’ve suffered from migrains for about ten years and I haven’t found much relief from them. My doctor was afraid the hormones in the shot were making them worse and suggested I discontinued the shot. I have paid for that year anda half ten fold. I have had my period for three months now with a few days “off” every week/week and a half. I am in severe pain that keeps me up at night, not menstrual pain but joint pain. My breasts have swollen up an entire cup size and hurt terribly. I have a sex drive but I can’t stop bleeding long enough to do anything about ut! I have an appointment with my physician so hopefully I can get everything straightened out. I’llfollow up if my new doctor can shed some light
Hi, i was on depot for six month and took my last shot may 10th 2012. i had abnormal periods for two then it stopped. i went to my gyn who put me on folic acid and fersolate. i had regular periods after that, until this month when it stop. i have missed my period, done three pregnancy tests and came out negative. my gyn says am worry too much that’s why i missed. i need advice.
OMG. You are my story! I decided not to get my shot (due in March 2013) because I was an emotional mess and I couldn’t stand the weight gain. Now, 9 months later, the weight is gone, but that is the only positive thing I can report. My breasts are terribly sore all the time and have increased tremendously in size. I haven’t gotten a period yet and constantly worry about being pregnant. Sleep is terrible, I never feel rested. Night sweats, anxiety, mild depression. I had no idea this was possible from the shot. Now I’m just wishing that it will end!
Can I still suffer from horrible nausea, hot flashes, dizzy, not able to sleep or cannot stay asleep and sleep well, night sweats, lost interest in all my daily activities, having an appetite that comes and goes one day I have an appetite then the next I don’t, feeling bad in the mornings until around 3ish, and just not having energy to do anything… can I suffer from all these symptoms STILL BEING on the depo shot for 9 or 10 months? I’m on my 3rd injection and I basically feel pregnant which I’m not because I have no sexual intercourse what so ever. Please help!
Hey Ladies,
Ive posted earlier, about 2 weeks ago. At the time I was experiencing some cramping in the lower abdomin and had all the signs of pregnancey. I’d been on the shot for 5 years, getting my last shot in July 2012. I have still to get my period. Two weeks ago, after my last post I ended up in the hospital with what felt like labour pains (I have three kids and have had four miscarriages, I know what labour feels like :)). They gave me a narcotic type pain shot and sent me home and requested I book an ultra sound. The pain shot wore off in 3 hours!!!!! I was taking 800mg of ibuprophen and t 2’s back to back to counter the pain. The next morning I was in for an ultrasound and they found that my uterus was enflamed and had fluid around it, my ovaries were the same and had cysts on them I had blood in my cervical canal but my cervix wasn’t opening and the unterine lining was 1cm thick and building. I still haven’t had a period and have a gynocologyst app next month which leads me to believe that I will go through this again until my body gets back on track. I’m pretty sure that the doctors have no idea what it is we are going through and aside form a D n’ C there isn’t much they can do for us. I feel for all of us as this is the worst thing our body are going through. I just want this stuff out of me and have my body back! Ontop of all the other pointed out issues, pain, aches, bloatedness, swollen breasts, mood swings etc I’ve gained close to 60 lbs in the five years that I had been on this. I would have thought that being off of this stuff for close to a year now, I would be getting back on track and the most frustrating thing is, no one has any answers!!!
Hi really need some advice as I dont know what is going on with my body. I started the depo injection July 2011 and came off it march 2012. I got my period back January 2013 and had another february but then this month I started with cramping and very sore and swollen breasts also nausea 2 and a half weeks before I was due then just before I was due I had brown blood discharge that lasted a few days, I now still have the cramping and sore swollen breasts I’ve done 3 tests and all negative. Do you think these are just after symptoms or could I be pregnant???
Hi Mandy,
Certainly women are experiencing a broad range of symptoms, both on and post-Depo and not all are experiencing the same things. But there are also lots of similarities including extreme breast tenderness, no periods, hot flushes, acne, mood issues including depression, abdominal issues such as bloating and nausea, and weight gain concerns that are all documented as related to Depo-Provera. The other thing I’ve noticed is that many women are concerned that they are pregnant, even though they have not had the return of their periods.
These commonalities seem to be providing some comfort to women who are learning that their experiences are not unique to women stopping Depo-Provera.
Thanks for your comment.
I have come to realize that the depo is causing everything we all are experiencing…. this shot is evil and poison!! Get off if ya have not yet…. I am on it my next shot is due in april2013, but I aint going nowhere near it…. ever again!!
Camy, How much weight did you loose? I lost weight too and had stomach problems as well
Probably symptoms, but I’d advise using barrier methods for birth control consistently while going through this transition. Once a woman stops taking Depo-Provera she is at risk for pregnancy, so using another method of contraception is a must.
Hi, I have been on the depo shot since 1997 i loved it, no periods, no cramps, no pms, i didnt have any weight gain at all, but now i am having small amounts of brown discharge and cramping for the past 2 months, i dont know whats going on. My next shot will be in May, but i wont be getting it i think its time to break away from depo. I am 47 years old and my child bearing days are over.
Thank you for your advice. I was hoping it was pregnancy symptoms as we’re trying to get pregnant. I guess we’ll just have to keep trying and hopefully the next test will be positive.
Please come back to this post and share your experience of coming off Depo. Most of the commenters here are in their 20s. It will be insightful to hear how your experience may differ from theirs.
Thanks for your comment.
Hi Laura, the reason why i started depo in 1997 was due to the fact that i was very underweight 5 feet 6 inches tall and 98 pounds, so my Dr put me on Depo. My first shot i bled for 30 days and after that my periods stopped. I did not experience any harsh side effects from this at all as a matter of fact i didnt even gain weight. I have been on Depo for 16 years and i think that its time to break away from it I am noticing changes in my body for instance joint pain, brown discharge, cramping, mood swings. I spoke with my GYN Dr and he told me that it was time to stop taking the injections and i agreed. My last shot was December 5, 2012 i dont know if i will get my regular period back because i am 47 years old and menopause is very near for me, as a matter of fact i could be going through it right now. I will keep you posted though.
Hi Katie– I will pray for you to conceive. dont give up keep trying and it will happen.
Hi Everyone,
I am 49 years old, was on Depo for over 15 years, Stopped the shot 9 months ago. I immediately went through cramping,bloating, sore breasts…..sweats…..which after 2 months did subside. But here I am 9 months later, mildly cramping, emotional and no period in sight. My GP is not concerned what so ever and has never been interested in discussing the issue. I feel very sorry for younger women not aware of the issues everyone has concerning this injection. My 17 year old niece is on this now and thinks it’s a MIRACLE. Nothing I say about this drug matters to her as all she knows is that she no longer gets her period and is protected from pregnancy.
Hi I felt the same way your neiice is feeling. I was so happy not to have a period anymore that I was not concerned about anything. Even though I had no issues during the 16 years of getting the injections, I am now having issues with my joints, cramps, brown color discharge and its all from depo. For all young women reading these post, please stay away from Depo!
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Hi,
I’ve been on Depo Provera since October 2010. It’s been alright for the past two years but, I’ve also had my days when I’m just ready to let it go. I originally got on Depo because I wasn’t a fan of IUDS and I knew I would not take the pills daily so, the Depo would be the most convenient to go with. Since being on Depo I’ve went from a size 3-5-7. I’ve also went from a 34B to a 34C. What’s irritating me with this birth control is the lack of sex drive, the irregular bleeding (I’ll bleed 3 weeks straight until it’s time for the next injection) and, I’ve had two skin rashes that’s very itchy. My first rash was last summer and, I currently have one now that’s going on two weeks. I’m not sure what’s going on with this shot but, I’m due for another injection next month and I’m thinking about calling it quits. My only fear of coming off the Depo is the bleeding for nearly a year from stories I’ve read. It just seems like it’ll be 10x worse coming off.
Hi — I understand how you are feeling. I didn’t mention in my last notes that I have a rash also, since 2008 under my breast and I was told by my dr that it was from the depo. I didn’t gain weight but my cup size went from 34a to 34c. With the rash I have a lot of sweating and itching. I am leaving this depo alone. I must say that I am very scared of the issues my body will go through after discontinuing. But I know and my dr told me its time to let it go.
I lost 7lbs on the depo! It’s very scary because I use to be around 102-103 (I’m 5 feet) and now I fluctuate between 96-97lbs. I went to the doctor about all my symptoms and its so sad how the doctor was saying it was not because of the depo when I never had these symptoms before.
The depo is hell. I have experience this morning a gush of light pink blood with a tiny blood clot when i used the restroom, I have not had a period since i been on this (3rd injection). I am due for another one in April, but this girl is not going nowhere near planned parenthood!!! I am getting off this shot and never looking back!!! I have been through hell since my 3rd injection in Feb… whew!!! I thought i was dying and going crazy! This shot had me nauseous, hot flashes out of nowhere, no sleep, dizzy sometimes, bloated constantly, no sex drive, vagina dryness until i had a brown discharge or spotting, leg weakness/cramps…. I feel like i am going through menopause!!! UGH!! I hate the person I am right now! I just don’t want to do anything anymore.
I lost about that much as well. My gyno told me that sometimes small women loose weight while on depo or when coming off the depo shot. However most doctors wont admit that its from the depo shot. I got acid reflux once I didnt go back for my second shot and could hardly eat.
Wow, I did not know that. Thanks for the info. I also had acid reflux too or what it appears to be. Every night I’ve been having heartburn to the point that I lack sleep most nights. I also get at random times through-out the day. I’m relieved to know that I’m not the only one going through this. Although, I wish no one should ever deal with these pains.
After being on depo for 8-10 years, my last shot was a year ago, just a couple of weeks before I turned 48. I did not have periods, but occasional light bleeding, through the years. Nothing more than a panty liner could handle. After my last shot, I did not have a period until December, 6 months after the next shot would be due. Tremendous, heavy clots, lasted a few weeks. A few weeks off, and a light period. A few more weeks, and this whole month has been on-again-off-again heavy clots, or just “normal” period flow. I have flooded out maxi-pads with super plus tampons. Fortunately, no cramps or other symptoms. Maybe a little weight gain, but this bleeding has got to stop! I will be 49 in about 2 weeks, and my sister, who will turn 50 in about 3 weeks, is definitely going through menopause. She has not been on bc, and is going months without, in fact, may be done, but when she started going through it, heavy like I’m having one month, then a few months off, then light to normal period for about a week, then months went by, and another heavy storm. So, I’m chalking this up to a bad-timing combo of depo withdrawal combined with menopause. Can’t wait until I start counting months WITHOUT! Hope this was helpful.
Hi all–I know what all of u are saying. Been on depo for 16 years and just started having issues a couple of months ago. For all of u young women who plan to have children get off depo it will make u steril. My friend and her husband have been trying to have a baby for 4 years, my friend stop taking depo 7 years ago. She can’t get pregnant and it’s because of Depo. I am 47 and of course not having any children, so therefore, I am done. What I am going through now is very frustrating. Brown blood for a month now, cramping, sweating, itchy rash. My dr told me it was all from depo.
Thats the same thing happen to me but it started once it was time for me to get the shot that when my stomach problems start to happen. For the most part the acid reflux doesnt keep me up at night anymore but I still have stomach pains. How many shots did you take? I only took one shot and I still have what seems to be side effects
Ladies, I was just wondering if i can experience the depo shot withdrawals after a month or so getting my 3rd depo injection because all i feel how everyone is feeling? Nausea (not often but i get it), hot flashes, not able to sleep, dizzy (not often but i have experienced it), a lil shaky, crying spells (not a lot)….. what do yall think?
I got my 3rd depo injection in Feb beginning of Feb..
Or can all that be depo symptoms i am experiencing?
Hi–those are all side effects from the Depo.
Really? Thank you so much. The reason i sound so stressed about all this is because I had a nurse tell me that my body should be use to this shot by now since this is my 3rd injection and i should not be experiencing any nausea, not able to sleep (the symptoms i stated above)… so i thought i was suffering from another illness. then i got to thinking that that nurse has to be making all that up because I did not start feeling all this until i got that 3rd injection. My mind has been all over the place! I mean i have never experienced things like that before. It really feels as if i am going through menopause. I haven’t been having a lot of night sweats recently, but i have been getting some nausea during the day. My legs still feel weak though. I really appreciate everyone that has talked with my stressed butt about all this haha. I do find some relief when people tell that is for a fact the depo messing with me. Sometimes it gets real bad, and I still find myself thinking it is something else still.
I also find myself craving things in the middle of the night as well haha. I haven’t had a period in so long that I have no idea when I will start my cycle once I am off this shot.
So the question I have is, can we still experience depos side effects no matter when, or how long we been on it?
Thank you everyone so much!
You sound EXACTLY like me!!!!!! please email me mz_officer4053@yahoo.com
I am on my 3rd injection and due for it in april i will not be gong back for that shot…. all your symptoms sound just like mineeee!!!!!! You are my story!!!!
You are not alone in this. It will take sometime before Depo is out of your system. I don’t know if my system will ever go back to being normal since I have been on depo for 16 years. What I am feeling now could be menopause or it could be from the depo. If I knew 16 years ago what I know now I would not have taken these injections.
Exactly, if I knew the depo could cause all this I would have never ever got the injection to begin with. i can slao myself for not researching. How stupid on my part!
It is the nausea that gets me during the day!! UGH!!
Dwell, I don’t know if you know or not, but I am still on the shot. I got it back in Feb, so I am a month in my 3rd injection. I honestly feel like i am going through the “depo” withdrawals though…. i mean with everyone symptoms they have stated here. I feel like everyone here!
Thanks again!
Ericka: This was my first shot too. I didn’t really expect the shot to be this powerful after one dose. The stomach pains for me now come and go. If I eat unhealthy or not take my daily vitamins, it comes back. But sometimes, it just comes back with vengeance. I take acai, garlic, fish oil pills everyday and a multivitamin. I don’t take garlic as much though since too much can be bad. Taking these daily really eliminated a lot of my illnesses but unfortunately it cant do everything. No lie though, it took away any back pain, joint pain, hip pain the same day i started taking them. I really think we need to maintain a healthy diet while transitioning back to our normal selves because my body was just deteriorating due to the depo. I hope the side effects go away. My three months ended March 18th. I’m only 24 and i can’t believe the depo can do so much. My body was so weak.
Me: I felt many of my symptoms after just getting one shot. It did not take long for the side effects to kick in for me. I can just imagine being on it 3 months, I’m sure it can do that as well. I would say they are due to the depo–it’s a terrible birth control.
I take a multivitamin as well first thing in the mornings if i feel like it or not. But Like i said i am on my 3rd injection and just waiting to come off the shot. I was scheduled for my next dose April 19 (I will not be going!!!). I just feel so much like you ladies that i cannot believe it.
So that’s why i felt i was experiencing withdrawals!! I feel as if I am going crazy because of these symptoms that i have never experienced before until a little bit after getting my 3rd shot. I just don’t understand!!! It is horrible!!
Camy-
I only yook one shot as well back in Aug.2012 I was due for the 2nd Nov.2012 and I didnt take it and shortly after I started to feel very bad. What was so confusing is while I was on it for the 3 months I did have side effects but once I didnt go back to take the shot is when I really had a hard time. I couldnt understand why I wasnt having the stomach problems until after I didnt return for the shot because in my mind it was “out my system” but from what I have read its hard to say when it will be out the system even if you do get your period back
Me: I felt like I was going crazy too. Every new symptom was cancer or some sort of disease or infection. I kept self-diagnosing myself which was not good, to the point where I thought i was dying. It’s best not to get it and hope for the best. At least we are in this together hehe
Ericka: Same applies to me. The side effects weren’t as bad until the last month coming off of it. Right now the issue I am experiencing the most (aside from all my other problems with this shot) is the heartburn at night and breast pain/tenderness. It just doesn’t feel right and that really scares me. Also, i didn’t know that even we get a period back, that doesn’t necessarily mean its gone from our systems. That is a good note to consider. I haven’t gotten my period yet. From what I hear, it will take a long time depending on my body. It’s nice to have someone to talk to about it. We are not alone
Dwell: I am sure as life goes on, you will go back to your normal self. Our bodies can do amazing things and it can restore itself. However, I do think that a strict healthy-living lifestyle would be required to speed along the process. It’s just so hard in a society that loves to feed us everything that is bad. It could also be menopause since we are not too sure.
CAMY: Yes, it has been a mess with me too. I googled everything about my symptoms and they would fall under a very bad illness. I thought I had cancer too girl because i was self-diagnosing myself as well. It is the nausea that i battle with ever since my 3rd shot. It really sucks. It seems I only battle with that during the day for some reason…. not too often at night.
I really thought something else was wrong with me because what i am experiencing is the symptoms that ladies get when they on their 1st shot, ya know? I just could not find someone going through what i am going through on their 3rd injection, so I was like yea it is not the depo doing this to me!
I have a very strong feeling it is though. Today, i have been starting to spot blood and feel so bloated with nausea!!! It is terrible!
Thank you Camy… you are awesome!! you can email me if ya can
mz_officer4053@yahoo.com
I keep in touch with Ms. Ericka as well. She is helpingme through all this as well.
My name is Cynthia by the way. I have posted several posts here about feeling very bad on this shot.
Camy: You sound a lot like me with the self-diagnosing lol because i stressed myself out trying to figure out what was going on. I am serious, i was all over the internet asking questions and no one could tell me anything, They were like ask your doctor blah blah.
Well, like i said i talked to a nurse at the place I got the shot from and she said well your body should be use to the shot by now, so that sent my mind over the edge!!!! I was like OMG what can it be then??? I googled and googled ALL DAY LONG about my symptoms and etc…. because i lost my appetite for a few days as well. I googled about can the depo shot make you lose your appetite and it fell under cancer!
I dang near fainted. I then convinced myself that it was something else other than this shot and worried myself half crazy!! My symptoms just came one night out of nowhere, i sitting down watching TV and BAM I got really hot and nauseated and ever since that night in FEB i haven’t been the same!!!! 🙁
Camy — hopefully my body will return to its normal self again, I thought I would never say I wish my period would come back LOL! But I am 47 and if I am going through menopause, I wish it would hurry it up and just come so tired of feeling this way. I also have crohns so that’s another headache.
See girls there are a lot of us out there going through this and that there is someone to share it with young and old. Hang in there everyone !
Camy-
I can tell you this my periods did come back the next month. So ever since I stop the depo I have had a period every month so I thought great its out my system WRONG but a doctor will tell you that its out your system. This shot will mess with other things in your body and the doct will try to put you on meds for depression ect. I just told myself no matter what else goes wrong I will get through this. My advice to all of us is to try not to get discouraged and let this POSION get out of your system. It make take some time and all our bodies are different. I think its so crazy how we all have the same symptoms but at different stages of taking this crap. UGGHHHHHHH I hate it. I can say that my acid reflux has gotten so much better so at least you can look forward to that going away after time.
Hey Cynthia !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
HEY ERICKA!!!! LOL… I just found out how to change my name on here LOL… that must a been a depo error LOL…
I have met a lot of nice women here!!!! I am so blessed to have met you Ericka and Camy! Because we all are going through such a hard time.
I don’t think I would ever be saying this, but I would soooo love to have a period right about now!!! I have figured out how many days that this shot is “suppose” to be in my body… I came up with 23. UGH!! I have been so stressed and devastated. All i do is google all day about my symptoms like I was telling CAMY to see if I can find closure. Knowing you (ericka) already told me that the reason i am feeling this way is because of this crappy shot…. I need to leave google alone foe real haha.
Google will just upset you so try not to Google anything HOWEVER it is helpful I mean that how I found this website. Just understand that what your body is going through is this Depo shot. I had at least 2 doct tell me ist not this shot and basically act like I was crazy. I refuse to take any meds I just want this to leave my system and in the future I will be more mindful about what I put in my body. Im praying for everyone and we will be fine. It will take some time but we will be ok. The sad part is WOMEN have to go to blogs to figure out whats going on because docts dont give us the right info.
Yea, i am going to leave google alone as far self-diagnosing lol. I am trying to get it through my thick head that it is the depo shot. I am experiencing what ladies go through when they get their 1st injection!!!
Ericka i was wanting to ask you… Do you know is a multivitamin contains B12? I was also told to start taking fish oil as well… what you think?
Yep, that is true and it is a dang shame that we have to find blogs to actually find out what is wrong with us because doctors and nurses cannot tell us nothing.
Like my nurse told me that my body should be use to this shot by because i am on my 3rd injection…. but i am like I was completely fine until my 3rd shot….. When she said that my mind went for a loop… i googled my symptoms and they fell under every illness out there, so i was so scared i had a dying illness… which scares me!!!
Since I found yall i feel at peace. I am still trying to tell myself it is the depo doing this to me…. I am getting there slowly but surely! i am just soooo stressed out!!
ive been on the shot since august 2012 my last shot was due on jan. 7 2013. i did not get it because i bleed heavily on the shot. after a couples weeks without getting it i continued to bleed for the longest and my chest was really sore. until march 7 i had sexual intercourse without protection and my chest has been sore and i havent had a period or any bleeding ever since. ive been nausaed and feel as if i have acid reflux. i took a pregnancy test on thursday and it was negative. i was wondering what could be going on? thanks youu.
Jurell, you sound like all of us here. I’m on that depo shot or whatever and it is 138am and I still ain’t tired cus of insomnia from this shot. I am sure that what you’re going through is from the depo shot. Hang in there! There’s a lot of great people here that will help as well. Get well soon.
thank youuuuuu !!
You bet! 🙂
Omg, Camy & Ericka, i went through the same thing with the weight loss & what seemed to be acid reflux. I’m 5’1″ & now I’m below 100 pounds smh which brw is horrible timing as my plan was tp go into the service and now I don’t even make weight. I also have hot flashed…if I knew then what I know now, I would Not have gotten this shot. No more of this planned parenthood stuff for me!
Tiffani-
How long have you been on the shot or how many times did you tae it? My acid reflux started once it was time to tae the 2nd shot which I didnt tae and all my problems started then. I loss my appettite and couldnt eat or drink which made me dehydrated. I only took the shot once and almost 3 1/2 months later after I was due for my 2nd injection I still have stomach trouble. The acid reflux has eased up I mean I can sleep at night without having to sit up in my bed and I still sweat like a pig under my arms
Ericka, I only got one injection. After the symptoms I had during the very first month I decided I would not get another shot. The acid reflux didn’t come until it was time for my second injection. I also had hot flashes but I sweat under my arms more than anything else. I just recently got back on my regular sleeping pattern. I’ve had a pretty rough ride following a Single shot. I started in October & was due in January. Was your injection as recent? I’m wondering how long this will last.
Hey guys!
Cynthia: That’s exactly how I was! lol I remembering googling abdominal bloating and it gave me cancer! Till this day I try not to think about such things cause I know the depo is the cause of all this. I had lost my appetite too on the depo and it was weird to me because so many women kept saying that the depo made them gain weight and gave them a bigger appetite…well not me! Many doctors and nurses think the depo is nothing serious so they will say things which is sad. I mean, that’s why it is still out in the market.
I really hope the nausea goes away! I was nauseated for the first couple of weeks being on the depo. I am sure it will go away. Especially if you can try to forget about it. I know, its hard.
I’m going to email you right now!! 🙂 And you’re the awesome one!! We will get through this!!
Ericka: So your periods came back after your last injection was due? I really wish that could be my case! It’s so true that it can mess with so many other things in our bodies. I already know that I’m not the same as before :/ I really will not try to get discouraged because sometimes it is hard. I have not gone to my regular doctor about some of the symptoms because I have not gotten my insurance back! :/ So when I went to planned parenthood, of course the nurses there (who i don’t trust) will say everything is fine when they really didnt do anything. My acid reflux is sort of getting better. It will take time!! hopefully things get better as time moves on. I’m going to pray for all of us too. We will be fine!! I’m also not going to try to self-diagnose hehe Ericka, you’ve been more far along without the depo than most of us, are your periods regular?
Tiffani: I started getting acid reflux after my second shot was due too. I have all those symptoms and more of what you mentioned so you’re not alone. Do you girls drink coffee? Because when I drank coffee, i would get so much sweat under my arms. The hot flashes suck! I get them on and off.
Good morning ladies,
I posted a couple weeks back. I have the same question, when will I go back to my regular self that I was almost 6 years ago. I’ve been off since July 2012 and after a trip to the ER and an Ultra Sound a couple weeks back, I finally started to spot last week, but that’s all that I accomplished! Here I was thinking all these years that I was seriously going insane, going to die from some weird cancer or from gaining weight every month, but no no no, it was just the DEPO! My nurses and doctors all said the same thing about how great it was and how my body would get used to it! UGH, how I would have changed my decision back then if I only knew! It is great to see that all these thoughts and fears are just those and that at some point I will eventually return to my once normal self. If anyone can suggest when that may happen, that would be great. Oh and can anyone tell me how long it took for them to loose the weight they gained while being on it? I gained close to 45lbs while on it :(. Talk about a self esteem downer……….
Thanks girls.
Tiffani- I took one shot last year from Aug.2012- to Nov.2012. I didnt take the 2nd shot and all hell broke loose. I start having the acid reflux right after then the stomach pains in Jan. I have read so many dofferent things its hard to say how long it will last I have read some people side effects go away after they stop and then other last longer. I do feel like Im getting better and I have come a long way so time is helping.
Camy-
My period did come back the following month which was Dec. and going forward as far as being regular looks like they are coming every 25 days BUT this month March it came 20 days later which was weird so I dont know
Jolene- Just wanted to let you know that you’re not the only one. I started taking Depo in August 2012 and by September I started bleeding every day. I got worried in October after a month of bleeding, cramps, fatigue, and zombie-like feelings (emotionless, no sex drive, worse bleeding after sex) started occurring, however, when I called my doctor I was told this was normal for up to six months, and after my next injections the symptoms would go away. So I suffered through it. In December I had my third injection, and stopped having a period for a week, but since then the period has been constant. I did not go in for my next injection, and about five days after the due date a very strange, thick discharge of blood and (the worst part) skin started coming out of me. My libido is gone and I always experience heavier bleeding and pain after sex. I’m worried for the months ahead. Who the hell put this drug on the market? Because I would very much like to put them on Depo Privera and see all the debilitating symptoms start affecting their work and personal life the way it has for all of us. I’m terrified of starting another birth control now. Hope your symptoms start improving.
Ericka,
From reading these other posts, I think that our symptoms myst be kind of normal for withdrawl for this shot. You recieved you’re injection before I did & you’re still experiencing some side effects, this is ridiculous! But you are right, I guess we can only wait it out. Thanks for sharing your experience & letting me know I’m not alone!..(this last since goes for everyone else posting on this site too!)
Tiffani- your welcome
Hi- I was only on deprova for one injection and was due back to get my second shot March 16 2013 and did not return. While on the shot I was not myself, lacked confidence, could not get “wet” when having sex, depression on and off, Loss of appetite, and didn’t have any periods. When I went off I started experiencing pregnancy like symptoms. Abdominal pain, major bloating, stomach pains, weight gain, headaches, sore joints etc. I’m so happy I found this page because I had been searching google for closure that I was just being paranoid but now I see that it’s deprova. I’m 17, and will never go back to this birth control shot, I’m way to young to be feeling so crazy and not myself. Prayers to everyone experiencing this.
hi, i was wondering dod anybody experience tender breast with blue viens showing when they got off of depo as a side effect? thank youuu.
hi, i was wondering if anybody experienced tender breast and blue viens on your breast as a sympton of coming off the shot? thank youuu.
hi, i was wondering if anybody experienced tender breast and blue viens on your breast as a sympton of coming off the shot? thank youuu!
what if your breast are tender and get blue viens on your breast? did anybody have these symptons also?
Hi ladies, I’ve come back to this forum to share some positive news!! Only a month ago I was on here reading the horror stories thinking I had ruined my body. Here’s my story: I always had clockwork periods, up until my son was conceived in 2010. 6 weeks after he was born, in September 2011, I was told about a ‘fantastic’ needle that replaced the pill, so of course I took it. I had it a second time, the last being December 2011. I refused to get it again, even though my doctor tried to convince me – the side effects were definitely not worth it. Fast forward to December 2012 and FINALLY my period returned, a full 12 months after the last needle. We started TTC. In January, after a 38 day cycle, I had a strange period. I missed feb, and by late march I got my BFP!!! So relieved that the horrid poison is out of my system. Don’t give up hope ladies, and definitely tell your friends to STAY AWAY FROM DEPO!!! Xx
Please check out this new post that explains adverse effects coming off Depo and what you can do about them.
https://menstruationresearch.org/2013/04/11/stopping-depo-provera-why-and-what-to-do-about-adverse-experiences/
I did. I didn’t know what was going on. But once I got my period back the breast tenderness went away. btw I was on the depo for 5 years
Hi I’ve been on the injection 8 years great having no periods. Anyways I’ve since had a period been bleeding for 9 days now. An also experiencing tender breasts and mood swings bad mood swings. One minute I’m fine an the next I Wana kill someone. Also feeling very low in myself an taking it out on my bf. not good. Not sure if I should go back to doctors an see if he can help or prescribe anything cus I sure don’t feel myself at all at the moment. Please help someone
HI Rebecca,
You don’t say if you have stopped Depo-Provera or are still taking it. If you want to understand the effects of this drug both while on it and after stopping it, please read my interview with an endocrinologist that explains these adverse effects. It includes suggestions on how to manage coming off the drug that you can take to your doctor. Thanks for your comment.
Here’s the link to the interview:
https://menstruationresearch.org/2013/04/11/stopping-depo-provera-why-and-what-to-do-about-adverse-experiences/
I am 16 and I have been on the depo for almost 3 months now, it’s my first shot. For the first month everything was fine, I had no period for a month, felt fine didn’t see any effects. But in the past month and two weeks it has been hell! I have been up and down like a yo-yo, my breasts look smaller and feel so squishy and floppy and I have gone from being a 34C to what looks like a flat b cup. I have had a huge lack in self confidence, none stop trouble sleeping, I often feel sick and dizzy and tired and i have horrible mood swings! I want to know, will my breats grow back?
Naomi-
Are you still on the shot? that is a side effect it can make your breast smaller and make you gain or loose weight
Hello Ericka, yes I still am I got it on the 18th of Feb 2013, So i presume it should ware off no the 18th of May, I am just so angry at myself for not looking more into the side affects it has been a nightmare! and as I say I worry my breasts won’t return to how they were.
Hey ladies! I am glad i found this page but also afraid!! I have been on deppo since 2006 and just stopped dec 2012. It has been almost 5 months and i just started having insanely tender breasts! I have taken a pregnancy test and its negative and i have no doubt that its the deppo now. I never connected the horrible acid reflux i have developed in the past couple years and anxiety to deppo provera considering both run in my family but it has never been so severe i just thought it was normal! I am really hoping all of these other severe symptoms do not appear as like all of you i am ready for my period back! I also have had the bloating and weight fluctuations. My appetite has been odd too i forget what its like to be normal!! I cant wait to get my sex drive back i am only 21 and my poor husband suffers from it
Hi Nicole, You’ll find information explaining some of the things you are experiencing or may experience in my recent post that is an interview with an endocrinologist explaining the adverse effects on stopping Depo-Provera. Sore breasts are a sign of high estrogen levels as your body works hard to get back to normal cycling. All the best.
Here’s the link to the interview:
https://menstruationresearch.org/2013/04/11/stopping-depo-provera-why-and-what-to-do-about-adverse-experiences/
Feel so hopeless. I have a history of prolactinoma but MRI of brain last year showed it can barley be detected and prolactin levels are normal. Hardly got my period as a teenager/young adult because of the prolactin levels but was like clockwork after having my baby 4 years ago. Then I went on the depo. I have been off depo now for 10 months now and still suffer from awful withdraw effects. The first few months I had an increase in acne – face, back, chest. After that subsided, I had symptoms of nausea and cramping in the morning that mimicked what I felt like when I was 8 weeks pregnant. All pregnancy test were negative. Now the past two months I have had intense back pain, cramping, abdominal pain, and horrible mood swings. I can go from an irrational crazy angry person to a crying, self loathing baby at the drop of a hat. I still have not gotten my period. I went to my doctor and he ordered ultrasound of my overies, CBC, BMP, urine test, prolactin test – all were normal. Last month he started me on a progesterone for 5 days to restart my period. I had some black spotting for a day. My symptoms have increased, feel like I am going insane/bipolar. So uncomfortable I can’t sleep and less productive at work. Called my doctor again and he started me on the birth control tri-sprintec. Been on for 5 days. Breast are sore, blotted, cramping, crying – called off work today. I have tried ginger, various teas to help get me back in balance. Nothing works. I just want to crawl in a hole and die sometimes. Crazy thoughts of having cancer has crossed my mind. Redoing my will. Please help me.
Hi Trisha. I’m sorry you are having so many problems. Please, please read the post on stopping Depo-Provera and what to do about adverse effects.
https://menstruationresearch.org/2013/04/11/stopping-depo-provera-why-and-what-to-do-about-adverse-experiences/
Your doctor was on the right track with the progesterone to induce your period. My interview with an endocrinologist explains a protocol for talking cyclic progesterone to help restore normal cycles. You’ll need to take it longer than 5 days. You may want to consider stopping the hormonal contraception and trying cyclic progesterone therapy. The post provides a link to information you can print out and take to your doctor. It explains everything.
Please come back to this post and let me know how it turns out.
Hey I was on the depo and came off it late November last year and since then ill have my period for a whole month ans lately ill have it then it’ll go away then have it 2 to 3 more times in one month. It’s pretty scary when your period never goes away. I don’t know what to do. Please help.
I’ve been off the the Depo for 1 month. I’m now taking Ortho Micronor birth control pills. I have been bleeding for an entire month. I don’t know if this is my period, break through bleeding or what. I don’t know when my actual period is anymore.I’m so confused.Please Help
I took depo for about half a year, my step-mum was recommending it to me because it was so easy and it was great for her.
For me, not so much. Being on it was hell. I bled for about a months straight on it, and had really bad back pain, even drinking extra milk hardly helped.
Coming off of depo I had extremely tender breasts until my period returned, and even though I’ve had a period since stopping depo, I’ve had extremely painful periods, even worse than I use to get before I took the shot. In addition my periods haven’t regulated and last twice as long as they previously did (up to 10 days) with horrible clotting. I had some clots previously but now theres a lot more clotting and a lot larger clots, up to as long as my hand is wide (pulled one that size away while showering). I have to take pain killers as soon as i notice any symptoms of a period comming on (as they’re not regulated) and continue until the bleeding and clotting stops. If anyone reading this is considering taking depo, It’s not worth it. There are too many risks and too many problems coming off of it. Please try lower risk forms of birth control, even if you have to pair up the pill and condoms to prevent pregnancy, do it. I wish I would have taken something else when I had the chance, I’m even scared of taking birth control pills until my side effects wear off because I don’t know if they will make my side effects worse. Does anyone know? I’m having trouble finding information on if it’s safe to start taking pills or if I should wait until All the effects have worn off before starting the pill. Im a university student and the last thing I want to do is get pregnant, but I dont trust condoms on their own and I am afraid of hurting my body more than I’ve already done with depo.
I was on depo for two years just got off as of last year. July. Since thenvi have been having bad mood. Swings my period jus came bac in Jan n I Have been havin a series of abcess r just bumps that are painful wit puss tilthey drain hopefully u can helpe cause. I would like some advice to see if da. Boils could b. A. After. Effect
No. That is not a symptom of coming off of depo. You need to see your gyno immediately.
Hi, I have just come across this site….I honestly have never read or seen most of this insight on depo. SO here is my question for anyone out there… How long has anyone ever been on depo that has come off? First alittle feedback….I just turned 39 last week and I have been on the depo shot since I was about 22/23 I think. I started it because I had severe menstrual cycles, pain, I would be out of work anywhere from 3 to 4 days every month….(I worked in hospitality so for me this was a VERY big deal…I cant be standing at the front desk of a hotel the only one on shift and literally be double over in pain) all the standard things they checked were negative….I have learned over the last 10 years that I have inherited auto immune issues and what I experienced before the depo “saved me” (because it did from what I was dealing with) went right along with symptoms of auto immune….having no periods all this time, it wasn’t really about having it easy but boy If I had a chance of missing my shot I would freak and get so upset because the thought of dealing with what I went through I couldn’t handle going back to that. AND YES I tried several different therapies and birth control but its no fun experimenting like that either. I choose depo when suggested after I had such a severe period that I had to have my roommate take me to the emergency room, I was in so much pain, I couldn’t get off the floor, bleeding so badly, it was not normal I really thought something was seriously wrong….again nothing….I was told I just had my period. From what I read Ive been lucky….bone density test recently was great, I didn’t gain weight from the depo when I started or even for several years….I did gain but not from the depo…never any side effects that I know of other then of course lack of sexual drive and decreased estrogen….having children at my age is not my concern but when can I stop the depo with out worrying about going back to what it was like? The longer I’m on it what does that mean potentially for me in problems caused by it??? I have read a lot but the longest I have read about is the women above who has been on it 8 years…..Does anyone have feedback on being on depo for as long as I have?? or longer?? Thanks
Feeling so much better! Went to my doctor and he agreed to the cyclic progesterone thearpy. Started taking the miconized progesterone Friday night (slept so soundly) and got my period the next morning! It’s been 10 months after I had my depo shot and first time I got my period back even after taking regular progesterone. Emotionally I feel like the depression fog has lifted, not crying nor having anger issues. Pain significantly decreased but coming back. Breast starting to get tender again and ovary cramping. I understand this may take a few cycles to go away. I read the handout on cyclic progesterone and still not clear as to when I start counting the 14 days – first day I got my period or do I start counting day one on the last day? I am also concerned about getting my period only after taking one pill. Are my estrogen levels that high and now rising causing the pain again? My doctor did blood work and said hormone levels are fine. I am so thankful for this website and information (my family is too). It is not fair that the majority of healthcare professionals expect you to “just let it take its course” with depo withdraw. Not only have I suffered but the tole it has taken on my job, friends, and especially family is intolerable. I will be writing the FDA and asking that either a warning on withdraw effects or protocol to reestablish a regular cycle be put in place.
I have a question.
I’ve been on the depo shot only for about 2 years now and wanting to switch back the pills. Id there any common, unharmful or painful side-effects to stopping this shot and switching to another?.
Hi Chris, I have talked to one woman who took Depo for about the same length of time that you have. I don’t believe she got her cycle back after stopping the drug at around your age. But each woman’s physiology is different. I don’t think any of your questions are easy to answer. The best option is to consult with your doctor about your concerns. Also, if you want to read about what you might experience coming off Depo, which includes information that relates to women in perimenopause (transition to menopause) please check out this more recent post which is an interview I did with an endocrinologist who explains the adverse effects many women have commented about on this post.
https://menstruationresearch.org/2013/04/11/stopping-depo-provera-why-and-what-to-do-about-adverse-experiences/
Trisha, Thanks for reporting back. Glad to hear your doctor was supportive of the cyclic progesterone therapy. I’ll ask Dr. Prior to respond to this comment to answer your specific questions.
TTC i have been off the depo since jan 2011 and i got my period in march of that year but i am having trouble getting pregnant i am now taking vitex maca. Dong quai for the last 2months. I dont knp wat to do now.
Hi Jacky,
It’s hard to answer this question as to what exactly to expect. There does not appear to be much research or anecdotal discussion about this option. However, starting the pill at the time when you would normally get another shot may prevent some of the adverse effects women are reporting upon stopping Depo and provide regular periods.
Hi Kay,
You may want to read my recent post explaining some of the adverse effects of quitting Depo:
https://menstruationresearch.org/2013/04/11/stopping-depo-provera-why-and-what-to-do-about-adverse-experiences/
Also, you may find helpful information in this article.
https://www.cemcor.ubc.ca/ask/sex_pregnancy
Hi, Laura and Jacky – I agree. There is not much anecdotal discussion on the issue – but common sense alone would dictate questioning coming off a progesterone suppressant (Depo) and jumping over to an estrogen suppressant (birth control pills) is a wise idea.
The body has not been designed for this – nor on how to read the confusing signals.
It might make more sense to wait until your body develops a normal and repetitive menstrual pattern and then consider using the birth control pill.
This is for Chris. I just stopped my depo injections last month after at least 14 years. I was off the injection three different times when I had my children but always went back on it. I am almost 43 years old. I had never experienced any negative side effects during its use and never had any problems between the times I gave birth and the times I resumed the injection. I loved being on the shot, not worrying about taking a pill and never having my periods or any symptoms. However, I came across this website because I am experiencing extreme bloating and cramping and thought my period was coming. After reading the above, it sounds like it will be awhile. I am very uncomfortable, my mood is not great and my cramping actually felt like my labor pains. I was wondering if there were any side effects to stopping the injections and I have now found my answers. I am almost regretting stopping the injections, but my family has a history of osteoporosis and I was worried about bone density issues. I hope this gets better sooner rather than later.
Hi there. I was on the depo shot for about 6 years. I have been off of it for almost a year now. I have not.really had any bad symptoms, minus depression. But me and my husband are trying to have a babu. And i have my cycle and everything back, but no babu. :/ Any answers or suggestions? Please!!!
Pls help me i have been on the depo shot 3 yrs and I forgt to go to the doctor to put the depo shot so its already two weeks since i forgt and I’m feeling bad with nauseas more on mornings and tired and no appetite. Do you think I’m already pregnant o that’s the effects of stopping the depo?
Pls help me i have been on the depo shot 3 yrs and I forgt to go to the doctor to puwt the depo shot so its already two weeks since i forgt and I’m feeling bad with nauseas more on mornings and tired and no appetite. Do you think I’m already pregnant o that’s the effects of stopping the depo?
Trisha,
First, let me confirm the time sequence of events so that I can more clearly answer your question about the timing of taking cyclic progesterone.
You started cyclic progesterone 10 months after your last DepoProvera shot—correct?
You took cyclic progesterone for one day and then your flow started—right?
So, flow or no, you need to take progesterone this time around for a full 14 days. So, I’m saying this time to just ignore this flow and take progesterone for 14 days. Taking progesterone triggered this flow but progesterone hasn’t yet had a chance to work.
For your next cycle, take progesterone for 14 days, but if flow starts before you’ve finished, complete the full 14 days of this cycle, but start the next progesterone on cycle day 14 starting counting from the day your flow began (which is your new “cycle day one”).
I hope this now makes sense. The key is to take progesterone long enough to provide the benefit you want—regular menstruation and protection from the negative effects of having enough or too much estrogen (which could be heavy flow or even a risk for beginning a cancer of the uterine lining—endometrial cancer).
Please feel free to email me off line if problems persist (which I doubt!)
All the best, Jerilynn
Jennifer, Please read this post to get some ideas about how to get your cycle back:
https://menstruationresearch.org/2013/04/11/stopping-depo-provera-why-and-what-to-do-about-adverse-experiences/
Velia,
Please read this post to better understand what you are experiencing coming off Depo-Provera. Always use a back-up method of birth control if you miss a shot (or a pill or two).
https://menstruationresearch.org/2013/04/11/stopping-depo-provera-why-and-what-to-do-about-adverse-experiences/
Hi there,
I had my last depo shot on 26 may 2012, its now may 2013 I still have not had a period, I have had excrutiating back pain, breast tenderness, currently I’m nauseous, I’m just so depressed, I want to feel normal again, I also had crazy cancer thoughts going through my head. When will I be normal again?????? Has anyone else had nausea
Hi my depo was due on 5/6/13 i decided not to get on 5/8/13 i stared cramping my period came down for a whole week after it stop i continue cramping, eating alot almost like pregnancy symptoms i took 2 pregnancy test and they both came back negative i was really scare can it be that im pregnant and my test is not showing finally yesterday may,28/2013 i started cramping even worse i couldn’t sleep i feelt wet got up of by bed and no shit my period is here but this time is supper red with clots today im still hurting is this nomal i been on the depo for about 3 shots did anyone else experience this plz comment back thanks
dd: Please read this new post- link below – to better understand what you are experiencing stopping Depo-Provera. It explains what’s happening and why.
Always use a back-up method of birth control if you miss a shot or decide to stop Depo.
https://menstruationresearch.org/2013/04/11/stopping-depo-provera-why-and-what-to-do-about-adverse-experiences/
Hope this helps.
Thank you. I am now on my 12th day of the 1st cyclic off the micronized progesterone. My intense cramps, mood swings, and bloating came back a few days ago with a vengeance. Haven’t gotten my period on cycle off. I felt so much better on the progesterone. Should i start the progesterone early or do I need to increase the dose of progesterone? Thank you!
Trisha
I am 20 yo. I was on depo provera for 4 years. I had brown spotting the while first year. The next 2 years everything was great other than the fact that I couldn’t have sex more than a few times a week. I basically had no estrogen and when I had sex it would tear my perineum no matter how much lube I used. I still have a small scar from the constant tearing. My periods lasted 10 days before I began the shot and were very painful. I also had ovarian cysts whenever my flow started. If you have ever had them you know just how excruciating they can be. I stopped deposit after my first year because I didn’t feel like myself, I was depressed, couldn’t think or concentrate, my body hurt, and I could almost never have sex without horrible pain. I was off the shot for almost a year before I started my period, it was weak at first and then turned horrible. It lasted over a month and I finally went to the hospital due to the pain and amount of my period. They said my body no longer had its cycle and put me on BC pills immediately. They helped but 8 months later, nothing is “normal,” everything is so much worse. Everttine I have a period its like um having a damn miscarriage. My only advice is to get on BC pills asap after deposit (wait 5 months after lat injection tops)
That’s my 2¢
Hi Jennifer. I left a post many months ago about the hell I was going through. I was due my last shot july2012 but decided against it. My cycle returned that sept. I am now 2 months pregnant. So Keep your head up and keep on trying because depo didn’t beat me!!!
Depo and I became one when I was 15.. I was excited about no period. I would get pretty bad back cramps.
I just turned 26. I’ve gained a total of 100 pounds :(.
Then last year hurt my back at work.
I never wanted to blame depo, I didn’t think my eating habits were any worse or better.
About three months ago I changed my mind, I’ve done so much freaking physical therapy since my injury. At the height of the last year, I was a fulltime student, manager, and was doin pt three times a week, during that time, my weight dropped 20 pounds. Leaving me at 263.
The weight gain has truly effected my life, which is making a back injury impossible to maintain.
Its been a month now, and I will weigh in next month.
I can’t with medical conviction say its depo. But my new doctor was more than happy to not give it to me. Looking into murana, yes even after the scare.
Wish me luck
I have had that happen to me like this vein is pooping out of my chest and my lower back hurts
Ugh! I’ve been off the depo shot for a month and a half now. May 3rd was my last day to get the shot. I’ve been having some very, very bad nausea and it seems like it gets very bad in the evening. I don’t really get a lot of headaches but I got one day. I get hot flashes every now and then. The beginning of this month I had some cramping, but no bleeding. My temperature seems high all the time as if I’m hot all the time. I have really bad anxiety now as well. My question is that is this depo withdrawal, or something else? I’m nauseous as I’m typing. The nausea last for hours!!! That’s why I feel as though there’s something else wrong with me. Its really scary. I’m scared to leave my house because I feel ill start feeling bad, ugh! All this nausea all day sucks!! Oh, also… I have a really discharge that I never experienced before. Can anyone relate? I’ve only got 3 depo shots. I just need closure! This nausea is crippling!!!
All these post are dead on. Never had issies while on depo.. well weight gain was huge. I came off to see if I could loose weight, if the depo was doing it..
Its been hell hot flashes irritability, had to go to the e.r for cluster headaches.
Ille be glad to end this
Cynthia,
Please read this newer post- link below – to better understand what you are experiencing stopping Depo-Provera. It explains what’s happening and why. Symptoms are related to your body’s effort to re-establsh a normal hormonal cycle.
https://menstruationresearch.org/2013/04/11/stopping-depo-provera-why-and-what-to-do-about-adverse-experiences/
Hope this helps.
I only received3 depo shots I was supposed to get my last one on March 10, 2013 but opted not to. I got my period all through the time I was on the shot starting in April through May I was having two periods in a row lasting 7 days. I had absolutely no wetness so intercourse was painful.but at the end of May all secretion was normal. But now I am 3 weeks late severely nauseated tender breasts and odd cravings could I be pregnant.
So, as I sit here and read through a majority of all the post I only find myself relating. I’m 18 and had been on the shot for 5 years due to medical problems… I’ve been off the shots for a couple months now and have SWOLLEN and TENDER breasts… veins are darker than usual, bloating, lower ab pains… usually on one side, breakouts, headaches, irritability, I’m feeling fatigued lately and am eating more than ever.. any more side effects to expect?
And also, I always had an irregular period… not sure when I’ll get one again, how long did it take for yours to come back??
Thanks!
Well ive been on the depo for about 16 YEARS off n on the first time it was 4 years i got off n had my first daughter then i got back on it until a got off n got pregnant with mysecond daughter nine years later its 2013 n this past january i decidedto get off depo for good..my breast r tender my period came back in april and may but not june so i took a ptest n it was negative so im just waiting idk what the hell is going on
I had posted earlier this month and now I’m getting more concerned, I am now 27 days late still severely nauseated my breasts feel like they are in a vice grip I am now getting severe headaches and fainting and abdominal pain I went in and they only did a per test but it was negative that was 3 days ago just but since it was negative they wouldn’t do a blood test today I took another home test once again its negative please someone help me is this part of the shot I have been off it for 4 months.
LeeAnn, I know exactly how you feel. I feel the same way. I have never experienced any of the symptoms on the depo or off the depo until i got this shot. I had symptoms on the shot, and now that i have been off of it for 2 months my symptoms have came back. If you want to email me you are more than welcome to… mz_officer4053@yahoo.com
Hi im 16 & was on depo provera for 6 months, the last shot i got was on Dec. 2012 . I stopped getting the shot because i didnt have normal periods, i would be spotting for about 2weeks straight, it was really annoying plus my stomach felt bloated & i lost weight my legs & butt got smaller but my stomach was horrible i looked as if i was 6months pregnant !. So on March 2013 i was supposed to get my next shot but i didnt because i was hopping my normal periods would come back & my stomach would go back to normal. After March i didnt get my period for 3months, i thought i was pregnant but took hpt & they came back negative. Finally on June 21st i got a regular period but my stomach still feels bloated! Ive been working out trying to loose belly fat but it seems like something isnt right. Can anyone help? I wanna know why might be the reason my stomach is bloated
P.s. i dont look 5months pregnant anymore, more like 3 but still im concerned..
Hi Monica, To understand the transition your body is trying to make back to normal hormonal cycles, please read my second post on this topic that explains the adverse effects women experience when stopping Depo-Provera. It will answer your questions and help you understand what is going on with your body. It will get better. Thanks for posting.
https://menstruationresearch.org/2013/04/11/stopping-depo-provera-why-and-what-to-do-about-adverse-experiences/
Kelly, I have been experiencing this since stopping the depo shot. I was starting to question myself wondering if I’ve had these dark veins in the boob area all along and never noticed…..apparently not. My boobs have been so tender and sore for over a month now.
Hello ladies,
I just wanted to make an update on my progress since getting off the depo shot. Some of my side effects have left such as: hot/cold flashes, night sweats, constipation, bloating, sensitive to smells, chest pains, fast heart beat, and i am able to sleep a little bit better, so the depo did cause all of that LOL. When I was on this shot, I seriously thought something was very wrong with me… It can be very scary!
Now, that I am off the shot as of 2 months, I still get horrible nausea, diarrhea, headaches, little mild cramps as if I am going to start my period, weird light brownish discharge (sometimes a milky white discharge), and mood swings! UGH!
I was just curious to know when any of you ladies got your period back? LOL, i thought I would never ask that haha!
Oh, sorry i left out I also have very, very oily skin such as my face, ugh!! I also get some pimples that hurt too! I also want to say ladies hang in there. I know it has been a hell of a ride, but do not lose hope or faith in God.
Hi ladies, I just wanted to post some good news and bad news I had posted in June about the hell I was experiencing after I came off the shot it got so severe that I finally went in and asked to be put on bc pills my period soon came back half way through the pills but still today I am fighting severe depression that i have had to be put on anti depressants. Don’t give up ladies and if the pills helped me then maybe it would help you to get some what regulated.
LeeAnn… I am glad to see that you’re feeling somewhat better! I know how ya feel. I’ve been depressed off and on since being the depo! I’m just wondering when these side effects will ever go away that I’ve been experiencing since being off the depo. Hang in there LeeAnn! Don’t lose hope!
I’m 16 & took my first shot July 5th, didn’t know any of the side effect but now that I’ve been reading all these comments & facts about depo, I REGRET IT. the non stop spotting is annoying & I’ve have some bad pain when I urinate. It is terrible. I’ve decided to not going back for my 2nd shot which is Sep.26th….. But would it also take so long for the drug to exit my system completely even if it’s my first shot?
Hey I have been off depo since January 2012..
.and I’m trying to get pregnant can someone please tell me what take so long I’ve been had my cycle but I dont think its regular it comes on 2 time in one month help me
Hi Alex,
I started Depo around that age too. While I don’t have any advice for you right now, I’m doing research and blogging about my experience quitting depo (which starts today) here: https://donewithdepo.wordpress.com/
Check it out and look for tips and updates that I’ll be posting.
Hi I’m 21,I tookd two shots of depo and I decided not to take it anymore n nw I feel weired,dizzy,tired,high temperature and a headache.I’m scared I’m starting to think dat I’m pregnant
HI Cathy, You will find some answers to your questions about the post-Depo transition in this later post, an interview with an endocrinologist explaining the adverse effects of coming off this contraceptive. Hope you’ll find it helpful.
https://menstruationresearch.org/2013/04/11/stopping-depo-provera-why-and-what-to-do-about-adverse-experiences/
Hey ashley! I have been having really bad nausea as well coming off the depo shot. I been off almost 4 months. It scares me because I feel I should be better by now since I stopped the shot, and also I been off it a while. I feel as if there is something else wrong with me. How long does the symptoms coming off the depo last? If anyone has an idea. I got my period back at the end of july and then I got another one August 4th. After that I had no more signs of bleeding.
I am just a little worried. Can the symptoms last this long after coming off the depo?
Ashley, I was wondering how you were feeling, and if you still get bad nausea?
I been off the depo for almost 4 months. I been battling with really bad nausea, dull cramping, stomach issues, mood swings I don’t know if I want to cry or slap the crap out of someone. My question is that can I still have these symptoms even though I been off the depo for almost 4 months?
I seriously feel I have an illness or cancer! This shot is crazy!!! Well, maybe it is me that’s crazy, lol!
I’m 19 yrs old & I just got off the depo shot. My last shot was in may . It’s like I had irregular periods until my last one. I thought it was all good. I was happy af. When I first got sick I assumed I had the flu or something bc I was throwing up every single thing even tea. Then I kept having nausea I just assumed that was motion sickness. Then I threw up again this Saturday .. & this whole week headaches & last weekend headaches. Then I threw up today & I was extremely tired. So I pretty much slept all day today. Cranberry juice is the only thing I kept down. Am I pregnant? Me & my bf having been having unprotected sex. But I assumed the shot didn’t rare off. Has anyone experienced this? I have been really tired. My last period seemed normal. I also have not had tender breast. I have not been peeing more than usual. Should I be worried?
Tanya! Yes, I been battling with nausea since being on this shot since Feb. now, being OFF this shot since May 3 (almost 4 months off) my nausea has a gotten horrible. I developed anxiety as well. The anxiety and nausea is taken over my life. I never been this way since the depo. I often get on sided headaches. I was beginning to think I had a illness or some sort or even cancer. If you need to email me you can –
obey.cynthia66@gmail.com
Tanya how long have you been on the shot? How many did you take? email me I can share my experience erickawebb26@yahoo.com
I am 24 and was given the shot when my now 6 month old was just 6 weeks. I was told by my midwife it was a breast feeding friendly birth control. Within 3 weeks I was almost completely dried up. I got one period that month (April) that lasted for 3 almost 4 weeks. That was the only period I have had and have now been off the shot for almost 2 months. After the first month of being on the shot, I noticed horrible mood swings. I had been starting to feel “depressed”, something I did not feel ever after having my first child and did not feel with this baby until getting the shot. I had been working out religiously since having my daughter and was able to lose 50lbs by the time she was 3 months old. I have now gained 20 of those pounds back even though I am still working out and clean eating. Also while on the shot, I had been getting dizzy and passing out, followed by extreme migraines. I was due for my last shot in July and never got it. I’m still waiting for a period, I’m still waiting for my mood swings to stabilize, I’m wondering when my weight will return to normal and when in the world I will stop having these dizzy spells. The shot has been one of the worst things to happen to me and I’m so angry that I’m the one who decided to do this! It has effected the way I see my self as a mother. I was unable to breast feed my daughter anymore after just 9 weeks, I’m unhappy, moody and I’m afraid to go in public for fear I might get dizzy and pass out, it scares me even more to think I’ll be alone with the kids when it happens! I want to know, why, after just one shot, is my body STILL out of whack?? When will depo finally be out if my system and when will I be myself again?
Hey, so it’s been 9 months since my last shot of the Depo. I noticed i’ve been having some of the same “pregnancy” symptoms. But, has anyone else had pain when they pee? I went to the doctor and they did tests, i don’t have a UTI or any STD…just wondering if anyone else had this problem??
I am so miserable. I was on depo provera for 5 yrs, to regulate/stop my painful periods (and pain in general)due to endometriosis. I have been completely off the shot sine the beginning of May ’13. I have not had anything resembling a period besides some brown discharge for a few hrs in July. I have awful, awful breast pain that reminds me of when I nursed my son & got overly “full” when away from him for a feeding 🙁 I am sure some of you know what I mean. I also have mind splitting headaches and extreme nausea ( that leads to vomiting) I have taken numerous pregnancy tests. ALL negative. I am pretty sure it’s impossible to be pregnant with no real cycle, but the symptoms have me worried. I got off this garbage to try and feel normal again, not be so moody & to hopefully have another child at some point. It’s starting to seem that may be unrealistic. I have been trying to wait this out bc I figured there wasn’t much the dr could do but give me more hormones. Ugh. ( no thanks) does anyone have any suggestions or experiences that have truly helped besides laying with Ice packs on my breasts every night? I’m all ears. Thanks : )
Hi Zeeleigh, Please read this later post that explains why you are experiencing these symptoms coming off Depo-Provera. Its not the drug, but your body trying to get back to normal cycling. Hope it will be helpful for you.
https://menstruationresearch.org/2013/04/11/stopping-depo-provera-why-and-what-to-do-about-adverse-experiences/
I took one shot of depo beginning april of this year I didn’t go back for my second, , I still managed to bleed all of July n beginning of August its now September I have had site breast, serious, bloating, fatigue, hungry constantly and cramping feeling as though my period is returning but hasn’t yet. Shouldn’t the depo been out of my system in July? N if not why am I just now getting withdrawl symptoms so many months after the fact, oh and these Symptoms have been happening since September 1st,, , HELP
La’Ri
I feel the same way…2negative pg tests…feel so sick just plain miserable. keep us updated :/
I have felt on an off nausea lik u wud with pregnancy belly pains, awful boils on my face far worse then wat I’ve ever experienced! I’m always tired permanent headache it’s awful. I only had two shots finished last week!!
I have been on the depo shot for over 3 years and have stopped taking it for about 6 months now. The past 2 months I have had a regular period on a 34 day cycle. My husband and I are really TTC. I know they say every person is different but how long did it take others to have a baby? Also, is there anything I can do to speed up the process? Being patient is probably the best thing, but sometimes I get afraid and think it’ll never happen. I would appreciate any help/advice. Thanks
Hi…so I am 22 years old and I’ve been on Depo since I was 17. I’ve never really had any serious symptoms being on it besides that I had to take calcium pills because it lowered my vitamin D level, but when I tried to discontinue the injection when I was 19, I began to get heavy & very painful periods that I couldn’t handle, so I got back on the shot. I am now 100% sure I want to get off depo because I’m starting to believe that it will cause serious damage to my body over the years if I continue to take it. I would like to know is there any other serious symptoms I should prepare myself for.. I’m actually kinda nervous about it and I’m thinking about getting on a different type of birth control because my boyfriend and I isn’t ready to have an child yet.
I have had a strange experience with Depo and finally decided to get off of it. I got my first shot in September 2012 because I had a very irregular period (every two weeks – due to severe stress) and read that the Depo shot will stop the bleeding. Well was I wrong!! I got the first shot and basically it turned into a complete mess. For the next year, I continued to get my shot every three months, on the websites’ advice that it may take up to 6 months to fully stop the bleeding. In my case, over the course of 13 months, I literally had bleeding every day for 11 of the months. My doctor finally recommended I stop getting the shot as it may be too strong for my body. It is now four months since my last shot and the bleeding finally stopped a month ago (when my next shot would have been due.)I have not gotten a period yet, no bleeding at all in fact, yet my breasts are tender, especially my nipples which feel almost raw, and I have a mild but dull lower back ache. Everything the Depo shot claims to do, seems to have done the opposite for me (other than preventing pregnancy.) I actually lost weight, and had bad acne and constant bleeding with the shot. I would never recommend this form of birth control to anyone.
I’ve been using depo for 14 years. No problems I love it and no monthly bleeding for 14yrs. Don’t think I’ll ever go off of it.
I am going through it now and I will say it is complete Hell! I was on it for 8 years and while I was not sexually active I stopped. In order for me to get back on birth control I had to have a period though but I didn’t think it was a big deal. My last shot was in January and I’m having my period now. It has lasted 2 weeks! It was an okay 3 day period followed by about 6 days of spotting while having cramps and headaches now I’m on day 5 of a heavy period with terrible cramps. I wouldn’t wish this on anyone.
Hi. i got one depo shot back in march and I thought not having a period would be great but it honestly scared me so i didnt get another shot. i wanted to wait until i got my cycle back to get on another form of bc. i had sex a week ago(saturday) and got my period for the first time the following day(sunday) it was a normal cycle only a few days but now i am craving a lot of sweets and have incredibly sore breasts especially my nipples. is this a hormonal thing due to my cycle returning or is this a cause for concern of pregnancy?
I had been on Depo for 4 years.15-19yrs old. No problems. I had tried pills prior and had many unfavorable side effects. Stopped using depo and did not have any issues. I was able to conceive my first daughter without issue. Went back on it. Great. Stopped a year and a half after to have my other daughter.. no problems. I had tried the implinon (sp?) SCARY!! I had such bad side effects! ! A new set of symptoms every 3 days! Severe cramping, irritability, migraines, joint pain etc..etc. Airway, went back to depo and loved it! But I am 28 now and got “fixed” with Ensure. Stopped depo and I have had sore breasts, fatigue, headaches and now my left leg and ankle has swollen. With all blood work done and everything fine I can only guess this is why. Anyone else have this?
Hey, I was on the depo shot for 2 years. I started it because I was having irregular periods,(I was not sexualy active). I am 18 now and am sexually active, and when I finally met the right guy I stopped the depo. Well now I have these really bad withdrawals. When I wake up go to be, or even in the afternoon I get these bad dry heaves. I get headaches, trouble sleeping even though I an tired beyond tired, I get hot and cold flashes, extreme cramping and still no period, just spotting. This is truely hell, I end up crying everyday from the withdrawals.
Hey, I was on the depo shot for 2 years. I started it because I was having irregular periods,(I was not sexualy active). I am 18 now and am sexually active, and when I finally met the right guy I stopped the depo. Well now I have these really bad withdrawals. When I wake up go to be, or even in the afternoon I get these bad dry heaves. I get headaches, trouble sleeping even though I an tired beyond tired, I get hot and cold flashes, extreme cramping and still no period, just spotting. This is truely hell, I end up crying everyday from the withdrawals. Its just the worst.
Hey, i got my first depo shot two months ago, and its been soo much better than any pill but at the same time i feel like I’ve lost my natural rhythm. I’ve been on other pills etc since i turned 18, I’m now nearly 22, so I’ve decided not to get my next shot. Really should have thought of this before getting it in the first place! Did it take you 6 months to get your cycle back to normal?? Seems like ages, hope its not longer for me. Hopefully because i only got one shot it wont take ages. Was considering taking Vitex, herbal cycle remedy, as it helps get a regular cycle back but it also increases fertility and I’m not looking to get pregnant at all. Is the vitex a good idea?
I got the depo last March maybe around the 15th. I was suppose to get my second in June, but I decided not to because all of the scary stuff I read online. My friend talked me into it because that was the birth control she was using at the time, and I thought not having a period wouldn’t be so bad. The whole three months I was on the depo I had a period, and then come July I didn’t and then I had one in August then from September till now Aunt Flow still hasn’t come to visit me? I’m concerned that its do to the depo and I’m also concerned that do to the depo I’m not going to be able to conceive one day.
I personally would not take depo if I ever wanted to get pregnant. I know young people that it has taken years for them to conceive maybe because they had taken depo.
I would not worry that you haven’t had your period Sam. It can take up to the first 12 weeks or Longer to stop your period. It also takes some time to go back to the way it was.(at least 12 more weeks) Your body was just getting used to it and changing then you went off of it right away asking it to change again. I am almost 30 and it is taking longer for my body to adjust to that change again. That is also after using it for 4 years having my oldest. Using it for 1 year then having my youngest. I never had any problems conceiving or during or after pregnancy. I have used it for 5 years after that. I had the Essure put in this year and came off depo. My body is having a harder time adjusting but I am older than I was and after 2 kids and on/off bc I can’t imagine it would be like I was 18. It was a great form of bc though. I never worried. I never had to remember a pill each day. I didn’t have a period. Great! It took from July 2013 to Nov 2013 to get a regular period. I have never known anyone to not be able to conceive after using depo. Thyroid problems can be the main cause for that. Hormone fluctuations after taking any bc will happen after.
I have come off the injection after about 11 years – I was never advised of the recommended 2 year limit. I never had a problem on it except weight gain when I gave up smoking. My last injection was due September 2013 had sore breasts from that week continuing until today even wearing a bra kills! In the last week & a half I started getting massive headaches, light sensitivity, my eyes feel like they will explode, horrific cramps, heavy & then light bleeding, huge back pain, fatigue & insomnia… It’s insane! No one tells you about this! …..reading about it now wonder if depo has had an impact on my bout of depression, weight gain, and decrease in libido.
I was on depo for 7 years 2006-2013. I stopped in october (when my last shot was due by) and started on the pill because I wanted to try and regulate my period as fast as I could because my husband and I decided to start a family. Well after less than 2 full months of the pill I stopped it because my breast were too sore. Since Thanksgiving of 2013 I have spotted periodically and never for more than 4 days. Well for the past 10 days I have been spotting and its really annoying! I’ve always had headaches and I was diagnosed with narcolepsy so my symptoms while on depo cant really be pointed to being caused by depo. I just really hope it doesn’t take me more than 6 months to conceive.
I have been on the 3 months injection for 1 year 4months and only started seeing my period after 3months. However ny periods are not normal as compared to prior contraceptive. They are heavy with period pains everyday, yet I use to have period pains only on the first day of my period. The other thing is that they come every two weeks. We are trying to conceive and would like to know if this is normal.
Hi,
I was on the depo for 5 years and it was perfect! No periods, no weight gain etc! Well I found the man of my dreams and heard that it can take up to a year to become pregnant so having spoke to my boyfriend we decided I shouldn’t have another shot. That was back in June last year. My depo was due 6/8/13 and my nurse said that it’ll be out my system (as in unprotected) 20/8/13. I still haven’t had any sign of Mother Nature it’s been 5 months and lately (since December) my breast have become tender but no where near painful like everyone else is describing. I did a pregnancy test back in October but it was negative.
As the tender breasts aren’t as painful as what’s being described here I was wondering if it is infact due to the depo or not.
I have been on depo for a year , and after my first moth i would have a light cycle lasting three to four days every two to three months . I had previous troubles gaining any weight before the shot . I weighed 95 pounds to start but threw the yr on the shot gained eleven pounds . And my last six months on the shot I started battling constant tender raw breast and nausea to the point i kept thinking i some how had gotten pregnant . So i finally told my dr at my next shot apt in nNov and we decided to skip the shot and started pills that day & as of today i have been nauseas raw feeling nipples and bleeding for twenty seven days now !
Hi Kerry! It is not necessarily because of the depo that your breasts are tender but more because your body is hormonally re- balancing out. You are going to have fluctuations after discontinuing use of ANY birth control option especially after so much time. No worries. It goes away. 🙂
Ive been on depo since October an I got the shot again yesterday, January 20th . So I was thinking that in the next 3 months from today I want to get off depo because I’ve gained weight an also having irregular bleeding an I don’t really like it. . So if I wait like 3 months from today which would be in April , Would the shot be finished ? Also, if a guy were to cum in me , like after the shot is finished , would I be able to have kids or would I have an ectopic pregnancy ? Also when should the depo not be so much effective anymore ? would it be like 12-14 weeks after I got it? I would really like to know this because I’m kinda scared, an nervous bout this lol. & even if I don’t get the shot in the future it won’t be effective on me right ?
Sorry for all the questions
Thanks for your help, I really appreciate it!
Sam,
Remember that Depo disrupts your hormonal cycle and that when you stop taking it, your body has to work hard to get your menstrual cycle back. If your periods were normal or regular before they will come back. You can read more about what to expect as your body readjusts at this post:
https://menstruationresearch.org/2013/04/11/stopping-depo-provera-why-and-what-to-do-about-adverse-experiences/
Kirsten,
Please read this post, my interview with an endocrinologist, about what to expect as your body readjusts post-Depo. It will help you recognize the signs of returning fertility, explains what you might experience, and offers treatment suggestions if your cycle does not return in the next few months.
You will find helpful information in this post about what you are experiencing and what to expect as your body works to readjust post-Depo.
https://menstruationresearch.org/2013/04/11/stopping-depo-provera-why-and-what-to-do-about-adverse-experiences/
Hi Kerry, Different women will experience different things post-Depo. You may find this other post helpful in explaining what happens post-Depo,(e.g.. why so many women experience sore breasts) as your body works hard to reassert normal reproductive function. It will also help you recognize the return to fertility and what to do if your cycle does not return in the next few months.
https://menstruationresearch.org/2013/04/11/stopping-depo-provera-why-and-what-to-do-about-adverse-experiences/
Christine, If you stop the Depo shot you will need to use another form of birth control when the 3-month time period from your last shot is up. Although it may take a few months your cycle should return to normal. If you decide to switch to the BC pill, you may continue to experience hormonal upsets like irregular bleeding, sore breasts or nausea for awhile. Don’t be concerned about not being able to have kids.
If you do not switch to another hormonal method you will find helpful information about what you may experience post-Depo at this post:
https://menstruationresearch.org/2013/04/11/stopping-depo-provera-why-and-what-to-do-about-adverse-experiences/
Whoops, I forgot the link:
https://menstruationresearch.org/2013/04/11/stopping-depo-provera-why-and-what-to-do-about-adverse-experiences/
Considering you are talking about Advocare I thought you might be interested to know there is an article on youtube about the supplements.
I am also 28 and have been off Depo for 21 days now and I am extremely irritable , have had tons of headaches and fatigue and my breasts are extremely sore to the point where I can’t even be comfortable in a bra.
I have been on Depo for 13 years. Within this last year I’ve had very painful & debilatating cramps. So bad I was considering going to the ER. Also recently the spotting is more often, irregular, and sometimes heavy and followed by digestive problems. I’m either constipated or have diahrea! Prior to that there was little to no bleeding and minimal cramping. Purposely missed my depo appt last week. I think I need to find a new bc method but my hubby says it could all be a coincidence. I plan to see the dr soon and get something o/t depo.
Im due for my next shot in a couple of days.been on it for a year everything is fine but i have gained atleast 25 pounds.im going to switch to pills again because i never gained any weight on them.i was just wondering if anyone has switched like that and lost the weight after stopping the shot?
I was on depo for a year January 2012 Threw January 2013 I was on my period for 2mobths straight when I was on the shot then I had a month period. I gained weight. I regret taking the depo shot. My cycle was normal just perfect and now it’s just all bad I’ve been on my period for 3 months now. I had 2 normal periods after off the shot then my last period it hasn’t stopped yet and that was in November and it’s now February .. Has anyone had their period last 3 months or know somone that had their period last 3months after Depo?
I could have written this, Jenna. Except I was on it for 13 years. I was due for a shot the first week of January, and I’m absolutely miserable now. Not miserable enough to get another shot to make it all stop, but pretty close.
I wish I had known about the 2 year recommendation, and frankly I’m pretty pissed off that my doctor didn’t tell me about it. It should be up to me to decide if the serious risks from long-term use are worth it or not, and for me they aren’t.
As soon as this round of random bleeding stops, I’m having an IUD put in.
Mya – I just read your comment. It is amazing and appalling that young women could be put on Depo – and for such a long period (no pun intended) of time.
However, what really to to me was when you said that when you stopped the random bleeding you would have an IUD put in.
Your body needs a break – especially if the IUD has synthetic hormones. If you are sexually active then tell your partner to take responsibility for awhile with condoms. If you are not sexually active… just give your body time to heal and recuperate.
I just stopped getting the depo early this month, after about 3 years of being on it. It seems like the easy way to go because it was supposed to be really effective and I only had to remember it every 3 months – which was great in my teenage mind. Now, 18, I decided to come off of it. I know that my average lifestyle didn’t contribute to the 20lbs I’ve gained since I started. I’m sick of not having a period, it feels unnatural to me, and I don’t like the idea of hormones being shot through my muscle. I didn’t really think the decision through when I started, but I’m glad I’ve decided to stop now. I think I’m going to switch to the FemCap, I’ve read a lot about it and seems like a nice way to go – and I think it’ll be even more effective than it says it will because I won’t just be using this but I’m going to make sure a condom is used as well. Anyways, I’m going through what feels like hell. I’ve been trying to find information about what happens after I stop taking the depo and thank the lord I found this site. My head hurts nonstop, I get hot flashes, my brain is out of control (I was diagnosed with Bipolar Disorder, I no longer take medication bc that route didn’t work with me, but I’ve been OK for a very long time and this past month has been the worst rollercoaster with more downs than ups.), I feel sick, I feel over emotional, I’m tired all the time but I can’t sleep. I’m having such a difficult time trying to deal with my second semester of college and my personal changes and it’s just really hard. I just spent the last hour crying in the shower because I just don’t know what’s going on with me. I wish I never started the depo, this is torture. Why wouldn’t they tell you what will happen after using this? They even say that you shouldn’t use this longer than 2 years, so why the heck wouldn’t they at least warn you?!
I was on Depo for probably 3 years, my last injection was due June 2013. Got my period Sept 2013, and have been on it since. It ebbs and flows between heavy and light, but I’m SO SICK of buying tampons. Anyone have any good news for me? I would never wish this drug upon anyone. Besides the weight gain while I was taking it, it was great, but due to a spiritual experience, I decided that artificially forcing hormones through my body was unnecessary. I hate this. Coming off of Depo is the worst. I just want it to end.
I was on the depo for a year and it was horrible. I started spotting from the get go and then I had what I called “the stop and go” which basically just meant 2-3days on and 1day off till after about the 6/8month mark it then finally stopped completely (If being an efficient birth control means making it almost impossible to have sex for weeks on end and gaining a ton of weight then DING DING we have a winner).
SINCE I’VE STOPPED I’ve had these side effect:
– emotional instability
– tender sore nipples
– lots of crying
– constant bleeding(for 4months now)
– not being able to go to sleep despite exhaustion
– tiredness
I just want a normal period, I’m at a stage in life where I want to have children and I’m unsure about my fertility at this stage. I DO NOT RECOMMEND GETTING THE SHOT!
Hi Lauren, I hope you’ll read my other post about Depo that explains what you are experiencing after coming off this contraceptive method. It includes suggestions for treatment that may help with the continual bleeding.
https://menstruationresearch.org/2013/04/11/stopping-depo-provera-why-and-what-to-do-about-adverse-experiences/
Thanks for posting.
Harata, You’ll find some information related to getting your fertility back in this other post I wrote explaining post-Depo experiences. You may find it of value: https://menstruationresearch.org/2013/04/11/stopping-depo-provera-why-and-what-to-do-about-adverse-experiences/
I don’t have the same side effects as you but the oneI have is the bleeding I’ve been bleeding almost four months. sometimes it’s really dark and some days it’s light. I just want my period back to the way it was before the shot . It sucks I was on the shot for a year I’ve been off it for a year and 2 months and my period hasn’t returned Normal yet. I’m hoping it will soon tho.
I don’t have the same side effects as you but the oneI have is the bleeding I’ve been bleeding almost four months. sometimes it’s really dark and some days it’s light. I just want my period back to the way it was before the shot . It sucks I was on the shot for a year I’ve been off it for a year and 2 months and my period hasn’t returned Normal yet. I’m hoping it will soon tho….
I have been having the depo for 13 years, i stopped for a short period of time in the middle but continued. I have now realised the effect it has on my moods, so had my last injection December 2013. I await what comes next as for the full 13 years i didnt have any periods!
It just cant be good for you and i am giving my body a break to see what my actual normal cycle is like and will NEVER be taking the depo injection again !!
I have been on the shot for 5 years recently got off it in January 19 and started taking the pill and since that my breast also get so sore to wear bra or to wear tighter shirt while not wearing bra and my first period was only for 2 days and I was never advised about any side effects at all!
i have also had the problems with the eyes. but im wondering, do you know if people can get a rash from stopping the depo? i was on it for about 6 yrs. was due last week for my next dose. but after an online search i was like forget that! anyway, i noticed a rash today, and it spread pretty quickly after noticing it. by time i got to the doc it had spread alot. she didnt think it was from stopping. but with all the little info out there who knows if she could be so sure. and i was never aware of the 2 yr limit either.
i have used this shot three diff times in my life.. i first came off of it at 18. was on it a year or two. not sure how long it took for a “normal” cycle to start again. but it did take 13 months to get preg. so thats probably when it became completely normal. the second time my period started within a month of stopping, but it took 8 months to get pregnant. now i have just come off it after being on for 6 yrs. was due for next shot last week, but havent gotten period yet. not looking to get preg, just did research and decided it was to damaging to the body. once again, i was never told about the 2 yr limit. why is this a running theme? it just aint right not telling people this.
I was on the shot for nearly 6 years and decided to quit last month. The experience has been awful. Like many others who have commented, I have been bleeding all month and it has been getting progressively worse. My eyes ache… I have blurry vision all of the time and see tiny flecks that I know aren’t actually there. My back is on fire with soreness, I have had cramps that make me extremely nauseous and hot and cold flashes. I cry almost every day and I’m constantly exhausted regardless of how much sleep I am getting. I also have been going through huge changes in appetite.
The only potentially positive effect is I have lost a slight amount of weight, but I’m not reassured by this as I have been constantly bleeding and the nausea may be a contributing factor.
To all of us going through this transition, hang in there. I know I have had more than one thought of going back on the shot but it is clearly very awful for our bodies. It has helped me to make my daily focus to intake more than enough water and eat lots of vegetables. While this may sound trivial, I swear it has helped me from crashing to the ground. The thought of a healthy balanced body definitely keeps me motivated!
To those of you on the shot, please be aware of what you are putting into your body. I loved not having a period, not worrying about remembering my contraception, and my blemish-free skin, but long term this shot is damaging and coming off of it is only a glimpse of its huge influence on our bodies.
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I started the depot in may 2013 and i have been bleedin all year! I stopped once in june for one month and began again. In july !! It was horrible. Non stop menustration for months! I had a shot again in september and still i bled. I decided nott to go back for the 3rd shot. I. Thought the bkeedin had stopped when it stopped in january. 2014 but then i started again. Two weeks ago. HEAVY!! HELP!!!!! It did the reverse affect on me. I lost weight indtead of gained and my hair fell out!!
Ihad gotten one shot & then went off of the depo & everything went back to normal.. However, now ihave been on it for 1year & 2months. Ihad previously decided to go off of it because the clinic that injects me recommended ionly stay on the depo for a maximum of one year. Icame online to Read up on the effects of coming off it it, & yall are terrifying me!
I was on depo for 10 years I had (massive) weight gain and cronic depression I didn’t put it down to the injection. infact I was very nieve … I stopped it about august last year due to my boyfriends research about it…now I am off it my periods are irregular and cramps that take my breath away I’ve been on my period for 3 weeks to the day. I was never told that you are only meant to be on it two years. Girls I hate periods and babies scare me lol but that shit was slowly killing me. I am unsure if my body will recover I felt great for a while on it an then slowly the effects started kicking in depression, weight gain, irratibility…. Even felt like I had no energy in the end drained all the time. I guess. Our bodie work differently but I would becareful if you want kids later on. Xx good luck!
I started depo 18 years ago. 11 years ago, I missed a shot and within 1 month, I was pregnant. Afterwards, I got back on it. I was never made aware of the 2 year recommendation until recently when I changed doctors. She ordered a bone density screen and a change in birth control. My results show that I am at the end stages of osteopenia, beginning of osteoporosis. Because my husband and I are positive we don’t want any more kids, he opted for a vasectomy. My last shot was due Feb 7th, so I am just near a month off the hormone, and I don’t feel any different. I have had a few extra headaches recently, but nothing else. I’m a little worried reading all of these posts about what’s in store for me. But I’m also worried that I haven’t experienced any of these. Is it possible I did too much damage from being on the depo 18 years? Or is it still too soon to tell?
Hi Kelly
I hope you’ll read my other post about Depo – an interview with an endocrinologist that explains what you may experience in the months to come after coming off this contraceptive method. Having been on the drug for so long you may start to experience symptoms related to perimenopause. If you do read it, I’d appreciate your letting me know in the comments of that post if you found it of value. All the best, Laura
https://menstruationresearch.org/2013/04/11/stopping-depo-provera-why-and-what-to-do-about-adverse-experiences/
I have been on depo for nearly 6 years and i have decided to come off it. Would of been having my 3 month injection next week but I have cancelled. I am dreading my 1st period though even though it is normal to have them, but because i havent had one for 5+ years. I also have polycystic ovaries syndrome and worried that i might have fertility problems. Help!!
i literally put on 30 lbs while on depo. i was on it for two years. i am now prescribed a mini pill called camilla. i have yet to try it. at this rate, i am considering just not to take it and take my chances. gaining all this weight for the amount of sex that i have (which isn’t much) isnt worth it to me anymore.
Hi all – its been a while since my last post. I was on Depo for 16 years and didn’t have any side effects. March 2013 I went to my GYN visit and my doctor told me to stop taking the depo due to the fact that I was on it too long. He gave me a bone density test and said that my numbers were not good for a 47 year old. My last shot was April 2013. Since coming off of Depo I am sick to my stomach, hair falling out, acne, back pain, teeth and gum issues, depression, angry mood, bone stiffness, blurred vision, hot flashes, night sweats, frequent urination, smelly urine. My doctor actually said that i am going through perimenopause because of my age. while on the depo i didn’t have a period and i still don’t have a period don’t know if it will ever come back. Although as strange as it might sound i am still ovulating each month. My doctor want to put me on the pill due to the fact that he says i can still become pregnant. After what i am experiencing now i don’t want anything in my system. Please stay away from Depo it will screw you up!!
Hey all know I recently posted but its disgusting I’m 25 …I actually feel so sick with it and the dr’s are doing nothing about it, visited the dr today….They did nothing about it I have been off depo since last Jan they said so its been a year and 2 months… I feel like I am going through what (Dwell) described ….perimenopause at 25 I can’t describe how awful I have felt since I come off and it does not seem to be letting up life is awful right now….Was on it for 10 years.
Hi! I’m 20, and I was on Depo for about 5 years, mostly because I would have super painful cycles. Endometriosis runs in my family so that’s most likely why. I’ve been off it for about 4 months. I’ve always gotten migraines, but for the past 2 weeks I have had SUPER sore breasts, and both my breasts nipples have gotten a slight bit larger. I’ve also gotten waves of what most would describe as “morning sickness” except it comes at night. I haven’t gotten a period or spotting at all yet, however I am sexually active. I’ve taken multiple pregnancy tests which all come back negative. I just feel like a preteen hitting puberty for the first time. This sucks.
Im 17 years old and I got on the depo shot because of irregular periods. I took two shots and I didn’t go back for my 3rd one because I had forgotten. Now im having awful stomach pains. I haven’t had a period in two months. Im so confused.
I was excited about the depo when I received it in Feb.2013 and after 3 months of irregular bleeding I didn’t really have any problems until now I got my last shot in Nov & besides the random cramping since my last shot I didn’t get my period back until 4 days ago but I’ve been passing little clumps and having excruciating cramps and back pain nausea and no appetite is this normal should I talk to my doctor should I just sit it out and let it past help please
As I’ve replied to others who’ve posted similar comments please read my other post about Depo – an interview with an endocrinologist that explains what you may have been experiencing in the months after coming off this contraceptive method. Having been on the drug for so long you may start to experience symptoms related to perimenopause. If you do read it, I’d appreciate your letting me know in the comments of that post if you found it of value.
Thanks, Laura
https://menstruationresearch.org/2013/04/11/stopping-depo-provera-why-and-what-to-do-about-adverse-experiences/
You may get some answers and some help from my other post about Depo-Provera: https://menstruationresearch.org/2013/04/11/stopping-depo-provera-why-and-what-to-do-about-adverse-experiences/
Hello
I am 24 and have been on depo since I was 18. I don’t have my period. My self and my husband decided that we would stop birth control and whatever happens happens. My last shot was Dec 2013. Since my shot ran out March, I have had horrible headace, sore boobs and no period. I took a pregnancy test to be sure and it was negative. I will NEVER get back on depo.
I was only using it for a year but after missing one shot and having major withdrawal symptoms, I took a further look into it and found this article. You might want to read up on it since you’ve been on it for 14 years. https://abcnews.go.com/Health/depo-provera-birth-control-injections-withdrawal-symptoms/story?id=8902273
Im 18, I got the Depo shot in December and I bled from January up until March. I didnt get back on the Depo shot in March and Im still bleeding and its April. My doctor put me on the pills to stop the bleeding over 2 weeks ago and it still hasnt stopped.Wondering when the bleeding will stop because its been a month since Ive been off the shot?
I’m 23 started depo 4 years ago. My shot was due February and I decided to stop taking it due to constant nervousness. Now that I’ve stopped the nervousness has gone away, but my breasts are not only sore they are swollen and like a rock. My head is killing me and I can’t seem to wake up enough to do anything.
Ladies ladies ladies, I will be 34 in September and last year was my second time taking the depo in my life, I was due for a shot in January and decided not to get it I am still hurting my breast are super sore no weight gain well just a little but I have a lower abdominal pain as well wondering if and I was just wondering if anyone else is experiencing this problem as well. and my doctor did not inform me of the to your limit either I learned that from my mother just two weeks ago. in fact, I as well thought I might be pregnant for some reason I don’t feel like not however it’s just very strange and the side effects of coming off of this are very brutal! I know and I believe as women this is our choice but I believe the Depo Provera shot should be illegal or band something has got to give these doctors seem to give us a notification it’s our bodies not theirs
I am 17 years old I was on the depo shot for a year and stopped in December. I started taking the pill immediately after and ever since I have been an emotional wreck! I keep crying and get so stressed out so fast. I had to start seeing a psychiatrist but I’ve only gone a couple times and isn’t working. I never was anything like this until I stopped taking the shot.
I been on and off depo thru two children.my last depo was due 2 months ago.i been bleeding 7 days on 2 days off and right back to.full out period for 2 months now it hurts my body,back-neck, cramps,mood swings its important to now what your.bodys going thru, i.thought i was loosing my health,it has been helpful to know I’m not the only one going thru it.and the amount of money saving.yes there has been sharp pain in my eye and head area just hoping to get regular again-keep on the calcium very important
I took 1 depo shot and didn’t like it. My 3 months is up next week, and I am freaking out about what is going to happen side effect wise? Anyone have any idea the consequences if you just took it once?
The first time itried depo ionly got one round & ihad noo complications other than ibled for maybe 2 or 3 weeks. Other than that my cycle returned as per usual.
I had been on Depo a year and went off it about a month ago. I loved not getting a period, but since I’m not having sex anyway and I don’t like the thought of injecting hormones, I went off. My breasts and nipples hurt like many mentioned, had a three week period, spotting now, but the worst is my brain. I’m nervous, obsessive and feel like I’m loosing my mind. I’m having “morning sickness” type symptoms in the afternoon and haven’t been able to eat dinner for three days. I can hardly stand myself and broke down crying tonight. I also don’t see it as a coincidence that in the last year I’ve needed 4 cavities filled. Prior to being on the shot I had one cavity my entire life. Don’t do it ladies. Going without a period isn’t worth all this.
Been off depo since December and am miserable I want to go back on …its been 7 years …. been having very bad cramps cycle is very irregular …it makes me angry …might just go back on not planning on having any kids anytime soon Withdrawal is horrible for me .. just horrible cramps and stress, crying ..just emotional…idk how much more I would take smh..
I’m 17, I was on it for 9 months and decided that I needed to quit due to some extreme side effects like weight gain, hot flashes, and severe mood swings.. That was in January. It’s now almost May and I haven’t had my period. Any advice?
I have been on Depo since Oct of 1999. I am having a tubal ligation on Friday and am really nervous about coming off of the shot but I am 36 and thinks it time to let me body de itself. I have absolutely no side effects from the shot.
A friend of mine took one shot 8 years ago and she still is not able to get pregnant. Not sure if this is why but before you take anything you should check out all of the possible side effects. I have been on depo for almost 15 years and have been lucky. When I come off this week who knows.
Hello, thank you so much for this forum. I had such issues coming off depo, so bad I thought I was dying. I took the cyclic progesterone as suggested and about 2 months majority of symptoms were improved and I got my period back after my first dose of progesterone. That was about 9 months ago. I recently starting taking bee pollen and am experiencing similar effects as when I was coming off the depo. I stopped two days ago but still have intense abdominal and back pain, copious amounts of clear discharge at times, and incredible mood swings from intense sadness. Did I just set my body back into perimenopause? Is this still related to depo as well? Should I go back on the cyclic progesterone?
Hi ladies,am a mother of two boys and have been on depo for 19months,I added weight jst 2kg,saw my periods every two months and some times every month,had some aches on my hand,bloating like 3times,breast tenderness.the last time I skiped my shot for 1wk bcos I travelled my period came instantly.when I got back while still on my period I took d shot and the period lasted for a month and 2weeks.have decided to have another baby so am off.none of these side effects on me.NB:Depo is not for everybody esp for ladies who are more than 34 are fat and has health issues.otherwise my friend just gave birth after taking d shot for 1yr she stoped had her period immediately n got pregnant 3months later.
I am 18 now and have been on depo for two years. I stopped back in sept and still haven’t had a period. I started to cramp the other day and and now my nipples are really tender. Also for the past 3 months I have had really bad lower back pain. I was not told of the two year limit either but I just stopped because I was worried about problems I could get from continuing to take it.
I got the Depo shot while I was in the hospital 2 months ago for my second blood transfusion in a month due to extremely heavy & irregular bleeding. I am sooo extremely angry that I let my doctors talk me into getting this crap! I really hate doctors anymore. I have a 25 year history of Major depression and it is ALL over my medical history, and I should have NEVER been prescribed this BS! I AM LIVID! I have been suicidal for 2 months since getting this shot, and although I have had depression forever and have had suicidal thoughts over the years, NOTHING like this – it never stops! Then I start researching because of this and because of the excruciating cramps, and both are side effects. I almost fell to the floor. Not to mention, the whole reason I was taking this is because of extremely heavy periods that sent me to the ER for blood transfusions! And now, I’ve been bleeding for 12 days straight (HEAVY)! What the hell was the point?! AND I am having excruciating cramps and back pain likened to labor pains! In addition, I mentioned to one of my docs that I was suicidal and that it is a side effect of Depo, only to be told ‘no, I don’t think so!’ These docs need to go back to school & get educated! And if they do not know about a drug AND explain the BAD as well as what they think are the good aspects, then they should be held accountable and deemed negligent! DON’T TAKE THIS DRUG!
Reta – I feel for you. I am going through some of the same things after my first shot two months ago. I will never get it again. I can’t imagine getting any worse than I already am. I hope that your symptoms go away and that you feel better soon! Hang in there.
Hey y’all. I’ve been on Depo provera for about 4 years now, started getting the shot when I was a sophomore in high school because I became sexually active & my doctor told me that Depo provera would be hands down the easiest. Well, a family member of mine had been on it too, she married two years ago & stopped receiving her shot at that point, it’s been 2 years and they have not been able to get pregnant. Obviously this scared me because I’m still with the guy I became sexually active with my sophomore year of high school & now I’m a sophomore in college & we’re talking marriage and I obviously would like to have a kid with him after that. So I stopped Depo & started taking a less aggressive birth control in pill version however I started having pregnancy symptoms which actually scared me because my boyfriend and I haven’t used condoms since 2011. So I just went to the doc because my mom said it could be hormones. I was experiencing frequent urination, waaay tender breast, fatigue, spotting, and light cramps. The doc ran some blood tests, I took a pregnancy test, and I had a pap. I’m not pregnant, but I found out I’m completely infertile. They said there’s a chance I’ll never be pregnant. The odds are against me. They asked me about my experience on Depo, well I had my first Depo shot in 2010 & I never had a period again from there on out still haven’t had one. I never had any symptoms from Depo at all, maybe a slight weight gain but I’m an athlete so it didn’t effect me too bad. No I’m not trying to get pregnant at the moment, but I had hopes for it in my future and those hopes have been shot down because Depo.
Thanks michelle but am really rethinking getting 8on depo….the bleeding has stopped and I am now tryin to manage when wi be my next cycle by using an app. Hopefully it works so I can get bac on the depo . Dont think am ready to be pregnant.
I’ve been on the Depo shot for 4 years after having a cyst the size of a basketball on my left ovary and 14 cysts removed from my right, they took the left ovary and Fallopian tube out. This all occurred when I was 18, doc told me that the Depo shot would decrease the number of cysts my body seemed to create, so when I was 20 I gave it a shot, no pun intended. This past January I was diagnosed with a severe vitamin d deficiency because of it so I have been taken off it. Ever since it’s been pure agony, mentally and physically. My stomach is constantly upset, migraines all day and night, insomnia, anxiety, and on top of that my breasts are beyond sore, they’ve swelled, every smell makes me gag and puke, lower back pain is excruciating, extreme mood swings, (started bawling at work the other for absolutely NO REASON) horrible cramps but zero bleeding. I was already terrified I was never going to be able to get pregnant after my surgery now I’m starting to think Depo has just ruined the little chance I did have. I have spoken with my doctor and they just keep telling me to wait it out, it might take some time but none of them seem to be taking me seriously enough to tell me to come in. Anyone, anyone at all, have some advice? I’m beginning to run out of resources. ( and my sanity is reaching a breaking point)
I’m 19 years old and I was due for my last shot sometime during the past week. I’ve been on Depo for 7 years now and I’ve decided I needed a break from it. For the past few days I’ve been having stomach pains, severe mood changes, and a huge amount of soreness in my breasts. My mom was the one who decided to put me on birth control 7 years ago,although I wasn’t sexually active until I turned 17, which was 2 years ago. I hated the weight gain, mood swings, and change of appetite while I was on it. I’ve done some research on the side effects of discontinuing Depo and most seem very serious and some life-threatening. I would like to have kids someday, preferably around the age of 27 and I don’t want my lower insides screwed up from prolonged use of Depo, especially since I was put on it at such a young age. I’ve read about some women who were on it for over 10 years and they have had no ill side effects. However, if given the chance, I would not go back on Depo. My advice is that before you decide to use Depo, do a serious research on that method and ask your doctor about the 2year period.
Hi, I was on depro for 5 years 25-30 years old. I had no side effects – did not spot, did not get my period. I went off of it and got my period the following week. A year later I decided to go back on it…BIG MISTAKE! For the full year I was spotting, then I got off it and did not get my period for 10 months. Everything I read said I should get it within 12 months. At the 10 month point I started to suffer from insomnia and anxiety. I got terrible cluster headaches and was in a out of the doctors office trying different types of pills for all 3 issues for the past 2 months. I recently was able to get an appointment with my GYNO (4 months since I live in Quebec) and she said my hormones are in line and she has never heard of any side effects from this injection. I’m really at my breaking point. I have never had anxiety, sleep or headache issues in my whole life – now I’m 33. I really don’t know what else to do, I’m not a spiritual person…but I’m trying everything, yoga, meditation, acupressure, mindful thinking . Does anyone have hope or advice for me????
Hey guys, so I got the depo shot last year in July, while on the shot I didn’t have a regular period. Only spotting, that was a really dark brownish color. That happened every month up until December of that same year. thats when I decided to get off, because I didn’t want any future complications with conception or anything else for that matter. I decided I didn’t want to get on any other BC until I had my regular periods. But that hasn’t been going well, i had my first period in march, which lasted four days (which is normal for me), in April I didn’t have one but my breasts were super tender, it was like my nipples felt numb or something. And now may, I started my period , lasted for four days. And not even two weeks later, i start again! I guess im just nervous that im having two periods in the same month. Im just wondering if anyone else is experiencing this or has before? I need answers!
Hi this is my 2ed time being on the Depo sense two years ago the first time when i got off the depo my period went by to normal right away now this 2ed time i have been off the depo for a few months in my period finally came but now it hasn’t stopped in im now going on 10 days is this normal should I be worried? Help plz
Hi this is my 2ed time being on the Depo sense two years ago the first time when i got off the depo my period went by to normal right away now this 2ed time i have been off the depo for a few months in my period finally came but now it hasn’t stopped in im now going on 10 days is this normal should I be worried? Help plz Thanks
i only got the shot once and a week after it weared off i got my period for 3 days and then it came back 2 days later. I’ve been on my period for almost 4 weeks now i really dont know if it is normal, sounds like im not the only one though
Last year, August of 2013, I got on the depo shot to help my periods. BIG MISTAKE! After the first shot, I didn’t bleed at all. By the time it got close to my next shot, I bled for 6 weeks. I went to the doctor to see if it was normal because I started having really bad pains & just felt droggy and sick like I did when I had an infection in my fallopian tube. She gave me another! I’m 140 pounds at 5″5 & she said “I’m giving you another shot which would really be for people who are almost 300 pounds but it should stop the bleeding.” I trusted her since “she’s the doctor.” Again, BIG MISTAKE! It didn’t stop it at all. In face, my symptoms got worse. A lot worse. I kept bleeding. That all happened December 2013. As of this week, May 29, 2014, I’m still have bleeding. The bleeding comes and goes now, but some days, there’s no stopping it. I still have a lot of the side effects too. I really hope this stops. Tampons, pantie liners, & pads arent cheap. I would never recommended the depo to anybody. A lot of my friends experienced this also. I just wish I knew when exactly this will all stop, and when I will become regular again.
I hope you’ll read my other post about Depo – an interview with an endocrinologist that explains what you may experience in the months to come after coming off this contraceptive method:
https://menstruationresearch.org/2013/04/11/stopping-depo-provera-why-and-what-to-do-about-adverse-experiences/
I only had one shot & I bled off & on for three months. My periods have never been so heavy in my life. The first period was so heavy I thought I would bleed to death. Not kidding. My second period lasted 2 1/2 weeks, one week later I’m back on again. My first & my last shot was mid October. I can’t wait until my cycle is back regular… I wouldn’t recommend the depo-provera to my worse enemy.
hi i was on the depo for 10years was never told that i sudnt be on it for more then 2years i had my last injection in September 2013 and still had no period only spotting i went to the doctors this wk they put me on tablets to bring on my period and also had blood test done to check my thyroid if i have know about these problem i wud never have gone on it i not long got married am now worry me and my husband will never have children feeling annoy and so sad that it may never happen
Hello everyone, I made a post in here sometime last year or year before last can’t remember. I had been on depo two separate times 1 after my first child was born and I was on it for about 4 years and come off because I thought it had something to do with me having an abnormal pap. That was about 10 years ago and seem like Mt cycle started back fine then. I went back on it after my third child which was six years ago and was on it for about 3 years and decided I didn’t want to be on it anymore because I wanted to have another child. When I came off it took about 6 months before my cycle started and I would bleed for weeks at a time and it was stop for about a week and start back. So basically I was having a cycle about every two weeks for almost a year and then it move to about every three were and so on. Long story short I never became regular again. June 2013 I became pregnant and miscarried in July, I was about 4 weeks pregnant. In my mind I felt like it had something to do with being on the depo, which I still don’t doubt. Doctors told me since I became pregnant I will be regular. Lies they told. I still did not become regular with my cycle. However in November of 2014 which was 4 months after miscarriage I conceived again. I didn’t find out until I missed my cycle in December of 2013 that I had actually conceived three weeks early moving my due date from August 16th to July 25th 2014. So as of right now I am still pregnant with 8 more weeks left and everything seems to be going ok. I encourage you all who are going through the same thing I went through to have faith and if you believe in God put it in his hands and let him have his way. It may not happen when we want it to because it took me two + years to become pregnant but in God’s timing I did finally become pregnant. I also had symptoms such as headaches, mood swings, tender Breast and feeling nauseous when I came off the depo, so I totally know how it felt to think you were pregnant and wasn’t, can be very frustrating. I will try to keep you all updated with the pregnancy in a few weeks when I deliver.
Hi there,
I took the repo provera shot for two years, for the most part it was great. I didn’t get pregnant, and rarely had a period but I started experiencing anxiety and paranoia. So I opted for switching to an IUD, about 20 days after being off the repo shot, when my period normally would have started, I experienced severe nausea, vomiting, and diarrhoea.
Concerned, I called the women’s clinic thinking it was an infection to the IUD. The women explained that I was having “estrogen dumping” from the depo shot. I had never heard of it, so I took a trip to the closest clinic to me to confirm it wasn’t an infection, the doctor told me it wasn’t an infection and prescribed zofran ($300 later..) but wasn’t familiar with the term “estrogen dumping” I’ve tried doing some research but haven’t found anything about this, normally most people are concerned about symptoms when on the shot not after.
I’de love to know if anyone has more information on this. Thanks!
Hello, I had taken the depo provera shot in late june of 2013. I bled for almost a month and called the women’s clinic on why this was happening. They told me that it was normal for most women to bleed for a long period of time after the first shot and by the time I got my second or third shot my periods would most likely stop. Well, by the time I hung up the phone I had already decided to not get another shot and take myself off of it. My periods have been somewhat irregular they last just a few days more than a week. So usually about 8-10 days. But now it’s May 31, 2014 and my period has been on for almost 3 WEEKS! (it’s not heavy and the color is like a brownish red). And I leave for the United States Air Force in 16 days and I’m getting scared to death that this could potentially disqualify me before I even get started. If this is caused by the side effects of the shot please let me know so I can stop worrying myself to death.
Thank you.
hi, i just wanted to say that i was on depo for 3 yrs and stopped it 2 months ago but before i did i read that switching to the pill could help ur body regain regular periods faster. the first month after stopping i had no period, at the start of the 2nd month i started the pill, my last working pill was thursday and now its monday and im happy to say i have a full on period, at best i expected some light spotting. im not sure if it will work for everyone but if u r having trouble getting a period it may be worth trying
well ladies ive been this off and on for centuries you have to at least take birt control pills for at least 2 or 3 months so your cycle to be right after coming off the depo shot and then stop ….I tried to stop depo shot cold turkey after many years I bleed constantly for I know 6 months straight I couldn’t deal but you have to take thos bc to make hormones get rite
So there isn’t a whole lot of good news on here, so I’m changing that. I was supposed to get my last shot last June. I didn’t have my period until October and it didn’t stop until march. I had every symptom that everyone had talked about. But I am SO happy to say that I am getting back to “normal”. For those of you new to the struggle, just be patient. It DOES get better.
Seems we area all in the same boat, it just seems you have to play the waiting game for this stupid thing to get out of your system. This is my second time and should of known better. I was 17 when I got on the shot and I bled the whole year and had to put on Iron pills. Got off of it and no problem had my regular period. Now so different, had only 3 shots and didn’t go back in Jan for my fourth and finally had my first normal period May 2 but I felt i as on m period but ten times worse but no bleeding. Got worse each month. Now I am almost a week over due on my period and worst cramps ever with a nasty taste in my mouth. I was so hopeful I was back on track. Just seems to me from reading everyone’s response, just have to wait it out which sucks.
Hello. I haven’t been on depo for a long time but my first shot I bled for 3 months straight then my second shot caused me to have a miscarriage (which is the worst pain you could EVER experience, the pain is close to giving birth but imagine it for 4 weeks long) because my doctor didn’t explain to me the process of the depo shot correctly… so I stopped taking it for good… around the time I was supposed to get my next shot I never went and then 4 days later I got my period (7 days, normal for me ) and now its June around the time of the month I’m supposed to get my period and I’m a week late… not only that I’m getting huge symptoms of pregnancy but every test I bought says I’m negative… young girls wanting to have sex and think BC is the best choice, your wrong. Just wait til your married. A man will stay loyal for a virgin and would rather marry one too.
So I have been off for 10 months and I was on for about 3-4 years..I still haven’t had my period! Getting really worried
So I have been off depo for 10 months and I was on for about 3-4 years..I still haven’t had my period! Getting really worried
I got my shot in March my cycle was on when I got it. I had a 8day period. My cycle stopped about 2weeks. I been bleeding for about 2months. Won’t happen again I go for a 2nd shot in June(in2wks) I will not be going. THIS SUCKS!! I was celibate before the shot. I got on the shot because I became engaged an didn’t want kids right away. Now I rather a kid than be a blood bag.
Hi,
Just a quick update…
Still insomnia – on tons a medications but finally sleeping.
The best thing I did was went to a fertility clinic, the doctor was surprised that people still take depo provera. He gave me pills of provera and I finally got my period, but just for one day…but thats better than nothing. I’ll keep you all posted. My only advice – get off of depo ASAP!
If I knew then, what I know now, I would never have switched from the pill to the depo shot. A friend made me aware of it, and not being a huge fan of periods I switched immediately. The first round I had a little spotting, but after the 2nd and 3rd rounds I had gained 10-15lbs, and had no spotting or period. After speaking to another friend about her experience on depo, she begged me not to continue it. She had been on it 2 years ago & was trying to conceive and wasn’t able to. Her & her husband had been through every test in the book, and nothing could be determined as to why they can’t conceive. She’s using medicene now to try and help, but still nothing. I don’t ever want kids, but I’d love to be back to “normal” and have a regular cycle. My depo “ran out” in January 2014, & I didn’t get another shot, I refuse. Since then I’ve had worse than normal hormonal acne, can’t lose the extra weight, breast tenderness, and no sign of a period. I’m 3 months in, and looks like a lot of you didn’t get back to normal for 10+ months. I’m going to get a 2nd gyno’s opinion, but the side effects post depo should be covered. I should have known better, not getting a period just isn’t natural.
I started getting injections at 16 years old. For the typical reasons, pregnancy prevention and to help ease my extreme period symptoms. I took the shot for 2 years and stopped after a bad breakup because I was too busy wallowing in my own misery. My period returned the next month. At 20, I met my current boyfriend and decided to go back on the shot. I was on it another year before coming off it again because I couldn’t afford it. (I had no medical insurance and didn’t know you could go to PP for the injection) My period didn’t come. And it didn’t come. And it didn’t come. For almost a year, no spotting, no cramps, nothing. Throughout the year I took multiple pregnancy tests just to calm my nerves, all coming back negative. When I FINALLY got my period in January of 2014, it was so intense I called my mom, friends, doctors, everyone. Huge clots and a flow so heavy I went through a jumbo box of tampons in about 3 days. My period lasted like this for almost 3 weeks, and the cramps were so intense I couldn’t get out of bed. It was all I could do to make it from the bed to the couch. I had symptoms I had never had before with my periods, like extremely sensitive nipples, migraines, shakes, nausea, all these terrible things. Now in June of 2014, I’ve gotten my period every month since, but every time it is what we have dubbed “The Super Period.” While the cycles have gotten shorter, usually around 3-4 days, all the god awful symptoms come back every time. After trying to talk to my aloof doctor about my horror story, she shrugs it off as “normal.” The ONLY treatment they have offered me is to GO BACK ON THE DEPO!! When I told them they were insane, they offered me other birth control (the mirena). I refuse to do that as well as everyone I’ve known who has used the Mirena have all had serious complications. Now I’m stuck with “Super Periods” for the foreseeable future and am too scared to go on any form of contraceptive because I don’t want to aggravate the situation. I would NEVER suggest the Depo to ANYONE! I wish I knew of something to help my own situation, but regardless, I want other women to hear what has happened to me so they can make an informed decision about what EXACTLY they are getting themselves into. Good luck!
Hey , I got on the shot in April which was a few months ago. After being on the shot , I didn’t get my period anymore, until June . June 1st I started spotting real real light. It was actually pink. This lasted for 5 days. On the fifth day , after I finished a meal, I felt something kicking me in stomach like really thumping , almost like an irregular heartbeat. I’m hoping it’s gas but I’m not sure. Does anyone know what this can mean?
I was on the depo shot for about 9 months and I didn’t get my third shot. And I quit it in September of 2013 and I started my first period in February and had it for 4 days and then I didn’t have it the next month and then I had it again in April with 4 days and I haven’t had a period since April. I have had intercourse plenty of times and I’m wondering if there is a chance I may be pregnant? I’m 17 years old and really need help I have been wondering this and getting scared
Hi
i has my last injection in September 2013 after being on for 7 years. I have had no spotting, no period at all whilst on depo or since coming off. We are trying for a baby, obviously was not told how long it would take to get back to ‘normal’. I have had bad aches and pains in my arms since coming off and for the past week, my breasts have been really hard and swollen. Keep thinking i will get my period soon but no luck yet. Worst decision ever!
Hi,
I have been on the depo shot for almost 5 years I was suppose to get my shot back in april but because of “long term effects” and my fiance I decided to just quit the shot. I just got my period 2 days ago and its very heavy. Honestly before I went on the depo I was bleeding really bad and had terrible cramps that would make me sick to my stomach. While I was on the shot I gained A LOT of weight. like at least 50lbs!!! However I never got my period and never had any sort of spotting. About two years before I decided to quit the Depo, I noticed I was having joint pain, my bones felt weak (like they would just snap) I began to have cramps real bad again, headaches I had the full time I was on the depo. I was hopping that things would go smoothly but I’m getting a bit worried so I thought I’d look up what to expect. I kinda figured I’d be getting my period all year round like before and it would be heavy too, like before. I just dont know what else to be expecting like will my future child have birth defects? will I ever go through menapause and not have a period? will my bones get stronger? will I start to lose the weight that I gained while on the depo? I never thought about the other things I have read on here like the achne and aches and pains in my breasts. I’m hopping things go better than what I have read on here. If any feedback for me please e-mail me @ hollystarkissed@gmail.com
Hi, well ive been off and on depo for like 6-7 years now. I recently missed my apt for my injection on may 23rd 2014, because I broke my leg had surgery and became bedridden. well I haven’t started my period and usually I do immediately after I miss a shot for a day or two but this time is different. I haven’t had anything and im worried because my husband couldn’t wait and we did have intercourse twice after the 23rd. this time I was on my depo for 16months and I do not want to go back when im healed. does anyone know if missing periods is normal? please help.
I started the needle about 9 months ago and missed the last one by one month and I’ve been having intercourse whilst I misses my needle during that month. My breasts started to get big and tender at times. Hard and big other times. I had a pregnancy test after I started getting sore breasts but it came out negative. I’m gaining weight and I’m wondering if my
Pregnancy test came out wrong. Could it be just hormonal changes where I haven’t taken my needle? Please help! I am 18 years old
I’ve had the same thing but ive been off the depo for 3 months – were u pregnant?
This is actually my second time being on the depo shot. The first time I was on it for 4years and stopped. It took my body a year to get back to normal. October2013 was the second time I’d got on it. In march2013 I’d decided to come off of it. During the month of April I’ve been spotting & it stopped during last week of that month. About 2 weeks later I’d had a period which lasted for 7days. Two weeks later, I had another pd, which much heavier. Now it’s the second of June2013 and I’m bleeding again. I’d be glad when my body returns back to normal bc this is ridiculous. Pads and tampons aren’t cheap!! Plus being on your pd constantly is a headache in itself! I’d never recommend this method to my worst enemy! I’m keeping my faith and believe that my body will return normal and balanced soon…
To June: yes, technically. The night I got my shot I had sex thinking I’m protected but I wasn’t… you gotta wait a month for it to kick in… doctor didn’t tell me that…miscarrying is the worst thing a woman could EVER go though. Having a miscarriage is worse than getting raped. The pain goes on for a bout a month and you dong even bleed at first you just have these cramps every time you tense your stomach or every time you even think about having sex. The pain sends you to the bathroom thinking you have to poop but you don’t and don’t even think about pushing. Man does that make it even worse! If I had to choose between getting shot at or having those painful cramps id rather get shot at. Then what makes it all worse you dong even bleed normal, you bleed clots and you see the pieces from the baby…it makes you wanna cry… you feel even more dumb for taking birth control…
Anna most likely your pregnant. DO NOT TAKE THE DEPO. TAKE ALL THE NESSISARRY ACTIONS TO MAKE SURE IF YOUR PREGNANT OR NOT. DEPO WILL MAKE YOU MISCARRY! It did it to me!
To Judith: I’m on that same boat with you. I took a blood test yesterday to completely make sure. I’ll find out the results today.
Hi – i came off the depo in march 2014 after being on it for nearly 6 years. I havent had a period since. I have noticed that i have PUT on weight and my breast are larger (and vieny). I havent had any pregnancy signs like sickness but is there a chance I could be ??? Reading this is seems most women dont get their periods back for months……
I have been off the Depo for a month and am experiencing intense headaches, stomach pain (just super uncomfortable), diarrhea, insomia, and anxiety. I was hoping to wait for my cycle to become regular before starting another birth control but now I’m feeling like I should forget about the cycle. I’m ready to start another birth control method so my body can feel normal again. 3-4 hours of sleep since stopping the shot is not the best. I’m use to 8-9 hours… Any suggestions for bc besides Depo or an iud (it perforated my uterus and costs me thousands of dollars to remove)? I love the set it and forget it methods…
I have been on depo provera ever since I got my period around age 13 and I’m 24 this year I have decided I am not going to go for my next shit to maybe get my hormones straightened out but I am worried I may gain more weight I weight 220 pounds and gained 10 pounds just very recently I don’t look it but I feel it and I have had to wear a panty liner forever because my hormones are unbalanced and I leak bacteria (which is what a Gyno doc had told me, more bacteria then yeast and bacteria just leaks) I havnt had any complaints no spotting no periods and barley any cramps which is why I went on it in the first place to stop the heavy bleeding and cramps. I don’t know if I am making a good choice or not by stopping but if I go to my doctor she will insist I stay in depo which I am not wanting to anymore I just hope that my depression goes away also I hate taking meds and I have to take them for my sever depression/ panic attacks that lead me down a bad road. So what do you think good or bad decision?
Victoria –
I feel for you. It is your body, and if you decide to not take Depo anymore, that is YOUR choice, and if your doc doesn’t respect that, find another one! Let me tell you from personal experience, Depo made me suicidal and I never ever would get that shot again! I don’t know if you are prone to depression, but for those people, Depo should not even prescribed. I think you have made the right choice to get off of it and let your body (and mind) heal. You will feel better. I am no longer suicidal, but it took the the whole 3 1/2 months for it to get out of my system, so be patient. Best of luck.
hi june had my last injection on september 21st 2013 and still no period even had doctor put me on tablet to help bring then on but didnt work so gonna go back the doctors it so annoying 6months off and still no period hope ur dont have to wait as long or have as much issue as i have found out i have a low thyroid which i think is down to being on the depo for so long
I’ve been on my menustral cycle for 2 years and all the dr wants to do is put me on birth control pills. I tried Sprintec to help regulate the bleeding…. EPICFAIL! It stop bleeding but instead of bleeding I got nauseated and vomit everytime I took the pill with and without food.
I’m 35 years old and want to have 1 more child in future so hysterectomy is not an option. At this point I am about to get an attorney and file a lawsuit.
I have been robbed of 2 years of my life. I’ve been depressed and moody. I can’t even get into a pool with my kids.
I was NEVER advised of the symptoms I have occurred. I was only advised it would cause weight gain and some hair to shed more than normal. I was never advised it would mess up my cycle, cause all these mood swings, depression and continuous bleeding.
I had tried the depo shot and was on it for a total of about 6 months. Within that time I gained 30 pounds had extreme mood changes, irregular spotting, vaginal dryness, decreased libido among other various symptoms. Once my doctor had told me how much I had gained (I had been forwarned that I may gain a lot of weight with depo) I decided it was time to get off of it. I have been depo free for 8 months and have had a complete turn around. My mood went back to normal and I was interested in sex again, but I am still struggling to lose the weight and my periods are slowly but surely coming back although I have had a period every other week for about a month now I’m just happy to feel mostly normal again. Never again will I put myself on birth control after experiencing the depo shot and I really wish someone would have told me how bad it could be. Not everyone experienced te side effects but it seems to be more people have negative experiences than positives with this particular form of birth control.
Hi All – Its been a while since my last update. I was on the Depo shot for 16 years my last shot was April 2013 it is not June 2014 and I have still have not gotten my period back. My GYN doctor says I could be going through menopause due to my age 48 soon to be 49. Although I have no periods (13 years now) I started back ovulating in January 2014 and continue to ovulate every month. As of today my hair is falling out, breakouts on my face, awful mood swings, stiff joints, blurred vision, teeth and gum issues, depression, stomach issues, sweating, hot flashes. When i started Depo in 1996 i was never told that i could only stay on it for 2 years I was told nothing until I started spotting back in Feb 2014 and went to my GYN and was advised that i was on the shot too long and needed to stop. My GYN gave me a Bone Density Test and the results were not good. He said i had bones of an elderly person and not of a women of 47. He never once linked any of my symptoms to Depo. He did say that even though i am probably approaching menopause i could still get pregnant and he wanted to put me on the pill. I looked at him like he was crazy after going through these symptoms i don’t want anything in my system. I don’t know if i will ever get my period back its been over a year now since my last shot and i don’t have any signs that its coming back although i do get a little cramping here and there but no signs that its coming back. I seriously doubt that i could get pregnant at my age i really don’t think my eggs are viable at this stage in my life. Good Luck to you ladies and for those of you wanting to conceive please stay away from this Depo it will destroy your reproductive system.
Hi All – Its been a while since my last update. I was on the Depo shot for 16 years my last shot was April 2013 it is now June 2014 and I have still have not gotten my period back. My GYN doctor says I could be going through menopause due to my age 48 soon to be 49. Although I have no periods (13 years now) I started back ovulating in January 2014 and continue to ovulate every month. As of today my hair is falling out, breakouts on my face, awful mood swings, stiff joints, blurred vision, teeth and gum issues, depression, stomach issues, sweating, hot flashes. When i started Depo in 1996 i was never told that i could only stay on it for 2 years I was told nothing until I started spotting back in Feb 2014 and went to my GYN and was advised that i was on the shot too long and needed to stop. My GYN gave me a Bone Density Test and the results were not good. He said i had bones of an elderly person and not of a women of 47. He never once linked any of my symptoms to Depo. He did say that even though i am probably approaching menopause i could still get pregnant and he wanted to put me on the pill. I looked at him like he was crazy after going through these symptoms i don’t want anything in my system. I don’t know if i will ever get my period back its been over a year now since my last shot and i don’t have any signs that its coming back although i do get a little cramping here and there but no signs that its coming back. I seriously doubt that i could get pregnant at my age i really don’t think my eggs are viable at this stage in my life. Good Luck to you ladies and for those of you wanting to conceive please stay away from this Depo it will destroy your reproductive system.
Thanks for reply- weirdly enough I was really sick headaches etc and today it’s arrived! Stomach cramps all lady night and today but I think my period is back, I hope! Very dark in colour very dark but light at the moment! Fingers crossed that’s what it is…. So been off depo about 3 months having been on it for 6 years. I hope you get urs soon, it’s not pleasant at all but makes you feel normal again (depo is convenient if you don’t like periods) I guess it affects us all different x
I had been on depo for 14 years when I got the shot I was little chunky and within the first year on it I lost a dramatic amount of weight I lost my period and thought well this is nice. I’m 26 and decided it was time to stop and think about kid’s well.. my last shot was in Dec 2013 I decided in Jan 2014 I was done with bc I haven’t seen my period I have had the worst withdrawal symptoms boobs are huge and very bloated tired all the time pants don’t fit right acne like no other on my face can’t control it with anything mood swings I thought I was pregnant test after test after test was neg I went to the doc today to be told I can’t find withdrawal symptoms in this but I’m pretty sure that’s what’s happening.. ok well that tells me nothing so what’s gonna happen next no one I’ve ever known has been on this for 14 years I’m scared to death it will make it so I can’t have kids I’m afraid my body will never be the same again
Wow same thing happened to me I had to go to the hospital cause I bled so much, they gave me a shot to stop the bleeding but I’m still going at it. I took 1 shot in February and didmt have a period for a whole month then I started bleeding like crazy. I recently seen a gynecologist and he wrote me BC pills which I didn’t take. I’ve gained well around 20 pounds I’m hoping this goes away soon cause I really want a baby someday I just hope it didn’t mess me up with having kids in the future. I have awful cramps that never felt so bad in my life.
well i was on it for a 9 months and didnt get any periods during that timw and decided to stop. its been 7 months and ive had 2 periods since the shot both in like 2 weeks apart but my last period was like an ocean i wouldnt last with a super ultra tampon more than 1 hour. I dont like this at all
I was on depo for almost a year got off in november didnt start my perioud back up untill april.and ever sence i started my perioud back up i have had my perioud two times a month
I was on depo for nine months and off for 7 months. My doctor gave me these pills to jump start my period. After taking the first one, my uterus exploded! (Not literally). After not having my period for 15 months total, the stuff that your uterus is supposed to shed every time you have a period started to build up. It caused a very painful period. Around the third day of the heaviest period of my life, something that can only be described as symptoms of a miscarriage (even though I was tested and it was negative) occurred. It’s about the equivalent of a very sharp knife carving out your uterus. It was a very unpleasant experience. Although depo provera does it’s job effectively, (with not so wanted side effects) I do have to say that I would not recommend it to anyone , especially minors.
Fun fact, if you let that stuff you’re supposed to shed build up over the course of about ten years or so, you can get cancer. My doctor forgot to mention that when I first decided to stop my period. Definitely think twice before starting depo provera.
I hateeeeee the pill 1st month was lovely 2nd and 3rd month. Bleeding. Non Stop. I’M getting off does anyone know when will everything go back normal??
I was on depo for 6-7 years and came off in june 2012. I started spotting may 2013 and from august 2013 up until present I have had a constant period. Consultant unsure, have had numerous investigations but all return normal. I feel like there is no light at the end of the tunnel so to those only a month in with problems, im afraid to tell you there may be more. DO NOT get the depo shot, it is horrendous
I had 1 on the 14 march 2014 shot of depo 4 weeks before my next appointment I was on my period for 10 days went to get medication to stop the bleeding and have since changed it to pill 13 June 2014 with my next app I am blouted most of the time I wonder if my next periods cycle will be normal.
Hi. I was on depo provera for about 9 months. It was absolutely terrible. I was an emotional wreck. I cried over absolutely everything. I couldn’t even have a conversation with my boyfriend about any problems we were having without bursting into tears. Not to mention the periods were terrible. I had a period for also two months. I would not stop bleeding and my doctor just dismissed it as If it’s okay. What’s the point of being on a birth control if you’re on your period the whole time? I’m off it now. I was suppose to get a shot in May and did not and decided to let my body take a break from all the hormones for awhile. Now it’s almost July and I’m still feeling emotional and crying over things. I’m wondering if that’s normal, and if other people have experienced that problem? Even long after they’ve stopped? I just want to be back to normal again.
Hi there. I started the Depo shot in December of 2012. I had one shot then & one in March of 2013. I decided to get off the shot because my husband & I wanted to start a family. I was supposed to have my next shot in June of 2013. I did not get this one. From the minute I started this shot, I did not have a period. I did not get my period back until February of 2014. It has been very irregular since. My most recent one has been horrendous. It’s been going on for a solid 2 weeks with heavy bleeding. I will never be on any birth control again due to the side effects of this one. I do not recommend it to anyone else either. Absolutely awful.
I got the shot at the end of Jan and i got my period feb march and april bit afyer it wore of i never got one in may so i didnt go back and gey it again.. well in the beginning of june i got my period and it was normal bit only 2 weeks later im bleeding very heavily.. blood clotsa all.. what should i do and has anyone else expirenced this..
I took my first and ONLY shot in November 2012… First month was great then after that I was and STILL am continuously bleeding. I have tried other pills etc to try and regulate but nothing has worked. I get maybe a couple of days every now and then when bleeding stops but it’s pretty much been a year and 7 months of constant period. I was never warned about any of this by docs/nurses, things aren’t even showing any signs of regulating 🙁 so sick of this. Would not recommend.
I was on the depo for 6 years, at 56yrs I was told I was menopausal so didn’t need them, I have severe cramping, in lower front as well as painful lower back pain, painful spasms in my left buttock, painful breasts and am passing black like clots, I spend a lot of time in pain and discomfort.
I have been on the shot for the last 19 years. I used to have really bad pms and was told depo would help the symptoms. To be honest, depo has been the best birth control I’ve ever tried. I don’t get my period while on it, no cramps, no emotional outbursts, only moodiness when I’m due for my shot. I would cycle off the shot every 4 years to my period back and regular again, and then I’d go back on it. While cycling off, it would take several months to get my period back, but once I did it would be heavy and painful for a few months, then even out. From other stories, I start to wonder if I’m just part of the lucky few, but I really do like it.
As for the bone loss, I did take a year and a half off to be on the safe side, but now I just get bone density tests and so far, no loss.
Ok where to begin…well I’m 26 years old, I started the depo two days after my second child was born(6 months ago so 2 shots) who knew that bleeding everyday was normal?? That’s what the doctor said anyway I’ve had headaches, stomach cramps, mood swings from hell(BTW if you’ve ever had anxiety issues DO NOT TAKE DEPO) and my entire life has been disrupted. For example, if I do manage to stop bleeding for 2-3days i thought I could get away with a liner and then go grocery shopping… wrong….yea that wasn’t funiI started bleeding had to sit on a bag in the car so I wouldn’t stain my seat. All I have to do is chase my 2 year old around the yard and I can start bleeding.granted I have gone an entire week without full on bleeding and actually stop spotting but it was only a week… out of 6 months.oh and on top of this I had the essure procedure done don’t do that either just get your tubes tied and burned if you’re done having kids. This only adds to the cramping you get from the depo. I was originally put on the depo to prevent pregnancy for the 3-6 months it takes for the essure to become effective but yea….anything that seems to good to be true is not worth it….and that goes for every aspect of life. I was supposed to get my 3rd shot on the 23rd but I can’t afford it number one and 2 its not worth it. And although my anxiety level has dropped I still have the physical symptoms and I’m praying it stops cause now I have diarrhea and back pains on top of bleeding all the time. And also keep in mind doctors get bonuses for studies on medications and procedures they’re all quacks and I’d I had known what I know now I would never have gone through any of this.
I posted awhile back about my experience well i was on depo for a year I had my period 3 times while I was on depo and 1 lasted for a month or 2 when I got off I didn’t have a period for about four months then they returned but I had a period every 2 weeks then I got a period that lasted 8 months. Well I’ve been off the depo for a year and a half now and I think my period has finally stopped after 8 months.imhoping im
I Took the depo for 2 in Half years and stoped in October got my first spotting in February and then late February. Sptted again. Late March got my period and have not stop I might have a week. Off it does change for the 2nd time around don’t know why
I have now been off the depo for nearly 2 yrs now, after having had it for 5 years. have had scans ultrasound and an MRI, why ? because I am in so much pain and discomfort, I have gained weight my breasts are big heavy and extremely painful, I have constant cramping and pain, am now losing clots. I am constantly tired and worn out. I am 56 years old, told I was menopausal so didn’t need the depo any more. The doctors have no idea what is wrong with me, its just tests after tests and no closer to finding what is causing all this.
I know how you feel, I am 48, I was on the depo shot for 16 years my last shot was April 2013 and I have been going through hair lost, joint pain, cramping, mood swings,hot flashes, night sweats, teeth pain, urinating a lot. I haven’t had a period since 2003. I started back ovulating in January 2014 and its been regular every month. My GYN doctor says I am at the age of menopause but I need to be very careful because I can become pregnant. I refuse to take any other birth control after what I am experiencing now I don’t want anything in my system. I don’t think my eggs are viable anyway at my age. Hang in there doctors wont tell you its the depo that’s causing your symptoms. Depo needs to be taken off the market.
I was on depo for a little over 4 yrs my gyn took me off. It took 15 months for my period to return and it’s just been problems every since. My periods are staying on for 6wks at a time. The cramps are horrendous and it’s so heavy I thought I was having a miscarriage one time. I have had test. MRI and ultrasounds and nothing was found. I need help I don’t want to take anymore birth control.
well had my last shot in September 2013 and only got my period back today after a second does of tablets the doctor put me on to help start them just hope the become regular
I know how you feel. I had my daughter in October of 2012 and then went for a follow up where they told me I could go on the 3 month pill like I was on before or I could get the shot. And these were my only 2 options since I have a double uterus. So I took the depo shot because I had enough trouble the first time remembering to take the pill. And I wish I would’ve have known that its like impossible to lose the weight. Because I’ve gained 40lbs and had very bad anger and anxiety. On top of that when I first got the depo shot I got it in april of 2013. And I had my period for a day after I took it and I haven’t had one since then and its now July 1 2014. And I have read that it takes up to 10 months for most women to get a period back. Now I would like to go to a doctor and get a 2nd opionon but right now I don’t have the money. I mean im really scared that the depo shot screwed me up so bad that I cant have anymore children
I know how you feel. I had my daughter in October of 2012 and then went for a follow up where they told me I could go on the 3 month pill like I was on before or I could get the shot. And these were my only 2 options since I have a double uterus. So I took the depo shot because I had enough trouble the first time remembering to take the pill. And I wish I would’ve have known that its like impossible to lose the weight. Because I’ve gained 40lbs and had very bad anger and anxiety. On top of that when I first got the depo shot I got it in april of 2013. And I had my period for a day after I took it and I haven’t had one since then and its now July 1 2014. And I have read that it takes up to 10 months for most women to get a period back. Now I would like to go to a doctor and get a 2nd opionon but right now I don’t have the money. I mean im really scared that the depo shot screwed me up so bad that I cant have anymore children.
I started depo jan 11 for the first time. my periods stopped & I had no spotting . I was supposed to go for my next shot in April but I missed it . nothing happened. here it is 3 months later and I have this brownish spotting sometimes light red . is this my period trying to come back or am I pregnant ? I’ve experienced light headaches , cramps, and dizziness . I know these are the same sypmtoms as having your cycle but I’m worried , I need answers .. help ? Anyone else experienced this before ?
I started depo jan 11 for the first time. my periods stopped & I had no spotting . I was supposed to go for my next shot in April but I missed it . nothing happened. here it is 3 months later and I have this brownish spotting sometimes light red . is this my period trying to come back or am I pregnant ? I’ve experienced light headaches , cramps, and dizziness . I know these are the same sypmtoms as having your cycle but I’m worried , I need answers .. help ? Anyone else experienced this before ? In tired of anticipation!
Hi Leah. It’s probably your period. I can’t say for sure when you will have a somewhat normal bleeding cycle because usually when it starts bac it’s really heavy and you will pass a lot of clots. It’s going to be scary an your going to go to your doctor but all test will be normal. Lol. I’ve been thru this already. I have been off for 2 years and I’m still not normal and sometimes see that brownish color but i have did some researching and found that there’s a progesterone therapy that my help you return to normal. They think it’s the progesterone levels in us that’s low but beware you will get pregnant.
Thanks you that kinda helped a lot . But how soon could I become pregnant bc my boyfriend & I did have unprotected sex twice . I thought I was safe bc I wasn’t having any periods.
This was during the time when I wasn’t on it . we used the pull out method but I was told that depo effects could stay in your body for a while after the shot . is this true ? Or should I now be worried about pregnancy ?
i was suppose to get my depo shot june 20th between july 4th no later than that. well i didnt go get my shot ive been on it for 4 years. i started to feel uneasy, nauseous, and shaky like a feeling of nervousness. i started having heart palpatations also. im not sure if its because i didnt get my shot i have no clue. but ive never had that happend to me before until i didnt go get my shot. it kind of felt like i was having an axiety attack.
I went on depo after my first period. because i was living with my grandmother at the time, She put me on the shot in fear that I would be like my mother. anyway, immediately asfter I got the shot i never had a period again. I was on it for about 4 years and got off of it. I never gained any wieght. no problems at all while I was on it. getting off of it after 4 years straight and i didnt get a period for a whole year. i never thought about taking any other BC because… i would never consider more BC being a solutions to getting off of BC. so anyway. I’ve been off all birth controls for almost 3 years. I am gaining weight. and my lady parts are sprouting like flowers. I just got a some what normal cycle a year and a half ago and started experiencing tender breast and bad cramps late last year. I have been trying to concieve fore 3 years and nothing.. I am a active an d fairly healthy eater.. Im afraid that I may not ever get prego. I think I’m coming to accept it but it still hurts.. Any fertility advice?
if you research some stuff i forgot the name but google medicine too get Fertility? but ive been on the Depo for one year and ive had the worste back pain now that im off of it ive been getting sick with food i eat and my heart sometimes feels like im going to have a anxiety felt really ugly and scared me. so now im taking myself off now that i researched alot on BC i have a flow of brownish and red for only 2 days with a clear mucus what is that anyone tell me please?
I have been on the depo shot since right after I turned 15 when I fist got on the shot I bled for 6 months straight no stopping and I think I gained 10-15 lbs which is normal other than that I never had any other side effects or problems with it no bone loss or anything! After 15 years I am now 29 will be 30 in October and have decided to start a family I knew that it would take a little longer to get pregnant but no one told me it could take up to a year and a half to two years. I never had any symptoms that my period was coming before I got on depo it would just show up! I got my last shot around jan 2nd 2014 was supposed to go back the beginning of April for my next one and didn’t it is now July 8th 2014 and I still have not had a period or even spotting! I have been very emotional ( cry over anything) moody get irritable and mad really easy, a lot of nausea but never got sick stomach cramps like crazy, and my boobs are really really really tender I mean sometimes I can’t stand for anything to touch them like if ur carrying something and it’s leaning against ur body for support I have to adjust it cause I can’t handle it touching my boobs and it doesn’t have to be anything heavy either I just can’t tolerate the soreness some days! I was a firm believer in the depo shot because it is the best form of birth control to not get pregnant if that’s your goal but I do think they need to inform you better about the problems it causes with fertility how long it could take and definitely should better inform people about these side effects you go through when you come off of it! They should stress these side effects when dealing with teenagers and their mothers trying to figure out the best method to take I would not wish these side effects/ withdrawal symptoms ( whatever you want to call it) on anyone! And I’m pretty sure as a teenager I wouldn’t have had the mindset to understand some of these if my doctor did teach me things but my mother could have very well helped me choose a better option had we been informed about it all!
To Lizzy: you’re trying to have a period. I used to have a discharge before I ever became sexually active and it would mainly start before my period you might have an imbalance of good and bad bacteria if you didn’t have a period while on the depo then when you do get one trust me you’ll get it. I never stopped having my period while on it. But you’re body needs time to get used to not having hormones injected into it
I’m 33 and been off depo for 1 year now. When I was on it I was bleeding/spotting the whole time. When I got off it I didn’t get my period for a year. Finally after 1 year I got my period but lasted 4 hours. I also started getting major insomnia and anxiety (not sure if it is related) and now I’m taking 3 pills a day just for that. The past 4 months of suffering from insomnia I’ve tried many things (acupressure, acupuncture, hypnosis, therapy, naturalpath etc..)the BEST thing that I highly recommend for everyone to do when they plan on getting off or who is having problems is go to a fertility doctor. I had many tests done and I recently found out I have Polycystic ovaries. I am on medication for that. It causes hormone imbalance and etc… I’m not sure if this is all related but I feel better now knowing that I’m not going crazy and something was wrong with me. I suggest everyone to get off the shot. Worse decision I made was to get on it. Please let me know if anyone has had a similar cause to me. Also if anyone is suffering from insomnia.
I had been on the depo shot for 8years, my doctor did a bone density scan- my wrist & hip were fine, but my spine has low bone density (osteopenia)- he said it’s not from the depo, as the rest of my bones would have lost density if it was. but then told me to go off the depo… So I’m not so sure!
I had my last shot in march 2014. Still no period, but am feeling the WORST I have ever felt in my life- bloating, swollen & extremely tender breasts, break out of pimples everywhere (I’ve never had bad skin ever til now), painful cramping, hair loss, depressed (want to cry for no reason), bouts of feeling nauseous–it’s horrible! I’ve been tempted to go back to the doctor to get the shot so I can feel “normal” again! But I’ll persevere — please tell me it didn’t last forever!!
But i wanted to know if anyone else has had extreme discharge? To the point it feels like I’ve wet my pants or got my period unexpectedly, it’s happened every day for the last month– I’m changing my pants 2-3 times a day. Is this normal? Should I worry? Or should I be expecting a visit from Aunty Flo very soon??
Also- is there any natural products that could help get all my hormone levels back to normal, faster?
Any info would be appreciated 🙂
Thanks
Hi Ally, I was on depo for 16 years my last shot was April 2013 still no period but ovulating. I also have heavy discharge changing panty liner 3 times per day due to the moisture. My hair has been falling out, I am depressed, I lost 10 pounds so far. I don’t know if my cycle will return because I am 48 years old and I am sure I am at the menopausal stage. I have a very low bone density and was advised to stop taking the depo from my GYN doctor. I am also experiencing a pimple break out on my face never had an acne problem in my life. Also have a rash that comes and go since 2008 on my right breast and in between the breast doctor says it eczema, never suffered from eczema as a child or before depo. I feel just awful! and bitter. I hope this passes soon so that I can be my normal self again.
Thanks for your reply Dwell- as horrible as it is, it’s nice to know you’re not alone through this rollercoaster from hell!!
I had no problems being on it at all, I actually loved not getting a period for 8yrs- but I turn 28 next month & having the bone density scan results come back low scared me a bit! Having the spine of a 60yo & 27 is not a good thing!
Fingers crossed, it passes soon for us all & we can go back to normal, happy, pimple free, thick haired, pain free, fertile, women with no bloating & the perfect cycle 🙂
Take care
Same! Everything! Even the PC ovaries. But this was 12 years ago for me.went to a great obgyn. He ran some test. Turned out my hormones were all very high and perfect,But the hormon to make your body ovulate was at 1%. 12 years later I have never been able to get pregnant! He told me by the time I’m 30 which is almost here! I’d have to have a hysterectomy .. Not sure about all that yet but, he also said I could take something for my body to ovulate. Never did that! Guess wasn’t really ready for all that. Now am becoming a little for interested in a little Love Bug! So we shall soon see ..
Same! Everything! Even the PC ovaries. But this was 12 years ago for me.went to a great obgyn. He ran some test. Turned out my hormones were all very high and perfect,But the hormone to make your body ovulate was at 1%. 12 years later I have never been able to get pregnant! He told me by the time I’m 30 which is almost here! I’d have to have a hysterectomy .. Not sure about all that yet but, he also said I could take something for my body to ovulate. Never did that! Guess wasn’t really ready for all that. Now am becoming a little more interested in a little Love Bug! So we shall soon see ..
Hi Ash,
Thanks for getting back to me. Just some advise for you, you need to take the pills to help you ovulate. They gave me 500mg twice a day of metformin. How did you deal with the insomnia? Did you take pills? which ones? Thanks
Hello, Sorry for updating this so late but for my last follow up I am pregnant!(: 10wks! Ill be 11wks on Sunday (: finally a healing from my traumatizing miscarriage of depo -.- I can’t wait to meet Gods blessing !!(:
I have been on the depo shot since march 11 2014 here we are 4 months later to july 10. I have had constant heavy bleeding with large blood clots from day. I never experienced any light days and i have to wear an ultra plus tampon and overnight super plus pad which is more like a diaper every day. Now i do have uterine fibroids and tried the mirena which only lasted 5 months. It expelled due to heavy bleeding and non stop bleeding. I had 2 depo shots and i am suppose to get the 3rd in August. I went to the Dr. Today and now she is telling me to go on BC pills while im on the depo. Im sorry but im so done with BC. I rather just take my chances. This bleeding is taking over my life
Hi My Name Is Josey Greynolds. I have already had a child. After my daughter was born October 11th 2012, I was put on the depo shot. I have expexperienced in a lot of weight gain, So I decided to switch back to my birth control pill. But my last depo shot I had taken was in the first week of may , so that mean my next shot would have been due August 8th, but since I switched to the pill my doctor said not to take it untill August 8th. And I have had unprotected sex twice. I’m just curious is it possible that I can become pregnant ?
Yes, that is what happened to me but it caused me to have a miscarriage.
Nicole Montgomery are youu talking to me?
I have been on the depo provera for over 4years and decided to come off as Im not in a relationship. My last shot was in Feb 2014, I have not had a period yet, just one bout of spotting. I have been having nightmares for the past month or so and cannot sleep at all! My face if full of pimples and my breats are getting larger by the day and so sore and burning at times! I loved the depot too thinking it worked wonders for me never had to worry about emergency pill but coming off it is just a nightmare! I guess Ill have to wait for a year before I get my menses.
I’m Adrienne. I was supposed to get my next Depo shot in May/June time frame and didn’t. Here it is July 11 and I am on day 2 with heavy bleeding and blood clots. This is really scary because along with all the bleeding I am having pain down there, feels like cramping, but I never had cramping before I got on Depo in the beginning of 2013. I’m kind of scared to get off the toilet because I was sleep on my couch for a couple hours and wake up with blood flowing out of me, through my panties which my pad and panties were soaked in blood, and onto my couch. I thought I was miscarrying a baby the way I’m bleeding and cramping. I’m so done with BC. This is just not natural.
I started taking depo my sophomore year of high school. I wasn’t aware of the “black box warning” my doc just told me that it would be a great birth control for me. After I first took it I started missing periods but I would have all the symptoms (head ache, moods swings). Then every random amount of months I would have a two or three week long period from hell. And I started gaining weight like a sponge in a bucket of water. I decided I didn’t like being heavy and to stop taking the depo. I took three dosings of it and stopping put me in the hospital for three days. I thought I was dieing. Now I have graduated and I’m off to college but I still have the effects of the drug on me. My schedule is all shot to hell and I was told by the same doc that it might have sterilized me on accident. So I’m not too eager to advise anybody on taking this psycho drug.
Hi all,
had 3 shots of the depo amdmissed my last one due 17th june. Since then ive gained weight (which is good as i struggle to put it on) and regained confidence pretty much over night after spending the last months with depression, the odd panick attack and very very low self asteem. Although its only just approaching a month since ive missed my jab, could my hormones b becoming more balanced already which is having this affect? Also, the last shot was missed due to me and my partner planning our second child. Since 17th June i had a normal period 4 days after missig my date, and since we have had unprotected sex numerous times and ive started to get all the usual pregnancy symptoms. Is it possible to become pregnant so quickly after stopping depo or is it just my body adjusting to nodepo? Thankyou
Hi Tonie
Congratulations on trying for another baby!
I’m certainly no expert on pregnancy or anything- but I suppose it’s definitely a possiblility you’re pregnant. But, I have come off this dreadful shot & do not have a partner & I seem to have a lot of “pregnancy” symtoms (which is impossible for me to be)! Seems what I have read everywhere from women coming off of the shot, pregnancy symptoms even when you’re not, is a common thing!
There is a book called “woman code” by Alissa vitti, if you ALL can get your hands on & read, is a great book! It explains so much about womens insides & how it all works etc, really gets you in touch with what’s going on inside & how to understand it! The front cover says “perfect your cycle, amplify your fertility & supercharge your sex drive” — which seems to be what most women are searching to do after having this shot! I highly recommend it 🙂
Toni: (July 14, 2014, 4:20 p.m.)
Remember that Depo disrupts your hormonal cycle and that when you stop taking it, your body has to work hard to get your menstrual cycle back. It is typical to experience pregnancy-like symptoms, as many commenters have noted here.
You can read more about what to expect as your body readjusts at this post:
https://menstruationresearch.org/2013/04/11/stopping-depo-provera-why-and-what-to-do-about-adverse-experiences/
i had been on the injection for 5 years, had no trouble and loved not having periods. now i am off..have been for 5 months..i have still not had a period..just spot bleeding..usually only lasting 1 day… unsure if this is normal. i only came off as wanting to try for a baby. not sure what to do to regulate my body again.
Hi ! I began the depot shot in January of 2013 and it was the worse experience ever. I bled for almost 9-10 months straight and it was not fun. My last shot was in November of 2013, but instead of another shot I got on a BC by the name of Lessina to actually stop the bleeding. I used it for 2 months(December and January) and the bleeding stopped thankfully. Now here is my next question. I haven’t had a cycle since I took the Lessina, is that common? Will I have a cycle anytime soon?
I began depo in March 2013, & did one in June & September. I luckily found this website & didn’t go back in January 2014 for another one. After the first shot menses stopped completely. On the shot I gained at least 40lbs. It’s 7 months since my last shot in September 2013 “wore off” & I finally started a real period today! (who would have ever thought this was an exciting thing!). I had thought I was getting it last month, but alas, just a light spotting. I realize it’s been a year and 4 months that I haven’t experienced cramps, but these are pretty painful. It was a long 7 months…mood swings, depression, tender breasts. I have the info. I was given with the first shot, no where does it indicate the possible symptoms after quitting the shot. I often question how that is legal? But then again, there was just a hearing held on Capital Hill today to defend access to safe, legal, essential reproductive health care and the constitutional rights of every woman in the U.S., regardless of where she happens to live…
I took the injection only once, gain 5 kg in 3 months.. Would like to know how long will take for my period to come back to normal?
Having lots of headache lately.. Feeling sick quite often as well..
The Depo Shot is very dangerous. I thought I was tripping until I read all of your posts. I took the Depo shot one time in 2004. I then started having my period every six months. Twice a year. Then it was once a year. Now I do not even have a period and I’m only 28.. I now have osteoporosis. In between time I had symptoms like most of u, where I spotted and had a weird brownish color. This is crazy. I think it also has something to do with me not getting pregnant for this long. I am sad and lost for words with this. Smh… Thinking i was protecting myself from getting pregnant for a few months, not knowing it would last a lifetime.
Ally, I was on depo for quite a while. My last shot was the end of December. Now 7 months later, I finally got my period back, I forgot how bad it sucks to have it! I’m 27 years old and was looking to start a family soon, so this is a good thing. I have had really bad cramps and heavy flow since I got it back. I hope it dosen’t last too long and i get back on track with normal periods. I think I am going to download an app to help me keep track of it! Good Luck!!!
I can recommend the App called “P Tracker Lite” – let’s you put in every symptom & keeps track of it in a calendar form. Very helpful.
I was on depo for 4 years I had random swelling in my feet and hands , I went off of the depo to give my body a break , my withdraw symptoms were dizziness , fatigue, anxiety, and nausea with headaches that lasted about 2 months, 1 month after my symptoms relaxed i found i was pregnant with my 4th child …. The entire pregnancy I felt like I had the worst flu ever…. 4 months into the pregnancy the baby stopped growing at a normal rate , found that he had a hole in his heart in an ultra sound,the prenatal docs kept telling me that he probably had a genetic disorder. I gave birth to my son at 38 weeks and after he was born we found that my placenta was 1/4 the size that it should be … It was almost black , his cord was as skinny as a phone charger cordand at full term he weighed 3lb 9 oz.after he was delivered we found out he had 5 holes in his heart , an ectopic kidney, and his reproductive organs hadn’t fully developed , also had very low calcium and endocrine issues . all the doctors swore it had to be a genetic disorder …. He is 14 months old and has had 2 open heart surgeries he is now only 12 lbs …. And has been seen by some of the best geneticist in the US and has had every genetics test possible ran all have came back 100% normal….
I was on depo for close to 10 yrs and only stopped now in April ’14. The constant headaches were concerning and for the past 2 weeks my nipples have been so tender – it’s beyond irritating! No aunt Flo yet though and I must admit that I am by no means disappointed.
I was also not informed about the bone density issues until very recently, which was a huge shock! Especially considering that it’s not really something that could be ‘fixed’.
It is really heartbreaking to read the comments of ladies who are now battling to fall pregnant. I pray that you will be blessed with a miracle.
I strongly feel that only women who don’t plan on having children or women like me who have kids and don’t plan on having more, should consider this contraceptive method. Maybe I’m old school, but I’ve always figured that anything that messes with your cycle is bad news.
Easier and more convenient is not always the better way to go…
I was on the depo shot for a year. ive been off of it for 8 months and needless to say it has been absolutely horrible. when i first came off of it i was spotting irregularly for the first 4 to 5 months. after that i started bleeding very heavily every two weeks or less (if not all the time) not to mention bone density, multiple cavities (ive always had good teeth), hair loss and
dry hair, severe mood swings, severe chest pain, anxiety attacks, loss of sex drive, dry skin,very sore breasts,and periods of nausia. no woman should ever have to go through this…
I was on the depo shot for a year. ive been off of it for 8 months and needless to say it has been absolutely horrible. when i first came off of it i was spotting irregularly for the first 4 to 5 months. after that i started bleeding very heavily every two weeks or less (if not all the time) not to mention bone density, multiple cavities (ive always had good teeth), hair loss and
dry hair, severe mood swings, severe chest pain, anxiety attacks, loss of sex drive, dry skin,very sore breasts,and periods of nausia. i hurt all day everyday. no woman should ever have to go through this…
I am constantly looking for more research concerning depo and its relation to birth defects …. In my previous comment I stated that my son that was conceived a short period after I stopped the injections was born with several mid-line birth defects …. Also with very low calcium and endocrine issues , after many genetic tests coming back normal I am positive that the depo that I had been on for close to 5 years before conceiving is definitely related if not the complete cause of my sons health issues, every time I bring these concerns up with his specialists and my obgyn I get no answer because there is not enough “research” so my huge question is …If there isn’t enough research then why are women not being told about the lack of studies done on this drug before we are given these injections ?
My father forced me to take depo, I’ve been on it since April 2013 after I turned 16. I moved away from my dad because he said he didn’t want anything to do with me anymore. I then moved in with my mom. I’ve been trying to get off depo since I got on it. By law my doctors would try to put me on the pill because of my psycho dad, and the shot has been pure hell to my body. I haven’t had a shot since March of this year but now my body feels like I’m withering away. I literally have nothing for breasts and now the pain is almost unbearable. I’m bloated, heart burn after everything I eat, constant urination, nausea, headaches from hell, gas I mean what don’t I have? I’ve also had unprotected sex. HEELLPPP
Hi, I have been on the depo for about 2 years and have now been off it for nearly three months I have only had two periods so far I bled for a week straight and then had my second period 2 weeks after that and waiting to get my next periods its been 2 weeks now. I am trying for a baby.. when can I or how will I know when I conceive?
Hi all.
Have come off jab in the past few weeks due to my partner being away for four months and wanting my body to rest and rejuvenate… Did anyone else have problems with sex drive while they were on it? I had been on the jab for four years and the past two/three years the sex that my partner and I were having was painful for me when we did have it. I’m 24 and we would be lucky to have it twice a month due to me getting cramps when I became arroused and not self lubricating enough so it was painful. I also used to get dizzy spells while I was on it and heart palpitations. I’ve now been off it since 30 June and my nipples are so sore! Eugh, what have I done!!! Why are we not warned about this?:@ anyone else have the symptoms I had while on it?
hi caitlin yes i also had the same problems as u did i was on it 9years and was never told about the problems it can course im due to go see a gynecologist on friday as still having alot of problems from it best advice i can give u is dont go back on it they sud ban it
Caitlin, many young women experience vaginal dryness and diminished sex drive while on Depo.
You can read more about what to expect as your body readjusts at this post:
https://menstruationresearch.org/2013/04/11/stopping-depo-provera-why-and-what-to-do-about-adverse-experiences/
It’s doubtful your body will readjust in four months, so now is a good time to think about alternative contraception for when your partner returns. This is the time when you may have to decide if you want to continue with hormonal methods that disrupt your endocrine system and menstrual cycle or switch to non-hormonal methods that support normal menstrual cycle function. If you choose to go back to Depo, you can expect the same experiences the next time you quit taking it, and the same wait to restore normal cycle function and healthy fertility should you want to conceive.
There are many suggestions in the other post (and in the comments) I’ve linked to here to help the return to normal menstrual cycle function.
It is my experience, mostly from reading women’s comments to my two posts on Depo-Provera, that most doctors have little understanding about the adverse effects women experience post-Depo, and even less about how to support women who stop the drug and want to achieve healthy cycles. It makes me angry, as it certainly does many women who’ve used Depo.
I have been on depo now for 16 years. Right after I had my oldest son in 1998 I took 2 shots and then we decided we wanted another child. It took 26 months for me to have a period and then I lost 2 pregnancies before we conceived our 2nd child 17 years ago. I never had any issues with depo except weight gain until about 8 months ago. I started sweating really bad. It was really embarrassing. I felt like I was on an emotional rollercoaster all the time. I was moody. It was pretty miserable. So I went to my family doc, who I’ve had for 14 years, and explained everything. He told me to get off of depo and since we do want any more children to get my husband fixed. My shot was due in May. So here I am 2 1/2 months later. I have lost about 10 lbs without doing anything. That’s been cool. But my nipples are extremely sore. The only other time in my life I have experienced this was when I was pregnant. We have had sex a couple times but since it took 26 months for me to have a period the first time I stopped taking it, after only 2 shots, I am fairly certain what I am experiencing is a side effect of getting it out of my system. I have experienced some unexplained dizziness and more migraines then I normally have but my moods and depression are 200% better.
When you take depo it drops your progesterone levels to way, way below normal levels which is why a woman cannot get pregnant while on it. When we stopped 17 years ago, I saw an herbalist who put me on progesterone cream once I got my periods back. Then when I confirmed I was pregnant again, the doc put me on progesterone suppositories to help me keep from miscarrying again. It all worked as my son just turned 16 last week, but it was a very rough pregnancy as I had morning, or I should say “day sickness” for almost 3 months.
I do not regret my choice to get off of it but I am not sure what to do for contraception as I try convincing my husband to get fixed. My favorite part about depo was not having a period at all. I will be 40 in 2 months and I don’t want to start having to deal with that again. Life has been so nice without a period. I think what I am experiencing are just side effects as the medication completely leaves my system but I have been thinking about going to see my OB/GYN just to see what options I have. My doctor said to be careful with my options, which is why he suggested my husband get fixed, because most birth control options today all derive from the same base medications which can cause nasty side effects. I will update what happens after I see the OB/GYN.
I have been on depo now for 16 years. Right after I had my oldest son in 1998 I took 2 shots and then we decided we wanted another child. It took 26 months for me to have a period and then I lost 2 pregnancies before we conceived our 2nd child 17 years ago. I never had any issues with depo except weight gain until about 8 months ago. I started sweating really bad. It was really embarrassing. My sex drive was pretty much none. I felt like I was on an emotional rollercoaster all the time. I was moody. It was pretty miserable. So I went to my family doc, who I’ve had for 14 years, and explained everything. He told me to get off of depo and since we do want any more children to get my husband fixed. My shot was due in May. So here I am 2 1/2 months later. I have lost about 10 lbs without doing anything. That’s been cool. But my nipples are extremely sore. The only other time in my life I have experienced this was when I was pregnant. We have had sex a couple times but since it took 26 months for me to have a period the first time I stopped taking it, after only 2 shots, I am fairly certain what I am experiencing is a side effect of getting it out of my system. I have experienced some unexplained dizziness and more migraines then I normally have but my moods and depression are 200% better and I seem to want sex all the time.
When you take depo it drops your progesterone levels to way, way below normal levels which is why a woman cannot get pregnant while on it. When we stopped 17 years ago, I saw an herbalist who put me on progesterone cream once I got my periods back. Then when I confirmed I was pregnant again, the doc put me on progesterone suppositories to help me keep from miscarrying again. It all worked as my son just turned 16 last week, but it was a very rough pregnancy as I had morning, or I should say “day sickness” for almost 3 months.
I do not regret my choice to get off of it but I am not sure what to do for contraception as I try convincing my husband to get fixed. My favorite part about depo was not having a period at all. I will be 40 in 2 months and I don’t want to start having to deal with that again. Life has been so nice without a period. I think what I am experiencing are just side effects as the medication completely leaves my system but I have been thinking about going to see my OB/GYN just to see what options I have. My doctor said to be careful with my options, which is why he suggested my husband get fixed, because most birth control options today all derive from the same base medications which can cause nasty side effects. I will update what happens after I see the OB/GYN.
So I’ve been on the depo for 3 years I recently got off of it in march & lately I’ve been feeling my boobs tender, I’ve been gaining a lot of weight & still no period I’ve been taking pregnancy test & they all come back negative what are the chances that I’m pregnant??
Hi my name is patty and ive been on the depo shot on and off for 2 years now i was suppose too get my shot back in april and didnt go back.. me and my husband are trying too have a child and we been trying ever since, i want to know if its possible to get pregnant right after your off the shot? i been reading and notice that pregnant symptoms are normal? i have gotten 2 false alarms already i need help to be more informed on how long should i expect? Thanks in advanced
I’ve been on the Depo shot since December 2009, I remember I had a full month of having my period and then it completely stopped. I decided to get off it to “Give my body a break” so I was due to go in for a shot On June 1st 2014, Which means I was on Depo for 4 1/2 years. It is now July and I haven’t had any sypmtoms besides I cry ALOT. I am 20 and was just wondering what else I should expect to happen to my body in the following months.
I am like a lot of you where my doctor did not inform me of the risks. Should I go and get a bone density test done? Should I go see an OBGYN? I worry a lot now, like will I ever be able to have children? If I do conceive, will I miscarry? Will I have a child with disabilities do to this shot? When will I start my period? My mind goes crazy everyday now just thinking about it! Note: I am not planning on getting pregnant any time soon, but I am sexually active (I never have protected sex)so I feel like is it okay to have unprotected sex even if I haven’t started my period yet? Please someone reply so I can just relieve my mind! lol!
I was on the depo shot for 2 1/2 years. I stopped taking it for 9 months and got one more shot last October 2013. January 2014 I started bleeding and got put on the pill. I took those for 3 months and stopped taking BC period. After that I didn’t have a period. I went to the doctor and he put me on Medroxyprogesterone 10mg once a day to jump start my period. It worked. This is the second month of having a period and I have been bleeding for 12 days. I went to the doctor and had some blood drawn and got the results today that I wasn’t pregnant (which I knew I wasn’t) and my iron was fine. He started me on Medroxyprogesterone 10mg twice daily for 5 days to stop the bleeding. I don’t know when the bleeding is going to stop. I don’t know if I am going to go back to normal. I’m freaking out. Nervous. Scared. My Fiance and I want another baby so bad. Nobody told me that the depo would do this. I will never take another BC ever again. Can somebody please help me understand all of this. I have tried to research all this to come up empty handed. When will I ovulate? When will I get normal periods? When will I stop bleeding after I take the 2nd round of Medroxyprogesterone? When will I be able to have a baby? I just don’t know. And I don’t want to sound like I’m whining and complaining because I haven’t got pregnant. I know it’ll happen in God’s time. I just want my normal Aunt Flow back. What I’m going through now is miserable and I wouldn’t wish this on anyone.
Tori, to learn more about what to expect or what you may experience over the next few months, please read my other post on Depo that will answer some of your questions:
https://menstruationresearch.org/2013/04/11/stopping-depo-provera-why-and-what-to-do-about-adverse-experiences/
Your body will take some time to get back to normal, but with a healthy diet, time and patience, normal ovulatory cycles will return. There is much information on the other post on how to help this happen. When you stop taking Depo-Provera your body has to work hard to get back to normal functioning. The Depo shut down your own body’s hormones and now they have to “re-boot” so to speak.
RE-SEXUAL ACTIVITY: when you stop Depo you are no longer protected from unintended pregnancy. As there is no way to know when you will ovulate, you should use a condom or other barrier method every time you have sex. It is not wise to have unprotected sex if you are trying to avoid pregnancy. You may not ovulate for months or you may ovulate tomorrow, there is just no way to know. Once your cycles have returned you may want to learn about charting your cycles to determine your fertile phase.
Good luck!
Hi Tonya,
If you read my other post on Depo-Provera you will find more information about what you are experiencing as well as a treatment option (similar to the one your doctor has provided) called Cyclic Progesterone Therapy) that will help restore ovulatory menstruation.
Post:
https://menstruationresearch.org/2013/04/11/stopping-depo-provera-why-and-what-to-do-about-adverse-experiences/
Cyclic Progesterone Therapy:
https://www.cemcor.ubc.ca/resources/cyclic-progesterone-therapy
Hope this is helpful. Hang in there!
Laura
I Just Got On The Depo Shot June 25 I Know I’m New Go This Shot, But I’m Only 17 AndMy Doctor Only Told Me I Will Be Spotting For A Couple Weeks She Never Told Me About The Stomach Cramping That I Have Everyday OrThe Bleeding That Keeps Going. I Have Bad Head Aches, Tenderness Of BreastBad Back Pain That I Never Had Before, Can Anyway Tell Me What I Should Or Could Do? And What Is The Possibility Of Getting Pregnet?
Hi
I came off depo shot on jun 28 ..had unprotected sex with my husband 4 times in july!!!_ but my husband didn’t release sperm when his was inside me….,but I’m worried….please help me,,,I hope I’m not pregnant again. 🙁
Update..
Been around5 week since missed my depo.Feeling sick every night and most mornings and been sick a number of times.Feeling awful with it! Through the day is not too bad but having quite alot of dizzy spells and head aches are growing to be more often. 🙁
Okay. I started the Depo shot May 18, 2014 since I started the shot I didn’t gain any weight for a month but, I was on my period and spotting for the 3 months the shot lasted. I was supposed to take the second shot but I told my doctor I didn’t feel comfortable taking it again. She said its fine, and my periods should return back to normal. My periods were never normal, I was on my periods for two weeks a month, and sometimes I didn’t have one a month. Should I see a gynecologist, or just wait for my periods to return normal? I need help. Please?
Hi Ronna – step 1 is a health kick; eating healthy, sleeping well, getting exercise – all the normal stuff we’re supposed to do anyway. If you need hormone help, then see a Naturopathic Physician in your area. Ask at the local health food store who’s good on women’s health. If you cant afford a ND, then speak to the wise old herbalist on staff at the health food store. If you came into my pharmacy with a prolonged bleed, I’d recommend Citrus Bioflavanoids; they promote repair of the small capillaries that feed blood to the uterine lining. Sometimes you just gotta help those little bleeders heal up. Its a hormone-free option that works within days if its just a leaky blood thing. Lisa Leger, wise old herbalist
I was on the depo shot about 3 years had my period maybe once a year if not at all no weight gain clearer skin now ive been off it about 3months have been moody tired gaining weight!!! new pimples every day tender breasts and at first no period but then for two weeks straight then a week off then another week somes spotting and now nothing dont know whats next but im most concerned about the weight gain I didnt even gain this much off of both my pregnancies ive always been slim pretty much the same since I was 16 im.gonna be 24 I was always between 120/130 im.5″9 so im.sure I could use it but its only going to my stomach
Hey Shonte. Try geritol and multi vitamins. Im planning on trying this I read about it on a blog, they say theres a baby at end of every bottle. The lady said her and her friend tried it and they were both pregnant within two weeks! Good luck Hun. 🙂
Was on the injection for two years then I switched to the pill its a few weeks now and I haven’t had period from the time I’ve been on the injection I stop taking any contraceptive now and I had unprotected sex once please give me advise can I be pregnant or is the contraceptive still in my body?
Hi my name is Sarah. I’m on the deop shot for a year now but I’ve been off of it for a month and half. I got my 4th shot on April 7,14 and I was suppose to go get my next one in June 7,14 but I forgot and and I had bleeding for couple of weeks and then in the middle of July I stopped bleeding and had white mucus and I’ve been really wet down there. So yea now it’s been a month and half. And I recently been having unprotected sex with my boyfriend. We’re trying to conceive but i don’t know if it’s to early that I can’t conceive or I can. But I go to my next appointment Tuesday and I getting off the shot. It has abouslty runied my body. I use to wear size 0 in pants now it’s a 3 I feel so ugly and fat. I have sketch marks. Hair loss. And I’ve only been on it for a year. It has really changed my body.
So I just started the depo shot in march and hAve had 2 shots I just skipped my neXT shot for august and it has been 4 days since I have not been on it. I also had unprotected sex on the last week of my depo cycle and I have been having horrible headaches stomach cramps and nausea I also don’t eat as much as usual and have horrible gas. Is this the hormonal change from the shot or could I be pregnant?
I had the Depo shot just one time in April 2014 and have not enjoyed the experience. I have had continuous spotting, which has disturbed my sex life dramatically, but I have not stopped having monthly periods either. I have put on two stone in three months and I have minor head aches.
I have decided not to renew the Depo shot and 5 days after I was due to have another shot I came on. Period seems normal etc.
Really hope this is the start of my normal cycle, as I want children and didn’t think of the consequences to my actions, just wanted to bide some time.
I honestly wouldn’t recommend this form of contraception, even if you never want to have Children.
I have been on the depo for 3 year always got af before my shot was due and didn’t this time so I decided my body probably needs a break… my depo was due July 14 and since I have been off of it my breast and bottom are huge ive gained 12 lbs!!! every time I eat I feel nauseous and sick for atleast three hours. My breast are extremely senstive and hard as rocks. I get headaches and heart burn. Really bad mood swings and still haven’t had my period. When I was on it I didn’t have any side effects but getting off of it is horrible I hope it goes away soon I seriously thought I was pregnant with all the pregnancy symptoms i didn’t know coming off the depo would be so terrible. I wouldn’t suggest it to anyone!!!!
I had 3 shots of the depo and I was due for my forth the beginning of December I have always had unprotected sex and still never been pregnant me and my partner want babies but it’s been 8 months and I’m not sure when I will be back to normal I keep panicking thinking I won’t be able to have children
Hi. I started depo provera when I was 16. Was on it for two years and then stopped. I never gained weight on it but when I stopped taking it I gained 50-60 lbs. My last shot was june or july of 2013. Since then I have had a total of 3 periods. I went to an OBGYN for severe breast pain and she told me it was my body getting rid of depo. She put my on the pill to help out but it has only made things worse. I had been on my period for almost two weeks when I went to the OBGYN but the entire time it was spotting only. Started the pill that Sunday. I am still on my period. Going on 4 weeks now. My cramping is really bad that Midol doesn’t even relieve the pain. My bleeding has been pretty heavy this last week or so. Should I stop taking the pill and let the depo work its way out of me naturally or will it benefit me to tough out the pain and bleeding and keep taking the pill?
Have been on Depo for 26 years straight, am now 47, I was so thrilled with it there was no coming off until this year, living & working in a remote place in an African country, there was no shot available and no chance of it either. It’s been nearly two months and I’m practically off my rocker. My breasts are tender and swollen (one noticeably more than the other), I’m on the verge of tears permanently, irritable, constantly exhausted…. I can only put this down to side-effects of coming off the Depo. I started googling the side effects out of frustration – so glad to have found this site. But will this nightmare ever stop? Help!!!
I got on depo in january . My next appoinment was in april , but I missed it . During those 3 months & even now I still dont have a period . Ive had sex twice in june & I bled slighty after not . Not like a period though , it was brownish . Sometimes I have pregnancy like syptoms but I dont know .. could it be just my period trying to come back ?
I was due July 4th to have my depo and skipped it. I had a major surgery on July 10th and am still recovering. I just kept telling my husband..”the last surgery was not this bad, I just can’t get over this”. After reading here today though, all of my symptoms match depo withdrawals!! What!! Who knew?? I do not have sore breasts and have not gained weight, but I’ve also not had my appetite return after colorectal surgery #2. However, I’m feeling anxiety, severe nausea almost constantly, bloating, irritability, I’m emotional, diarrhea, INSOMNIA badly. What gives? I’m actually considering staying off depo permanently now, but another part of me says GET YOUR SHOT NOW BEFORE YOU GO OFF THE DEEP END! I have small children, am about to begin homeschool, one is a toddler, recovering from a massive surgery…I can’t spend the next year suffering like this! Get the shot, or do we have alternatives?
I was on depo for 1 year, July 2012 – July 2013. I normally just took the pill, but thought it would be nice to not have to remember it.
The hubs and I decided we wanted to start trying and after July 2013 i no longer received the shot. I got my period back in November. It was very irregular. the cycle length only became longer. I had a period in Nov, Dec, Jan, Feb, and then it stopped. This was disheartening as i thought i was pregnant. I was not. So now it has been 6 months.
I am grateful i found this site, as other blogs don’t really have anyone going through the same frustrations. I don’t get why my periods stopped again.
Has this happened to anyone else?
I’m on the depo shot and it makes me feel not myself I’m moody and i feel bllloated and i will never take it again and when u come off the shot u will feel like ur going to puke headaches etc.
Hi I recently posted and have figured out how to control the terrible feeling of coming off the depo eating magnesium like green veggies or nuts helps lower the extra estrogen in your body and taking a tumeric pill huggers your progeston levels the reason why people gain weight is because your hormones are not balanced ive noticed it helps a ton with the sickness and the sore breasts and im back to my normal weight haven’t got my period yetbut it has helped with all the other bologna hope this helps
I had the same thing happen to me. I got 2 shots, my last one in November of last year. I bled 3 weeks and stopped for 1 week every month I was on the shot. Coming off of it has been the worst nightmare of my life. I got my period in May and haven’t stopped bleeding since. I have gotten blood transfusions and been hospitalized due to anemia because of this. I too have to use super plus tampons with super plus pads and change them every 30 minutes because of the clots. My doctor recommended that I go back on the depo shot to suppress the estrogen levels now in my body. I told her she was crazy and will never go back!! I don’t want to be on any birth control now but if I don’t I am affraid I will just keep bleeding.
I took my first shot in April of this year. My fiancé and I decided to try for a baby so I didn’t go back for the one in July. The past 3-4 weeks I’ve had swollen/sore breasts. Sometimes to the point of crying. No period. I took a pregnancy test a few days ago and it was negative. Is this normal after only getting one shot? Thanks.
Hi Amanda, You should read the other post I wrote about Depo here:
https://menstruationresearch.org/2013/04/11/stopping-depo-provera-why-and-what-to-do-about-adverse-experiences/
There is information in there about Cyclic Progesterone Therapy to help with the heavy bleeding and counteract the high estrogen levels your body is producing. This is a common outcome of stopping Depo.
Good for you to stand firm and not agree to going back on Depo-Provera.
All the best.
Hi I was on depo for 2 years missed my last shot 5th june this yr and I have had four bleeds since stopping still not sure if there periods or if im ovulating help x
I been off depo since Dec 2013 I wasn’t bleeding at first maybe just a little spotting here and there. Nows it 7 months later nd I’ve been bleeding for 2 months straight!!.and I don’t know what to do but its frustrating, and anoyying!
I need new breasts. Seriously! They hurt so badly I don’t even wanna take the stairs anywhere. I took the shot in late May for the first time. I hated it! My urine began to smell, I bled for three+ weeks, I was moody, and cramping. I decided not to get another shot and now I’ve gained weight, I’m crazy bloated, nauseous, emotional, and the breast pain is unbearable. Ugh! Never again.
I started Drop after the birth of my 1st child, when I was 20. I had no bad side effects. Actually, the best was not having a cycle start until a few days before I was due for my shot. At age 25, I missed 1 shot & immediately became pregnant. Resumed the shot after I gave birth. I’m 36 now & stopped getting it cuz I was informed about the side effects to my bones etc & was told from another OBGYN that it’s not recommended for that long of use. Since stopping Drop my breasts are tender & swollen, I have cramps & before I never did, & my periods are so heavy & lasting almost 2 wks with severe cramping that I’m thinking of getting back on the shot.
Hi, I began my first shot for Depo in February of 2014 and I did not go back for my second shot in May because of my terrible side effects. I bled three straight months from February till May and often had horrible cramps. It’s now August and after only one shot of the Depo I’ve been continuously bleeding for 6 months straight. It’s become such a hassle , also recieving rashes for wearing pads day in and day out. Can anyone help with any information as to when this can completely wear off my body?
I got 2 shots starting last August. It has taken my body 9 months to stop bleeding. I finally feel like my body is getting back to normal. I bled so bad I got anemic. I don’t know if that’s the case for you but if you are anemic I recommend taking an iron pill everyday. Hope this helps and good luck!
Started depo when I was 13 years old. I was on depo for 5 years. I was always a size 9 in jeans. I went up to a size 17. I always felt like my bladder hurt. I finally quit my depo, started losing so much weight 10 lbs in a week and a half. I ended up losing 73lbs altogether. I didn’t do anything to purposely lose it. Been feeling sick for 2 years now, nauseated to the point my life is hardly enjoyable. My periods are still off (20 days late) PPH told me I could be on depo for as long as i wanted. FDA website says no more than 2 years. Please, I strongly advise against depo.
I was put on the depo shot when I got my period, I only had my period for 2 months then was put on the shot, I was 15. Just got off of it January 6th of this year. Still no period, not even spotting. Sharp pains in my pelvic region, tenderness of my boobs, I have had intercourse and after I bled but not like a period bleeding, more like a dark brown reddish color. I’m afraid I’m infertile..
I’m 17 now btw.
I am ninteen i started depo when i was eighteen ive been off it for almost six months now i havent had a period at all but i do bleed sometimes not alot but enuff to notice and some times its a brownish color my boobs hurt all the time i have horrible pains in my lower stomach alot i just dont know what to do
When I first got the depo shot, the first two doses I’ve had my period non stop, when I got the third dose I stopped getting my period all together (which is what I wanted), after a few more doses I had a blood clot scare so I got off the shot, I have now had my period for three months straight, the period cramps are different now to, they feel like really bad shooting pains, I get them in my pelvic area and the spot where I got the shot.
I really wish my doctor would have talked to me about this before I went on Depo. In fact, I was not even told that it could take up to two years after going off Depo to become pregnant until i went in for my second shot. I decided to go off of it last month and my boobs hurt so bad that I am not comfortably wearing a bra but being that I have to when I go out and go to work, I am in constant pain and severely uncomfortable. I thought my period would return a few months after going off but it has not. Even though I have had symptoms like cramps, mood swings and sore breast. I was planing on getting pregnant in the next couple years, I hope that this didn’t ruin that dream from happening. Any words of encouragement from someone who has returned back to normal? and was able to get pregnant?
Hey ladies, I was on depo for 8 years only side effect I had was weight gain. It worked really well with my body for the most part. I decided to get off depo in February of 2014 and try a IUD called skyla. About two months after stopping depo and immediately getting on skyla my face started breaking out extremely bad. I went to a dermatologist and she put me a hormonial medication I took for 2 months and it only made it worse. I was wondering if any of you ladies have experienced acne during or even after being on depo?
I was on the depo shot for 2 years. Never had a period while on it but spotted twice after I got off in Jan. I have been off for 8 months and now I recently started bleeding. Its not heavy but the cramps are bad. I sometimes feel bloated, tired, and my breasts stay sore. I lost weight then gained weight and I feel as if I’m pregnant but I am not due to I have taken plenty of tests. I suggest you not to get on depo, it is a nightmare!
Hi, depo user for 2yrs also. As that’s how long they suggest you to use it. Without the side effect of bone loss, I wish I could use it forever. I had no adverse effects while using it, only a slight gain in weight. But was manageable when determined to loose the weight. So overall, it worked pretty well for me. But now I’m off it for about 4mos, it’s been uneasy as I dont want to get pregnant yet. Terrible mood swings, unsatiable appetite, and no period only severe cramping & slight brownish spotting. My ob, who administered the drug, doesnt know a thing about my symptoms. Shouldn’t they know all the ins & outs of this drug?
Hi,
I have been on depo provera for 11 years. This week I was due for my next shot but am going to stop. I always felt a little strange in the few days prior to being due for an injection. Now that it has been a few days past that, I feel even more ‘off’. I’ve barely slept in three days, am extremely emotional and easily confused, getting hot flashes and dizzy spells, and am quite concerned about how long people have mentioned it takes for the drug to leave your system. If I’ve only just started coming off of it this week and I feel this terrible, it is quite possible the next year to year and a half will suck. I’m hoping the severity of these symptoms have something to do with the lack of sleep but I lay there and just can’t seem to close my eyes. I’m sure I’ll get there. Here’s to hoping I do get to sleep and maybe even wake up 20 pounds lighter when my hormone levels are normal!
Same Problem. Did you ever find out what it is? Why this is happening. I really don’t want to go to doctors. :/
Abdominal pain kicking in now. Been feeling it for the past week. It hurts so badly! Feels like really bad menstrual cramps but without bleeding. I regret the day I ever got on this shot. The side effects aren’t worth it. Ladies please do your research before you take anything.
Hi, I was on the depo for only 6 months and never got a period and thought it was great then around 4 1/2 months I started getting really bad migraines the happens about 3 times a week then about 2 weeks later I was getting the migraines about 2 times a day!! I went to my primary and had severely tests done because the migraines were so bad I couldn’t function enough to Take care of my kids and work. All my test results came back normal so then my doctor started looking in to more things and found out it’s very rare but the depo was what giving me the migraines and sure enough it was!!! I was suppose to get my next shot last month in the 15 but I didn’t and about 2 weeks later my migraines started to become less mild and be more like a headache!! But as soon as that happened my breast became so tender I cried trying to put my bra on! About a week after that I started spotting And have become tierd and emotional/irritable. About a week and a half later my period became very heavy to the point I’m using pads and tampons and changing them about every 45mins. I started craving hamburgers really bad and just thought it was a craving due to my period but my doctor ran more blood test and found out I had become severely anemic and put me in the hospital for a few days and sent me home with a prescription high dosage of iron. As of right now I still have a very heavy period and am still emotional/ irritable And tierd and tender breast!!
Hi guys why after ceasing depo use i never have my cycle until now. Actually i starting using depo from december2013 then stop June2014 due to my hoghblood pressure…is this normal?
Hey i went on the depo last October got my second jab in January and didn’t go back for my 3rd in April. I have bleed once for half a week and had nothing since, but am getting all the signs of been pregnant but took a test and came back negative. It is now august and i just wont to know when it will all stop and go back to normal?
I’m having the same thing happen to me. Let me know if you have any answers to why it’s happening this way.
I started getting the shot in March of this year, I missed my last due shot a few days ago.. I’ve had a migraine for two days in a row now. I am miserable! I feel so sick. The whole time i was on the shot I felt unhappy and had constant mood swings.. Hoping this sickness will go away soon
Hello, my symptoms have been a little bit different from anyone elses. I started depo Sept. Of 2011 and just got off this August of 2014. My cramps have been orgasm related, I would wake up in the middle of the night with an orgasm (for no reason) then severe bleeding and cramping right after to the point I thought I was going to throw up or pass out. I get severe cramps before sex, during, but mostly after sex to the point that I don’t want to proceed anymore. Just recently I had an orgasm then got severe cramps and bled violently. I knew this couldn’t be normal so I had to get off.
Ok so before I ever got on the depo shot , my periods were normal and cramps werent to bad. After being on and off the depo for 3 years , I either have spoting or no period at all cramps make me wanna cry and my boobs are tender , but wen I asked these questions at plan parenthood , didnt nobody say nada about the side effects afterwards , they said everthing will go back to normal after 3 months, and thats not true. Help me figure out if we all were just test dumies for this depo shot!!!!!??
I was given depo provera to treat endometriosis. I was given a monthly shot (i.e) once in 28 days. I took 3 such shots. I took the last shot on June 10, 2014. But still now I did not get my periods. I get cramps, heartburns, bright red spotting, occasional vomitting, depression etc etc…
When I enquired another doctor she said Depo Provera will be commonly given once in three months. No clue of what is happening 🙁
Hi ladies,I am 24 years old was due for my last shot in may 6th did not return due to headaches and very bad mood swings..did get a brownish discharge after a week..then it all began severe anxiety depression insomia IBS,heartburn…mood swings nausea vomitting..pain in breast especially left breast..what I would like to know is if anyone has noticed more pain on the side the injection was given..for eg.my shot was given on the left hip..bad hip pain back and shoulder and breast pain mostly on the left…please let me know if I’m the only one..thanks oh and yes I am still patiently awaiting a period..
Ok, so i recieved the depo shot 6 years ago, i recently got off of the shot last year in August. I am starting to get worried because i have not recieved my period. I have been given medicine to bring back my period twice now, and NOTHING. I am starting to get concered….. can any body give me some sort of relief?
hallooo ladies, if you are of the child bearing age and wishes to bear a child, please dont use depo. it has rendered many infertile almost 50% of the ladies taking 3 or more shots. I prefer IUCD.
I’m a 4I yr old, non smoker, started Depo July 2013 after having a Mirena removed due to bloating and acne. Proceeded to have 3 shots over the ensuing year. Last shot March 2014, after each shot I gained 2 kgs with the last one causing a gain of 6 kgs within 2 weeks. The site of shot remains tender still post 5 months and have just regained period finally after 5 months of misery. Mood swings, hot & cold sweats, breast tenderness, cystic acne, bloating, extreme lethargy, heartburn and a Pulmonary Embolius (clot to the lung) which my Physician is confident was a direct result of this hormone. Bleeding has been on par with post birth, heavy and extremely clotty and still going strong after 2 weeks. Positives: drop of 4 kgs in a week, breast tenderness gone, skin has cleared and don’t feel like I’m going to murder someone on a daily basis. Would not recommend this drug to anyone, it’s dangerous…
I started having the contraceptive injection and the first 6 months were fine so went for my third jab that year then went on holiday.
Oh my goodness I started with hot sweats, kept getting really bloated and extremely moody and irritable.
I was a size 8/10 before the injection and whilst on it ended up a size 14. I honestly didn’t realise that I was eating any more I just was always hungry.
The mood swings were unbearable though. I had horrible fatigue and felt depressed all the time, like not wanting to go out or do anything. Also very tearful all the time.
I went to the Doctor and told her all my symptoms, she said I would have to wait for it to leave my system.
It took about 6 months for me to get a period again.
Even now a year on my periods aren’t the same.
My breasts ache and are swollen/really sensitive for about 2 weeks before I actually come on my period.
My mood swings have calmed down and feel like I am getting back to myself in that way though. I am still bloated a lot and keep getting spots around my chin/jaw area.
I looked this up and it said cause: hormonal imbalance.
I didn’t have this before the injection has caused that too.
My boyfriend and I split up during all this (I honestly think its because of the injection putting us under so much stress)I also lost my job because I couldn’t work properly through being so stressed and emotional.
I have dieted and got back to a size 10/12 so happier and feel back in control but going through all this has been hell.
I would never recommend it to anyone.
A friend of mine had anti-depressants and therapy whilst on this and I told her its probably the contraception. She swapped to something else and feels a totally different person now.
Definitely not healthy for us.
Yes since coming off the injection I have had bad acne around my chin/jaw area. I googled it and it says the cause is hormonal imbalance.
Well I didn’t have hormonal imbalance before the injection so it has to be that. It’s been a 1 and a half years since I stopped the injection.
I waa on the depo shot from june of 2012 until July of 2014. I have not had a period or anything & its almost september
I am however having blood in my stool & lower stomach tightness. Could this be a result of the depo shot ?
I went on depo after having a baby age 40 was on it for a year had weight gain and break thru spottin While on the shot but otherwise felt great. Loved not having a period and loved not having to remeber to take a pill but not sure its worth it since going off the shot i had no period or spotting for a whole yr it was better than being on the shot! But decided to go on vaca to the beach so of course this is when my period would return since starting had heavy bleeding for few days then it stopped a day then started heavy for bout a week then stoppe
For two weeks then returned heavy been another week Ive had an acne break out during this time and severe lower back pain i have to pee constantly and am having joint pain in my hips and knees ive been tired alot too just hoping i can start loosin weight soon feel like a beached whale never been this heavy this long in my life
I posted a comment the other week on here with the same problem most of use are having. I found having no junk food, eating meat and salads and doing alot of exercise and no drugs or alcohol should help bring back ur cycle.. It worked for me.. I was a hard core stoner ate alot of junk food and recently i have quit it all and started lossing alot of weight and got my cycle back.. Hope it works for those of u who try it, let me know.. My last jab was in jab this year i had only had 2 jabs altogether..
Hello! I was due for my last depo shot june 16, 2014. I did not get it. I’ve had one period since then on august 7th. It lasted two days and was kind of light. I’ve had unprotected sex. I’ve been worried about the possibility of pregnancy because my breasts hurt very bad, mainly my nipples. The deposit shot gave me night mares and mood swings when on it. I had periods two months apart that lasted 3 weeks at a time. Right now since being off the shot my breast hurt really bad and have been hurting for the past 5 days. These comments are definitely helpful because I’m realizing the breast and nipple pain is more likely from coming off depo provera rather than pregnancy. All though I’m afraid of not being able to get pregnant anymore because I was on the shot. Pain advice for my breasts would be very helpful if anyone has any suggestions.
Sincerely,
Hanna
*****DEPO AFTER BABY*****
I had my first injection in May ’14 a few days after my delivery. I was excited to not have to worry about a pill with all the newborn stress. I was DEAD wrong. Since the shot… and from the shot… I have not quit bleeding, I am ALWAYS hungry, soooo drained, dizzy, acne in places I have never had before, very short fused, and I have actually gained weight since leaving the hospital!!!! Mind you this is my third child… so I know I am not just tired from having a baby. She sleeps through the night. I get plenty of rest and I am a stay at home mom. Also, when trying to exercise I tire with in a few minutes and am dizzy. All of this is not normal for me! Never again! Now I am trying to use Ortho tri cyclen to get at least my bleeding back in line!! Thanks!
-Amber, 29
Mother of three!
yes i felt the same way even sick to my stomach it was like i had morning sickness
I’m 24yrs old, and I have been on the Depo shot for about a year now. For the first half of the year I was fine. Within the past 6 months I have not only gained approx 10lbs, I feel constantly bloated, I’m ALWAYS hungry, and I’ve been moody and irritable. I highly recommend that NO ONE goes on this shot it’s not worth it! There are so many other options. I’m getting married in a year and I hope that I can shed this weight by then! My OBGYN never went over ANY of these side effects with me. Extremely disappointed and frustrated.
One month later status:
No period or shows at all
No headaches
No sore boobs
No pregnancy 🙁
Plenty of hormonal outbursts
Hello I’m 23 years old ,ive been on depo for almost five years,when I first started my period stayed on 3 months ,then they completely stop. I was very active in sports and my studies so I want to be responsible. after a year of being on the shot everything seemed fine but then my appetite increased I eat all the lol.. i missed a shot and four months later my breast hurt soooooo bad especially when I take my bra off . I have to keep it on …
I got on the depo 3 months after having my first child at the age of 15. I have been on it for 3 yrs now. I recently got of the shot. I was due last month. I have gained a lot of wait and my breast are still ful of milk. I stay tired. Im in college. I fall asleep in class every where I go amd starting to fallasleep while ddriving only 30 min. Still no period. I never had cramps but my stomach pains gets so bad I cant walk. This is unhealthy and not safe. Dont take it!!!
sweetie you need to get off the depo.. i was on the depo for that long possibly a little longer. Its true about how the depo shot can cause bone problems becuase two weeks after i got off the shot i fell and shattered my foot. Ive never had problems like that cuz ive fallin plenty of times and it was never that bad you should try the nexplanon its alot better for you and doesnt affect your bones
How old are you?
I have a spotting three or four times since I got off this shot
Is this just te depo leaving my body?
Hi i just started the depo shot. I took my first shot on august 5 off my period and they said to wait 7 days before it can become fully effective I had sex on the 8th day I am freaking out cause I’m not sure if I should be seeing period I get severe cramps at times I’m nauseous and I see little brownish spots. Im so lost here I’m thinking of coming off it because I’m so uneasy about this. Any suggestions or advise?
Ive been on the shot for a year now my shot was due the beginning. Of Aug not getting it. Ive been experiancing migrains for almost 2 weeks straight is this normal? Ive tried taking over the counter medication but nothing works or takes the edge off!! HELP
hi ladies I missed my last shot 5th june this year and since stopping I have had 5 bleeds can this be my body back to normal or not far off as last 3 were 5 day bleeds
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If you are worried you should go and see your GP. I’m sure you will be fine 🙂
It’s normal, well I had headaches too, but they eventually passed.
I’m not a medical expert, but I reckon your body must go through like a withdrawal type exercise if you stop taking it.
I will never touch this type of contraception again. I think its horrible.
I think your body has regulated its self.
I should have renewed mine at the end of July and I decided after 1 shot that I wouldn’t because I hated my whole experience. I bled constantly and when I didn’t renew my bleeding stopped for 1 week, then I had a show for three days, then I had a normal period for 5 days. Then I had a light show again for three days. This month my period was late by 5 days, but the period now seems normal. One day show, followed by bleading for two days.
I really hope my body regulates its self as I want this thing out of my body 🙁
29th August: four day show.
2nd September: Period came and seems normal.
Fingers crossed 🙂
hi hun I starting taking vitamin b6 and folic acid as advised to xx
HI, everyone. First and foremost I want to say I am sorry all of you have or are going through this horrible state from this shot. You are not alone. My story is a bit different. In 2005 I had a hysterectomy, they removed my uterus and cervix but left my ovaries. This was done for severe endometriosis.I was 26 at the time. Unfortunately because my ovaries left the pain from endo surfaced immediately after the surgery and I was back in the same condition I was before the hysterectomy, such a waste of time. I suffered out the pain for many years after, going to one doctor to the next seeking some kind of relief. It was 2010 when it was suggested that I try the depo shot. I knew next to nothing about it, but I was told that 99% of the time it works 100% for endometriosis. I was in such bad pain all I could think of was getting relief. The ONLY thing I was told was the possibility of bone loss after long term use…….I got the first shot in 2010, and immediately every symptom of endometriosis stopped, completely! I had my life back..so I thought….then the migraines started, mind you I had never even had a slight headache in all of my life…migraines so bad that I was frequenting the ER thinking I was dying…the doctor assured me it wasn’t from the shot so I believed them..well ya know since their doctors. I went and got my second shot…still not one symptom of endometriosis! I thought this was a miracle drug, I had struggled with that pain for over 10 years with no relief…and now I was normal. That was so not the case. The migraines became worse but I just chalked it up to bad luck. And kept getting the every 3 month shot for over a year. Disregarding the fact that I had gained over 100 pounds!! Not to mention the mood swings, the anger, the sadness, the all around crappy attitude! So after a year of getting the shot, I was due to get the shot again, that was October of 2011. I got in my car and got half way to the doc office and something told me turn around and go home, do not do it. And that is exactly what I did…I turned around and went home deciding I was done, this was over..not realizing the hell I was about to endure for 2 years. Depot Provera has destroyed my life. Since stopping the injection, the range of medical that has happened is horrible! Migraines so bad that you pass out, unexplainable chest pain, anxiety like you never could imagine, pain in your body that no one can answer for. The list goes on. Yes after stopping that horrible shot, I dropped 50 pounds immediately, not changing a thing. The endometriosis pain and symptoms ceased to come back until now. But it destroyed my life in so many other ways. Please people, please do NOT make the choice on getting this shot ever! Bone loss is the least of your worries. Your body, your life will never be the same.
If you get an answer to stop the bleeding i would like to hear about it. I went a year off the shot with no period then started bleeding the end of july till present with only two weeks in between of no bleeding. I figured my body was just making up for all that time not having one. All the money u save not having to buy pads went right out the window!
i went on the depo at age 16 (2009) for excruciating period pains and i also got reqular cysts on my ovaries.
my last shot was July 2013 since then i have only had 1 bleed which was june 2014.
so it has been over a year and i am still very emotional, i have sore breasts regularly, i have gained weight only a few kilos, also i am getting pimples more often.
i do get pains around the same time some months. but it has been over a year now and still my body has not gone back to the way it was?
I got the depo right after having my baby and bled for maybe 2 or 3 months straight then got the shot again and stopped and had my last shot in February and decided to get off of it and go to the pill and when I started the pill I had 2 periods those two months of being off the depo then completely stopped having a period and I haven’t had one since!! I have stomach pains too like cramps a lot and head aches and back aches and can’t sleep at night at all
Hi guys, I’m 24 years old and was on the depo shot for almost exactly 4 yrs. I was put on it because my docs told me that it was the best birth control if you smoke cigarettes. I have barely been sexually active for 2 years now, but no one said anything. I quit smoking cigarettes finally a month and a half ago so I decided to cancel my shot appt 16 days ago. the receptionist told me “good for you” when i did. i also work in a naturopathic doctors office and it was not sugarcoated how hard this would be.
I have crazy insomnia at night. when i do sleep its when the sun rises till 10-11am, so no real rest ever. no bleeding, but intense lower back/front pain. i consider it a miracle when i’m not crying. i do not want to take more drugs to cover up these drugs side effects, and i am taking supplements to help. i am disciplined on the food/weight gain so far, i have actually lost weight after quitting cigarettes/adderall/depo etc. but mostly because i’m too busy crying. i was a sensitive person without this..very sensitive…i’m glad there’s a community at least reading the comments in that i’m not alone. i’ve been very depressed before but this is the worst because i can tell its not me! thats what i keep having to remind myself to not take it personal and that this isn’t my fault…thats a full time job though now to control this craziness
IM feeling that exactly the same.. I have a partner of 3 yrs got on the jab after an abortion as i wasn’t fit to be a parent as i loved smoking pot, ciggys. Only had 2 shots. My score breast and back pain and feeling sick has finally gone and i bleed for 7 days not normal for me and now im pushing my partner away and i don’t know why as i love him and we plan to get married, i don’t ever feel like intercourse, the littlest things make me angry and once im angry i cant seem to stop been angry even though im over it and its only small. I have been depressed for many years it all went away when i meet my partner,but after 2 abortions started coming back and now this jab is really messing with me cant leave the house i dnt knw why anyone know any good meds that will stop this all? IM only 19 and cant get a job or do anything i just wnt to stay home..
I was on the depo for not even a whole year…. I decided to get off BC it was making my body go through different changes and idk if anybody else had this but ( I know this sound disgusting but hey I have to get it out) my virgina was not getting wet at all before we would have sex it was horrible and I was looking and i saw some post where some ppl was saying they got their period back 6 months but I got my back exactly the sometime I was suppose to get my shot so I am confused is this my period r just bleeding from not getting the shot and i was having pregnant like symptoms so is it my period or a reaction from the shot I don’t want to bleed for months ughhh
I have been on the shot since 2006 and have decided to get off it. I did have a period in 2009 but it was short because the pill made me gain excessive weight that the depo immediately took off. My sex drive had decreased to 0 over the last couple years and is affecting my relationship terribly. After reading some comments on the effects of getting off the shot, I am scared! I am not concerned about the baby making, I do have an 8 year old. I am more concerned about the effects on my body. I do suffer from extreme stress levels, blood pressure issues (caused from stress), insomnia, fatigue and the list continues. Basically, I’m a hot mess. Any advice!
Hey. I’ve been off my depo couple of months not bled yet got told to go on the pill to help bring bleeding along but not worked.. I now feel really depressed and anxious and could cry at anything. . I hate feeling like this cos I’m taking it out on everyone I love 🙁 I was on the shot 3 years.. wish I never touched it!!
I’ve been on depo for almost 4 years. We have decided it’s time for a baby. I didn’t know coming off the shot would be so awful! Only one of my breast ìs extremely swollen and painful. I have been really emotional. The breast issue has concerned me. I have been stressing praying that the swelling and pain is just hormones. After i stopped my doc gave me Provera (progesterone). This did not help at all. He said the Provera will force me to have a period. Been over a month and still no period. I need help. How can i go back to normal? I’m stressing out everyday and scared i can’t have children.
I took the first shot of depo and was on my period for three months straight. I decided not to take it and It’s been a month but I’m bleeding everyday and my stomach hurts so bad and I puke every day. I don’t know what could be the cause. I’m so worried about it.
All has been going well except for yesterday. Had a completely unexpected period. No other symptoms though!
Yaasss.. Iwasnt getting wet either!! But that only lasted for the first round.. Now I’m 5months off depo & ive had 2 regular periods.
I’ve been off depo for a while now like a couple years now I was 16 when I first got it stop taking it at18 and now I’m 22 my period comes when it wants I still have sore breast moody and I can’t sleep like right now its 3:48 am I’m tired but I just can’t seem to go to sleep
Hi Ladies,
Like many women out there I decided to take the depo shot. Unkike many I didn’t have problems with my periods, stupidly I took the shot because I am lousy with pills. That was 4 years ago, I had one shot and never had another. My periods disappeared for 2 years, I gained weight, cramping, face stained (melasma), my hairhas continuously fallen out so much so that I had to cut it short after my operation to remove a cyst. I am a living nightmare and I feel constantly on edge. How can this injection be legal? I am from the UK and I wasn’t given any serious/rare side effects of this injection. I feel helpless!!!
Hi Ladies,
Like many women out there I decided to take the depo shot. Unkike many I didn’t have problems with my periods, stupidly I took the shot because I am lousy with pills. That was 4 years ago, I had one shot and never had another. My periods disappeared for 2 years, I gained weight, cramping, face stained (melasma), my hair has continuously fallen out so much so that I had to cut it short after my operation to remove a cyst. I am a living nightmare and I feel constantly on edge. How can this injection be legal? I am from the UK and I wasn’t given any serious/rare side effects of this injection. I feel helpless!!!
Hi ladies, I was on the shot for 9 months, i just got off of it on friday. Already, im having serious head aches, back pain and stomach pain along with crampimg. i bleed a tiny bit, when on the depo i would bleed constantly then stop for a few months. This shot is down right terribl. I was deppressed on the shot and very angry and emotional. I dont think anyone should every get this. its horrible.
Hi I’m 24 and I took my depo shot for 8 months and got off it about a 2weeks and it hell cuz I my mood swing change Im married about 6yrs already and I’m n a divorce cuz I’m always angry I don’t want any.intercourse I just don’t want no one around me I get headache I don’t know wats wrong with me now I just want help?
I’m so glad I read these comments….
I was on d dypo 4 bout 3years and came off it in june. I got a 1st proper period 3wks ago hich last 7days went away 4 5days then came back again. Which I’ve never had my cycle only every lasted 3/4days and was very light. But I’m hardly sleeping see every hour on the clock its horrible and so tired…the cramp pains in my stomach r everyday….the thing that was really worrying me was my breast r so senstive and swole as I can now see this can be ANOTHER side affect.
I was on the depo shot for a year, my last shot was in 2009. I’ve had all of those same ‘omg, I think I’m pregnant’ symptoms. They would sporadically kick in over about 3 years time, they did finally stop though. One of my other symptoms, which most women, who haven’t gone through what we here have, would think wonderful. It was almost 4 years after stopping depo before I started to get my periods back. Which you would think after that long, they would be the normal once a month however many days thing. Not the case with me. I would halfway start a period, spot for 2 days, nothing for a day, then have a light flow for maybe 2 or 3 days. As I write this now, I still have not returned to a normal menstruation cycle. I can’t correctly guess what part of the month it will be, because it could be at the end of the month, then the middle of the next, then be at the beginning of the month after I should have already started. I do not recommend taking the Depo Provera birth control shot. The side effects for during and most definitely afterwards are just not worth it. I feel for all of you out there going through the same things or even possibly worse symptoms. Just know that you are not alone, and we care. No one should have to go through these things when all we wanted to do, was to be responsible, and chose when we wanted children or not to have any(more) children.
hi im 19 years old i have never been on birth control until i had my daughter i was on the shot from oct to may of 2013 to 2014 i got off the shot cuz how i didnt get a perdio unitl 4 months after and it lasted about a month and then it left for two weeks and now it is back i dont like what the shot did to my horomones its all fucked up now i am now bleeding more than before when i got my perido again going to have to go to the doctors cuz im losing alot of blood feels as if im peeing but its nothing but blood and cramps that i feel if some one has the same problem as me plz leave a comment as to if this is normal
Hey guys…i started taking the depot shot a litte
after i had my daughter. that was is in 2010. I just got
off the shot about 4months ago.
It has been the most horrible time ever.
hotflashes,headaches,stress,boobs aching,back pain,hips hurtin,
and lots more.
its been so bad i thought i have been going crazy because
my husband i have been with for 5 years told me i havent been
myself.
i went to the doctor…they told me i had depression. well i kno i don’t
because ive always been fine. but i noticed
i get so aggervated,upset,just start crying,
I mean my hormones out of wack!
I dont feel like me. i hate feeling like this. i wish i had never
took the depo. the whole time i was on it…i never had a period.
i also never wanted to have sex. and never could get wet.
worst feeling!
Now that ive been off of it…ive kinda had normal periods. alot
heavier thab usual…and last a lot longer than usual. i just wabt
someone to tell me if my hormones will be normal?
I would not recommend this shot to anybody. It is horrible, makes you depressed, your emotions are basically everywhere, I cant sleep at night, I have hot flashes,i always feel tired but i cant sleep, i gained weight, im bloated, in the first month I bleed for week straight & like some days after. I am 19 & I only had one injection which was august 5th so I should be up for another injection in october but im not going back because this shot is just rediculous. I wouldnt wish this on my worst enemy.
Hey ladies
I was on the shot for 3 years almost 4 am just getting of it because I am trying to get pregnant. My hormones are everywhere and I want to know why is getting off the shot so hard my breast hurt so much and am scared it could be cancer or something
I started the depo at the beginning of the year, I after the second shot I decided I didn’t like so I didn’t schedule an appointment for the third. I’m always nauseous now and my beast are sore and hurt everyday, My body feels weak and it just sucks I wish I had never taken that shot.. Idk what to do to feel better
Girls, as we can all agree this form of contraception is not recommended. Once you have agreed for it to be injected into your body, there is unfortunately no cure for it. It can take about a year (May be longer) to get out of your systems (and yes even after 1 shot).
I recommend stop stressing and take back control of your lives. Make sure you eat healthy, do regular exercise and drink plenty of fresh water daily to flush out toxins. Your weight gain or loss will stabilise.
The migraines will become less, your boobs will become less tender, your periods or shows will regulate again and you will get your sex drives back. If you have concerns about anything I would suggest contacting your GP’s or health advisors to see what options you have.
Remember everyone is different, keep patterns of what’s going on with you. Your lives are your own responsibilities and sometimes we have to deal with the consequences, even if we put faith in the system.
Stay strong girls. Know you are not alone as we are all in the same boat, hence why we are on this website. x
Hello,
I came off of the depo last March 2013 and I have not had a preiod since. My breasts are sore and I get stomach cramps so bad that I can’t move. My mood swings are entertaining, so much so I have no idea what I will do next. Sleeping seems to be a thing of the past and crying is my new hobby. Please use this injection as a last resort.
I am so happy that there is a discussion going on about this! I started the depo shot when I was 15 and I’ve been on it for four years now. I initially started it to get rid of excruciating period symptoms and decided to stay on it when I became sexually active. I lost my sex drive, gained weight that I can’t lose, my mental health disorders are worse than ever, my bone mass has significantly decreased, I hardly have any energy, I have terrible insomnia and I often get pregnancy scares. My body acts like it is pregnant in every way when it’s not. It has caused problems in my relationships and with my everyday life. The sad thing is that it took me this long to realize the shot was causing it! My last shot was due a few weeks ago and I decided not to get it. I’m already experiencing horrible side effects. My stomach is constantly upset, I’m very nauseous, I can’t sleep, I can hardly eat and I have terrible cramps and bloating. This shot is an absolute nightmare. I cannot believe that my doctor encouraged me to stay on it. I can’t believe she encouraged me to start this shot in the first place. If you’re thinking of going on the shot, DON’T do it!
I had been on Depo Provera for almost 8 years..i am in my late 30s. everything was fine except a little weight gain. I was happy with it…no Periods no PMS. Then I decided to stop in August 2014 then all hell broke lose. I haven’t been myself ever since. I feel nausea, tired, weakness, abdominal cramps, migraine, lose of appetite, nervousness…. it is as if i am sick every day. I experienced sore breast and my period came for a whole week then it stopped. As i am writing this i still feel terrible. The only good side is i am losing weight. i have decided that no matter what the feelings are, i am not going back to it.Just wanted to share my experience
I have been on the depo shot for 6 months, just for a form of birth control, but gained about 10pounds, so I stopped it. I have been off it for 2 weeks now but I am feeling nauseous some mornings and mostly at night, regardless of what I eat. Defos not going back on it again.
I’ve been on and off the shot since I was 16 I’m 29 now I have a 2 yr old and been on the shot since I gave birth and just got off of the depo 3 weeks ago I have these crazy symptoms… headache, nausea, back pain, insomnia everything u can think of I feel like I’m pregnant, won’t mind if I am but its crazy how many side effects you get on or off the Depo.
When does one know that you not pregnant, (obviously when your period returns) but after how many months must you leave it for if your period does not return soon
I got off the Depo about 2 months ago after being on it for several years. I feel aweful! I have constant sore breasts and wake up every day feeling light headed and dizzy. This feeling has lasted all day. I keep hoping these symptoms stop so that I can feel normal again.
My last shot was the beginning of June. Hoping to start a family soon. I’m not getting any crazy side effects but have gained weight. Not sure if it’s being off depo or “letting go” after getting hitched. I noticed I gag a bit more over things that didn’t normally bother me. I just need to know- anyone have a half positive testimonial about going off depo? Not that I’m considering going back on. I’m 27 and it’s time for babies 🙂
Hey ladies,none of u have the diarreah feeling like i do. I share the nausea, extreme fatigue, dizziness,loss of appetite coz i got off depo after 9months.it s only 2 days of getting off though.
After having my son In January 2013 I started drop. I had 2 shots so 6 months. My periods returned in February 2014 and have been completely irregular. Light and sometimes fortnightly. I have seen my GP who advised it can take 18 months! This would be November. Recently I’ve has excessive headaches, bloating, cramping sore boobs, backache and heavy periods. I also went 60 days without any bleeding at all and then came the symptoms and a heavy period. I want another baby but I’m scared to death it won’t happen. It’s miserable and I just want my body back. It’s a dreadful time. I have blood tests and a scan coming up to check it out. I’m praying that this heavy bleed and all of these crazy symptoms is the end of what has been a stressful time. I will never EVER do this again!!
I got off depo August 25 and the last day I could get the shot was September 1st I started bleeding September 10th I don’t bleed a lot but it’s like after 6 days of bleeding I get a break for a day then start again I have gotten so many pregnancy symptoms and it’s hard not to worry I have nausea I’m bloated all the time I have milk bumps but my nipples are not dark I’m light headed a lot if I eat a meal I get sick depo is a disaster I’m never recommending it to anyone if your on it now I would suggest getting off of it yeah doctors make it sound great for you and your body but you don’t ever hear of them using it
Thank you, ladies, for sharing!! I’m due for my annual check up anyway, but I was seriously going to run in there asking if my female parts had completely given up on me!! I honestly thought it was just me, and NOT an issue getting OFF OF a medication!! I am 38 now and have been on birth control religiously since I was 18. My doctor recommended the depo shot when I turned 35 because I didn’t think I had it in me yet to quit smoking. Side effects I ask? His response, “You’ll love it, no more pills and probably no periods”. Who wouldn’t love that, right? I had never really allowed myself to have the choice of having kids because I travel weekly for my business. However, this past March I decided to stop getting the shot, 1. I had gained a good 40lbs in 3 yrs, and 2. I have come to a point in my life where I knew it would be okay if I DID get pregnant. Well, my last shot was in Dec 2013 and still no period in sight, not even a spot. Aside from the weight gain, I didn’t have much to complain about while I was still getting the shot. This past year, however, has been a living nightmare!!! I have almost all of the same symptoms as many of you, and now I’m a little paranoid that I have ruined any chance of getting pregnant…now that I’m finally ready for a baby. I am hoping and praying that we ALL can get through this struggle and become normal, functioning women again. Thanks to you all
I hear so many horror stories and reading it on here is just making me more worried ! I have just turned 20 and I’m getting married, and I was on the depo for three years. I came off April last year. I had one completely normal period about five months ago – normal period pains, nothing too bad , it wasn’t too heavy and it went for the normal 4-5 days . But I haven’t had it since . I want to know if I’m going to get periods back and have kids in the next few years !
Hey guys! Im so relieved coming on this page, nobody alone in this!
I got off the depo after a year nd a half nd its the worst i feel like crying for every little thing, i feel depressed, i have the worst back pains nd stomach pains. I feel just weak as if it tooken over me, i pray i feel better and back to my regular cycle. How come they never tell you before you get it the symptoms when you get off it? Why is this an option to get?! I wish i never got it, for a moment i thought i was going crazy myself but no! This all because the depo! Never recommend this at all. It affects me daily ever since i got off a month ago nd still no period!
Hi ladies,
I went on the jab when I was 14years old I’m now 27, but through out the years missed only a couple of times, & would have periods straight away (that’s why I always went back for another shot) but did fall pregnant with my daughter only 2 weeks after of missing a shot! After having my daughter who is now 8 I was on the depo religiously, I couldn’t fault it as completely stopped my periods and didn’t gain weight all them years! I decided not to go back for my last depo in may 2014, as think it’s time for baby no’2 but since coming off not had a spot of blood, extremely bloated, my moods are just ridiculous, my hairs thinning due to being constantly stressed as I’m not me anymore, I have to support my breast most of time as no money or decent bra is helping the horrible pain and most importantly iv gained nearly 2 stone in 5 months, which Is very un-normal as others lose the weight when coming off!! Been doctors and they say the usual ‘can take up to a year or more’! Maybe before offering the depo they should make/find a drug first so it can leave our body when we want off! Iv lost complete faith in falling pregnant any time soon or at all 🙁 but just glad I’m not on mine on this one! Take care ladies
I was put on the shot in May or June of 2010, I was only around 14 or 15. I instantly loved it. I had bad periods never really much cramping but lots of bleeding. It made them go away completely! I didn’t have any side effects while on it either. It was perfect! I decided to t
Are a break from it the end of 2013. My last shot was scheduled for January 12 and I cancelled it. I didn’t have a period until the end of August. And then it was just a little bit of bleeding. Nothing major and no cramps. It wasn’t until September when I got my period the beginning of the month and then another about 9 days later. And then Another 9 days later again! And so on until now. But this one is the worst I’ve ever had. Constant bleeding. And sore breasts and cramps. I’ve never had cramps with a period before until now. And a constant headache for the past few days. Part of me wants to get back on it to make this misery stop but the other part knows I don’t want to deal with this again! It feels like depo withdrawals. Good luck ladies!
Hi Sharon, I hope you get this reply. You will find information on how to help restore ovulatory menstruation if you want to become pregnant at this other post I wrote about Depo-Provera:
https://menstruationresearch.org/2013/04/11/stopping-depo-provera-why-and-what-to-do-about-adverse-experiences/
It is a Q and A with an endocrinologist who explains what women are experiencing when they stop taking Depo. I hope you’ll find it useful.
All the best, Laura Wershler
Hi Ladies, its been a while since my last update. I was on Depo for 16 years with no period. April 2013 my GYN doctor advised me to stop taking it because I was only suppose to be on it for 2 years which I didn’t know. My GYN doctor gave me a bone density test and my numbers were not good. As of this date still no period its been 18 months since my last shot. My teeth are cracking and I had to have 2 molars removed, my hair is falling out, my joints hurt, nipples are sore, smelly urine, acne, sadness all the time, angry, blurred vision, stomach and intestinal issues, eczema on my right breast and between both breast. Although its been 18 months off depo my symptoms are not getting better the eczema is worst the itching and dry skin is horrible. I don’t know if my period will ever return because I am at the menopausal age 49. For you young women who want to have children please get off depo. Even though I do not have a period I am still ovulating and was told by my doctor that I could still become pregnant he advised me to take BC pills, I declined I don’t want anything else in my system. I don’t think at my age my eggs if I have any left are viable. Take Care Ladies and good luck!!!
Thank you, Laura, for replying and for the information. As luck would have it, I actually started on Saturday. I have never been so happy to buy tampons, lol. It seems to be the real thing at the moment. Now I’m just hoping it will show up next month…we’ll see. I have a good feeling about it.
I have been on depo for 18 yrs came off it last month as i am now 51 & my doctor assumes I have already gone through menopause (although I have been told to use contraception for a few months until a blood test is completed to see if I have in fact had my menopause).
I did gain weight & loose my sex drive but no other side affects while taking the drug. I had my last injection in July this year & as to date I have had no side effects after reading the comments I am now worried that these are around the corner or maybe I am just one of the lucky ones.
I am very angry that none of the points raised were mentioned by any of my GP’s over the past 18 yrs.
fingers crossed for all we get through it…..
Hi ladies I have nw been off the shot for 5 months.been to the doctor several times.I have been having numbing/tinglin sensation in hands feet/headaches shoulder pain..constant fatigue acid reflux nausea .decided to switch doctors and she decided I should do a blood test to check my b12 levels and iron…my b12 levels was at 110…the normal levels being between 500/900…iron was also low explains the constant fatigue…and many other symptoms..I belive the depo interferes with our ability to absorb food..and we lack proper nutrition..and get sick..that’s just my theory..also been really anxious since coming off depo..hope this helps …starting my B12 loading injections tomorrow….will let u ladies know hw I feel..best of luck to you all..
I’m so glad I found a website that is actually up to date on these issues. I started taking the depo provera in April 2014 and the first month was just hell on earth. I had no clue that I would have such horrible side effects! Never in my life have I ever been depressed or experienced anxiety or panic attacks but they began to happen weeks after my first shot. This only got worse for me. My appetite was draining, there’d be days I was just completely nauseous, I developed some sort of rash on my stomach leading to my thighs and bum. My relationship is hanging by threads!! I’ve never had issues in my relationship till my hormones became so out of whack! I’m so unhappy and I have no reason to be unhappy!!!! I don’t think like myself and I just don’t feel like myself. I am only 20 years old and I’m dreading living the rest of my life like this. When I first told my doctor about it she told me I should take the shot once more but I refused!! I only took one shot and its been 6 months since and I have had no relief. Doctors are no help. They prescribed me with anti anxiety medication and say that the depo is out of my system so there is no way that it could still be affecting me. Just because the depo is out of my system, it doesn’t mean that my hormones aren’t messed up.
Once finally coming off the medication after three hellish months, I had THREE periods. Each period came with a break of about a weak but they were horrible! I became anemic and I was just weak. I felt as though I could pass out at any moment! My PMS is worse than ever, my moods becoming so horrible. I cry almost every day and may need to start taking antidepressants to level myself out.
PLEASE DON’T TAKE THE SHOT. I know its different for everyone but its not worth the risk!!!! This isn’t a trial. You get this shot and have adverse side effects, well you’ll have them for a long long time!
I just wish I could feel my heart. I can’t feel anything. I regret taking this shot so much. I want to be normal again. I just want to go home.
I started getting the shot when I was 15 (2011) and just recently stopped getting the shot (last one in July 2014) I have gained so much weight over the years. Any suggestions to get the weight off?
Update 2mos after, almost 6mos since my last shot. Got period twice, first was lighter than more normal 2nd period. But I noticed, when I charted my period and ovulation days, i’d have a terrible terrible headache that goes on during ovulation. Plus i’m more moody & depressed. I get all the pregnancy sysmptoms like heightened smell, nausea, gas, tingling breasts, slight cramping lower abdomen & food aversion/cravings. It disappears post ovulation. Ive never had them before.
Hi ladys I’m 21, I’ve gone in for 3 shots I should have gone in for a 4th a month back. When I was on it I was constantly bleeding mostly light bleeding but it was horrible! Once I was off everything seemed to go back to normal for a bit… Then my period came, then it seemed to stop like normal. Then a day passed and I’ve had light bleeding ever since! I’m hopping for it to start I currently don’t have health insurance so I can’t go in to my regular dr with out paying out of pocket.
hi nikita just try and not stress to much over it, it took me 7months and also tablets from the doctor to start my period’s maybe u sud ask ur doctor to put u on tablets to start ur period it took me two does b4 i started then my period come every month but always at different time they can be pretty bad still no lucky on getting pregnant myself but it can take anything up to 2years or more for it come out ur system wish u all the luck hun i was on depo for 9years and never told about what it like coming off it and will never go back on it and tell everyone who has asked me about it to stay away from it
i have had 3 Depo injections since December 2013. I got so depressed and anxious after the first injection, that I attempted suicide in January 2014. I have had bleeding for up to 6 weeks off and on and have gained a total of 12 kgs.
I should have had an injection on October 2, but decided I’d had enough of the bleeding and excess weight. For the last 2 weeks I have felt anxious, nauseous, I can’t sleep and I cry all the time.
From what I’ve read, this is to do with withdrawaling from the Depo and could go on for months. And there’s nothing I can do about it.
I have been off depo since September 1 2014 and it’s now October 9 I’m pretty sure my bleeding is o weird it’s light either brown or pink or black right now I’m at the obgyn and I’m hoping to get on something that brings back my normal period or special vitamins so far I have looked online and found provera and for vitamins I found a liquid call vitex and it helps a lot like balancing your hormones I just can’t find vitex any where in stores I just want my boy to go back to normal and I bet all of you do also depo hurts your body so bad but my dad forced me to Get on it if not I wasn’t allowed to leave to go anywhere Because I lost my virginity And one thing if you go to the doctors to try to get a medication to help your body make sure you know what you need and know what you are talking about because honestly the doctors don’t know anything lol
The doctor told me if I want my body to heal from hormones to not get the regular provera because that has hormones in it just to let everyone know if you thought it was a good idea.
I’ve been on the injection for 2 years and decided to come off it, September(2014) and the side effects have kicked in already, I’m constantly bloated, can’t sleep and have sore boobs, which I have never really had problems with before. I have also gained weight, even though I eat healthily and train often, I wouldn’t of got this if I’d of known the effects of coming off it!
hey ladies, i was on the depo for six years, being told every year something different about oh u can only be on it for 2 years and then oh no its ok to be on it till ur 30 years old just take extra calcium. ive stopped taking it and wow what a shock to my system. ive had a period for like a week straight a day off and then it starts again, this has been going on for a month now. i feel VERY weak.. cramps worse then ive ever had.. sometimes i dont wanna eat at all and then other times i want to eat everyting in site. im breaking out horribly and bad lower back pain. i had two mini TIAs while on the depo which is why i decided to get off of it..NEVER GET ON THE DEPO!!! my visioin isnt as blurry as it was when i was on the depo which is one good thing so far. im so glad other women have been going thru this as well i was feeling lost and scared. Does anything work to actually stop the constant bleeding? i dont wanna have to take BC again.worst experience ive ever HAD!!!
Hi Kyra, I suggest you read the other post I wrote about Depo and the affects of coming off it. You will learn about Cyclic Progesterone Therapy as a means to help rebalance your hormones. It works with Provera, a synthetic progestin, and Prometrium, a bio-identical form that may be a better choice.
Here’s the link:
https://www.macleans.ca/society/health/the-interview-surgeon-author-atul-gawande/
hey everyone
I’ve been on the shot for about 4 years and recently came off it about a month ago. The mood swings have just started usually going from wanting to cry my eyes out to wanting to scream at someone for no reason. I’m extremely tired but when I do fall asleep I can’t stay asleep. another problem i’m having is pooping. I can’t go for days! anyone else have this problem?
I’ve had excessive moodiness, crying fits, lower back pain to the point I could barely walk, EXTREME headaches, and horrible nausea. All I want is some relief but I have no clue how to get it. I do not want to take another dose!
my last shot was in March 2014. I have had no period. i’m 35 and had been on/off it since i was 21. i was never told any adverse effects! only told to take calcium. i have neveer had a problem stopping it untill now. I have an 8 year old we had planned. While on depo, i had no sex drive and any attempt at intercourse was as dry as the sahara. Very painful. Since coming off, I had a bout of nausea that has passed, I want sex all of the time with no dryness at all, i am VERY moody and cry all the time (horrible depression with thoughts of suicide and wishing death on others), i’ve become very solitary, my breast are SORE/HARD/SWOLLEN/SUPER SENSITIVE & PAINFUL NIPPLES. My breast are in distress!!! I have hot flashes, insomnia, night sweats, bloating, cramping, bowel issues…..the list continues. My hair is not falling out like it was on depo. I always thought i would wakw up bald. lol. I work in healthcare now and am abhhorred that any health professional would keep such important information from their patients! Patient abandonment is what I see and may have to treat it as such! To anyone thinking “this can’t happen to me or hasnt, yet; look around and listen to those saying, “this is exactly what i’m going through!” This is terrible and should be taken off the market. For me, I will justdeal with it and wait it out. No more hormones for me. The depo is a nightmare that I have yet to wake from. think wisely my naive ladies. Be strong, my ladies in suffering. We suffer together, mostly in silence, but we are together and will win this battle. There is an end.
Ever since I have stopped this shot I feel like crap I can’t aleep , my head is always bounding , I feel like im going to vomit all the time , I’m also very dizzy and light headed . I get symptoms of being prego but I know I’m not , this shot was the worst idea , I was recently in the er do to sucicide thoughts .DO NOT TAKE THE SHOT
Ohkay, I really need answers!!!
I was on the depo for a year after having my daughter, then I switched to the birth control pill, I took the pills for a month /two months but I recently didn’t take them for a week or two, but I started taken them but that same day I started again I had sex but the condom broke and he cumed in me. Is there chances I could be pregnant?!!
Please respon need answers!!.
I’ve had the same symptoms except I haven’t puked. I was on the depo shot for 6 months and I’m just coming off. I’ve been bleeding for 2 months now. It’s only gotten heavier. And I have severe abdominal pain with a lot of clots (sorry that’s kind of gross).
Do you think I could possibly be pregnant I missed my shot August 25th and it’s now October 17 th I under stand that when,you get off depo you get pregnancy symptoms but I’m wondering if anyone has had bloating in there uterus pretty much and I have had white milky watery discharge fatigue headaches and a lot more I’m hoping am but then again I put my self in doubt because of depo tell me what you think
Okay, I had a miscarriage in September 2013. I had a DNE, after that I got the shot.(Only One) I bleed all month long, maybe a week a month not bleeding. Went to an OBGYN and was put on fertility drugs in July 2014. I have not ovulated. Now there saying it’s me. I never had a problem before the shot. Is this anything someone else has gone through?
I have been following this forum for several months. Last time I had posted I was supposed to go in for a full hysterectomy but of course being 34 at the time they refused to do it even though my doctor was pushing to have it done. It has been 3 years since I last had the shot and I still to this day have not ovulated. I know this because I use to be able to check the cervical fluid and the position of my cervix. It always stays the same but now this month I ended up with two periods within a week of each other the first was was quite painful as usual but the second one was just annoying because I have never had two full periods. It started out pink then turned a dark stringy brown. Has anyone else experienced it and what could this mean. I am so confused I seriously need some advice for piece of mind thank you.
Hi LeeAnn,
You don’t mention if you’ve been menstruating over the past three years. Were these recent bleeding episodes the first since you stopped Depo? Have you been having periods occasionally or at all?
At age 34 you still want to be ovulating consistently to build and maintain bone density. You will find some helpful information on how to restore ovulatory cycles on the other post I wrote about Depo-Provera:
https://menstruationresearch.org/2013/04/11/stopping-depo-provera-why-and-what-to-do-about-adverse-experiences/
It is a Q and A with an endocrinologist who explains what women are experiencing when they stop taking Depo, and treatment suggestions for problems you may be having. Hope you find it useful.
When I first got my periods back they were 32 days apart but now for the past few months its been every 27 days except thins Month o started a day early in the 8th bled for 3 days instead of 5 then a week later started sleeping again for 3 days
It was meant to say bleeding at the end
Hi I am 35 years old and I have been on and off depo for 11 years. I would never come off for more than a year at a time just to let my body reboot. I decided that it was time to come off for good and try to have another child with my 2ND husband (I have 3 from my previous marriage). My depo was due the first of this month and I am experiencing severe pelvic pain. I have never really had menstrual cramps and prior to depo I was very regular. Even the times I would come off to let my body “reboot” the most I would experience was mild cramping and spotting type bleeding once a month, fairly regular. While on depo I loved it, all I had to remember was one appointment every 3 months. I am seriously reconsidering returning to depo if the pelvic pain persists. Does anyone have any helpful feedback or tips I can try to help ease the transition?
well, i have been on and off the shot for the last 8 years.. now ive been off it for a while… my last shot was in april.. ive experienced some wierd symptoms too.. thinking i was prego. and finding out not.. alot of random headaches. that i never have had.. ever.. now my breasts are sore as heck.. even just to touch.. makes me crazy.. ive been depressed and have definately thought about seeing a dr about it but reading this from everyone else has helped me realize im not alone in this whole depo problem. be positive girl!! we will survive!
I have been off depo since July 2013, August 2014 I bleed for about a month just enough to b annoying then had a month of nothing and now bleeding for past two weeks. I havent ovulated since I started the shot July 2012. so I would definately say its the shot that caused it I have always been regular and ovulated every month prior to the shot. I have two kids.
I stop taking dEpo last august 24 2014,nOw I’m scAreD beCause I’m bleEDING for aBouT 2 wEEKs tilL now.what sh0uld I do? NeED REPLY,
hi I was depo for 2 n half years been off it 5 month and got my bfp im 4 weeks
hi I was on depo for 2 n half years been off it 5 month and got my bfp im 4 weeks
Well, I first posted around june/July with rubbish symptoms and that we were trying for another after haing my last injection in March. Took the test on my birthday last week (and 3 more since!) and i am finally pregnant, it has taken us 7 months so stick it out all those of you who are trying it WILL happen 🙂
I have been having the Depo injection for 2 and a half years, I have recently been advised to come off it due to bone loss. However after reading these comments I’m not sure what’s best to do. I don’t know whether to stay with the Depo or change? Any advice?
I’ve been off of depo for 18 months now. (Took the shot in April 2013 and it’s now just the beginning of Nov. 2014) so about 19 months. I started getting somewhat regular periods back in January but could never get pregnant. Well October 23rd was supposed to be when I started my period but today Nov. 2 2014 I still haven’t gotten it. I spotted October 20 and 21st. Then nothing. Then a little spotting the 23rd then nothing and a little the 28th then nothing and now today Nov. 2 spotting and then it went away. What the heck can this be? Has anyone experienced this???? I’m freaking out. I have a doctors appointment set but it’s still worrying me… 🙁
Hi i am 19 and i have been on and off depo for a year. I started taking it in january, stopped in may and went on the pill. I took nother shot in july and haven’t taking another one. I was due for my shot the beginning of October and still haven’t had a period. Whats going on? I am completely lost because when i stopped it before i got my period right away. Please help me
Im 17 , i got my depo shot a few weeks ago and i started spotting then i stopped. Then i started bleeding very heavily but im not bleeding red , its black then sometimes red , i had sex with my boyfriend a couple days and fee hours before i got my shot and he came inside me all the times could i be pregnant and the baby dieing ?? I have cramps , back pain and my legs are becoming weak and i get lightheaded and can barely stand up without almost passing out , somebody please tell me whats wrong with me
Alright I took my second depo shot I felt like a pregnant old woman I discharged a lot. Yesterday I was suppose to go for my 3rd shot but I didn’t (because I’m going to see another doctor) well I’m not bleeding sence I did not take the shot. Could I be pregnant?
Hi ,
I’ve just turned 50 and have been on the depo for 13 years. I went on the injection because I suffered form endometriosis since I was a teenager and all other treatments failed. I had my last jab 3 weeks ago and have been suffering abdominal pain since. I’m scared my periods will come back and I also don’t know if I am menopausal. I’m am also getting other symptoms such as severe headaches back pain nausea dizziness etc and don’t know if this is due to stopping the depo or the menopause. Does anyone have any advice?
Hello
I took the repo shot at the end of June and did not go to take another shot. I have been on my period from August 23 till today November 7, 2014. Has this happened to anyone else? Its a little scary that i do not know whats going on with my body and i am just waiting to finally end my period.
Hi.
I’m concerned about stopping my depo.I am soon to be due for my 3rd dosage, but uncertain about following up on it. When I first started the depo I waited for my period. Then I started to spot for a fee days. I was in the clear until about 3 weeks before my 2nd dosage. I bled for days and rarely would spot. Wen I got my 2nd dosage the bleeding stopped in about 5 days. Then back to spotting in a few days.after I bled and currently now til my 3rd dosage.I also failed to mentioned I felt the pregnancy symptoms too.So my concern is what can happen to my body if I don’t take the 3rd dose??
Okay, I have been off of depo for 2 months. I’ve been having white creamy discharge. It does not smell, itch, or burn. So I don’t believe this is BV or a yeast infection. I think it’s probably my hormones are re adjusting … I’m not sure. Can someone please tell me if this is normal??
I have unprotected sex, and thought for a second it could be a pregnancy symptom.. But both test came back negative.
Please help –
Okay, I have been off of depo for 2 months. I’ve been having white creamy discharge. It does not smell, itch, or burn. So I don’t believe this is BV or a yeast infection. I think it’s probably my hormones are re adjusting … I’m not sure. Can someone please tell me if this is normal??
I have unprotected sex, and thought for a second it could be a pregnancy symptom.. But both test came back negative. Oh and I haven’t had my period yet.
Please help –
I am 30, and was on Depo consistently for about 11-12 years. Off for a year and a half to 2 years. Then back on for 3 inj.
I took a break from it a couple years ago during which time I had regular cycles, and I don’t remember having any issues other than occasional spotting and a month or two where my periods were every 2 weeks or so.
I started taking Depo again Aug 2013, and had my last inj Mar 2014. Since coming off the drug this time I have only had very light spotting once, and then a heavy 6 day period w/ dark, old, stringy blood and clots. I have sore tender breasts, and pelvic pain nearly every morning. I don’t think I have ovulated since coming off Depo. I have not had a period for 48 days and confirmed I was not pregnant 31 days after my LMP. Has anyone else had a similar experience? How long does it typically take for a return to normal fertility? I have heard anywhere from 5 months to a year or more.
I am 23 years old with 3 beautiful children. After my first child i went for the depo shot it instantly took away my periods (hello awesome) this lasted for about a year and i had missed an appointment due to work because i am dedicated to taking care of my children. Well needless to say i missed the shot in early october..the first time i slept with the my sons father again in january i was instantly pregnant do not recall even having a period between those times this was quite awhile ago..well then after that oregnancy my dr did not listen when i said my fertility is way to strong for the pill needless to say i got my daughter as a blessing…my youngest 2 are roughly 15mths apart so after the long haul of another pregnancy with her i decided i needed to be on the shot again because jothing else would stop me from getting pregnant. I have been on the depo yet again over a year this time it completely killed my sexual urges oh and not to mention i would bleed for months straight when i restarted the shot this go around…i recently missed the shot yes on purpose in September because it was literally making me feel like i was insane. Now i have been mm most would say a tad bit psychotic and very very depressed which i was already there before i did not get my last shot…i do not ever want to feel these side effects again i still contemplate going to my doctor each day to get placed on medication which i do not highly do not believe in.
I personally will never reccomend this shit to anyone i am very small figured and framed that way well after all 3 of my babies of course my hips widened up a bit but now ever since i have taken my first shot i can honestly tell you when i am due for one because my hips will have excruciating pain for weeks and same as to after i get the injection.. i do not wish what all this pain and nonsense that ridiculous birth control has caused me on anyone..
Best of luck to all of you all of the syptoms and freakish things like hot flashes not being able to sleep etc i have experienced as well 🙁
Hi I’m 20 with 2 kids. I got the depo after I gave birth in may 2014. Got my shots every 3 month like normal and decided to stop bc I kept spotting for a whole month. One day I’m off and then back to spotting. Now that I didn’t get my Nov shot I haven’t stop spotting. When can I obvalated again
please i need help,i was on a contraceptive injection for just 9 months,i stopped since May,till November i am yet to see my period, only to start experiencing breast pain this month of November…this is the feel of the pain, it started with the two breast, at the sides,i had to check if it was cancer signs,, i feel this heat sensation from my boobs, my nipples are always erect, just this hotness , i feel, this is crazy,though at first i have to massage and massage my nipples to lessen the pain but now i stopped cos its not burning like before but i still have this crazy pain,especially from my sides of my breast mildly i feel little pain in my lower pelvic like period wants to come
, but still no period, can someone please tell me if they have experienced this before
I would like to know any tips you have on “returning to normal”
Hoping to hear a positive update.
Ive been off.the Depo shot for 4 months and o have all the signs of pregnancy the nausea headaches light spotting. im glad im not the only one who has experienced these symptoms. makes me feel.better and know that im not going insane.
Hi, i was due to get my shot in june 2014 but wanted to come off it so never bothered getting it. I had my first period in august and then september but nothing in october or this month (november). Is this normal? Someone help if they can thanks!
Dianna I have been having the same problem. Went to my doctors I amfine they said Iits just your hormones. Though having head aches, server abdominal pain, and feeling nauseous 24/7 hasn’t been fun coming off depo on top of very server breast tenderness…. and this back pain has got to stop… never choosing depo again. Was on it for 2years… time to get my periods back and get back to normal so I can try for baby #2.
But hoe long did it take for you to get your first cycle after you stop taking the Depo shot?
Hi I’m 18 years old. I started depo when I was 15 and.recently stopped August, 2014. Its now November 2014 and I still haven’t gotten a period. I’m very sore and I’ve been peeing so much that twice I peed on myself and fell down and hurt myself trying to get to a bathroom last night. I’m having watery liquid discharge and I’m SO hungry… When will this stop and I can get my period back? Will it ever be regular again? I want to have kids jn the future and I’m not worried!
Hi I’m 18 years old. I started depo when I was 15 and.recently stopped August, 2014. Its now November 2014 and I still haven’t gotten a period. I’m very sore and I’ve been peeing so much that twice I peed on myself and fell down and hurt myself trying to get to a bathroom last night. I’m having watery liquid discharge and I’m SO hungry… When will this stop and I can get my period back? Will it ever be regular again? I want to have kids jn the future and I’m worried!
I have just been to see a naturopath. I was on the depo on and off for the last 12 years. I would try to come off it, but the side effects to stopping were just to severe, i thought I had breast cancer, I thought I was pregnant, gained weight and I thought I was going crazy, so I would go back on it. No doctors or specialists could give me any answers. They told me I should lose weight and that the depo is a good thing!! Well my last shot was end of August this year. The symptoms are back, however I’m not going back on it. Thank gosh I found this forum, suggesting natural progesterone. The naturopath explained how my hormones are all out of wack. She gave me some wild yam cream, which is a natural progesterone. I will try this out and will probably go back for further natural hormone balancing treatments. Don’t give up ladies. More studies need to be done into the depo provera. Health care professionals need to be informed about the side effects when you give up and we should be told before we start and also been given a clear and supported treatment plan, for when coming off.
It took 5 months after the shot should have worn off (so 8 mths after last inj)-I then had 50 days of no bleeding, then a second period. I do not think I am ovulating yet.
The symptoms you are experiencing seem to happen regularly. I had a very similar experience. I got my period 8 mths after my last injection, and just got another period 50 days later. No spotting in between. I had intense breast and lower pelvic pain, which resolved with my last period.
I was on the depo shot for about 3 years and after being off of it for over a year now my periods are still not normal! Even now sometimes I’m getting my period every two weeks. It really messed up my monthly cycle. When will it be back to monthly!!! Still waiting…
Its not you trust me im going through the same thing and so are many other people, its definitely the shot
Hi All – its been a couple of months since my last post. I was on Depo for 16 years and was told by my GYN to stop taking it due to bone loss and that I was only suppose to take it for 2 years. My last shot was April 2014 I have experienced hair loss, lose teeth, nausea, joint pain, blurred vision, fatigue, and of course no period for 16 years. Well on November 19, 2014 my period came back after 19 months from my last shot, I have never experience pain like this it started out as spotting brown with mild cramps, but this morning the pain was so intense I started shaking and vomiting. I am having what appears to be dark clots but the blood is bright red I am in so much pain right now my lower back hurts really bad. I don’t know how long this cycle will last but I hope its a short one. I am 49 years old and was told by my GYN a few months ago that I am at that stage in my life for menopause, but he stresses that I need to take precautions because I can still become pregnant, which I doubt I have viable eggs to become pregnant. I just took 600mg of Motrin IB so hoping this will help with the cramps. Take care ladies and good luck coming off this horrible medication Depo If I knew then what I know now I would have never taken Depo. For those of you who want to have babies stay away from this it will screw your system up.
Hi
I was on Depo for 3 years, I had my last shot in February 2014. I had my first period 2 weeks ago and now I am having another really heavy one with big clots, I dare not even go out of the house and this is the 6th heavy day. I can’t get into doctors for a week, I may have bled to death by then!
I have taken it for a year, I put on weight, I also experienced signs (after getting off it) of pregnancy… I’m not. But now I’ve experienced bleeding, but I mean it’s not stopping and it’s going on the 3rd week and I am freaking out and I can get an appointment fast. I have on December 10th (For a doctor on another thing. I have Anemia)But I want to know has anyone experienced this? I mean bleeding that last long but not heavy?
I GOT ON DEPO BACK IN JUNE AND I WAS DUE FOR IT IN SEPTEMBER BUT I NEVER GOT BACK ON IT. I HAD A LIGHT PERIOD FOR ABOUT A WEEK IN OCTOBER AND I HAVENT HAD MY PERIOD ALL THIS MONTH AND IN TWO DAYS IT’LL BE DECEMBER..IM VERY NERVOUS! COULD IT BE THE DEPO THE REASON WHY I DIDNT HAVE MY PERIOD THIS MONTH OR COULD I BE PREGNANT??? PLEASE HELP ME
I was on depo for 2 1/2 years and came off of it January last year. I finally have a gotten a period this month but I’ve had it twice now under 30 days. In the last 10 months, I’ve gone from 115 pounds to 140. No matter what I do I cannot get the weight off. My moods are so up and down, and when I feel down, I feel absolutely insane. I feel pregnant, my boobs are sore I’m so bloated ALL THE TIME. Everyone thinks I’m making excuses, but I can’t help any of these things. I’m tired all the time, I get dizzy spells. My appetite has gone down but for a while, I was SO hungry and I never felt full and eating a disgusting amount of food. This has been a terrible experience and I do not recommend this medication to anyone. I feel like I’m in my own personal hell.
When I was in my early 20’s (I’m now 32) I had one Depo injection with no side – effects. I had an injection in July which would have covered me up until the middle of October. I have always been regular with my periods, and even had spotting on the days around my period would have been due whilst on the shot. I had every horrendous side – effect known to man kind: moody (husband nearly murdered; no sex drive; weight gain; depression. Essentially, you name it, I had it. I waited the 3 months’ out and had a breakthrough bleed 2 days after the 2nd injection would have been due. Had awful withdrawal symptoms 2 weeks after stopping, mostly sore breasts and nausea. I have had a ‘normal-ish’ period on the 17th of this month and have had hormone studies to make sure I’m not post-meno (which I’m not; all came back perfect). Now husband and I want to try for our 1st baby. I’ve been told anywhere from 4-18months to regain fertility, however I’ve had this period and all hormone blood tests have come back normal. In fact, a vey good doctor told me that my hormones were ‘so healthy’ that he expected me not to have any problems, and certainly not needing to wait the 18 months to fall. However, only time will tell. There is no information anywhere on the internet, but for the love of God, do NOT get this injection. I work as an RN in a private practice and I refuse to give this shot to women, irrespective of their lifestyle, age, etc. Any thoughts/stories on falling pregnant by real women post depo shot greatly appreciated. And for the record: I had only the one.
Best wishes to you all.
It is both disturbing–and oddly comforting–to see so many others have struggled with this drug. I very hesitantly agreed to take it after being diagnosed with Stage IV Endometriosis in late 2012. My doctor at the time assured me that it is “wonderful birth control” that would help me manage the horrible pain and heavy bleeding caused by the Endometriosis since I hadn’t tolerate oral contraceptives well int he past. I asked about side effects and were told they weren’t very prevalent and I may just have some spotting. I had the shot at the end of February 2013. I then proceeded to bleed, at times heavy to the point of gushing,until the middle of June, That is one hundred and sixteen consecutive days, non-stop. I actually thought I was going to just bleed to death but was told that some irregular bleeding was “normal” and that was just my lining thinning out. The only plus was that I lost about 10 pounds rather than have the gain many experience. I never got another shot, but needed a second surgery for the Endometriosis, which was growing back by mid summer, then a third operation for Adeneomyosis last winter when my bleeding returned with a vengeance. I eventually had the lining of my uterus re-sectioned to put an end to the bleeding as it was so heavy and abnormal, even after going off the Depo.
In the months since my shot wore off, my hormonal symptoms have been horrible. Sore breasts and cramps daily, feeling near constant PMS, headaches, including migraines, and just a general feeling of malaise. Most upsetting for me though has been the weight gain. In the last 12months, I am up 25 pounds. I don’t look or feel like myself and I don’t know how this happened. Feeling so exhausted and lousy has me exercising less, but not enough to warrant this kind of gain. Nothing seems to make the pounds budge. A new doctor ran tests that showed low progesterone and estrogen dominance and I am now on bio identical, compounded progesterone. This has helped with some of the discomfort, but no shifting in my weight yet, Did anyone else experience weight issues after coming off the Depo and what, if anything, worked to help lose the extra pounds? Sorry to write a novel here, but I am furious that this drug was given to me like it was nothing and that it made me so ill as a result!
Hi,
So I’m 20 yrs old. I had my first depo shot in Sept 2013 did only 1 dose was supposed to go back in Dec. Had unprotected sex here and there till about Apr 2014. Then that’s when I got back on the shot for another 6 months. I was susuppose to go back at the end of Oct, it’s now dec 1st. So I want to know How long will my body go back to normal cuz I’m trying to get pregnant like now, iv been having headaches, nausea, dizziness, tender breast , and its the exact symptoms I had when I got off the depo shot back in December. I thought I was pregnant but it was just the shot wwearing off. I took a pregnancy test about 2weeks ago it was neg. I want to take more pregnancy test but at the same time I don’t bcuz it’s going to be like the first time I though I was, I’m really excited to start a family but with this not weating off soon puts me down. I just want to know how long will it take to wear off. How do I know when I’ll have my period back. If been bleeding light sometimes a little more then just light even 2 days the most without bleeding and it’s been doing this for now about 3 months please help. I have minor depression problems.
Hi Leslie, sorry to hear you have experienced such a nightmare as well. You mentioned weight Gain when coming off. I have experienced a big weight gain since trying to come off over the past few years. I would go off, put on weight, swell and feel so awful, I would go back on it. However I missed my last shot at the end of August and am never going back on it. I started takling the weight while I was still on it, really stepped up the exercise, no alcohol and a clean organic eating, this has made the side effects of sore breasts and nausea a lot less than previous attempts to get it off it. I have now started a probiotic supplement and a really good multivitamin, with a lot of b12, which helps with digestion, energy and General wellbeing. I have also started using wild yam cream, which is a natural progesterone treatment, this helps to balance hormones (including food cravings and breast tenderness) weight is slowly coming off. My cup size has gone up by 2!!! I hate it and can’t wait for this to get back to normal. All the best to you. I wouldn’t recommend the depo to my worst enemy.
Katherine–thank you for your feedback. I hate that we are dealing with this but it is nice to know that there are others that understand. I a cutting way back on carbs and hoping that the Progesterone and a few other supplements (including Evening Primrose Oil) that my current doctor recommended will help. Good luck to you too!
Hey I took one shot like 4 months ago and didn’t go back either. My first period was like 2 weeks long. This is my second one and I’m counting 19 days already. No sign of let up. This is not ok or normal maybe because of the drug these are the side effects. But this is not ok for my body. I’m not going back on birth control again. No thanks. I don’t need this junk in my body
i am 23 and have been on the depo for 5 years, ive come off it for the first time and i have been getting terrible belly aches, sore breasts, bloating and feeling sick now and then. constantly keep thinking im pregnant. so worrying!
Does anyone think this is normal??
I never post on forums but I am so upset, I just want to share my story.
I am turning 25 in month. I started depo when I was 18. I never had periods and my weight yo-yo’d the whole time I was on it, so I attribute that to other things. In September 2014 I was due for a shot, but I figured it was time to find a better long term BC because of the bone loss issues and the fact that I don’t ever want to conceive. Also, I was QUITE frustrated with the symptoms of being pregnant from taking a medicine to keep me from getting pregnant. I had tried everything besides the IUD, and my OBGYN flat-out refused my wishes to get tubal ligation. So on the most painful day of my life (mind you I grew up rough and have broken bones, fallen out of trees, been thrown from horses etc), I had Paragard inserted on October 23rd. After 6 days of not being able to function due to passing out and throwing up from the pain, not to mention bleeding enough to bleed through super pads all day long, I had it removed at Urgent Care. I could not miss anymore work, and I read too many horror stories about pregnancies, and the symptoms I was suffering taking up to a year to go away or in some cases, never going away. Back to my post-depo life. I bled for a month after the IUD insertion, even after it was removed. I have had the greasiest grossest skin, my usually clean smelling vagina smells like garlic fish even right after a shower, I am exhausted, cramping, and getting fat even though I am watching what I eat and trying my best to be active. I have no energy from morning to night, I can’t focus on school work. I cry all the time, where when I was on depo I would only get angry, never cry. OH and nausea from sunrise to sunset. Heartburn from eating anything, even fruits and veggies. I want to loose this weight but I can barely manage life duties, let alone the gym. And I think one of the worst things is the constant exhaustion accompanied with insomnia. I can be in a dark silent room for hours with no stimuli whatsoever and the sleep will not come. I am looking into natural remedies and I am determined to get my body back. Nevertheless, it is emotionally draining and frustrating and I cry and cry and cry and cry. I just want my story to be heard, just in case someone else is suffering and feeling as alone as I do right now. This will be the longest 18 months of my life, I’m sure.
This is crazy. The only thing I was told as far as adverse effects was to not stay on it for extended time because of the bone density. I started taking it due to my inability to maintain a schedule with my pill. Had I known about all of these side effects, I wouldnt have chose this method. I was on for a little over a year, then got off and tried the pill again. That didn’t work out well and I was depressed and kept forgetting to take it… so I went back on the shot. I took 3 shots this time and stopped after the third and missed my September appointment. I have had insane amounts of migraines lately. My muscles are sore. I am weepy. I think I might be paranoid as well, but I am not sure. I am also experiencing hot and cold flashes and extremely vivid and disturbing nightmares. My acne is absolutely disgusting. I have giant puss filled zits and I have never in my life experienced this. i feel so disgusting and I used to be pretty with nice skin. I am 28. I work out and eat healthy. I drink a lot of water and nothing was this bad until I stopped the shot. I want to have another child because my daughter is now 4, but my body is sooooo out of wack. My skin is so disgusting. It is really hard for me. It is constantly oily no matter what I do. I am really afraid that I may have messed myself up for good. I havent had a shot since june. :/ last time i stopped the shot i bled a longer amount but didnt feel that it was abnormal because i hadnt been menstruating so i just got grossed out and thought it was back up from that. I also have heard from another girl that she and women she knew had miscarriages their first pregnancy after taking depo. This is terrible and I dont understand why the facts were not clearly outlined for me. This is serious stuff I would have liked to have considered during my selection process, but was only really told about the benefits of depo and just the bone density side effect and altered cycle. I hate depo so much. I feel pregnant and i knkw i am not when i would like to be. I just want to ovulate
Currently on the depo shot and I hated I been spotting for 2 months straight I’m getting off it and switching to the pill I have gain to much weight!! Now happy with it at all
Hi my name is Hailey. I have been off the depo shot for a good solid year now. I was on it a year prior for about two years after having a miscarriage. I used to have very normal periods now, I after ending the depo I am having it every 1½ to 2 weeks. Is this normal? Not only that be it is sometimes blackish maroon to a.bright red with heavy bleeding I am having unprotected sex but, it has been with the same partner for 4 years. Please help.
Hi ladies I was on depo for two and half years I was off it five months when I got pregnant I got my period the next month after missing a shot I was taking folic acid and vitamin b6 feel free to text me 07899370335
Kimbralyn thanks for info. I have been experiencing the same symptoms. I have been having sore breast and a white discharge also with no pain or smell. I stop taking my shot in October and the middle of November thats when the pain in my breast started. I thought I was pregnant but I have taken 3 test so far and they all have came back negative.I just wish my period would start back and breast stop hurting.
Wow all symtoms i have at this very moment my ahot was due november 15 2014 but i missed it and now having bad side effect everything you explained
So I took the depo shot in oct I’m due for my second shot soon…I started spotting almost a month ago. Some days it was so light i was convinced it was over, but i never actually stopped.Today I started to experience cramps as if I was starting my actual period. Have no idea if this is healthy or not? Or if it’s happened to anyone else. I don’t think I will get my second shot.
So I took the depo shot in oct I’m due for my second shot soon…I started spotting almost a month ago. Some days it was so light i was convinced it was over, but i never actually stopped.Today I started to experience cramps as if I was starting my actual period. The bleedings gotten heavier then just spotting.Have no idea if this is healthy or not? Or if it’s happened to anyone else. I don’t think I will get my second shot.
Yes. I have been bleeding since 2 weeks after october 28 to today (December 17) I am still bleeding. He told me it would be spotting. Its a period.
Briana, why are you even posting here. Go find somewhere else to be hardcore with your keyboard. Are you so insecure you have to randomly attack a stranger on the internet??? And Jasmine, take a pregnancy test. If it comes back negative, take one again in two weeks just to make sure.
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Katarina, thanks for this alert – I’ve deleted Briana’s offensive posts. In five years of managing this site, I’ve rarely deleted anything that wasn’t outright spam, but those crossed a line.
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Hi Lilly, You can find some answers about return to fertility at this other post I wrote about Depo:
https://menstruationresearch.org/2013/04/11/stopping-depo-provera-why-and-what-to-do-about-adverse-experiences/#comments
Hope you find it helpful.
Hi Katrina,
You may want to read the other post I wrote about Depo that explains some of the adverse effects you are experiencing post-Depo and offers some possible solutions.
Thanks for posting,
Laura
I hope you’ll read this other post about Depo that will explain some of the adverse effects you are experiencing. Hang in there.
https://menstruationresearch.org/2013/04/11/stopping-depo-provera-why-and-what-to-do-about-adverse-experiences/#comments
I am 20 years old I was on the depo shot for three years without stopping. I quit the depo in July of 2014 and have been off for 5& a 1/2 months now my periods were regular right away and now they are spotty and last for about two weeks i don’t know if it’s my hormones acting up because of depo or because I may be pregnant. ??? Also I had a miscaridge in June 2012 before I stopped the depo I don’t know if that helps at all but I would like to know if anyone has any info…
I am 20 years old I was on the depo shot for three years without stopping. I quit the depo in July of 2014 and have been off for 5& a 1/2 months now my periods were regular right away and now they are spotty and last for about two weeks i don’t know if it’s my hormones acting up because of depo or because I may be pregnant. ??? Also I had a miscaridge in June 2013 before I stopped the depo I don’t know if that helps at all but I would like to know if anyone has any info…
When I came off the depo shot, I bled for 4 months.
yes this is normal and is also currently happening to me. It has to do with the cervical mucus
I originally started taking the depo shot three years ago because of super heavy and long periods that made me black out and constantly naucious and just got off of it six months ago. My periods didn’t come the first few months, but now they wouldn’t stop. I’d have my period last around two weeks and then it would only stop for about a week before lasting two more weeks. I have at least two or three migraines a week and my boobs hurt constantly without even touching them. I’ve gained about 10 pounds, my acne has gotten bad, and I get super moody. I’m not sure how much of that is from coming off of the shot or just because I’m 16. I really hope the this does not last to much longer.
That’s crazy I was on depo and then got off of it I have breast cramps and then I’m back on it again and been on my period for two weeks and I feel sick and stuff to its crazy because I did not have those v amps till I got back on again
Hey I m 22 and I just came off my first depo shot a week ago during the 3 months of depo shot I sometimes had bleeding on and off (mostly after sex)now I want to get pregnant I haven’t gt my period but I spotted a drop of blood on the day I was supposed to hav my second shot I experience slight pain in my abdomen but no any other problem is it possible for me to get pregnant ?plz help
ive been taking the depo shot since i was 16 and im 22 now i stopped taking it in august andi got my period on december 25 i was in a lot of pain the cramps were the worst i cried myself to sleep i couldnt even eat my breast are still sore i thought i was pregnant but im not my period only stayed for 3 days and it stopped.. now im scared to have sexual intercorse because i dont noe if its gonnah come back again
I was on depo for 4 years got off a month ago. Severe headaches everyday cant eat without throwing up light headed alot and nausus. Did anyone else have these problems and how long did they last idk how much longer I can stand it and im not pregnant
So ive been off of depo since april.13 2014. Istarted having regular periods in august, but this month it was different. A week after my period ibled for 3 days & then it stopped. Ive also been having a whole lot of unprotected sex the entire time ihave been off of depo, & im not pregnant. It’s been nearly a year.
Hey I read you comment I got off the shot the exact same time you did. I go through stages. The first few weeks getting off of it every time I would eat or drink anything that wasn’t water I would feel like throwing up. I think it’s normal but I also don’t know due to the fact that I can’t find any straight answers as to what is going on with my body and it’s making me nuts.
So it’s been six months since my last shot was due and I swear I will never have this injection again. It’s completely ruined my body and my advice is to seek alternative contraception, or at least understand the consequences.
I am still two stone over weight and am trying to work out and eat healthy, but my body just will not go back to its normal weight of 10 stone.
For the first three months since my injection was due, my periods came every two weeks. For the last three months, they have moved to every 3 weeks. This gives me hope that they will regulate to a monthly cycle soon.
My breasts are still sore and I still have pregnancy like symptoms, although I know this is just the effect of this awful contraception.
Please remember although everyone is different, I only had one shot!
So six months later since my shot was due and 9 months since I last had the shot and I am still not normal.
I think if anyone is concerned about being pregnant after having this shot or trying to get off it, then they should really check it out with their health practitioner. But from experience this shot will give you every symptom of being pregnant and will play with your body, your emotions and therefore your sanity for a long time afterwards.
Just no what you are dealing with is my advice!
I am so glad I found this page. I have been online talking to some woman about post depo and sharing stories but this page seems better.
I only had 2 depo injections the last being in June. I never went back to the dr for my third shot due to my random awful side effects. Since my last shot was due I’ve had constant brown discharge daily maybe four days without discharge but that’s it. I thought I was having a period last month as I had a more reddish heavier discharge but it didn’t seem to be a period. Even though my last injection was June I am only now starting to experience anxiety and depression it’s awful! A few months ago I could fall asleep as soon as I went to bed but now I struggle to relax my mind and fall asleep. I am also moody and little things irritate me, for example if TV is too loud etc I just want to feel normal again.. Whatever that is! May I just add I have zero sex drive which is also causing problems In my relationship. This injection must be the cause and after sharing my side effects with other women who are post depo feel a little relieved but still upset that I can’t feel my old self. Please continue to share your stories as it does help x
I was put on the depo shot for stage 3 endometriosis. I have now been on the Depo shot for 11 months. It is sad to say it hasn’t helped me for the pain, and the cons are worse then the pros.
1. It gave me severe acne for 10.5 months
2. I get a weeks worth of headaches after every shot.
3. A few days after the shot, I get a day of
depression/anxiety
4. 25 pound weight gain in 6 months
5. Bone, hip, and knee pain for 2 weeks after the shot. To
the point of where it feels like my knee is going to pop out.
6. Near constant spotting or bleeding through the WHOLE process.
7. Almost daily Endometriosis pain, it never stopped it more then 15 days out of almost 365.
8. Some itching at the shot site for 2 weeks.
Now, some good things….. It totally helped with my PMS mood swings. Like I rarely had a problem.
And it let me have normal girl cramps. Like I didn’t know I started my real period. I was pleasantly surprised about the pain level for my periods.
I’ve been on it for a year and I do not like it at all..when I first get the shot I’ll be good for 2wks no spotting or nothing and then until my next shot I am bleeding ..like I have a full blow cycle for most of the year and I thought it would get better by each shot but it didn’t
I was on depo for one year. Since coming off this (last shot should have been Dec 7) I have no desire to be on this anymore so I decided I was done. Well since being off this shot I am miserable. My boobs are sore and swollen and hurt like Hell, I am achy, usually just arms neck and hands but my entire body at times. I thought I had the flu even went to my family doctor and blood work and everything were normal. If I would have known I would have to live this way for months I would have never had this shot. I have googled everything and just want to know have other people experienced all these aches and pains??? I am soo sick of feeling like this.
I experienced the same thing got the shot Oct. 17,2014 was due for another jan2 didn’t get it I have been bleeding for 2months on and off Deppression body aches just feeling bad only had 1 shot never again will I get this
I was on the shot for about a year and I was due for another one on Christmas but never had time for it. Now, I bleed like no other, but it’s on and off, and the blood looks like I just sliced my arm open. I’m constantly moody & I’ve broken out real bad. I’m not sure if I should just get back on the shot or try something else. When I was on the shot, the first two weeks I wouldn’t bleed, but then after that, I bled until the next shot.
I got the shot in the beginning of August & was supposed to get my 2nd shot before thanksgiving but I refused! I had non stop bleeding & at one time I cramped really bad, worse than. I ever have. I never cramped when I didn’t take Depo. It’s been 6 months since I’ve taken the shot & I feel horrible!!! I have gained so much wait, I ache, I’m moody all the time, & nauseous. . I just feel so worn out! HELP. Does anyone know how long after taking Depo the side effects go away???? I CANNOT take this anymore. I feel pregnant all the time. I just want to feel normal!
I’ve always had painful periods, i’ve tried the pill and the patch and they made me psycho with irregular periods and the patch would fall off. After having my first son (he’s 7 now) I first started the shot bc is was ok to use while breastfeeding. I was on it for about 9 months with no problems, I actually loved it bc my periods went away! When I came off to try and get pregnant again I had a really difficult time conceiving and acne began to flare up. Finally after 3.5 yrs I became pregnant with my 2nd son (who is now 3) and after having him I got right back on the depo shot and have been on it ever since. My acne is worse than ever and I’m putting on more weight, which now is depressing me! I’m also not very motivated to work out due to my acne, I feel I cannot go in public without 2 pounds of makeup… I feel like this all happened within the last year and don’t know why? Im afraid to come off of it though… Painful periods and all the other side effects I’ve read about. Has anybody experienced this? Any advice would be appreciated
I’ve been off the shot 2 months now and have non stop spotting. The mood swings are insane. My cramps and back pain are intense …I feel emotionally unstable …
I have been on depo since getting a D&C IN 2013. I didnt even realize i had been on that long. I missed my last shot in December of 2014 and now my boobd hurt like they are engorged like when i had my kids. I mean these boobs are swollen and they HURT! And then my legs get so still and hurt like they ate gonna break off my body. Some days i cant hardly get up to walk. Finally a nurse told me that o should be taking calcium pills. And they do help they work better than pain meds but the pain comes back. As i write this right now laying in my bed my legs hurt like hell. Sorry to curse but im 30 and i feel like im 80 with evert type of arthritis there is
ive been on the depo shot for almost 10 years and finally decided 3 months ago when I was due for my next shot not to do it because I want to one day have children and im almost 30 years old plus I feel that I do not want toxins in my body from being on the shot for so many years ( I was never told that I shouldn’t be on it for more than 2 years) . the past 3 months that ive been off the shot ive noticed that I constantly have been getting really bad headaches , depression, and tiredness and ive never experienced these symptoms before … the only good thing is that my skin has cleared up because I feel the depo was causing my horrible acne. My question is will these symptoms go away soon if they are from stopping the use of getting the depo shot?? has anyone else experienced this ?
I have had similar sypmtoms as well, but not all of them. I was on depo for nearly two years in total with a small break in the middle because i was unable to find a doctor for a short period of time when i moved states. But now ive decided recently to not take anymore shots since im over two years now. Im having spotting issues every week for two to four days at a time. The cramps suck. And my main problem is SLEEP. I sleep constantly! Like right now i just woke up from six hours about an hour ago and i wanna go back to bed already! Also i het leg pains that feel like horrid growing pains. My pelvic area right before my thighs stiff up sometimes to where if i move too sudden they almost make a pop but i end up suddenly stopping it because it hurts a like living hell. My hips ache alot and it feels like im in my late fortys with arthritus. Now mind you im only just recently 21 years old….i dont have breast tenderness though. Anyways…..whatever anyone does you shouldnt take depo if your considering it as a contrasceptive…just be safe by using condoms and paying attention to make sure you dont get pregnant of your not ready.
I had my first depo shot in sept was supposed to get my second on in december but didn’t, my cycle has not returned and I’m always moody and feel pregnant with all the symptoms
I was on depo for 5 years and 1 month. My doctor said it was safe since I was healthy. I have been off of it for 2ish months and my boobs hurt as if they were bruised and got really big. My period is just comming back and im scared its going to come back with a vengeance. Has anyone dealt with this before? How bad was your period?
I’ve been having a really bad reaction in my scalp since I have gotten off the depo shot it’s very itchy and irraiting I was On it for 4 years .. Can anybody help me. ?
Im 33 and had my shot in June 14, i decided not to have my second shot in September. It’s now January and I’ve had my first period sinc and is like hell.. Pain in my back, stomach and breasts.. My period is really heavy with very large clots, which I found shocking. Wheras when in my 20s I had my shot regularly. No problems, if I missed a shot my period would start within days.. Now feeling like a mad women, my emotions are all over the place.
Im 33 and had my shot in June 14, i decided not to have my second shot in September. It’s now January and I’ve had my first period sinc and is like hell.. Pain in my back, stomach and breasts.. My period is really heavy with very large clots, which I found shocking. Wheras when in my 20s I had my shot regularly. No problems, if I missed a shot my period would start within days.. Now feeling like a mad women, my emotions are all over the place. Eshot
I have been on deposit for 2 years and been off of it going on 6 months and my breast are extremely tender, especially my nipples. Also a lot of acne and feeling like im pregnant all the time. I also did not get my period back yet and I’m terrified! I will never go back on this again
Hi, I also have the same problem. I stopped having injectibles two months ago and I already had two set of longer periods. One was last December 28 which went on for almost two weeks. I thought it was the start of my regular periods but just today, I am bleeding again. Worse bleeding like I just had a miscarriage. Does anyone knows what to do? I would like to go to the doctor but this might be a usual case for a woman who stopped taking that contraceptive. I hope someone can help us or tell us what is the best thing to do. Should I really need to see a doctor? Thank you so much!
Hi, I also have the same problem. I stopped having injectibles two months ago and I already had two sets of longer periods. One was last December 28 which went on for almost two weeks. I thought it was the start of my regular periods but just today, I am bleeding again. Worse bleeding like I just had a miscarriage. Does anyone knows what to do? I would like to go to the doctor but this might be a usual case for a woman who stopped taking that contraceptive. I hope someone can help us or tell us what is the best thing to do. Should I really need to see a doctor? Thank you so much!
These bleeding episodes are common for some women who quit Depo. For more information about why they are occurring and what you might do if they persist please read the second post I wrote called: Stopping Depo-Provera: Why and What To Do About Adverse Effects. I’m sure you’ll find it reassuring and helpful. Here’s the link:
https://menstruationresearch.org/2013/04/11/stopping-depo-provera-why-and-what-to-do-about-adverse-experiences/
Thanks for posting,
Laura Wershler
Dear Laura,
Thank you so much! For replying fast and for being helpful. Will read it! 🙂
I went on the depo shot at 16 for non pregnancy reasons. My cycles were very painful and draining to the point I couldn’t function regularly. I strongly feel like hormone imbalances led to other unrelated symptoms I was having: digestive issues, extreme fatigue, headaches. The convienience of only having a few periods of year was something I was longing for. Within 3 months of being on the shot I gained 20 lbs.. which was about the only unpleasant symptom until now. 2 years off the shot my body is still not regular, my periods became even MORE heavy the symptoms have amplified x10, I’m not ovulating. hoping in the future i won’t experience fertility issues. I’m just desperate to have my body balanced again. If I would’ve known the effects the depo shot would have on me long term I would have never considered it as an option or birth control in general.
I been on the depo provera for 6 months. It was my first time ever using any kind of birth control. My last shot was Dec 22, 2014 and I was due for the next one on Feb, 22, 2014 but I never went back. After I got off, I started experiencing most of the symptoms that are described above e.g mood swings, bloading, weight gains, headache, sporting for two weeks but light. Now after almost a year being off the depo shot I still feels that my body is not back to it’s normality. For the past three months though my period seems like it’s becoming normal and it comes monthly now but not sure if am ovulating. Now am so ready to start my family but it’s seems like it’s taking so long but I hope and pray that by the end of this year God will us with a child. I regret getting depo shot much!! Only if I did I a little research before the injection it would have been a different story. Please for those of you out there that want to try, please think twice. Now my question is, did anyone get injected in their bottom right/upper abdomen? Is is suppose to be injected in that part of yourbody? Would it decreased my chances of having kids or conceiving now? Because the nurse that gave me injection, she shot me at bottom of my right abdomen. Thanks for sharing yall experiences. This is a lesson.
I was on the shot for maybe about a year and a half and I decided not to tak it anymore due to the side affects happening whole I was on it. I now am regretting taking this shot because they warned me about the side affects while on the shot but never warned me about what would happen after words. I gained 30 pounds, I have an abnormal period, my breasts are tender, I’m moody all the time, and i have syptoms that make it seem like I’m pregnant. I just want to know when this is all supposed to end because I have been off the shot for nearly 2-3 months now and I can’t take it anymore! I need a regular period and I need to feel more comfortable with my body.
hi, my last shot was just last december 30, 2014. i just wanna ask if i can be pregnant immediately, as in now? because my OB told me that i’ll be fertile again on january 12. so i’m confused.
hi, my last shot on december 30, 2014. i just wanna ask if i can be pregnant immediately, as in now? because my OB told me that i’ll be fertile again on january 12. so i’m confused.
hi, my last shot due on december 30, 2014. just wanna ask if i can be pregnant immediately, as in now? because my OB told me that i’ll be fertile again on january 12. so i’m confused.
hi, my last shot due on december 30, 2014. just wanna ask if i can be pregnant immediately, as in now? because my OB told me that i’ll be fertile again on january 12.
hi, my last shot due on december 30, 2014. just wanna ask if i can be pregnant immediately, as in now?
hi, my last shot due on december 30, 2014. just wanna ask if i can be pregnant immediately?
can i be pregnant immediately after stopping the shot for not more than 1 month?
hi all. I’m 24I was on the shot for nearly 2 years, was due for my last shot in December but decided not to due to massive mood swings. I was fine on it, didn’t get my period at all which was great, did gain weight and was extremely moody and irritable.
I am angry that the doctors do not tell us more about this drug, the havoc it causes to your body.
Been off it a month now, for the first month my breasts were very tender and just ached, they couldn’t be touched at all they were just top sensitive.
I got my first period since it last week which was fine, except for the horrible cramps before it (which I never used to get) My period stopped for a day and now it’s almost like it’s back again, but more like breakthrough bleeding that just won’t stop. . I’m so upset that the doctor didn’t properly inform about what happens on and off this needle. I just want my body to go back to its normal balance so I can learn who I am without all this hormones and mood swings! .. I feel ya ladies. This sucks
Hi Meryl, Your OBGYN cannot predict your return to fertility, and she should have known and told you that most women will take months to return to fertility post-Depo depending on the state of your cycle before you started Depo and the length of time you were on it. To learn more about what you might experience in the next few months, and the process required for your body to get back to normal hormonal function, check out the other post on this blog about stopping Depo. You can find it here:
https://menstruationresearch.org/2013/04/11/stopping-depo-provera-why-and-what-to-do-about-adverse-experiences/
All the best.
I had the same issue!
But my period took 10 months till it came back. And I also have extremely horrible acne and my boob are sore. To the point bras are painful to wear.
Give it some time. It all has to get out of your system. Lest its what IV been telling myself. Instead of being upset over acne and soar boobs.
I had only 2 shots of depo my last shot was June 2014.
I had constant brown discharge from while I was on it to when I came off right up until last week I now have had tender boobs,urinating more and no disharge. I have pregnant symptoms and no period but my last shot was 7 months ago what is going on! Some people have said maybe this is my body starting to get back to normal but I just wish I would get a period so that I know what’s going in
I had only 2 shots of depo my last shot was June 2014.
I had constant brown discharge from while I was on it to when I came off right up until last week I now have had tender boobs,urinating more and no disharge. I have pregnant symptoms and no period but my last shot was 7 months ago what is going on! Some people have said maybe this is my body starting to get back to normal but I just wish I would get a period so that I know what’s going in
I had only 2 shots of depo my last shot was June 2014.
I had constant brown discharge from while I was on it to when I came off right up until last week I now have had tender boobs,urinating more and no disharge. I have pregnant symptoms and no period but my last shot was 7 months ago what is going on! Some people have said maybe this is my body starting to get back to normal but I just wish I would get a period so that I know what’s going in
I had only 2 shots of depo my last shot was June 2014.
I had constant brown discharge from while I was on it to when I came off right up until last week I now have had tender boobs,urinating more and no disharge. I have pregnant symptoms and no period but my last shot was 7 months ago what is going on! Some people have said maybe this is my body starting to get back to normal but I just wish I would get a period so that I know what’s going in
i have been the depo for 5 years and i got off of it in August and i have not got nothing yet it sucks bc my body is messed up from it and i am still waiting.
I’m 21 and have been on the depo for just over a year I’ve had 6 injections 3 of them 2 weeks early for the constant bleeding, I was mainly using the depo as a prevention for bleeding as my gp told me it would help, after having the injection my bum would ache for three days my mood swings were uncontrollable, my relationship nearly broke down as i was so emotionally unstable I didn’t feel like a woman, i couldn’t make love with my boyfriend constantly staying in because didn’t want to be to far from a toilet, my legs would ache like someone had stamped all over them to the point I would cry in bed and my bf would feel so helpless because it was so unexplainable, I would get boils on my face that would stay for weeks on end and the general fatigue and nausea many people get the only side effect i didn’t get was the weight gain, I’ve decided not to have another injection I’m due for one on the 2nd of Feb, I’ve now stopped bleeding about two weeks ago for the first time in a year and I feel free again I don’t want to feel hormonal anymore, and I would advise anyone to use condoms don’t fill your body will man made chemicals they all have side effects.
my last shot should have been oct 22, 2014 and i have been off of birth control since. i had all the nightmares of spotting and breakthrough bleeding,mood swings and weight gain by 25 lbs while taking it for a little over a year, but now that im off it i still haven’t gotten a period, my boobs have hurt like hell and has only gotten worse over the past two weeks id say. and ive already taken two at home pregnancy tests just to try to figure out whats going on, but they were negative. dr appt early feb 4th should hopefully shed some light on this…
I was on depo since February 2013 and had my last shot August 2014… I was extremely fertile before the shot n just wasn’t ready. But now I plan to have a baby or conceive next january 2016. I haven’t had my period or spotting the entire time on depo which was great. When should I expect to start ? My last shot was due october 22 but I didn’t go. I know bleeding will signify my cycle trying to get back in order ….
I was on the shot for almost two years, my doctors wanted to me to quit for a couple of unrelated reasons. Since then, about four months after my last shot I started gaining weight uncontrollably, I’ve now gained almost 20lbs I was originally 115 lbs and I’m 5 2′ and 21 yrs old. I now weigh 138 lbs and all that weight has been from the past 3 months.. And on top of that my breast have been extremely swollen and tender and so heavy! If I knew this was going to happen I would have never taken it..
I was on the deppo for 2 years, I’m not having much problem coming off of it. But it’s only been 2 months. I do have strange spotting though. I got off the shot due to it giving me cysts on my ovaries that caused me to have unbearable cramping. I’d never had a cyst ever anywhere in my life until I got on the shot. After my second shot I got a glandular cyst on my breast, at first I thought maybe it had been from breast feeding until about 4 months ago when my ob told me I had cysts onmy ovaries. Now imI’m convinced the shot caused it. After being off of it I do sometimes get bad cramps from the cysts. But before I had ever been on the shot I’d never even had real cramps before. Just a warning please get checked for cysts. I’ve not yet been back to see if they’re cancerous yet.
You may want to get checked for cysts on your ovaries. I’ve been having this problem, started having the cramps my last 2 shots. My Dr said I have cysts on my ovaries. Never had this problem before until I’d been on the shot for 2 years. I still have to go back to see if they’re cancerous..
I’ve been on the depo shot for over 2 and a half years and I love it! I never had any negative symptoms; no mood swings, weight gain, unusual cramps, boob/bone pain or irritability. I haven’t had a period in over 2 years and it’s been wonderful! I’ve been taking Calcium and Vitamin D daily to help counteract the bone density and it seems to be doing just fine.
Oh man, it’s so good reading these comments. I was due for my shot on December 15th, and after MONTHS of horrible headaches, middle school quality acne and constant spotting I got so fed up I didn’t get it. (That would have only been my 3rd shot). I didn’t go on any other type of birth controls, and for the last 10-14 days I’ve been thinking I might be pregnant. I’ve heard it happens… but it all started with the aching boobs, then the emotional roller coaster, hip/lower back pain, couldn’t sleep due to not being comfortable, nausea set in, sudden hits of vertigo (while resting). Took a home pregnancy test, negative. Was still worried I could be pregnant when my mom mentioned its probably from going off of Depo. So a quick google search and I stumble across all these other comments where other women were/are experiencing the same as me. Whew! Still made an appointment for the 5th, just to make sure that negative pregnancy test was correct, and to hopefully find a new BC that doesn’t bring hell upon my life and body.
My last shot was June 2014. I was due for a shot Aug 28th but decided against it. I had a period the whole time I was on depo 1 1/2 years. Since I got off the shot I haven’t bled since Sept 5th. Now I’ve gained some weight and my breasts and nipples hurt very badly. I don’t notice the pain until something rubs against it. Anyone having these issues? I love not having a period but it does scare me. I didn’t know if have all these side effects. My doctors that I had then have never talked about them. I want to be able to have children one day but until I get a period back that won’t be happening. I’m just sick of feeling bad from gaining weight and this new breast pain.
I want to count myself lucky to be african,cos I complained sometime ago about this injection. I was able to get herbs to clean my womb and under 2hours,I started my period normally and I have menstruated again after my normal 27days…please guys spread it across for friends and colleagues not to do this preventive measure,continually storage of blood in us after taking this injection can cause fibroid and this is what we never banked for,I am perfect and back to normal after 2years,,my last short was in feb. To others in pain,I wish you a fast recovery. Cheers
Hey, I’m 20 years old and this is my second time on the shot. The first time was about 2 years ago and I was on it for about a year. Was very moody, nausea, and weight gain but I had no period. I got off of it mainly because of the weight gain. I recently got the shot again to prevent pregnancy and it’s been hell. I been spotting for two months, I was due to get a shot last week but mug insurance got cut off and I wasn’t able to. I been having extremely bad headaches and nausea !!! re thinking getting it again. Thought I was the only one going through this!!!
Just a question, I get notifications daily of more and more posts from women who are experiencing an absolute nightmare, like myself. Can’t these posts be shown or submitted to the FDA? Its astounding the lack of research and medical information about the side effects of coming off the depo…it seems like the issues are widespread and not only does these side effects not only of going on the depp, but coming off too need to be discussed by health care professionals with us. There also needs to be some sort of plan (based on unbiased research and testing) to help women coming of the depo. Other wise it needs to be banned immediately.
Wow. I’ve experienced the same thing and never connected the two until reading this! I’ve been more focused on the exteme breast tenderness, and didnt think the scalp Issue was related.
Hi I’m 22 I got on depo on august of 2012 my last shot was supposed to be on October 13 2014 but I don’t get it in I didn’t have any spotting or anything until December 27 2014 I spotted till December 30 2014 the again on January 9 2015 till January 12 2015 it’s now January 24 2015 and I started bleeding like a normal period.before I started depo my period only lasted 3 days but since I got off the shot my brests have been sore the last 3 weeks .my boyfriend and I want to have a baby.how long will it take for my body to get back to normal all the way
I had been on the shot for almost 3 years and never again will I be on it. My last shot was due in October 2014 but I had learned a few scary things about the shot and I refused to stay on it. I didn’t gain any weight but my joints hurt a lot and my shoulders half popped out several times. Since I’ve been off the shot my mood is ever ware and I’m sometimes depressed. I’ve broken out bad with acne. And I still have not a period since October, it’s now January.
I’m 20, and had been on depo for almost 2 years. I was on from Oct 2012 – Jul 2013 should have been my date for my next shot but I missed it due to not having time to go to the doctors. I then had to wait for my period to return which wasn’t until Dec 2013, so 5months since my missed depo. Then from Dec 2013 – Aug 2014 I was on depo again. Again Aug should have been my shot date however this time I decided not to get it again, rather than just not having time to get it. So from the end of Aug 2014, it’s now the end of Jan 2015 and still no period, not even any signs, no spotting, no darker discharge, or any other telltale signs, nothing at all. I’m starting to get so frustrated because the main reason I came off was because I had put on so much weight, and not just the 5lbs they suggest, for me I can fluctuate 5lbs in a day, I put on SERIOUS weight during these 2 years like 3 stone! My diet hasn’t changed since before depo to now, and if anything I’m more active now than I ever have been. I worked in retail for 6 months where I was constantly on my feet all day walking stairs doing heavy lifting and walking to and from work which is a good 20 mins at a brisk pace. I even started walking to uni everyday which is a 15 minute walk up hill, up a very steep hill. And after all that, no change in weight, nothing at all except the usual fluctuations of a about a few pounds from week to week.
I’m so pissed that I can’t lose weight, especially when I’ve tried at it, I feel like whats the point in even trying because whether I exercise or not, I stay exactly the same! The weight gain was so fast as well it’s left me with massive purple stretch marks, reaching from bellow my belly button, almost up to my breasts, like they cover my whole stomach, I also have them on my breasts and on my arms (massive bingo wings -_- I swear if I flapped my arms enough I could take off.) My moods are all over the place. I always feel stressed. I always feel down. When will this hell end!?!?!?!?!? I’m hoping when my periods start again (right now it feels as though they never will) that my body will get back to normal and I can start to lose all this weight. This is what has been getting me down the most, bless my boyfriend for staying with me and still thinking I look hot when I clearly do not.
Am i the only one who has a tingling sensation in my vagina?
iv been on it for almost 3 years and haven’t had a period since the first shot. iv now decided to stop and its only been about three weeks since i was suppose to get the shot and iv already had one day that i had cramps so bad they felt like mini contractions and made me physically sick but other than that no signs of getting my period i know this can take a while but is it normal to have cramps that bad? and if any one else has had this happen did you keep getting the cramps until you got your period back?
I took the Depo shot one time and didn’t like it. I had a period for 3 weeks that next month and now no period this month. Should I be worried or does it take a while for me to be regular again?
I had went on depo after taking Micronor as my Dr said that they were the same except it was in a shot. I was starting to forget to take my pill so I opted for the depo until my boyfriend got snipped. I was supposed to get my second shot on Nov 21 but I would never take depo again. I have had so much problems. The same night I had gotten my first shot I had intense hot flashes , vivid nightmares, Cold sweats and they only continued as well as acne, fatigue, pregnancy symptoms, severe motion sickness, migraines my joints, knees, fingers shoulders and ankles all ache. I didnt gain any weight while I was on the the deop but as soon as I stopped I have gained 20lbs! I still feel pregnant, I have not gotten a period but get the feeling its coming all the time. Severe cramps, random mood swings and depression. I wouldnt reccomend it to anyone.
Hi I had 3 shot of depo (started january 2014)I was sappose to take another 1 in october 2014 I ddnt now its february 2015 my periods hasn’t come what going on when are they comming back is this 1 of Depos side effect? Or I have a problem!
Hi I had 3 shot of depo (started january 2014)I was sappose to take another 1 in october 2014 I ddnt now its february 2015 my periods hasn’t come what going on when are they comming back is this 1 of Depos side effect? Or I have a problem?
I got my last shot in August 2014 and I still haven’t gotten my period. I’m worried, I keep hoping it will come. Is this normal?
I’ve been on the shot off and on through out the years but this year 2015 I’ve decided not to get it anymore. I didn’t like the mood swings I was having. Also me being hot most of the time had me feeling bad. My breast are also sore. I was suppose to get my shot last month and I’ve started my cycle at the end of last month for 5 days. Usually My cycles are heavy but this time it wasn’t too bad. I’m still having hot flashes at this time. I just want it to get completely out of my system…. Ughhh
I had my first depo needle may 2013 when my daughter was 4 weeks old. It was wonderful, I had no period, I didn’t put weight on. It wasn’t until I read about it being “a woman’s worst nightmare” that I thought of coming off it.I knew that within that year I would want to start trying for baby number two and was question of it taking a while to get back to normal. I had my last needle April 2014 and have been through hell. I have had numerous pregnancy symptoms and can’t tell you how many tests I have done, I have been sent home from work falling asleep at my desk now I have started to gain weight and I have horrible period pains. I have been tested for just about everything diabetes,thyroid everything is negative and am yet to have a period. I have had no answers from any Drs they all give different answers I’ve been told to research it myself and the only thing that I can put together is that it is from coming off this injection. I wish somebody would have advised me to stay away from this I deffinatly wouldn’t recommend it to anyone!
Hi Britney my side effects are the same as yours even thou I only got three shots & decided to stop.Been feeling horrible for two months & even thou each day is a struggle I try to keep my head up….I just want to feel normal ASAP!!!
i just wanted to let everyone know that it does get better. I’ve gone through hell sense I got my last shot which was in August of 2014. At first I couldn’t eat or drink anything without feeling sick. I started to break out horribly and I was so bloated it felt like I was actually going to pop. The pregnancy symptoms that I got were so bad my boobs couldn’t even be grazed by a shirt when I was changing without having pain. One day i l literally slept through the entire day the shot made me so exhausted for about a week I could barely keep my eyes open. I had cramps so bad I couldn’t even walk at some points and my mood swings and irritability were so bad I would freak out at anything and if I started crying about something I couldn’t stop. I’m just thankful that my boyfriend stuck through it with me even though I was going completely crazy but it’s now February 10th and I’ve finally gotten my period last night. I was super crampy because my body was so used to not having periods for almost three years but it is such a relief and I already feel better. I know some people it takes up to a year to get there period but I promise it’s not going to be like this forever I wish I never got on the shot and sometimes I would just break down and cry with the frustration of not being able to control my body and my emotions. Just stick it out and do the best you can.
I had my first shot on October 25th/2014. I’m 17, and its one of the worst things i decided to do. I got my period on November 4th and it didnt end until January 25th. it was the worst couple of months. The cramps, heavy flow, mood swings, weight gain. Im glad my boyfriend even managed to stay with me. Once my period ended Jan 25, things were fine until Feb 1st when i had gotten my period again, but this time it only lasted 5 days, which is normal for me. But on Feb 8th it started again, and its very heavy, im not sure if this ones even going to end on time, im terrified i will have it for mo ths again.. i cant handle having my period anymore.
I have had 2 shots of the depo shot one on July 23rd 2014 and one on September 24th 2014 I was supposed to get another one on december 22nd 2014 but I missed the appointment so on January 12th 2015 I told my doctor the things I have been experiancing which was mood swings and spotting for 2 or 3 weeks of each the month since I started the shot. I told him I wanted to switch to another birth control. So my cycle would return to normal. He gave me a prescription for the pill. I didn’t want to start the pills right away because I was having symptoms like I was pregnant so I said to Justin I will wait until I start my period. The last month has been hell I’m having more symptoms of being pregnant I’m gaining weight like crazy amounts of weight mood swings like crazy I’m surprised justin is still with me, I’m having LOTS OF GAS like all day and diarrhea as well I haven’t started my period yet and no spotting at all… until I found this site I swore I was pregnant thanks to my sister Jamie Holloway I have peace of mind she told me I could be side effects from the shot so I looked it up and I wish I never got the shot in the first place.
I forgot to mention I’ve taken 3 pregnancy test one ( from the dollar tree) on the first of February and 1 ( from the dollar tree) the 5th or 6th of February and 1 ( from winn-dixie) today all were negative
Hi. I have been on Depo for about 6 years now with no severe side effects other than weight gain. I want to get off it now, but should I let my body take a break all together? What is the best birth control to take after being on the depo for so long?
I just wanted to thank you for your comment. I am experiencing all of those terrible things since coming off of the depo. I stopped in October after being on it for three years. I thought I may need to go to the hospital but after reading your comment I realize that eventually it will pass.
My Dr took me off depo in Nov 2014 (been on depo for 7 years) due to me going to the er cause of horrible nausea and unbearable cramps and told me to start my birth control pills on Sunday….at the end of my first pack I had break through bleeding for 5 days like a period but after my 2nd and now my 3rd pack no period…. Had nausea, cramps, barely able to eat without feeling sick, so I took 2 pregnancy tests (both negative)….but its driving me crazy bc I still have not had a period yet….is this normal? I need to know just to ease my mind…someone please help!!!!
Has anyone had hair loss, thining, changes to growth rate ??
Hi I’m 10 and I only had one Deposit shot in July of 2014 and was due again in August but lost insurance and never went back blah blah. I didn’t have my period for a while just some light bleeding but now the terrible psychological symptoms are the only thing to warn me. I just bled heavily for 5 days straight, stopped for like 1 and a half and now am bleeding heavily again. My lower abdomen hurts so bad it’s hard to walk. Getting the shot was the first and only time I’ve visited a gyno since and since I was a virgin (still am) he said I didn’t need an exam. So I don’t know if the shot is still having effects, even though it has been about 5 months. I take medicine for anxiety and an antidepressant. Any ideas?
Hi I’m and I only had one Deposit shot in July of 2014 and was due again in August but lost insurance and never went back blah blah. I didn’t have my period for a while just some light bleeding but now the terrible psychological symptoms are the only thing to warn me. I just bled heavily for 5 days straight, stopped for like 1 and a half and now am bleeding heavily again. My lower abdomen hurts so bad it’s hard to walk. Getting the shot was the first and only time I’ve visited a gyno since and since I was a virgin (still am) he said I didn’t need an exam. So I don’t know if the shot is still having effects, even though it has been about 5 months. I take medicine for anxiety and an antidepressant. Any ideas?
Hi I’m 19 and I only had one Depo shot in July of 2014 and was due again in October but lost insurance and never went back blah blah. I didn’t have my period for a while just some light bleeding but now the terrible psychological symptoms are the only thing to warn me. I just bled heavily for 5 days straight, stopped for like 1 and a half and now am bleeding heavily again. My lower abdomen hurts so bad it’s hard to walk. Getting the shot was the first and only time I’ve visited a gyno since and since I was a virgin (still am) he said I didn’t need an exam. So I don’t know if the shot is still having effects, even though it has been about 5 months. I take medicine for anxiety and an antidepressant. Any ideas?
Hi I am 50 years old and have been on depo for 8 years, was put on this shot for high blood pressure (supposedly better for you than the pill). I tried to come off the shot about 2 years and experienced horrendous periods, they would go for 7 days and I would be up all night every night with it, so I went back on it just to stop the bleeding. My weight has ballooned over the past 5 years and it’s very hard to get it off. My last shot was approx. 5 months ago and now I am experiencing abdomen pain, bloating and other abdominal issues. Currently going for tests to make sure it’s nothing else but after researching depo I believe it’s the symptoms of getting off this insidious shot and women should be made more aware of its side effects.
Morgan, being 10, 19 or any age, why on earth would you take any type of contraception if you are still a virgin? You havent mentioned that it is to control your periods/cycle, so I don’t really understand why you would.
All I can say, apart from not recommending Depo to anyone, is please be patient and understand your hormones and bodily cycles and functions will be screwed up for a very long time. Even after one shot!!! It can affect everything.
I am 10 months in from having my first and only shot and whilst I am getting a period every 24 days now. I still suffer from mood swings and can’t control my weight etc. (I do exercise and eat healthy, but have turned into a fat fricker because of this drug).
Just remember that I f anything is different to how it was before you took Depo, be certain that it is the affect of Depo.
I started taking Depo in December 2013 and I only stayed on it for a year. In just one year the only time I didn’t have a period was for about 2 months otherwise I was constantly bleeding. I’ve had numerous BV’s and other simple infections and I’ve gain 30lbs. Since I’ve stopped the shot I’ve been tired, moody, having pregnancy symptoms and having motion sickness. I would never recommend this shot to anyone. I have some girl friends who love it and haven’t had any problems at all. But where I live some doctors refuse to give it out because they know the risks.
Dear Victoria I am so glad I’m not the only one! I’m experiencing the same symptoms and I was starting to think there was something wrong with me!! But this past year my body has changed so much! I had to get off the depo bc of it interfering with my medications a lot! So I bloated up and my obeying said its from the depo and suggested I get off it. I feel like I’m pregnant, I’m. Tired all the time, and I’m crampy! I just want to thank you for your re-assurance bc I sometimes think this is forever and I cannot stand it! Thank you again for posting your comment!
I have been on the shot since Sept 2013…I haven’t had a shot in 2 months and no cycle just spotting,i only had light bleeding never had a full period. But now I have a loss of appetite for like 2weeks… Is this normal..will my period ever get back on track
Update: after my month of hell from going off of Depo I went and saw my OBGYN and she gave me the nuvaring. It took about a week and a half and I’m finally back to my old self. so there is hope post-depo. It just messes with your hormones so bad it took a new method to get back on track. My doc told me it can take up to 18 months after going off of Depo to become fertile again (get your period), and that horrified me. That’s something the doc who gave me depo never told me.
I have taken the depo for the first time last month and have felt horrible since I just want to know all of the side effects that I will have if I decide to quit taken the shot and if I.ll bleed for a month or not im actually scared my doctor didnt tell me anything when he gave me the shot but the only reason why I took it is cuz im having surgery soon and cant afford to get prego right away what do I do plz help im 26 and what to start having babies after surgery
My last depo jab was mean’t to be on the 5th May 2014 – but never went along and had it done as partner and I decided we were ready to try for baby number 2. I knew it would take a while to get regular periods ect and suspected up until a year to wait until I get any. About a month ago I had the worse side effects of coming off depo and that was extremely tender breast, constant peeing, belly jitter ect all that suspects your pregnant – took numerous pregnancy tests and all came back negative. I did some research and its some sort of side effect for hormones to kick start. It was horrid… Everywhere I practically ached… back pain knee pain ect – )it felt like a child again with growing pains – but worse) and than day after valentines day 15th Feb 2015 I had spotting – first spotting of any blood for nearly 5 years. So its a start – got a while to go yet before periods get back into natural and normal rhythm but at least I know my body is slowly but surely getting there 🙂 Keep your spirits up and your body will get there. I went months thinking I would never get back to normal – but your body goes through changes (that hurt like hell) and will return to normal soon 🙂 xx
Hi, II had my first shot January 2014 and had another two after that. I missed the fourth in November due to feeling this was the reason of my terrible weight gain, as my lifestyle hasn’t changed. Since on the 20th of jan I have been having intervals of coming on, and am wondering if this will carry on? Also will the weight gain carry on, how long until this drug leaves my system please?
I was on the depo for about 6 years because the nurse used to come into college so it was convenient for me! I rarely had periods when I was on it and if I did it was only spotting. I went to see my doctor mid December 14 because I was constantly getting spotting (over a few months everyday) and thought I had cervical cancer, everything was clear, no infection or nothing so I thought it’s definitely my injection then so I didn’t go back for my next shot on Jan 1st this year. The bleeding stopped so I thought I’ll give my body a rest. I came back on my period around the 2nd of Feb and my mood swings and emotions prior to my period were awful! I’m 22 and convinced myself I was pregnant cause I was showing so many symptoms (I’m not) I’d cry at almost anything! the list is endless. I’m still bleeding now and I’m goin back to the doctors next week cause I can’t handle it anymore and I’m shit scared that I have got cancer because my symptoms are so similar. I wish I never got the injection and I don’t see how it is still allowed to be given out to young girls! I had no education on it what so ever and if I had I would not have used it for so long!
All these comments are so insane to me! I’m 23 and have been on depo for 4 years and it was the worst nightmare of my life. I didn’t know that was the root of all the evil i expirance a u til I got off depo. Ever since I started depo I gained 65 lbs, had to sleep at least 16 hours a day I was miserable I had so many thyroid type symptoms no periods that was great but it was not worth all the torment I experianced! I’ve been off for months now, my period came back a week after my shot was due I lost 10 lbs in that week Aswell and Im slowing buding my energy back I still take 2-4* hour naps a day but they’re getting shorter and shorter. IMaybe so so happy I decided to get of the depo I havnt felt this great on 4 years!!
Yes, I was on depo for a year and noticed my hair falling out quite a bit. It was thinning so fast. I thought it was stress. It took me awhile to figure out it was the depo. I’ve been off the shot for almost 4mos and no more hair loss!! It’s starting to grow back again. I researched it and many women complained of hair loss with the depo. I would switch birth controls if I were you!!
How long it takes the depo drug to wean off after its first shot. I had taken this drug on oct 10 and i was supposed to take it on jan 8. But i took it only once. i decided not to take since i wantd to get pregnant. But im not having periods at al. Only havng spotting that too at irregular timings. Hw long it wil take to resume to normal menstrual cycle
I started the depo shot 6 weeks after my second child was born. I am only 25. I have never been through anything so horrible before, and that is coming from someone who have both naturally twice. I have experienced all the rare and terrifying side effects. My life has been a complete nightmare. I feel like I will never feel normal again. I had one injection on December 29th, 2014. Exactly 6 days later I had the worst anxiety attack. Prior to the shot I never experienced it. Again, one week after that episode, I had another one that landed me in the emergency room. That is how I came to learn they were anxiety attacks. I have experienced hell. I have had nausea, headaches, dizziness, close to fainting, heart palpitations, shortness of breath, confusion, jaw pain, chest pain, arm and leg pain, itching, limb numbness, paranoia, irritability, impatient, trouble sleeping, difficulty swallowing, bled for 2 solid weeks, fatigue, cramps, bled vision, double vision, hot flashes, chills, sensitivity to light and sound, loss of sex drive, depression, gas, decrease in milk production, cough, breast pain etc. I experience these every single day. My life has become a complete mess.I will never get the shot again. I am convinced that it’s evil.
I hate auto correct. I meant to say I had both my children naturally with no pain medicine. And I have blurred vision, not bled vision. Nevertheless, I will never take birth control again. Pure evil. It should be out of my system by March 29th, and then I get to experience all the fun affects of getting off of it.
I was on the depo for three years. The frst year my period was terrible. Id have it for 2 months then be ok for a few weeks then have it for two months again. After about a year I just stopped having my period completely. I suggest you try a different contraceptive if you cant handle the strange periods. It takes a while to regulate
I only took one shot as well and that was August of 2012. I experienced everything you are explaining and I thought I would be better once the shot ran out which for me was Nov. 2012 well maybe about a week after I didn’t return for my 2nd shot I started having stomach problems. To this day I still have stomach problems. I have had so many visits to the ER before and after the shot and amazingly all the test come back normal but I still feel terrible. The only thing “wrong” according to lab work is I have low vitamin D and low iron which I’m sure the shot did this or didn’t make it any better once I took it. I’m a small women and I actually lost weight because I had bad acid reflux and I didn’t have an appetite. I have bad anxiety before and after my period. I’m anxious all the time my heart starts racing for no reason and I sweat under my arms so bad its ridiculous. I can go on and on about all the troubles Im having after one shot dam near 3 years later. Im praying for everybody
I’m so sorry to hear that! I heard some of the side effects can be permanent. I have an appointment tomorrow for a heart echo, thyroid testing and they are putting a cardiac monitor on me for 30 days. I wish I never would have gotten the shot. Did anything help our is there just no hope?
I had all those test as well and all came back “normal” which I was glad don’t get me wrong but its crazy how test come back “normal” yet us women still feel like crap. My thyroid, heart etc. was checked. It got to the point I felt like my doctor was guessing she didn’t even know the problem but it all lead back to the depo shot and until this day she wont link it to it. I did get a women stomach doctor to admit that the depo shot will and can ruin your gallbladder and at one point I was told it was that causing my stomach trouble yet I dont have gallstones or attacks. The only thing that seemed to help me out was TIME. Slowly things start getting better. Most of my problems have disappeared. My anxiety gets bad when my period is about to come on and I still get reminded I dont feel “normal” I wish I never took this stupid shot. Its different for most people but most of my info I get from blogs like this or my own research because doctors will brush you off if a modern test doesnt reveal anything. I feel so frustrated and defeated everytime I go to the doctor for something
I came off depo January 2015 when was due a shot. Back pain started today driving to work. Feels like both my legs from my waist are just so heavy. Have read the effects coming off it. How long does it take to leave your body
Ok… So I’m 28 yrs old. I started the shot at 18 and quit at 23. No side effects. I wasn’t careful during sex but didn’t get pregnant either. Thank goodness. I thought I couldn’t get pregnant actually. At 23, my husband and I became pregnant. We decided one was good and I continued the shot at her 6 wk wellness check. My daughter will be 5 this summer and I’ve been on it since. I’ve noticed my hair thinning and loss, fatigue, extreme acne and night and cold sweats. I never thought this was from the shot. Anyone have these same symptoms? I definitely don’t want another kid. But I’m almost 30 and am OVER the 24/7 breakouts!
I am 18 , now, and have been on depo since i was a freshman.sophomore in high school and now am in College. I loved it because i lost weight, acne went away, and i didnt hvae any cramps. ( I got on it due to having 2 periods in a month with only 3 day break in between then would skip a whole month ) Anyway , i recently got off of it and HATE it. I am debating to go back on it due to the crazy weight GAIN, Break outs, and bloat. Has anyone else experienced this? I only got off of it because I am worried about not being able to have kids in the near future. should i go back on it because i never had a negative affect?
Amber, because of your age I would suggest trying a different birth control. Being on the depo for a long stretch can have negative effects such as infertility and especially bone mineral loss. When you get older you could be at risk for osteoporosis. If you have a family doctor or PCP I would talk with them about your options.
I have been on the depo shot for 5 years. 10 months ago I got off. today (10 months) I got my period for the first time. I have no idea what to expect… will it be heavy? will it last a long time? am I back to normal? I did a lot of research because like many others I see that being regular or getting your period at all is a concern, and I found that in a lot of cases it takes roughly around 8 to 12 months to get back on a normal cycle. I spoke to my dr. about this and she agreed. so good luck to you all. hopefully my experience can give some of you peace of mind.
Thank you
I have been on the depo for 2 years now my next shot is due in a few weeks. for the first year and a half on the shot i bled almost constantly. then all of a sudden i stopped. im constantly tired and always yelling and angry at anything and everything. i have NO sex drive. only in the last few months have i gained about 15 lbs. I have no desire to do anything at all cook, clean, take care of anything. I was debating going off it to see if it helps but after reading some of y’alls withdraw symptoms I dont know if i should or shouldnt. it almost sounds worse to go off then to stay on. i dont konw what do you think?
I was on depo for about 5 years on and off (which may have effect my health because a very important detail they tell you is wait til your period comes on before u return to depo) anyway. I only had 1 period before I got on it and bled for about 1 week after getting on it. For the next 5years I never had a period. Got off about 4 years ago. Attempted to get preg unsuccessfully. didn’t get a period till about 2 yrs ago. Start period very irregular. Not a lot of cramping. Really tender breast. Boobs grew. Period was somewhat normal after about a year and just recently or began to revert back to being irregular. I have been trying for 3 years to get pregnant and nothing.. doctor apt in march to test for infertility. Not fun spending 300 just for the check up.. the worst thing about my experience are my breast. They hurt so bad about a week before my period comes on. Unbearable pain where taking my bra off is a project in itself.. no more deposit ever again and never would recommend
I just got my first shot last June and I’m due for my next one in April but I’m not going because I want to be able to exercise and lose weight, since I haven’t even been on it for a year I was wondering if my period will be back within a month of April? I just want to be able to lose weight. Depo hasnt made me gain any but I wanted to lose weight before the shot, when I exercise while I’m on it, nothing happens. At all. So yeah someone help please?
Erica, I have been on Depo for almost 5 years and have the same symptoms — hair thinning/falling out, fatigue, and extreme acne — all of which just keep getting worse with time. I’m almost ready to take the plunge. Next shot is due in one week, and I’m 99.9% sure that I’m *not* going to get it! I’m a little freaked out by the discontinuation symptoms that ladies are describing on this forum, but I don’t see how it could be that much worse than what I already deal with, and in the end it will be worth it to be off the hormones! I am also *so* over these breakouts! It’s worse than being a teenager again! Hope everything works out for you.
The last shot I got was in july 2014, and I am still waiting on my period too! It seems like I cramp some times but my cycle never starts.. it is really taking a toll on my face though. I have never had issues with blemishes or pimples and now I have quite a few. I feel as though I am going through puberty again!
Best wishes.
I have been on Depo since December 2014.I got the shot the day after I stopped taking the pill. Since then I have been bleeding non stop. Its sometimes extremely heavy along with huge clots and bad cramps that last for two weeks. Other times its light and its only a small amount of blood. I have been to my Obgyn who prescribed me estradiol pills but once I stop taking them I start back with the heavy bleeding and clotting. I am due for my second shot the first of March and I am definitely not going back to get another one. I think im going to stop taking bc and let my body heal from all these hormones.
I had my last shot in June, and I just got my period in the past few days. I’ve found that it’s been exceptionally heavy!
I stopped the depo Jan 2014 it’s taken until last month for my 1st period which lasted 3 weeks my breasts are so swollen and painful I can’t stand my fiance touching them they feel like when I stopped breastfeeding my daughter just not as hard I could cry some days with the pain. Has everyone else experienced this I have been to see my Dr and he said its mastitis and will go away grrr. I don’t know what what to do just want to scream at him bloody help me lol xx
I got my depo shot back in November I was due to go back in January end of January but I did not because I started my period January 2nd and it is now March 2nd and I am still on my period with a heavy flow I can’t stand this me and my fiance have discussed starting a family but doing the research on the depo shot it’ll be a year before we can even discuss that topic again just from getting one shot
So, I was on Depo when I was 15, used for 2.5 years and quit December 2004. I switched directly to the patch for another 2.5 years, no issues with irregular periods or crazy cycles. I gained about 35lbs on the shot, and a little more with the patch because I started college. But, after I stopped the patch in Dec. 2007, I have not used birth control at all. Been with partners who have had kids before me and after me…and I am still unable to get pregnant. Has anyone had issues with fertility since being on the shot? As I get older, my periods get worse, as I feel like I am going through menopause or something, hot/cold sweats, terrible cramps, and nausea…but, only on the first day. I am told that nothing is physically wrong with my reproduction area, but fertility checks cost lots of money that insurance does not cover. Thanks!
Dear fellow females, Ive been on the shot since I was 14 and now I’m 29 , so that is 15 years. Yes I have went off of depo for awhile and went to bcp but I couldn’t take the weight gain and breast tenderness along with nausea.( fyi then i had heart issues and that is another reason i could not take normal bcp ) I will say the whole reason I went on depo at such a young age was because of periods that lasted 2 weeks long that were painful and heavy. I was a virgin at the time. I didn’t have a bad experience with depo I actually lost weight but then again I was so young it could have been baby weight.So at 15 I weighted about 103 pounds and my periods were fine i had a period each month , lasted about a week long or shorter. I never really had acne but through the years it got worse.Now at 29 years of age my last shot was due on November the 15th 2014 and I did not go for my next shot , instead I went on bcps for about two weeks and stopped because I knew that I needed to clear my system out. Everybody that I know thinks I cannot have children because I’ve never gotten pregnant. But now being the age that I’ am I would like to be able to conceive if I wanted too. My main point is that since I have been off of all birth control that I have had non-stop periods and a horrible attitude / mood swings/ loss of weight / hair loss/ and I have had two broken bones because of this terrible shot. My face looks not so nice but I’m a educated individual and now my hormones are going crazy. Plus like many of you nobody told me that my bones would be affected until recently. I just dont feel like myself I tend to go off on my loved ones when its not necessary and just now 3/4/2015 my period is acting like normal which reading the other posts im lucky. I’m truly scared that I will not be able to have a child for along time because of this evil shot and even if I didnt want one thats not the point. the doctors should advise you. I mean I was on this for more than a decade and nobody told me anything other than recently to take calcium pills. Don’t trust the government and the want to be FDA approved birth control methods . So I’m saying its normal to feel crazy and have night sweats and hot flashes I would always get them after my shot. now my hair loss only happened to me after I stopped the shot, now after 3 months its kinda stopped a little but the acne is still here and there but im hopeful. I would suggest an IUD of some kind or just being natural and being careful. I just feel at times that I have lost my whole identity from 14 till 29 because now I’m an emotional roller coaster and trip out on things i would have never done before and now broken two bones and have pain in my lower back like somebody ran over me… So please young beautiful ladies do your research and make sure what your getting yourself into coming from a girl and now a woman that has been on this depo for 15 years. Much love and God bless we will only get better from being off these man made drugs. God made our bodies perfectly without birth control in the Bible when Adam and Eve were introduced. there are other ways that are more natural and i do know that some people benefit from some kind of bcp so Iam open to that. but after my 15 year long rein im over it. I’ll do a IUD or a condom before injecting anything into my body. heck I don’t even get the flu shot. ( FYI my vision has been affected also) Peace out Jen
Dear fellow females,
Ive been on the shot since I was 14 and now I’m 29 , so that is 15 years. Yes I have went off of depo for awhile and went to bcp but I couldn’t take the weight gain and breast tenderness along with nausea.( fyi then i had heart issues and that is another reason i could not take normal bcp ) I will say the whole reason I went on depo at such a young age was because of periods that lasted 2 weeks long that were painful and heavy. I was a virgin at the time. I didn’t have a bad experience with depo I actually lost weight but then again I was so young it could have been baby weight.So at 15 I weighted about 103 pounds and my periods were fine i had a period each month , lasted about a week long or shorter. I never really had acne but through the years it got worse.Now at 29 years of age my last shot was due on November the 15th 2014 and I did not go for my next shot , instead I went on bcps for about two weeks and stopped because I knew that I needed to clear my system out. Everybody that I know thinks I cannot have children because I’ve never gotten pregnant. But now being the age that I’ am I would like to be able to conceive if I wanted too. My main point is that since I have been off of all birth control that I have had non-stop periods and a horrible attitude / mood swings/ loss of weight / hair loss/ and I have had two broken bones because of this terrible shot. My face looks not so nice but I’m a educated individual and now my hormones are going crazy. Plus like many of you nobody told me that my bones would be affected until recently. I just dont feel like myself I tend to go off on my loved ones when its not necessary and just now 3/4/2015 my period is acting like normal which reading the other posts im lucky. I’m truly scared that I will not be able to have a child for along time because of this evil shot and even if I didnt want one thats not the point. the doctors should advise you. I mean I was on this for more than a decade and nobody told me anything other than recently to take calcium pills. Don’t trust the government and the want to be FDA approved birth control methods . So I’m saying its normal to feel crazy and have night sweats and hot flashes I would always get them after my shot. now my hair loss only happened to me after I stopped the shot, now after 3 months its kinda stopped a little but the acne is still here and there but im hopeful. I would suggest an IUD of some kind or just being natural and being careful. I just feel at times that I have lost my whole identity from 14 till 29 because now I’m an emotional roller coaster and trip out on things i would have never done before and now broken two bones and have pain in my lower back like somebody ran over me… So please young beautiful ladies do your research and make sure what your getting yourself into coming from a girl and now a woman that has been on this depo for 15 years. Much love and God bless we will only get better from being off these man made drugs. God made our bodies perfectly without birth control in the Bible when Adam and Eve were introduced. there are other ways that are more natural and i do know that some people benefit from some kind of bcp so Iam open to that. but after my 15 year long rein im over it. I’ll do a IUD or a condom before injecting anything into my body. heck I don’t even get the flu shot. ( FYI my vision has been affected also) Peace out Jen
I’ve been on depo almost 6 years and have been getting joint paint. Spoke with my bf about it and we both decided I should come off it and let my body get back to “normal” then try a diff birth control. What other contraceptive would people suggest?
I been on the shot for 3 yrs and I couldn’t get my shot last month cause I owed them money…well its been a month I bleed after a week heavy but not to bad then went 3 days with nothing and now im bleeding so bad its just pouring out of me…im really scared something is wrong…someone please help is it normal
Can’t believe u have to pay for ur shot yes I believe heavy bleeding can be normal if u didn’t have period all time u was on it I stopped June 14 had two light normal periods two heavy now I’m 23 weeks pregnant was Only depo 5 months
I’m 19 years old. Been on depo for 3 years. My next shot is due today but i will not be going to the doctor. I think i will go see a naturopath doctor and seek guidance of getting back to my cycles and following them/ natural birth controls. My symptoms have included a complete loss of sex drive/painful intercourse. I also have felt disconnected from myself during these times.. like i can’t determine my true feelings or something. And i live a very spiritual life.. excercise, hula hoop, yoga, music, spiritual dance, healthy vegan diet, etc.. read lots of books and surround myself with good people… do everything i can do grow and be happy.. sometimes it seems like i am sad or anxious but when i think about it i have no reason to be.. it wasn’t until recently that i looked up the depo symptoms and realized this could be the base of all my problems. also experiences fatigue during these times, low energy, etc. I can’t wait to go all natural and get off this shot.
I was 19 when I went on the shot. I came off of it at 22, and my last shot was in September of 2014. I went on it after all sorts of research, and thought it would help stop my incessant irregularity.. I would have my period for 6 weeks and not see it again for six months; and then I would have it for 3 weeks and get it again a week after it had finished. The pill never worked for me. Since I came off the shot, I have had my period constantly since August, and by constantly I mean every day. Sometimes light, most of the time I’m like Niagara Falls. Today is the second day in over 5 months that I haven’t shown any signs of anything, but I thought I would be relieved to see my period go… But now a whole other slew of things are starting to occur. My breasts feel like they’re burning when I have to wear a bra, my hormones are definitely out of whack, I’m exhausted and my guy-friend thinks I’m going crazy.. I flipped out over something I’ve never gotten upset over. I thought I was going crazy too until I decided to google the symptoms or side effects of coming off the shot. I’ve also noticed that my usually fairly high sex drive has decreased significantly. While I enjoyed not having my period for an extended amount of time, I feel that the shot is not worth the discomfort when you come off of it.
0/10 I absolutely do not recommend!
My doctor told me that she recommends going on the lowest dosage of pill around the same time you’re due for your next shot. Alesse is a good one supposedly.
I was wondering how I could lose the extra weight I’ve gained after taking the horrible shot. I am tired of feeling pregnant when I’m clearly not(I’ve taken numerous pregnancy tests). I’m also experiencing hair loss, is this normal?
I had my last shot in august 2014 which ended at the beginning of January 2015 I had my first period 2 weeks ago for a full week heavier than normal and started another period last week and up to now it’s never stopped, I keep getting headaches which never seem to go away…me and my partner want to try for another…I don’t want to go to docs incase they just send me packing by telling me give it time
I was on the depo shot for almost 17 years, loved it and would go back on it if I could! It’s been over a year now and I have still had no period. YAY!! Not sure about anyone else on here but my biggest thing about taking the depo shot was not getting my period! I feel very lucky to have escaped the dreaded period and the symptoms for over 18 years now and do not care that I have still not had one. I personally do not want children. I had absolutely no weight gain while on and off of the depo, but then again, I do have a very healthy diet and work out 6 days a week. I’ve also never had any type of breakouts since being off the depo and certainly did not have any while on it. Although I am well aware of the fact that fluctuating hormones can cause breakouts, its not actually depo causing your breakouts it’s the fluctuation of your hormones from being on a birth control, just depends on the individual. I seem to be exactly the same on or off the depo. I’m not tired, I feel great, my face has no breakouts at all, I’ve had absolutely no weight gain or loss my weight has stayed the same, no hair loss, no mood swings, no cravings… feel great all together. And I am 41 years of age. The down fall I’ve experienced from the depo, is exactly as it states on the prescribed box, may cause bone density issues. I went for a bone density exam, and have deterioration, therefore I have had to go off of the depo. If it weren’t for this one side effect that due to the fact that I was not eating much calcium or taking any calcium supplements as directed (my own fault) I would still be on depo today. Totally happy with the experience, just wish I would have taken the Calcium as directed to do so. So anyone taking the depo, please be sure to take calcium, Vit C and Vit D.
My shot just ended.this months i would like to.know how long will it take bfore my period came back, coz im.having some spotting. Badly needes an answer thanks
Yea it seems pretty normal I had to wait almost 12 mo the after my last shot to get a period which lasted 3 weeks I came off for 2 days and then came back on for another 2 weeks still awaiting for my body to recover I’m now 15 months post depo and going through hell still xx
Hi I was supposed to get my depo shot in feburary but I didn’t and my period didn’t come until the bed of feburary and I have been bleeding heavily non stop and it’s almost the middle of March and I want to know if this is one the side affects of depo when coming off!??
Hi Jasmin!
While I’m most definitely not an expert on the subject, I can tell you that i had my period, heavy flow for five months when I came off the shot. . My doctor wasn’t overly concerned, but she did do bloodwork and an ultrasound, testing me for other issues but they came back normal.. So I’m guessing that it can be perfectly normal to have your period for an extended amount of time when coming of the shot. I was irregular before, stayed irregular during and now is day 5 aince I last had my period.
my doctor told me to go on Iron supplements for the heavy/prolonged bleeding and take the iron with Vitamin C (orange juice, apple juice and Vitamin C supplements are what I use) so it absorbs unto your system!
I was last one he shot in 2006 and I still have no period. I’m sure my case is rare and extreme but I’m extremely upset to think that this medication caused my infertility.
I am feeling the exact same symptoms. I got on the depot shot aug 2012 after having my 1st child and recently got off it om Dec 2014…..it has been terrible! I have had nausea, bloating, heart palpitations, back aches, dizzyness, blurred vision (especially when i drive), light sensitivity, breast aches, arms/shoulder aches, leg cramps. I thought I was pregnant but I have taken 3 pregnancy test and they were negative. This late feb 2015 i went to a night clinic due to an ache on my neck (muscle spasm)…then i went to ER in march 2015 for the first time in my life bc I was getting horrible aches on my right and left arm as well as feeling tight chested….they ran xrays, blood tests everything came back normal. They gabe me a clean bill of health and said i was just having muscle spasm and I need to exercise and drink more water. Ugh….my next step is to see my gyno and ask if the muscle spasm and symptoms from above have anything to do with getting off depo….I am still literally aching from my arms, back aches and breast tenderness right now, how much longer before it goes away? 🙁
Hi i started the shot in march 2013, i was lookig for somthing rather than condoms.. plus my GP said this was better for me with having hypertention.. I am 47,i have put weight on as i used to be a size 8 to 10, now i am struggling with this weight gane. My breasts are big at the best of times but now i am an H cup an hate it…..I constantly feel low in mood an have no sex drive now, but did befour..my partner is 16 years younger than me an i worry this will put him off, been together for three years…. I have a feeling my cardio vascular consultant will ask me to come off this due to the rase in my blood pressure….. After reading all your commentsi am worried about what lies a head for when i come off it!!!
Hi, I have been On the depo for 11yrs and decided to stop about 6 months ago. So I can start a family. my symptoms have been some breast tenderness that doesn’t really bother me, my periods have been some short, and some months long… Things I have notice help with a regulating my cycle was excercizing. The times I was frequently eating healthy and excercizing I did notice my periods where the most normal… When I was on the depo I did notice joint pain and not much of a sex drive.. Also pain when having sex,.. I must say know that I have been off it my sex drive is back and it no longer hurts to have sex… All in all I haven’t really experienced any weight gain or loss I think do to the fact I eat pretty healthy and exercise frequently ..I started around my 20’s and know I’m in my early 30’s.. I know everyone has different symptoms and can freak people out when you have unusual cycles. I’m posting this just because I think the more we can learn from one another the better!
Hi, I have been On the depo for 11yrs and decided to stop about 6 months ago. So I can start a family. my symptoms have been some breast tenderness that doesn’t really bother me, my periods have been some short, and some months long… Things I have notice help with a regulating my cycle was excercizing. The times I was frequently eating healthy and excercizing I did notice my periods where the most normal… When I was on the depo I did notice joint pain and not much of a sex drive.. Also pain when having sex,.. I must say know that I have been off it my sex drive is back and it no longer hurts to have sex… All in all I haven’t really experienced any weight gain or loss I think do to the fact I eat pretty healthy and exercise frequently ..I started around my 20’s and know I’m in my early 30’s.. I know everyone has different symptoms and can freak people out when you have unusual cycles. I’m posting this just because I think the more we can learn from one another the better!
Hi, I have posted here abit. Long term user of the depo, have tried to get off for a few years, but the withdrawal symptoms always made me get another shot. Until my last shot in May last year, my next shot was due in August, but i didn’t get it. I finally decided I would ride out the withdrawal symptoms no matter what. To say it has been a nightmare is letting it off lightly, it has almost driven me insane, to the point of considering if life was even worth living. The ongoing breast pain, on and off swelling, sweating, insomnia, weight gain etc the list goes on. I went to specialists, doctors, family contraception centers and no one could help me. I finally got some light cycle last month (6 months after shot was due) and it is heavier this month, however I still get the breast pain about a week before. But it is no where as bad as it was and its a relief to know my body is finally getting into a natural rhythm again. Started at the gym and clean healthy eating, as now want to focus on dropping the weight gained. No unfortunately it just didnt come off over night with my first cycle returning:( I sure as heck will not be letting my daughter go near any hormonal contraception when she is of age. To all those still waiting and wondering what the heck is going on. Hang in there. I agree with others who have posted, that around the 6 month mark things start to get better and cycle returns.
Hi, I’m 20 years old. I’ve been on the shot for two years now. My last injection was in early December. I was suppose to get it again in February but I decided to stop. But in February I had also gotten my period right after I missed the injection. I hadn’t had one for the whole two years, but it seamed pretty normal. But for two days now I have been bleeding brown. Its only little drops. But now theres huge clumps of brown blood. I Was just wondering if anyone else has experienced the same.
I had that happen when I would get my period in between shots.. When I asked my doctor, she said it wasn’t anything to worry about. I looked it up and found this site and I’m a little less worried about all of the things I find concerning.. read through the comments of others and find out what everyone else says! 🙂 Good luck!
I just decided not to pursue the next depo shot as I have had nothing but problems. I’ve been on the depo shot for almost 2.5 years now. I’ve gained almost 15 pounds and I’m a complete health nut and gym buff. I’ve also had no periods in two years resulting in getting all the period symptoms with no relief! The bone density comment previously struck a chord with me because I use to be able to do like 100 push ups and now I feel so weak I can barely do 20…even though I work out 6 times a week and take protein. I really honestly feel there is something wrong with the depo shot and I don’t recommend it to anybody.
Hello, I’m 28 years old, I got my first Depo shot at 15 and stopped taking it at 19. I wasn’t able to get on anything else afterward because I lost my insurance. It took me a year to start having a period again, and then it was have a period for a couple weeks, then nothing for up to 6 months at a time. At about age 22 I started having non-stop extremely heavy periods. This lasted for months at a time. I would still skip for months on end between periods.
I thought all this was done and over with by the time I hit 26 because I started getting regular again. I now have started having months long periods again. Currently it’s been 3 months with no end in sight. I do not know if the Depo is still causing these problems, but it has been mentioned to me that it could’ve had an long term effect on my body due to how young I was when I started.
I gained roughly 60 pounds in the 2 years after getting off of the shot. My hormones are still imbalanced to this day. My teeth started breaking a year after I got off the shot. I was not told by my doctor when I started it at 15 that I needed to supplement any calcium or anything.
If I would’ve known all of this would happen from me taking this shot I never would’ve done it. I was told it was safe, that it wouldn’t do anything but possibly make me gain some weight….that some people experienced hair loss. That’s all I was told, I wasn’t warned about the calcium problem, wasn’t warned about the non-stop periods and pain after coming off of it..that is when they actually started up again.
I only took two 10mg pills of provera how long will this stay in my body?
I was in depo shot for almost 3 years i recently stopped in december and its been 2 months with severe and strong pain in my breast ..its too much pain it makes me want to cry. Does any of you experience the same pain or similar ?? Or better question
is this even normal ??????
I had it so bad that I could barely wear a shirt, let alone a bra. I know your pain! Supposedly that’s your hormones fighting with each other. it goes away after a few days 🙂
Hi Khaira,
I recently posted that I was on the depo for 2yrs 6mths and just got off it dec 2014….it has been a nightmare!
I honestly didnt think anything of it until i went to the hospital in feb 2015 for pain in my breast/chest and muscle spasms and they ran so many test and everything came back normal and healthy. The only they said was drink more water and exercise. I dont think its normal but I guess I just have to ride it out for 6mths bc it looks like after doing my research many women say it takes up to 6mths for it to leave your body…sigh.
Also, I have joined a gym and exercise 3xs a week and feel a little bit better health wise however, my breast still hurt every now and then.
Hi Jessica,
Oh my I was never told about the calcium either! I have broken 3 of my teeth since I was on the depo from june 2012 to dec 2015. The rootcanals/crowns have cost me, ugh!
Since I been off from dec2014 to now I have been hurting! My boobs hurt, my arms, shoulders and back hurt (dr said muscle spasms), nauseated, dizzy, i mean the list goes on. I dont feel like me anymore with my constant aches and pains. I sure hope my hormones go back to normal soon.
I had been on the depo for 5 years from 17-22 and then another 3 from 24-27… the first time i came off i had no problems but this time i have the sorest breasts i have to hold them when i take my bra off and rolling on my side in bed hurts them even more. Ive also put on a heap of weight, most of which has Gone to my beasts so they are ridoculously big and i get hot flushes. I stopped the needle 2 months ago so im hoping these symptoms will ease up soon!
ive been off the depo for 7 months my cycle lasted 5 days for the first six months i got my cycle at the end of febuary and i still have it til this day its driving me crazy and my cycle is heavy i dont noe what to do anymore
I got my depo for the first time in my life December 3rd, 2014 We decided to try for another baby I didn’t get my next shot which was due March 3,2015. What are my chances of getting pregnant. I haven’t had a period in two months going on three now. Should I start taking hormone balance supplements? To regulate my periods Or can I get pregnant without a menstrual cycle??
Good to know what to expect if I don’t go for my next injection in 2 days time. I have been on this method for a year now and experience severe knee joint pain. I’ be decided not to take it any longer due to chest pains. enjoyed your contributions.
This exact same thing is happening to me. Same case I was supposed to get my shot in feb but decided to come off birth control for a while. I havent had a period since I started 2 years ago. After I missed my shot I had a period and since then I’ve been spotting brown blood. And its been like a month now and my sex drive is extremely high. I’m just thinking of getting back on the shot so I can be back normal.
Hi I was on the depo for 2 and a half years and I am 18 years old now I was due my next shot 2 weeks ago but have decided to stop it as it has caused wait gain and loss of sex drive. I’ve already came on my period but suffered from a severe migraine two days ago to the point I nearly went to hospital and feeling sick and sensitive. Is this the side affects from stopping the injection or from my periods coming back straight away?
Hi! 21 years of age. I was on the depo for 1 full year, this was my second go-around. I chose this method because it’s easily delivered into your system and protects you fully against unwanted pregnancy. However, like many others have pointed out, there was a great loss of sex drive (which is unfortunately ironic) and a slew of other cons.
I chose to stop after my last shot because every time I got it, I would go through a day or two of uncontrollable emotion, and my S/O & I were both becoming discouraged with my lack of sexual interest. In addition to that, I spotted for the entire year, except for the week before my shot was due. Once I received the shot again, the spotting would start up (which only worsened my desire for intercourse). I never thought I would miss menstruating. And PMSing – I felt kind of lifeless without my hormones.
I am one week off of the depo, a day or two after my shot was due I got my period full-blown. I have cramps that feel like they’re trying to make up for a year of absence and I have resorted to tampons because the bleeding is heavy enough now. My breasts are swollen and painful but I’d rather be feeling ALL of this than have to go back on the shot. It really screws with you.
Back to good ol’ condoms, PMS and a week of brownies, milkshakes and Netflix 🙂
Hi. I have never wrote on one of these things in my entire life because I always thought they would result in no accurate answers. But I’ve been concerned lately because of what everyone is saying about multiple birth control methods and I’m concerned about my future. This post may be a little long but I feel as if it might help some people and perhaps help me so I hope some of you will take time to read or reply. So if anyone can help me that would be great. I’m 17 years old. I started my period when I was 11. By the time I was 12 years old I went to the doctor and they diagnosed me with polycistic ovarian syndrome. And to control that they put me on the depo shot. I was on that for about 4 years. While on it I did not have even one period and gained a total of almost 50 pounds along with other side effects. I became concerned about continuing taking it because of other women who said they had fertility problems after taking it. So I went to my gynecologist for options. My last depo shot was about 9 months ago and I got the implant (implanon) about 6 months ago. The first few months of the implant were good, because It didn’t give me weight gain or barely any other side effect, I actually lost about 30 pounds. But about a month and a half ago I started to experience bleeding after sex then brown blood (which is usually blood that has been in the cervix longer and is considered “old”) and now for the past month I have bled every single day. And today i experienced black blood. I’ve grown quite concerned. Also I have been doing research on PCOS and turns out that I might not even have it because I never got proper testing and never had any signs of symptoms (such as acne, extra hair growth In strange spots, obesity/being overweight and my periods were never that irregular or long and I had only started my period a year before). Now I’m concerned that I might have got put on the depo for a reason that doesn’t even exist.
Hi. I have never wrote on one of these things in my entire life because I always thought they would result in no accurate answers. But I’ve been concerned lately because of what everyone is saying about multiple birth control methods and I’m concerned about my future. This post may be a little long but I feel as if it might help some people and perhaps help me so I hope some of you will take time to read or reply. So if anyone can help me that would be great. I’m 17 years old. I started my period when I was 11. By the time I was 12 years old I went to the doctor and they diagnosed me with polycistic ovarian syndrome. And to control that they put me on the depo shot. I was on that for about 4 years. While on it I did not have even one period and gained a total of almost 50 pounds along with other side effects. I became concerned about continuing taking it because of other women who said they had fertility problems after taking it. So I went to my gynecologist for options. My last depo shot was about 9 months ago and I got the implant (implanon) about 6 months ago. The first few month of the implant were good, because It didn’t give me weight gain or barely any other side effect, I actually lost about 30 pounds these last 6 months. Then about 2 months into having it in I started having horrible anxiety to the point i would throw up, I was irritable, and I had horrible pains behind my eyes along with insomnia. Then about a month and a half ago I started to experience bleeding after sex then brown blood (which is usually blood that has been in the cervix longer and is considered “old”) and now for the past month I have bled every single day. And today i experienced black blood. I’ve grown quite concerned. Also I have been doing research on PCOS and turns out that I might not even have it because I never got proper testing and never had any signs of symptoms (such as acne, extra hair growth In strange spots, obesity/being overweight and my periods were never that irregular or long and I had only started my period a year before). Now I’m concerned that I might have got put on the depo for a reason that doesn’t even exist. I am not ready for children yet of corse. But in the future I definitely want a beautiful piece of life that is both a part of me and my husband. So now I’m very worried that the depo might have made me not be able to conceive or worse have a miscarriage. I’m going to my doctor tomorrow to have my impalnon taken out and talk to her about all this. It’s really frustrating and I need help.
Definitely talk to your gynecologist. Ask them to do the proper testing, and talk to them about your period. I’m shocked that they would put you on Depo so young- my doctor refused when I was 19 because she said I was too young.. Your bones aren’t finished developing and it can strip you of calcium. (So make sure you take supplements along with vitamin D!)
It’s true that Depo can decrease your ability to conceive, but if you look up other birth controls, they can cause the same things, or at least the pill I was on in my teens.
With a lot of people it’s just because it takes so long to get out of your system, that if they want to have kids it could
What my doctor told me about the insane periods are that your hormones are fighting for control. I’m guessing that because you were on Depo for so long and so early that your body probably became dependent on the hormone injection that your body is just trying to figure out how to make everything balance.
I’m by no means an expert, but this is what I’ve found and heard from my doctor.
If I were you, I would bring up EVERY concern I have about coming off the shot and everything, and make sure you are properly tested.. My roommate has PCOS and she was given Metphormin (a diabetic medication, because PCOS can be caused by high insulin levels, she’s not diabetic as she has the best even blood sugar that her doctor has seen) as well as birth control pills, not Depo. She hadn’t had her period in over 5 years from her PCOS, and she only has it now because I’ve thrown her off track coming off the shot.
Good luck!
ok so i been with out depo shot for 3 months then i started having big pain in my breast and i can feel some type of balls which hurt alooot i have them in both of them and they are reaaaly sensative .. does any of you experience the same ??
Hello, I’m Tiffany and I am 24yrs old. I have been on the Depo shot twice. My first time was when I was 18. I never really notice much side effects from coming off of it other than my breast being sore the week before my period. I always that it was part of my cycle then. I recently got back on Depo because I was familiar with it and never had anything wrong. Well this time around was a different story. I got the shot in October of last year and was suppose to get my next shot in January. I didn’t go back for it for one because me and my husband want to start a family and two because I started my period in November and it was very much irregular. I never stopped bleeding it felt. After I got off the excess bleeding substanced but my periods have been lasting almost two weeks and now I’m still bleeding a little. I don’t like this and just want it to go away. I want to be normal again. I eat healthy and workout everyday. Can someone please help? Should I try hormone supplements? Thank you all.
can someone help iam 50 years old menopausal woman? i was on the dep shot for 10 plus years my last shot was 8 months ago with no real problems now i had 3 heavy flow periods 1 week apart back to back and stabbing pain on right side ovary area can you help with information debbie
Iiiiii chiii no more for me!!!
I have been on depo for about 10 years now I think. Kind of lost track. Been many years since I’ve missed it. Dr. recommend I take 1200 mg of calcium a day. I’m worried about bone loss more than anything since my mom has osteoporosis and she had been on depo but was never told about taking calcium or bone loss. She also has other factors that contribute to bone loss. I am 31 and now choose to be single and I have been debating if I should stay on depo. I love it because of not having a period and it greatly reduces pms cramps. Some times my breasts do feel just a little sensitive when it gets close to the next injection but the sensitivity is so mild I only notice it when I do an exercise that presses my breasts down alot. It definitely took away my sex drive and made sex very unenjoyable. I feel like I do not even need any physical contact while on depo. If it is safe, I would like to stay on it til I get close to menopause. Hope they do some more research on the long term effects. Not sure what will happen when I stop.
I had gotten my depo shot in January and I’m due for one next month on April 6th. Is it normal that my period came back so soon? I thought it was just spotting here and there but now it’s normal and not as bad as it has been before the depo… My periods had stopped til just yesterday.. So I’m hoping its normal til I can get my next shot
Hi, I am 24 years old and have been on Depo for the past two years. The reason I was put on the shot was PCOS, diagnosed by ultrasound. At the time, my only symptom was multiple cysts on each ovary that were causing severe cramping throughout my increasingly erratic and unpredictable (in length, heaviness, and severity of PMS) monthly cycles. Prior to Depo, I had always maintained a healthy weight with enviably clear skin and thick hair. Since Depo, I have gained 40 lbs, now have cystic acne all over my body and face, and am losing my hair. My doctor has performed multiple blood tests for insulin resistance and excess androgens; however, these hormones remain in a normal range. In recent months, I have had continuous spotting after an immediate and complete cessation of menstruation since my first shot. I no longer have ovarian cysts, but now have recurrent endometrial polyps. Despite these alarming recent changes, my doctor wants me to stay on Depo with no changes in treatment! I’m not sure that’s a good idea, but I am scared my ovarian cysts and painful periods will return if I go off. I have sought numerous physician opinions, and have been given alternatives: IUD, oral contraceptives, or estrogen pills in adjunct to the Depo. But in each case, I was warned that any change could trigger recurrent cysts and further worsening of PCOS symptoms. What no doctor has answered for me is: Which option is best? Or even, does it really matter, and should I be pursuing a treatment like Metformin for current symptom relief (overweight, acne, thinning hair, endometrial changes) even though my glucose, insulin, and androgens are considered normal? I am grateful that Depo got rid of my cysts, but am saddened and frustrated that it has seemed to hasten the onset of other PCOS symptoms.
I took the shot for 2 years from 18 to 20. Lost wait no period. No side affects. Got back on it in November and did not get a second shot because I had one month of no period and then haven’t stopped bleeding for 4 months. Light period.. but the smell is awful and it never stops. I need the odor to go away and the constant spotting. Any advice
Was 16 when i was put on depo. Havent missed a shot in 4 years. I am 103 pounds and maintained it. I had no periods or problems while on depo. I missed my shot only 2 weeks ago due to my car breaking down. Im glad. I already have extreme nausau every single night. I cramp like im going to start my period but have nothing to show for the cramps. Im extremely tired all the time but have a hard time sleeping. And have swollen breast so much so that my boyfriend noticed. ITS BEEN 2 WEEKS and I already am having such bad symptoms. Also on a side not both of my sisters were on the depo for over 2 years each my oldest has been off for 4 years trying to conceive for 2 with no luck,my other sister has been off for 2 trying to conceive for 1 with no luck. No problems with fertility in our family. I cant say for sure if it has to do with the depo but with all things considered i would never ever ever get back on it again.
I got the shot only one time and I didn’t take it again, the shot was due on feb , and since then I haven’t gotten my period is that normal?
I’m glad I read this, I also didn’t have any problem when I was on it for 3 years. My last one was due on march 3rd and I spotted for like 2 weeks nothing really heavy, but it is a nightmare I’m nauseous all the time also have cramp pains like my period is near but nothing…I have most of the same symptoms and sometimes get anxiety attacks really bad, I wake up at 3 a.m. and not able to sleep back again.. my mood changes all the time and my breast were producing milk and really tender. I’m not taking the shot again I only hope my cycle get back to normal as soon as possible and not 6 months. Is there anything that can help with that I would really appreciated if someone reply with that info!
Dana,
I think you Should go to a doctor, nipple dishcharge isn’t normal. Better to be safe than sorry!
Elise,
It sounds like to me the symptoms you’re having are ones the come with PCOS. I’m sure you know that PCOS is having to much testosterone the male hormone. Which leads to thinning of hair and growing hair in strange places (nipples, face ect) acne and weight gain. Staying on the depo shot will help balance out the symptoms. I was put on the depo for the same reason. Only down side is two years later after being off of it I have terrible joint pain in my hips and shoulder and I gained 20lbs. My advice is listen to the doctors but don’t be scared to ask questions. If you don’t understand why they recommend a treatment ask them for clarification, they are there to take care of you!
Jaw,
I know how you feel, I was misdiagnosed with PCOS for two years! The sym
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The symptoms your having could maybe be from the implant? My friend have something similar happen to her and after hers was removed the symptoms went away! Definately go back and tell them. I’m actually shocked they put you on depo and an implant! Having an implant like that can damage your uterus, they usually don’t recommend it for people that haven’t had kids yet. I hope things get better for you! Good luck!
I am 20 years old and I have had the shot three times. The first two times did mess with my cycle and make me spot regularly. However, getting off was normal. I had no symptoms like breast pain or weight gain or anything like that. However, the third time I got it, I bled everyday for six months AFTER the shot was three months old. So all in all, I never had a regular period again. Finally around my birthday I stopped bleeding. It has now been 10 months since I’ve gotten the shot, 6 months since I stopped bleeding every single day and since then I’ve just had strange cycles. Now I bleed a regular amount of a regular consistiency but every two weeks when I always bled for just a month. Here is what is killing me… I’m terrified that I am now infertile. I have been hearing horror stories about countless friends who got the shot, experienced the same symptoms, and became infertile. Please tell me if you’ve gone through what I have and can no longer have children. I’m so scared.
Just wanted to update! My nausau has gone down slightly not by much but I am having extreme nervousness and a hard time focusing. Which is bad because i have a 35 minute commute to work and i work in an office on the computer all day. Going to go see the doctor. Im not sure if the newest additions to my list are because of my lack of sleep but its getting out of hand. I snap at everyone and its just not there fault. Will update after I go but if anyone has any tips let me know!
hey, all these women giving feedback really has mad eme feel less alone in my depo related issues however im dissapointed to see how constant postdepo issues are. i have been on it for four years until last month. i started as ithelp regualting my periods and then it took away my periods after only being on it for about four months. i used to be the typeof woman that would get cramps so bad i wouldnt be able to move. and my periods never could be scheduled because they would come 20-35 days apart and would last 3 to 8 days long and with that said it was never light or spotting it was always open andclose the floodgates. so when i got on depo and not only did it completely get rid of my cramps but i stopped having a period all together.i thought that was the best thing ever. i read the possible side effects but no one ever takes those seriosly. i used to have a high sexual appetite before depo and ididnt think it correlatesuntil i saw others saying thesame thing but i barely havean appetite at all anymore. i didnt know if it was just me or if it was because of how often sex is painful now. all my joint pop and hurt, and i didnt evenknow about the bone effects until a few months ago. im only 22. i amon the watch list for cervical cancer. they said i amat risk but that i dont have it yet. they make me get checked every6 months. apparently i have a weird cell count. i was told in all actuality that i will most likely have cervical cancerits not a matter of if but when. so i have only been off for a month now because when i missedmy appointment i realised maybe its the reason why i might get cancer, all these chemicalsim subjecting mybody to. i always have been on the fence about having children but it hurt to know that i might not geta choice. i havehadbadmood swings and i havenot had a period yet. i have had bad gas and an almost imobilizing cramp the other day but other than that i dont know what other effects are going on inside that i cant see. i have heard that as soon as youget off birth control you are the most fertile so i have been scared that that is why i havent gotten a period yet. my family has a high fertility rate from both branches so i have always done monthly pregnancy tests because i dontwant to be like my little sister. she has always had a weight problem and when she concieved she gained weight like usual. she didnt have the popcorn bowl shaped belly it just looked like she got chubby. anyways it took until at 6 months and her feeling the first kicks to know that she was pregnant.
i get hot flashes too! i dont even think aboutit. but its completely random. i always joke and say i might be 22 but i got menopause
This month will mark two years after stopping the depo shot. It took 11 months after stopping for my cycle to even return. my periods have been somewhat regular but I have had breakthrough bleeding every cycle at the same time. I have been ttc and had a devastating miscarriage in january. It took 6 weeks for my cycle to return, which is where I am now. I weigh 115 lbs and my gyno told me that depo lingers in skinny women a lot longer because they take the same dose of depo as an obese person, and it is almost like an overdose of medication for such a small body. She has patients that have had trouble with depo for over 3 years after stopping. I was blessed to have gotten pregnant and it was really hard not to blame depo for my miscarriage. since I have been trying to conceive every month, the last two years have seemed like an eternity. I have been trying to find similar experiences on the internet, but all the posts I find are years old. Any advice, encouragement, or similar experiences?
Hello, I am almost 19 and I have been on the DEPO provera shot for almost 2 years now, my last injection was in November and it is now April of 2015. I have not received any signs of getting a menstrual cycle, nor have I gotten one for months. While i was on the shot I experianced low sex drive, pain during sex and weight loss. I was around the 125lbs area naturally and then dropped to nearly 109lbs during the shot. Slowly I am desprately trying to pick back up my lost pounds but it is very hard. Does anyone know when my menstrual cycle will return to me? I’m very worried.
My last injection was in Oct 2014. I’ve just come on. Was on depo for over five years
Yes and No. Some people react diffrently to the shot. I, myself, received periods when my next shot was due. If you don’t receive a period after a shot, it is because the shot is doing it’s job. It’s supposed to make your period’s lighter.
Elizabeth I took one shot August 2012 and didnt take another one. The whole 3 months I wasn’t feeling well. After I got off of it my period did return the following month but I experienced so many side effects that still bother me almost 3 years later. I’m already a small woman and I lost like 15 ponds its still a struggle to gain weight I have bad anxiety and always have aches and pains. Your hormones have to adjust in order to get your cycle back to normal which varies for each person.
I’ve been on the depo a year past January and I have gained around 25-30lbs in the time. Due my next injection in June but I want to lose the weight. Will coming off it help me lose it. I was a size 6-8 but now a 8-10 and I’m 5’2″ so I need help. I’m 18 next month…
I’ve been on the depo a year past January and I have gained around 25-30lbs in the time. Due my next injection in June but I want to lose the weight. Will coming off it help me lose it. I was a size 6-8 but now a 8-10 and I’m 5’2″ so I need help. I’m 18 next month and I want to lose the weight by then
6-8 and 8-10 in UK sizes or 110lbs to 135lbs
Hi, my name is Elizabeth, 35yrs old and had my last shot August last year. Didn’t go back in November for my next shot as I had broken up with my ptr in September and my next short was due the 11th November and as a legion officer I was conducting a parade in my local area. I still have yet to have a period but two days ago I started losing what I can only describe as a brownish clear fluid spotting not heavy but regular. My sister says this is something called a ‘dead period’ ?? She says after the shots the first few periods are like this because the first few eggs after the depo Vera wears off are dead and the lining is so thin??? I should listen to her as she is a Dr . But I don’t know??? Never experienced this before. Is this really the start of my periods returning? And have any of you experienced this because I’m so confused and want my period back. Many thanks 🙂 x
I’ve been told its normal for what you have. It’s old blood so it looks darker. Did you gain weight while on it and lost it once you came off? I’m getting concerned about how much weight I’ve put on and I want to lose it. Could you help in any way?
Ive been on the injection for 3years I had no periods what so ever. I had a low sex drive but ive always been like that. Since I stopped taking it in december ive had been on for a week then been on 2days then nothing for 2months then coming up to coming on this month my fiance said he had noticed a change in my mood I quiet. Not my usual bubbly self ive been on for 3weeks ill have heavy days then light days then really heavy days and just when I think im coming off it becomes heavy again since ive had thos period, ive been having really bad mood swings and my fiance has been walking on egg shells. Ive also been getting dipression like symptomsto the extrem were Iim crying for no reason and on my lowest days ive had suicidal thoughts. Ive always suffered from consipation and different bowl movement which I never had before the deppo im just stressed out and wish id never ever gone on it. Its like a constant battle with my moods. I did try takeing primrose oil tablets which are ment to help with womens hprmones and mood swings which got me from my loweat points and somedays im having good days and others im not. But they have helped I would recomend them. My sex drive has either been wild or not wanting it at all my bodys all over the shop to say the least and thos is only the beginning.
Hi. I’m still on the Depo and have been thinking about getting off of it for awhile now, but now that I read these comments i’m kind of scared too. I have been on the shot since I was 15 years old and I’m 20 now. So I have really debated on weather to get off of it or stay on it because I have heard it causes problems, but every time I ask the doctor they just say you might gain some weight and bone loss. I just need some answers on what to do???? Any ideas ladies???
For the last two nights I’ve had the same exact thing, having to hold them and can’t lay on my side and swelling. What on earth is that? I’m really hoping this goes away! Not to mention my bras don’t fit.
I was on the depo from 17 – 21. I had maybe 1 period in that time. It was bliss. Although I was massively depressed, and i didn’t even realise it. I realised I had depression in December 2012, sought counselling and began to rebuild my life but it was a massive uphill battle with highs and lows (but never mood swings so I never thought to look at the depo). in September 2013 i had my last injection after reading that if you had a family history of osteoperosis you should avoid it. So I was due an injection in December 2013, which I missed and had a normal period in Jan 2014.
Then nothing until one in July 2014, and then nothing until Jan 2015, and then March 2015.
What I have noticed since coming off..
-My mood! Oh my god it is like a cloud has lifted!!! I feel alive again!!!
-My boobs hurt SO MUCH before a period, for 2 weeks they are agony. I only have small breasts but I can hardly sleep because they won’t lay comfortably. They are also very lumpy before my period. I also had 3 months of serious breast pain between august 2014 and Novemeber. So bad that I went to the doctor as it was unbearable.
-My new found sex drive and how good sex feels. This really shocked me. I thought I could never reach orgasm without “external” stimulation (as I went on the injection before losing my virginity, so never knew any different).
So it has now been 16 months since my last depo was due. In that time I have had 4 periods. My sex drive returned after 3-4 months. My cloud of doom and gloom lifted after 6-8 months. My boobs started hurting after 8 months.
I’m now 22, I don’t plan on starting a family any time soon. But boy oh boy do I hope I’m not infertile. I’m angry at the lack of education behind this inconspicuous injection. Had I known half of the stuff I know now I would never have walked in to that room. .
Hi, I have been taking Depo for nearly 8 years. Side effects would only be dizziness around the time of the next injection especially when I do not take in enough fluid and possible loss of sex drive and probably a few others over the years. None of these symptoms bother me as the benefit of not having my period far out ways these. I have been off the injection for 6 months now. No current effects other than no period. I am happy to wait out the year to give my body a chance to cleanse itself of depo before chatting to my gp.
My name is Rachel, I was on depo for 21 yrs. I did not have a period 20 of those yrs, and still have not. I am 49yrs old. The reason they took me off it is I broke 7 bones in 2,1/2 yrs, onley one from falling. I kept asking,and asking,but no one would say. A new nurse joined the clinic,read my file, and refuse me anymore depo. she said i had been on it to long.NO, one had said anything before!! OR will anyone talk about it now with me, I cry all the time becuase i wonder if thats why I’m in a wheelchair.I have not had a shot in a yr, and still no period .All I want to know is about side affects o getting off , Please